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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok,why do some men insist their straight when they have sex with trannsexuals?trannsexuals are male arent they???just really curious about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guessing because transsexuals are feminine in appearance / dress / demeanor?

it does seem like an oxymoron though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you define gender.

Is it based on your genes, sexual organs or mental state?

I believe that having a cock doesn't make someone a man. But simply believing you're a girl isn't enough. It's a hard thing to define, but living fulltime as a woman is a must as a start point, and looking feminine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with several Ts and although they had male parts that wasn't the reason I was with them, the Ts I've been with were really attractive and without causing offence are more fem looking to the untrained eyes to most women on this site, also I think it's narrow minded of whoever above said they are male anyways aren't they, I have one friend in particular she is a Ts and told me about growing up and Been in contact with ignorance like that, as far as a Ts is concerned they are women and that's how I will treat them regardless of if I'm friends of having sex with them, btw check out 2 of my friend on my profile, raven & Dakota and tell me they don't deserve to be called women

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By *ardon 69Man
over a year ago

in Laois :-)

Wow, some great points made there, I suppose in my opinion it depends on one thing, how you class bisexual. We can talk all day about Ts and how they feel they were born into the wrong body and thats fine, but its not the argument here.

So what is bisexual?? A sexual orientation in which one feels attracted to both males and females.

Right so are Ts males?? or what makes you male?

In my opinion and again only my opinion it takes many components to make you male, a cock would be considered one element along with other body and mental features, so how many of these elements do u need to make you one of either sex?

So just take one, you need a penis to be male and a vagina to be female, That blows the whole Ts argument out of the water then and it makes you Bisexual. But lets say its not just the penis then, i really can't see the great difference in a Ts then, if a Ts has boobs so does a women, if a Ts has great looking feminine features so does most ladies, for me the only difference i could see is for some men having the best of both worlds.

Again i have no problem with Ts, Bi men or Gay men, people have different opinions of what they are and it can be confusing after all the world is not just black and white.....

Must say thanks to the OP many times i've asked myself the same question you have asked, its only when you see ppl's different points of view and reflect on them all that you can see there is no straight answer to it...... Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to be really confused, have sex with a hermaphrodite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been with several Ts and although they had male parts that wasn't the reason I was with them, the Ts I've been with were really attractive and without causing offence are more fem looking to the untrained eyes to most women on this site, also I think it's narrow minded of whoever above said they are male anyways aren't they, I have one friend in particular she is a Ts and told me about growing up and Been in contact with ignorance like that, as far as a Ts is concerned they are women and that's how I will treat them regardless of if I'm friends of having sex with them, btw check out 2 of my friend on my profile, raven & Dakota and tell me they don't deserve to be called women "

i think some of the trannsexuals that have had face surgery look a bit like women but the ones that just have boob jobs dont,and i have to say some of the other ones i seen on here with the wigs and funny makeup still look like men,thats my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry if it has a cock its still a man not matter how much slap it puts on or what size the fake boobs are at end of the day you ain,t shaggin them in the vaginia your doing them up the arse or vice versa ! but having straight on your profile and verifacations wrote by a mal transgender or not still makes them bisexual in my eyes and they should be honest withselfs at least cause staying in narnia dos,nt help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oopsie some spellin mistakes there please don,t call the typo police lol

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By *ardon 69Man
over a year ago

in Laois :-)


"oopsie some spellin mistakes there please don,t call the typo police lol "

To late there on the way !!!

Good point mind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest, I don't really care. It's just a label.

It's one thing taking the step and meeting a TV/TS and having sex. But admitting to themselves and others by ticking a different box is not always easy for people. Some may be in a transmission time and find the courage to come out at some stage. Some never will.

I guess the question is, if you don't want to meet men who have met cross dressers, transvestites or transsexuals, does a label really matter? Just don't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a course of hormones and beta-blockers, started as early as possible is the best way to look feminine for a ts, surgery so often looks fake and unconvincing and can't hep with certain things like muscle growth or facial hair - true t is needed for grs but other than that a much more natural look can be achieved by transitioning as young as the law allows. But every TS is different and some, especially those who are older and from a time when zero support was available can find it very dificult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh never understood the whole ts/tv thing. No matter what horomes or implants they've had at the back of my head i'd still be thinking it's a guy. No offense meant but not my cuppa of coffee.

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