FabSwingers.com forum: Who would judge you more

By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

near you

For the couple on Fab ,You always see descretion is a must or we like to keep are swinging life private and that is 100% understandable ,who wants the old one down the street looking at all your bits posted on fab ,but god forbid if it ever got out into the public who do you think would judge ye the most ? Leave family aside ,but friends and work colleagues,would the girl friends be more shocked than say the males male friends,who would be more judge for being Bi him or her and then the whole "and you have no problem with someone else playing with your partner",

Do you think you could say to them how do you mean you dont enjoy 2 cocks at once or jesus you have got to see you wife with another man or you havent lived

By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

I think what you are asking is a question of culture.

Its generally accepted that historically countries like the Netherlands, Belgium and Canada, for example, have a greater degree of sexual freedom and hence acceptance of more sexually liberal lifestyles.

So if a guy was standing in his garden in Rotterdam in a gimp suit with a tub of KY in one hand, a riding crop in the other and with the over 60s ladies Dutch netball team performing naked pilates to limber up, then a neighbour walked past, the neighbour is more likely to say "Morning Hans, nice day for it" rather than dial 999 and call out the national guard.

Ireland does not have that history for a variety of reasons. The indigenous population are - to a declining degree - more reserved and a little more morally conservative. So they are probably more likely to be judgmental about sexually pluralist behaviour.

And we're Irish - we love a gossip..! So finding our about something like that in an area would likely mean it spreads like wildfire

And really - nothing wrong with discretion. Treating your sexual preferences and behaviour with a degree of decorum saves the need for anyone getting judgmental.

By *ailburke OP Man
over a year ago

near you

No your a 100% right every one is entitled to their descretion and everyone has very good reasons for it

I was just thinking do we worry too much about what strangers think of us on one hand

And

Who do you think judge more harshly about swinging and sharing partners in the main population females or males

If you were to go off fab it would seem to be the females as every male and his dog are on fab and wanting to play and yes im one of them