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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi just wondering why some guys insist on speaking to you as if you were a sex worker.

Can’t wait to fill you with my hot cum, fuck that tight wet pussy etc.

All when you haven’t actually met the person. I find this a serious turn off and a sign you’re being viewed as a sex toy.

Do other ladies feel this way or is it just me? Cos it seems very common for guys on here to do it so I assume it works for them sometimes

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

I grab the pop corn, this could become an interesting thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol absolutely but I’m genuinely curious as to what other people think

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By *heSadisticDaddyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've used that kind of talk when I've not met a female but only after I've been chatting to them for a while and I've asked if they are into it.

Plenty of females enjoy dirty talk, and I like it myself, but as with anything I'm not going to just start using language like that without knowing they like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah listen I’m definitely no prude and love a bit of filthy talk in the bedroom. Just not straight off the cuff without even having met.

I really think some guys think women on fab are desperate and behave like we’re at their service.

Then they’re shocked when you won’t meet or they get blocked

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By *heSadisticDaddyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

With the way things are at the minute I'm not going to actively seek to meet anyone in person, so I'm limited to messaging and cams.

So I've indulged in said kind of talk with women I've not met, but I'm hopeful will develop into actual meets once this shit show is over.

As previously stated though, I'm not just going to start using language like that off the bat, I could imagine it being a massive turn off, which you've confirmed.

As already said i only use language like that when I know the female is into it, I don't necessarily use the phrases you've mentioned, I like to role-play though and I'm very much into playing a daddy/dominant role and using language that fits into that scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that’s completely different to just coming out with stuff though.

When someone responding to and encouraging it it’s good. However if someone doesn’t like it or ask for it it’s just plain creepy and disrespectful.

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I / we hate this, biggest turn off when guys do this. We all know why we are here so seriously just learn to chat lads and be respectful. Would you approach someone in a pub and say that. Oh and if that's your opening message then good luck to ya...block !

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

I guess that the culture of seduction is somewhat lost . In our speedy daily life one doesn’t take the time to play the game of seduction and comes straight to the point . That in return can be a major turn off for women, even they may also not looking forward the love of their life but just a little sexual pleasure - who wants to be treated as just a cum dump hole for some stranger dude who coincidently is in 5 miles range . Some eloquence when approaching someone of your fancy (regardless the gender) goes a long way . Being open minded to have various sexual partners to play with doesn’t mean to be cheap meat for someone’s carnal urges

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By *icevicebabyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I totally agree with you OP and it's a major turn off. There are a lot of fantasists on this site. It's a good filter in my opinion.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I'd love to know if any lads on here have actually had success with this approach?

It truly boggles the mind.

Either they've had success with it or they never learn that it doesn't work.

They're the only two reasons I can think of why it's so common.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

To be honest I'd say this tactic is used by the guys who never plan on meeting, the fantasists who would never say that to a lady's face. Mrs

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Is it typing it in a message or actually talking like that in a phone call....you'd easily know I've never done either

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

As an introduction or within the first few chats, no. Nopey nope nope. But as things progress, especially after we’ve had a coffee and are planning our first meet, yeah maybe.

But even then it can be a bit off-putting if it’s not done respectfully and in the right context.

A well established lover from here sends me voice messages. He speaks absolute filth and it gets me off ridiculously. But very few could do that and get away with it, actually he’s the only one who’s voice is that sexy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a turn off the heah sexy baby you got any naughty pics routine from some randomer. Oh baby what you wearing now..mmmmm what about a pick of me in my unsexy Pennys fleece onesie with no make up....oh you like that big boy

If they are immediately looking for wank fodder it dries up my fanny like the Sahara. I could have pursued a career with Escorts Ireland if I wanted to be spoken to like a sex worker!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I just find it cringeworthy and wouldn't even type it never mind say it to a woman I didn't know it had never met.

But then again I've had online conversations with complete strangers who have asked me to tell them what I would do to them and that is equally as off-putting aiming those comments at anonymous women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very well put. Being willing to experiment sexually does not equal being indiscriminate in choosing your sexual partners.

People who can’t see that need to start paying for sex IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP is of course spot on.. would be surprised if any woman on the planet finds that hot..

It’s is definitely a fantasists ploy... ignore, delete or block..

I really prefer to meet in person as a rule as I think the world has gone mad with online trolls on every platform and the anonymous power Fab can give guys and the odd lady too..

I think if we all chatted the same as if the person was standing in front of them it would help...

In saying all that I’d talk smut too when it’s called for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol right?? At least they’re being paid to listen to that s•••

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that’s another common annoying one. What would I like to do to you?? Hmm I’m thinking your dick, my kitchen table and a meat hammer

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Yeah that’s another common annoying one. What would I like to do to you?? Hmm I’m thinking your dick, my kitchen table and a meat hammer "

You do realise someone somewhere reading this is getting turned on now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Either or is equally bad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah that’s another common annoying one. What would I like to do to you?? Hmm I’m thinking your dick, my kitchen table and a meat hammer "

Ohh I just winced...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol well I’m very happy for them. I’m having serious pms today so there welcome to call

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t mean you lol unless you’re into that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shiver me timbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mean you lol unless you’re into that "

If that’s meant for me.. then definitely not into that.. lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t mean you lol unless you’re into that

If that’s meant for me.. then definitely not into that.. lol... "

Ah ok. Id you change your mind .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mean you lol unless you’re into that

If that’s meant for me.. then definitely not into that.. lol...

Ah ok. Id you change your mind ....... "

Such a temptress.. lol .. sorry an enchantress..

But you can keep the meat cleaver away from me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t mean you lol unless you’re into that

If that’s meant for me.. then definitely not into that.. lol...

Ah ok. Id you change your mind .......

Such a temptress.. lol .. sorry an enchantress..

But you can keep the meat cleaver away from me.. "

Ok as long as you don’t the the porno patter you’re safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi just wondering why some guys insist on speaking to you as if you were a sex worker.

Can’t wait to fill you with my hot cum, fuck that tight wet pussy etc.

All when you haven’t actually met the person. I find this a serious turn off and a sign you’re being viewed as a sex toy.

Do other ladies feel this way or is it just me? Cos it seems very common for guys on here to do it so I assume it works for them sometimes "

Women aren't too far in this game

Turn off from a stranger. Dirty talk with my fwb? Yes! It turns us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi just wondering why some guys insist on speaking to you as if you were a sex worker.

Can’t wait to fill you with my hot cum, fuck that tight wet pussy etc.

All when you haven’t actually met the person. I find this a serious turn off and a sign you’re being viewed as a sex toy.

Do other ladies feel this way or is it just me? Cos it seems very common for guys on here to do it so I assume it works for them sometimes "

Context is important. I never initiate dirty talk, but will participate with the right person. It usually evolves from questions asked in initial chats.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi just wondering why some guys insist on speaking to you as if you were a sex worker.

Can’t wait to fill you with my hot cum, fuck that tight wet pussy etc.

All when you haven’t actually met the person. I find this a serious turn off and a sign you’re being viewed as a sex toy.

Do other ladies feel this way or is it just me? Cos it seems very common for guys on here to do it so I assume it works for them sometimes

Women aren't too far in this game

Turn off from a stranger. Dirty talk with my fwb? Yes! It turns us both "

Oh yeah I agree but I’m talking complete stranger you haven’t met. Usually coupled with dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mean you lol unless you’re into that

If that’s meant for me.. then definitely not into that.. lol...

Ah ok. Id you change your mind .......

Such a temptress.. lol .. sorry an enchantress..

But you can keep the meat cleaver away from me..

Ok as long as you don’t the the porno patter you’re safe "

Thanks OP... I’d kick my feet together all bashful while stepping back slowly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi just wondering why some guys insist on speaking to you as if you were a sex worker.

Can’t wait to fill you with my hot cum, fuck that tight wet pussy etc.

All when you haven’t actually met the person. I find this a serious turn off and a sign you’re being viewed as a sex toy.

Do other ladies feel this way or is it just me? Cos it seems very common for guys on here to do it so I assume it works for them sometimes

Women aren't too far in this game

Turn off from a stranger. Dirty talk with my fwb? Yes! It turns us both

Oh yeah I agree but I’m talking complete stranger you haven’t met. Usually coupled with dick pics "

I think block button will be used in this case

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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago

some where in outer space

Turn off for me.... And the first messages are make or break imo

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Nothing like a good blagarding in the first few messages.. If she's offended then she's not able for you..move on and find your dirty match

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing like a good blagarding in the first few messages.. If she's offended then she's not able for you..move on and find your dirty match "

Yeah find your ideal match on a 1800 number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's OK now and again if ye know each other but straight off the bat no. In that case it's either a turn off or laughable

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