FabSwingers.com forum: BHM

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Recently been made aware that this stands for Big Handsome Man/Men, as in the male version of a BBW. Are the many women into this, and if so, why have I not met them?

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

Yep, as far as I know some women definitely dig BHM.

There should be a search field for that hahah

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

What size would you class yourself if you don't mind me asking? because curvy or fabulous doesn't come to mind when id think of men sizes on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BHM!!.. That's a new one!.. Brilliant

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Just realised this thread is mts old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about BHMB?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just realised this thread is mts old

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hahaha.... I just realised now too!! How embarrassing!!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Just realised this thread is mts old

hahaha.... I just realised now too!! How embarrassing!!

I know right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just realised this thread is mts old

hahaha.... I just realised now too!! How embarrassing!!

I know right

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Let's say nothing and hope no one noticed!!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Just realised this thread is mts old

hahaha.... I just realised now too!! How embarrassing!!

I know right

Let's say nothing and hope no one noticed!!

Just play it cool man

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"Just realised this thread is mts old

hahaha.... I just realised now too!! How embarrassing!!

I know right

Let's say nothing and hope no one noticed!!

Just play it cool man

Caught ye. Morto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Just realised this thread is mts old

hahaha.... I just realised now too!! How embarrassing!!

I know right

Let's say nothing and hope no one noticed!!

Just play it cool man

Caught ye. Morto

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

Scarleh for yiz

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

"What size would you class yourself if you don't mind me asking? because curvy or fabulous doesn't come to mind when id think of men sizes on here...."

Regardless of how old this thread is, I do consider myself a Big Handsome Man.

Old threads are worth reviving lol.

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

"What size would you class yourself if you don't mind me asking? because curvy or fabulous doesn't come to mind when id think of men sizes on here....

Regardless of how old this thread is, I do consider myself a Big Handsome Man.

Old threads are worth reviving lol."

Does anyone know the parameters which qualify a man into a BHM ? Weight? Clothing size ? Waist circumference ? Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What size would you class yourself if you don't mind me asking? because curvy or fabulous doesn't come to mind when id think of men sizes on here....

Regardless of how old this thread is, I do consider myself a Big Handsome Man.

Old threads are worth reviving lol.

Does anyone know the parameters which qualify a man into a BHM ? Weight? Clothing size ? Waist circumference ? Asking for a friend "
Hang on.. I need to grab a pen and paper for these responses!!

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

Anything that doesn't fit the average/athletic category.

It has to do with large body types kind of your rugby or "big boned" fella honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What size would you class yourself if you don't mind me asking? because curvy or fabulous doesn't come to mind when id think of men sizes on here...."

Yup - decided to revive an OLD thread to maybe help people out here as I consider myself a BHM.

A savvy young American lady once fashioned me with a granular breakdown of Male body types in her personal estimation, and a handy understanding of where a BHM fits on that scale. You ready? Sure..?? Absol.... ah ok here we go

Underweight ... Lanky ... Skinny ... Skinny fat (nope, I don’t know either!) ... Average ... Athletic ... Chunky athletic ... Chubby ... Dadbod ** Welcome to the BHM Zone** Proper overweight ... Obese

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Sure what woman wouldn’t want a bhm?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure what woman wouldn’t want a bhm? "

I can only speak on both lived experience at my end of the BHM scale and anecdotal evidence (Dating app replies etc) but given the choice, I can say there are pretty significant numbers (+98%) out there who wouldn’t even want to show up in a BHMs search results to even give him the option to approach. It remains their choice and an expression of their preference of course; while they may not easily be able to prevent that from happening in real life I sympathise with the frustration that it doesn’t exist in an app.

The site admins could do a lot in that regard, as there Are parameters one could input as part of their profile (alongside Age, gender etc) that others could include or exclude in their searches and contact criteria. At present, if one doesn’t want to be directly contacted by anyone under 40, it doesn’t happen. A finer filter will expose people to the kind of people (by personal preference) that they are happy to entertain contact from.

It is a personal preference and always to be respected of course; selfishly, it would also probably make it easier to gauge how many of the beautiful women here WOULD entertain contact from a BHM. If the search results returned a total of say 5 though, I’m sure the site would be BHM free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What size would you class yourself if you don't mind me asking? because curvy or fabulous doesn't come to mind when id think of men sizes on here....

Yup - decided to revive an OLD thread to maybe help people out here as I consider myself a BHM.

This is an interesting one for the guys to ponder on and also might be of some interest to the women to know more about the guys, all in the interest of 'shits and giggles' of course.

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