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What do you look for when trying to organise a potential meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here is a question that has come up in various conversations. And it had me curious as everyone has a different set of needs, wants or looking for different things.

So what do you/ye look for when trying to organise a potential meet? (Obviously when it was/is safe to do so )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sanity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sanity"

And someone to pay for the coffee and cookies

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Connection

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The lack of an Adams apple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sanity"

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Chemistry..connection..banter and down to earth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A conversation that just flows, a few laughs and a spark

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By *elfastcouple30sCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Non pushy, Good banter, chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lack of an Adams apple. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut feeling is very important.

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By *elfastcouple30sCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"The lack of an Adams apple. "

No discrimination on the Adams apples here

L x

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By *elfastcouple30sCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Gut feeling is very important."

I second that, always trust your gut

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Fun, a click, a great smile, physical attraction.

Once those things are there, a good kiss seals the deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who'll have a laugh. I've been on meets with divas....they're not nice people

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

If hes tom hardy. If hes not then how well he can throw an axe. If he cant do that then well look at defensive skills.

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By *unfanaghyladMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Nice boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If hes tom hardy. If hes not then how well he can throw an axe. If he cant do that then well look at defensive skills. "

I throw a mean axe but didn’t want to say

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By *321funMan
over a year ago

Laois

A good sense of humour and good conversation always a coffee meet first

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Some sort of connection between chatting and flirting and visually you find them sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Non pushy, Good banter, chemistry. "
i agree with this

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"If hes tom hardy. If hes not then how well he can throw an axe. If he cant do that then well look at defensive skills.

I throw a mean axe but didn’t want to say "

Hmmm a man of hidden talents. Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If hes tom hardy. If hes not then how well he can throw an axe. If he cant do that then well look at defensive skills.

I throw a mean axe but didn’t want to say

Hmmm a man of hidden talents. Interesting "

Fastest ace in the west

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"If hes tom hardy. If hes not then how well he can throw an axe. If he cant do that then well look at defensive skills.

I throw a mean axe but didn’t want to say

Hmmm a man of hidden talents. Interesting

Fastest ace in the west "

Hmmm well see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If hes tom hardy. If hes not then how well he can throw an axe. If he cant do that then well look at defensive skills.

I throw a mean axe but didn’t want to say

Hmmm a man of hidden talents. Interesting

Fastest ace in the west

Hmmm well see"

Axe even

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"If hes tom hardy. If hes not then how well he can throw an axe. If he cant do that then well look at defensive skills.

I throw a mean axe but didn’t want to say

Hmmm a man of hidden talents. Interesting

Fastest ace in the west

Hmmm well see

Axe even "

Ya can show me the next time youre down. We have an axe throwing place.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

First meet is always a social for us and we're awful at texting, so basic attraction, similar mindset and good humour is enough for us.

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Non pushy, Good banter, chemistry. "

This !!! And someone that doesn't keep telling you what the want to do to you. Just be normal ...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Someone I can just chat with and have some craic with. Someone who can actually chat and not constantly be on about sex and what they want us to do to each other. Someone who isn't demanding or pushy.

Someone with a nice smile with cheeky glint in their eyes and a nice bum is a bonus

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Hoping they arent a serial killer,pyscho or foaming at the mouth ...

Preferably sane,funny,can hold a sensible conversation,easy on the eye,not a hunchback of Notre Dame... not asking for much no ??

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere


"Sanity"

This made me snorty laugh!

Sanity is a good one yep. But as others have said, bit of a connection in terms of getting on with them, being able to have a chat that's not just geared towards sex and the non pushiness is an important one too. I do go with my gut instinct. If I'm not feeling it, I'm not meeting em.

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

A vagina.

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Normal down to earth non pushy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy going and not stuck up or full of themselves

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Here is a question that has come up in various conversations. And it had me curious as everyone has a different set of needs, wants or looking for different things.

So what do you/ye look for when trying to organise a potential meet? (Obviously when it was/is safe to do so )"

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A pulse and a purse

Seriously I love a cheeky, flirty mind first & foremost

so the ability to be quick witted and just up for simple, good banter is a great start

Also, a woman who makes the most of herself..Nice effort to look her best, dresses well and also a genuine smile & personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A conversation that just flows, a few laughs and a spark "

This!

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"A vagina. "

High standards...

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By *unfanaghyladMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny


"A vagina.

High standards..."

Somebody with red in their name twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone I can just chat with and have some craic with. Someone who can actually chat and not constantly be on about sex and what they want us to do to each other. Someone who isn't demanding or pushy.

Someone with a nice smile with cheeky glint in their eyes and a nice bum is a bonus "

This exactly!!! The constant pushing conversation about what they want to do while they’re fucking you such a turn off.

Just fucking do it and act like a normal person before and after

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By *mazingTimesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

The look, the connection, the chemistry.....we all know that feeling!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect, connection, good conversation, honesty, attraction, open-minded and the list goes on.

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