FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Fab etiquette

Jump to newest
 

By *inaandterry OP   Couple
over a year ago

Westmeath

the perfect message does it exist?

Hi hello evening?

We like long intro and the odd pic followed by a message of sexy sexual intent.

What's your preference? Do you have fab etiquettes, dos and donts wen it comes to messages?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

For me, assuming it’s coming from someone I haven’t spoken to before, it’ll be a greeting, followed by a compliment (nice pics/profile etc), a description of themselves and what they’re looking for and, finally, why they’re messaging me or think that I might meet their criteria.

Helps if pics of them are attached too, but if they have pics on their public gallery, it’s not an essential.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If it was a first time message any reference to sexual intent would be off-putting.

Different if it was from someone I knew.

Apart from that as long as the message showed they had made an effort and it wasn't going to be all one way conversation is ok.

Some reference to my profile as much as my pics to show they had taken the time to read it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

They had me at " Hello"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I don't message anything to anyone that I wouldn't say to them if I met them in public, and I like the same in return.

After some back and forth, a few cheeky messages here and there are more acceptable.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's hard to pin point what makes me reply to a message or piques my interest. Usually it's something funny or even a comment from something on the forums or just something in general that is interesting. Or the fact their profile appeals.

What really doesn't appeal is someone giving me fake compliments or telling me in detail what they want me to do to them or them to me.Or people wanting me to send them pics etc or faf.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of manners goes a long way iko

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's hard to pin point what makes me reply to a message or piques my interest. Usually it's something funny or even a comment from something on the forums or just something in general that is interesting. Or the fact their profile appeals.

What really doesn't appeal is someone giving me fake compliments or telling me in detail what they want me to do to them or them to me.Or people wanting me to send them pics etc or faf. "

You're a hard woman to get a reply from. It took 17 cock pics before I got a reply.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"It's hard to pin point what makes me reply to a message or piques my interest. Usually it's something funny or even a comment from something on the forums or just something in general that is interesting. Or the fact their profile appeals.

What really doesn't appeal is someone giving me fake compliments or telling me in detail what they want me to do to them or them to me.Or people wanting me to send them pics etc or faf.

You're a hard woman to get a reply from. It took 17 cock pics before I got a reply. "

It took me a while to realise which one was yours tho

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xploreingMan
over a year ago

dublin


"It's hard to pin point what makes me reply to a message or piques my interest. Usually it's something funny or even a comment from something on the forums or just something in general that is interesting. Or the fact their profile appeals.

What really doesn't appeal is someone giving me fake compliments or telling me in detail what they want me to do to them or them to me.Or people wanting me to send them pics etc or faf.

You're a hard woman to get a reply from. It took 17 cock pics before I got a reply.

It took me a while to realise which one was yours tho "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xploreingMan
over a year ago

dublin

Bo - not till you spotted the MM tattoo .. admit it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Bo - not till you spotted the MM tattoo .. admit it"

How did you know

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bo - not till you spotted the MM tattoo .. admit it

How did you know "

Bo is too polite to say not till she put her glasses on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Bo - not till you spotted the MM tattoo .. admit it

How did you know

Bo is too polite to say not till she put her glasses on

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm easily bribed with cake.

I don't mind the short hi messages prefer that than the essay saying what they want to do to me or that I'm the most beautiful thing they've ever seen ( definitely need specsavers lads)

If they comment about my profile or my stories or something I've said on the forums even better.

Its a sex site but manners cost nothing.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm easily bribed with cake.

I don't mind the short hi messages prefer that than the essay saying what they want to do to me or that I'm the most beautiful thing they've ever seen ( definitely need specsavers lads)

If they comment about my profile or my stories or something I've said on the forums even better.

Its a sex site but manners cost nothing. "

Swisroll or fruit cake ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm easily bribed with cake.

I don't mind the short hi messages prefer that than the essay saying what they want to do to me or that I'm the most beautiful thing they've ever seen ( definitely need specsavers lads)

If they comment about my profile or my stories or something I've said on the forums even better.

Its a sex site but manners cost nothing.

Swisroll or fruit cake ?? "

Swiss roll im anyones lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'm easily bribed with cake.

I don't mind the short hi messages prefer that than the essay saying what they want to do to me or that I'm the most beautiful thing they've ever seen ( definitely need specsavers lads)

If they comment about my profile or my stories or something I've said on the forums even better.

Its a sex site but manners cost nothing.

Swisroll or fruit cake ??

Swiss roll im anyones lol

"

Pineapple flavour

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm easily bribed with cake.

I don't mind the short hi messages prefer that than the essay saying what they want to do to me or that I'm the most beautiful thing they've ever seen ( definitely need specsavers lads)

If they comment about my profile or my stories or something I've said on the forums even better.

Its a sex site but manners cost nothing.

Swisroll or fruit cake ??

Swiss roll im anyones lol

Pineapple flavour "

Love it lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It often depends on what mood I'm in. It doesn't have to be war and peace, just have a hook that catches my attention or makes me laugh or intrigue me. I take compliments graciously but with a large pinch of salt. Any overt sexual talk early on puts me right off. And if I don't find the sender physically attractive in some way (that's physically attractive to me which is totally subjective) then, truth is, it probably won't matter what the content of the message is

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ojo30Man
over a year ago

Rathowen

Say SHE is a FRUIT CASE

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ojo30Man
over a year ago

Rathowen

Say SHE is a FRUIT CASE

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top