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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?

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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago

South

Must admit a wife did cheat with me couple years ago. It was hot out. She said she wasn't getting any at home for a long time. Problem was tho she used then ring me everytime she had few drinks saying if she leaves him will I be with her. She's still with him but I haven't talked much to her in year or so

Was hot tho yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its happened with me a couple of times, she was misbehaving while her husband was unaware... So hot seeing a woman take what she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably the exact opposite, I would get zero satisfaction out of it. Now if the husband is cool with it and knows, I'd have zero issues.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

They are until the hubby arrives at the door

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?"

Nothing attractive about it.. I suppose you have to put yourself in the husbands shoes.. Would you like the same to be done on yourself.. If husband agrees to it then it's ok but if it's done sneaky then it's wrong in so many ways hot or not..

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By *aptorman160Man
over a year ago

navan

I met a cpl on her for a swap with my x . any wayit never really got going he was a total knob and my x and him didn’t get on. Now on the other hand myself and his wife got on far to well. We ended meeting up. Without the other 2 knowing for about a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?"

It's not worth the hassle

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By *inky couple 247Couple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I am a cheating wife been on and off fab many tinea over the years

Been swinging with many fb over the bast 15 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hotwife dynamic is extremely arousing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?"

There has to be something there ok but not for me thanks , not judgemental in any way , best of luck to them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must admit a wife did cheat with me couple years ago. It was hot out. She said she wasn't getting any at home for a long time. Problem was tho she used then ring me everytime she had few drinks saying if she leaves him will I be with her. She's still with him but I haven't talked much to her in year or so

Was hot tho yes"
Sounds like you've met my Ex-Wife..

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
over a year ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?"

Not sure if most men but this really turn me on and there are many cheating wives in fabs

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

I'd love to know how many men, who are turned on by other men's cheating wives will feel the same turn on if their own wife was cheating

Missus

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By *unagryMan
over a year ago

Castlebar

No ...... its not nice .

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By *incloudukMan
over a year ago

Medway

Yeah

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

I've come across a few wives in that situ here n realistically live is great for one or two at home ..think we shouldnt judge

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?"

I think a lot of the attraction is down to plain old ego and the idea of getting one over on another man by shagging his wife. Men are simple creatures afterall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends tbh , some are happy to cheat , they too have their reasons , am NOT judgemental at all here , and there are those that are happy to facilitate them in their needs , to be quite honest , both do it for a reason and good luck to them if they feel they have too.That knock on the hotel door may not be room service but hey live and let live , each to their own .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?

I think a lot of the attraction is down to plain old ego and the idea of getting one over on another man by shagging his wife. Men are simple creatures afterall "

Maybe..maybe not , they could be in love and the female can't leave her hubby for some reason or another. No one truly knows but themselves.

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By *ercc63Man
over a year ago

Hillsborough

Have met a number of "attached" ladies

Some because they are unhappy but circumstances mean they have to stay with their partner/hubby

Some are still in love but bored with the intimany of their relationship

Some like the thrill of cheating !

I dont judge and try to be supportive (and grateful) of anyone who has an interest/shares with me

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?

I think a lot of the attraction is down to plain old ego and the idea of getting one over on another man by shagging his wife. Men are simple creatures afterall

Maybe..maybe not , they could be in love and the female can't leave her hubby for some reason or another. No one truly knows but themselves."

But he was referring to men being simply turned on by cheating wives, not cases where affairs have turned into love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?

I think a lot of the attraction is down to plain old ego and the idea of getting one over on another man by shagging his wife. Men are simple creatures afterall "

Yeah, I would concur. It is that simple sometimes.

Lee

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?

I think a lot of the attraction is down to plain old ego and the idea of getting one over on another man by shagging his wife. Men are simple creatures afterall

Yeah, I would concur. It is that simple sometimes.

Lee"

For a man to agree with that says a lot about his own ego. Fair play sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?

I think a lot of the attraction is down to plain old ego and the idea of getting one over on another man by shagging his wife. Men are simple creatures afterall

Yeah, I would concur. It is that simple sometimes.

Lee

For a man to agree with that says a lot about his own ego. Fair play sir "

Ah, no priase needed, I guess it's human nature

In some mfm situations, it's the same. There is an animal insintct there with some to "take" the other man's partner. There are many men who would happily participate with a couple in a mfm, but no way would they do it with their own partner or future partner.

Lee

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Are most men turned on by someone’s cheating wife?

I think a lot of the attraction is down to plain old ego and the idea of getting one over on another man by shagging his wife. Men are simple creatures afterall

Yeah, I would concur. It is that simple sometimes.

Lee

For a man to agree with that says a lot about his own ego. Fair play sir

Ah, no priase needed, I guess it's human nature

In some mfm situations, it's the same. There is an animal insintct there with some to "take" the other man's partner. There are many men who would happily participate with a couple in a mfm, but no way would they do it with their own partner or future partner.

Lee "

Agreed and it's a big part of the attraction of swinging for both male and female I think. Swing is far more ethical though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We targeted a guy we knew as a potential for some fun in the town we lived in. My wife was very enthusiastic which was particularly unusual as she is normally quite shy and hates the planning part. She just likes to take part in random things that just kind of happen.

We had always agreed that we discuss and do everything together. However, emboldened, she went ahead and tried to seduce him herself via texts and WhatsApp messages without telling me. I became suspicious as she got quite guarded with her phone and put fingerprint access on her whatsapp, closed things down quickly when I got near etc.

It ended up getting a bit heated with naked selfies being exchanged (a couple on here actually) and declarations of love etc.

It went on for at least a couple of months and as far as I know she didn't fuck him but I'm not 100% sure.

It was a bit difficult for a couple of weeks but I eventually accepted it as a risk of the lifestyle and we have moved on.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"We targeted a guy we knew as a potential for some fun in the town we lived in. My wife was very enthusiastic which was particularly unusual as she is normally quite shy and hates the planning part. She just likes to take part in random things that just kind of happen.

We had always agreed that we discuss and do everything together. However, emboldened, she went ahead and tried to seduce him herself via texts and WhatsApp messages without telling me. I became suspicious as she got quite guarded with her phone and put fingerprint access on her whatsapp, closed things down quickly when I got near etc.

It ended up getting a bit heated with naked selfies being exchanged (a couple on here actually) and declarations of love etc.

It went on for at least a couple of months and as far as I know she didn't fuck him but I'm not 100% sure.

It was a bit difficult for a couple of weeks but I eventually accepted it as a risk of the lifestyle and we have moved on."

This made me uncomfortable.

Missus

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"We targeted a guy we knew as a potential for some fun in the town we lived in. My wife was very enthusiastic which was particularly unusual as she is normally quite shy and hates the planning part. She just likes to take part in random things that just kind of happen.

We had always agreed that we discuss and do everything together. However, emboldened, she went ahead and tried to seduce him herself via texts and WhatsApp messages without telling me. I became suspicious as she got quite guarded with her phone and put fingerprint access on her whatsapp, closed things down quickly when I got near etc.

It ended up getting a bit heated with naked selfies being exchanged (a couple on here actually) and declarations of love etc.

It went on for at least a couple of months and as far as I know she didn't fuck him but I'm not 100% sure.

It was a bit difficult for a couple of weeks but I eventually accepted it as a risk of the lifestyle and we have moved on.

This made me uncomfortable.

Missus "

Why?

It's very honest and stuff like that happens here a lot.

I know of more couples who break up here than get together

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"We targeted a guy we knew as a potential for some fun in the town we lived in. My wife was very enthusiastic which was particularly unusual as she is normally quite shy and hates the planning part. She just likes to take part in random things that just kind of happen.

We had always agreed that we discuss and do everything together. However, emboldened, she went ahead and tried to seduce him herself via texts and WhatsApp messages without telling me. I became suspicious as she got quite guarded with her phone and put fingerprint access on her whatsapp, closed things down quickly when I got near etc.

It ended up getting a bit heated with naked selfies being exchanged (a couple on here actually) and declarations of love etc.

It went on for at least a couple of months and as far as I know she didn't fuck him but I'm not 100% sure.

It was a bit difficult for a couple of weeks but I eventually accepted it as a risk of the lifestyle and we have moved on.

This made me uncomfortable.

Missus

Why?

It's very honest and stuff like that happens here a lot.

I know of more couples who break up here than get together "

Because there's a line between cheating and swinging and no partner, who genuinely cares for their other half would go astray and completely disregard their emotions, sneaking around "I love yous" to random strangers.

Some, a very tiny minority are turned on by it and do it as a role play or are poliamorous. And it's okay, live and let live, but I've seen way too many couples where one half would create a separate sneaky profile on here. It sucks.

I've been a cheater myself when I was in my early 20's. It was horrible.

I've had a short fling with a cheating person too. I've looked straight into his wives, who knew what was going on eyes and lied. I can still see her face in the back of my mind.

So yeah, reading straight up cheating stories makes me uncomfortable to say the least.

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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This made me uncomfortable.

Missus "

Apologies, it wasn't my intention but things are good now.

We cooled things down for a few months and we have since moved to another city. Not because of the situation but we just like the new place better.

We've agreed to keep our fun for out of town or on our travels in future which reduces the risk of building relationships.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


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This made me uncomfortable.

Missus

Apologies, it wasn't my intention but things are good now.

We cooled things down for a few months and we have since moved to another city. Not because of the situation but we just like the new place better.

We've agreed to keep our fun for out of town or on our travels in future which reduces the risk of building relationships.

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I'm not some kind of posting police - we're all here to share our personal experiences

Glad you guys found your own balance and came out of it with a happy ending x

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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This made me uncomfortable.

Missus

Apologies, it wasn't my intention but things are good now.

We cooled things down for a few months and we have since moved to another city. Not because of the situation but we just like the new place better.

We've agreed to keep our fun for out of town or on our travels in future which reduces the risk of building relationships.

I'm not some kind of posting police - we're all here to share our personal experiences

Glad you guys found your own balance and came out of it with a happy ending x

Missus

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Thanks , enjoy your evening

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