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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey new here help me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How receptive are you to criticism ?

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

Is that a can of travel lynx?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Normal lynx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think pf a profile as a cv ask yourself what sets you apart from the others in a positive light.

It is a numbers game and there are far more men on here than women,tv,ts, couples. It requires a lot more effort for a man to stand out than anyone in the other demographics .

As you've asked for advice..nyour profile picture does nothing for you. It looks like you've been captured as a hostage and forced to take a selfie whilst squatting over a starving alligator . Your shirt is all wrinkled and it basically looks as if you have made zero effort.

Maybe you were having a bad day and that's fair enough we all have them but if I'm trying to sell a car for instance I don't put pictures up on donedeal where the car is manky dirty etc. There has to be an enticement for people to buy into what you are selling.

"Hi" as a profile description is literally as boring as could be and compounds the other issues already laid out. Lack of effort comes across as someone who couldn't be bothered in general and if not bothered in general people will probably assume that attitude resembles other aspects of your personality and it will reflect laziness with regard to a meet/in the bedroom etc.

The more effort a profile has put into it the better chance of success.

Little tip.

Filter for profiles looking for the same as you.

Go through and look at the accounts with the most/best verifications and ask yourself objectively the difference between their profile and your own.

Hope fab works out for you.

Kind regards

Kate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not great because You only have two photos up and no interests added

Remove the HI with a small bio about you and what you’re looking for on here

Be respectful and be prepared for a long wait . This is not dial a ride . The amount of messages women get is insane so you really need to stand out from the rest .

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's empty

Two pictures,one of a cock,the other a very unhappy looking man.

And to top that,as if that was possible,your sole effort into introducing yourself,is the word "hi"

Minimal effort equates to minimal results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says nothing about you and is topped by two zero effort pics.

From your own perspective, would you want to interact with such a profile?

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

It isn’t the strongest male profile on the site. Pictures are low quality and not creative. Bio merely says ‘Hi’ which is a red flag to us because if you can’t take 10 minutes to position yourself in the best possible light in the fab market place, then it suggests you are either lazy or inexperienced.

Take some time to write and decent bio that shows personality and take some better pictures, and hopefully you start to improve your chances

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

You profile comes across a bit "murder-y"

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Why would you create a zero effort profile and ask for feedback? If you really cared about your profile, would you not put in some effort first and then ask for feedback?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Strong forehead with a possible Roman nose but it's hard to tell from this angle.

Profiles are an outline or contour taken from a side view so maybe if you turned to one side?

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

As much as I admire everyone's advice.. I'll take an advice of a few very intelligent and kind ladies - if a man can't be arsed with putting effort into his own profile - trying to help him is pointless as he most likely doesn't care and will discard all advice.

Also it's a great personality giveaway so less likely to end up being a catfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that a can of travel lynx?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness he did say he was new and unfamiliar with the do's and don't of fab. Id give him the benefit of the doubt and say he approached it and as you would an NCT test. Bring it in first and let them tell you what you need fixing and hope they don't scald ya.

Go for it fella you'll be part of the furniture in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that a can of travel lynx?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How receptive are you to criticism ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a work in progress OP.

Cock picture + can of lynx is not a good idea. It's a Fab cliche at this stage and not a good one.

Photo verified is good

If you are confident to add a public face picture life you have then good. Consider taking some with good lighting, nice smile etc. as you want to make a good starting impression.

Fill out your profile. 4 weeks on Fabs now and only 'Hi' is added. Give details about your self, what you are looking for, the things you like etc. For example, I love kissing so I have added that.

Get busy!

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Posts like this one, should be ignored. Op needs more than help if he thinks that is an acceptable profile. Only thing missing from pic of you is the height level behind you, as in a line up at the police station.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Can't travel, can't accommodate, won't meet smokers, all negative. Profile still the same! Told you, waste of time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine putting up this thread and totally ignoring the advice people have given . Vast majority of the time these threads are attention seeking timewasters and once again this is the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine putting up this thread and totally ignoring the advice people have given . Vast majority of the time these threads are attention seeking timewasters and once again this is the same."

Ah sure as per usual with these threads they ignore the advice and start the exact same thread in two weeks time lamenting the fact they aren't knee deep in fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What could I change on mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine putting up this thread and totally ignoring the advice people have given . Vast majority of the time these threads are attention seeking timewasters and once again this is the same.

Ah sure as per usual with these threads they ignore the advice and start the exact same thread in two weeks time lamenting the fact they aren't knee deep in fanny "

So true !!

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"What could I change on mine? "

I would suggest, dump the white socks, track suits and leggings. Less pics (of the same thing), better quality ones in place of, dress smart, especially if you want to meet older people. Certain generations despise the urban, athletic looking clothes, that your generation wears, just saying.

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By *isdemeanorWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I joined fab a few years ago and have mainly talked to people I met at the clubs. I did become an active participant about 2 months ago and wish to update my profile. I am not an expert on the swinging site and am not big on quantity but quality...I do have a lot of interest..and have tried to make it clear what I am looking for...Is it necessary to have lots of verifications as I have never insisted....would love to get some feedback on my profile...from both a male a female perspective...just want to make it a bit more interesting without attracting too many time wasters...help!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I joined fab a few years ago and have mainly talked to people I met at the clubs. I did become an active participant about 2 months ago and wish to update my profile. I am not an expert on the swinging site and am not big on quantity but quality...I do have a lot of interest..and have tried to make it clear what I am looking for...Is it necessary to have lots of verifications as I have never insisted....would love to get some feedback on my profile...from both a male a female perspective...just want to make it a bit more interesting without attracting too many time wasters...help!"

You've one photo of a lovely smile but could do with a few more photo's to be honest.

Get rid of the Sydney University crap....it's nonsense anyway.

You've written a very long bio but even if we matched with anything I wouldn't be arsed reading it as it's just too long

Knock off all the stuff about what you're not interested in ,use your filters to reject them and concentrate on what you do want

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"I joined fab a few years ago and have mainly talked to people I met at the clubs. I did become an active participant about 2 months ago and wish to update my profile. I am not an expert on the swinging site and am not big on quantity but quality...I do have a lot of interest..and have tried to make it clear what I am looking for...Is it necessary to have lots of verifications as I have never insisted....would love to get some feedback on my profile...from both a male a female perspective...just want to make it a bit more interesting without attracting too many time wasters...help!"

I hope you don't mind a bit of a critic! More pics, less of the "Gettysburg address" length of bio. Although your bio in places is excellent and may I say arousing, just too long. X

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

Still using that ‘travel’ lynx?

It must be empty by now...

Top tip, use a LARGE one next time, it lasts so much longer!

You’re welcome

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