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Voyeurism - specifically being watched.

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Has anyone done this, have someone come watch you and a lover.. not in a dogging scenario but a planned “someone’s coming to sit and watch” manner.

Any stories, experiences, tips, hints etc??

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Just book marking this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea of this does all sorts to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmmm either watching or being watched is an immense turn on

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Mmmmmmmm either watching or being watched is an immense turn on "

Tell me about being watched... were you self conscious at all?

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Years ago, on a holiday in Oz. We had the fantasy of being watched so we arranged for a guy to come to a fleabag motel that was used just for the occasion (as opposed to the nice place we were actually staying).

He came in, we had a drink, and he watched while we played. He didn’t ask to participate nor did he even wank, he just watched and only engagement after we started was to ask us if we’d like him to take pictures.

Very surreal from memory.

Wouldn’t do it again, but was fun at the time as a stepping stone.

We’ve also had a stag party roleplay fantasy where S plays a stripper and me the stag. Few extra lads to watch as the stag gets some attention by the stripper. Might happen one day if circumstances are right but low on our priority list

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Dublin and midlands

Yes, in a club. I like to put on a performance. I was surprised at the attention I got, and loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the idea. A definite turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's something we've done a couple of times. Our first foray into this little world was to invite a guy to our hotel room to watch, and we've repeated it a few times since. We particularly enjoy an enthusiastic voyeur, and having a small group watching "enthusiastically" is definitely something high on our wish list

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Has anyone done this, have someone come watch you and a lover.. not in a dogging scenario but a planned “someone’s coming to sit and watch” manner.

Any stories, experiences, tips, hints etc?? "

Just give me the address

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By *oejoxxxMan
over a year ago

anywhere

Very interesting, I'd like to try that

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By *oejoxxxMan
over a year ago

anywhere

For sure/

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By *lut_masterCouple
over a year ago

slut_haven

We started out with this scenario

We asked a guy to just watch us and he could play with himself...ohh how we have moved on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it count when you meet another couple and the male half cannot get it up? If it does, we’ve had it a couple times.

Not a great experience though x)

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12


"Does it count when you meet another couple and the male half cannot get it up? If it does, we’ve had it a couple times.

Not a great experience though x)"
next time add me as a sub if he can't perform I will gladly fill in for him.

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

I'm just gonna sit here and wave!!! Its my reason for being here and with the current situation as it is I think a lot of couples might be tempted to give it a go! Or maybe that's just wishful thinking!!!!!

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By *lderandbolderMan
over a year ago

clonakilty

Have never watched a couple play

.any offers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have never watched a couple play

.any offers?"

My first meet with a couple. It was all hands on deck so to speak. But there were some moments where I was just sitting down and seeing two lovers have sex...with her on top was one of the most memorable things I have seen. It was like porn but the best you will ever have in your life. ...then strap your head guard back on and get back in there hahaha

I hope it happens again

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By *rct4Man
over a year ago

Manchester

It's amazing, if the couple asks they guy to sit and watch but they are nervous it's good to talk to the guy and tell him what you have planned for him/her and breaks the ice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a favourite of mine. I particularly like to watch couples have been lucky enough to do it a few times. I don't participate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never did this but really interested in doing it

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By *ohnbyrneMan
over a year ago

donegal

Would love to watch a couple, if it’s good with them I’d get my cock out as I love to be watched too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once had a couple come to our home for a meet, however in the bedroom, it was clear that the ‘guy’ only wanted to watch his partner play. He stood by the bed & watched whilst pleasuring himself and when he was finished he proceeded to clean himself with the curtains! Mortified I was! Never Ever Again

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By *heSadisticDaddyMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"when he was finished he proceeded to clean himself with the curtains!"

I know i shouldn't laugh, but that's creased me up. What a wally.

Anyway I'd love to go and watch a couple playing, maybe video the action or take pics but not get involved beyond that, its high on my bucket list. Just haven't had the opportunity to do it.

If there are any couples local to Belfast and fancy it drop me a line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone done this, have someone come watch you and a lover.. not in a dogging scenario but a planned “someone’s coming to sit and watch” manner.

Any stories, experiences, tips, hints etc?? "

Maybe it's due to covid but this has risen to the top of my fuckit list lately. I'd love to try it but think I might prefer to be part of a couple to get the most out of the experience

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Years ago went as a couple to an escort in Amsterdam. She seemed more interested in watching us than joining in. Was a turn off so we made our excuses and left.

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

Partaken many times. Good to chat plenty beforehand for limitation to be discussed and what each fantasy is to see, play out etc.

As everything...... communication is they key.

All I can add is that it really can be a very erotic and kinky adventure.

Any couples interested in knowing more... do get in touch.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast


"We once had a couple come to our home for a meet, however in the bedroom, it was clear that the ‘guy’ only wanted to watch his partner play. He stood by the bed & watched whilst pleasuring himself and when he was finished he proceeded to clean himself with the curtains! Mortified I was! Never Ever Again "

On YOUR curtains? I'd have said you should've thrown him bare-arsed out onto the street, but then again, that might be difficult to explain to the neighbours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lee likes to watch me with another man sometimes, for a while. I'm more a get involved type and somewhat indifferent to an audience other than Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We once had a couple come to our home for a meet, however in the bedroom, it was clear that the ‘guy’ only wanted to watch his partner play. He stood by the bed & watched whilst pleasuring himself and when he was finished he proceeded to clean himself with the curtains! Mortified I was! Never Ever Again "

Bwahahaha

People are so classy aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! What a disgusting thing to do. Needless to say they were promptly taken down and binned

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I fucked this lady as her boy friend wstched us. I felt like s pornstar.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I don't know if this counts but the last meet I had pre-covid was with a couple, where the man wanted to watch me fuck his wife. That was fine by me; not sure I'd invite another voyeur to watch me and someone that I was already involved with, however.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I also watched a lady friend suck a guy off and kissed her afterwards never felt si horny in my life.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

You either like being wstched or not. Simple. Some will like it may be you wont. It up to you guys in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be involved 8n this scenario

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By *arsbar500Man
over a year ago

Newtownards

Id love to watch, but don't think I'd be comfortable being watched.

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By *arti and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Here, there & everywhere

Watching/being watched is amazing!

Never actually planned it to happen that way though. M xx

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I’m amused that most people presume the watcher will be a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky enough on a few occasions to be asked to meet up with different couples at various times in the past where the husband/partner has laid it out he was not taking part and only there to watch .

A bit awkward at first but that soon disappears and its obvious that he's getting a kick out of seeing her enjoy herself and then you realise she's getting a bigger kick out of putting on a show for him.

The more she got into it the more he enjoyed watching, he was quiet and non intrusive and minimal instruction to her only encouragement.

The atmosphere is electric every time. And an absolute pleasure to be a part of it.

A particular couple in the UK filmed it to watch back later and an invite to go back for more followed.

Anyone thinking about it all I can say is go for it , what's the worst that could happen, you don't like it?? Crossit off the list anc move onto the next fantasy

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By *oejoxxxMan
over a year ago

anywhere


"We once had a couple come to our home for a meet, however in the bedroom, it was clear that the ‘guy’ only wanted to watch his partner play. He stood by the bed & watched whilst pleasuring himself and when he was finished he proceeded to clean himself with the curtains! Mortified I was! Never Ever Again "

What a PRAT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the reason I joined fab, have enjoyed a few meets and generally discuss what is required of me prior to actually meeting up..

personally I find it a real turn on being watched, however the couples find it just as thrilling and most times I wouldn't be required to join in....all online now since Feb with a few returning couples and friends though.

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By *egnalMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Love watching and being watched equally. And just to add a little bit more excitement I love both outside, in a public place. It’s a rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to flex and make eye contact with myself in the mirror, like Christian Bale in American Psycho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done this a couple of times, both on a beach nearby, very sexy and very erotic!

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By *cerlass321Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

yes we do regularly

we have been known to invie people to our play room and watch us

or we have played in public with an audience

to be fair we prefer it in the play room as all toys and gadgets are to hand so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had both a male and a female watch, on two separate occasions , was a huge turn on watching a clothed female rub her pussy as she enjoyed seeing us fuck,

But the guy (i met his wife) he stood silent doing nothing and saying nothing, kinda got uncomfortable in the end

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"I've had both a male and a female watch, on two separate occasions , was a huge turn on watching a clothed female rub her pussy as she enjoyed seeing us fuck,

But the guy (i met his wife) he stood silent doing nothing and saying nothing, kinda got uncomfortable in the end "

Thanks for that.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"We once had a couple come to our home for a meet, however in the bedroom, it was clear that the ‘guy’ only wanted to watch his partner play. He stood by the bed & watched whilst pleasuring himself and when he was finished he proceeded to clean himself with the curtains! Mortified I was! Never Ever Again "

Did you not have the fancy curtains up?

Happens us all, once you used the good china for the tea he may have forgiven you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily it was the spare room, and not my bedroom curtains

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By *unguyhere2020Man
over a year ago

Galway can travel

Yes ..strange at first but super fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We once had a couple come to our home for a meet, however in the bedroom, it was clear that the ‘guy’ only wanted to watch his partner play. He stood by the bed & watched whilst pleasuring himself and when he was finished he proceeded to clean himself with the curtains! Mortified I was! Never Ever Again "

Shur thats the age ol' joke..." how do you make a lady scream for ages after sex "?...fuck the brains out of her then wipe your cock on the curtains "....( please note l am NOT in anyway agreeing with an action like that with the curtains...its totally disgusting and completely disrespectful and insulting ,lm merely saying it was a joke doing the rounds years ago )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone done this, have someone come watch you and a lover.. not in a dogging scenario but a planned “someone’s coming to sit and watch” manner.

Any stories, experiences, tips, hints etc?? "

Many times but not enough

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By *ammer7811Man
over a year ago

Medway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is on the top of my to do list, watching a couple from the side while playing with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met two women and they just wanted to watch me wank for them until I came over myself, the second one actually finished me off but holy moly it was very very hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We once had a couple come to our home for a meet, however in the bedroom, it was clear that the ‘guy’ only wanted to watch his partner play. He stood by the bed & watched whilst pleasuring himself and when he was finished he proceeded to clean himself with the curtains! Mortified I was!

Never Ever Again "

Thats incredible, you'd be traumatised for life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m amused that most people presume the watcher will be a man "

Thanks for saying that watching is on my bucket list, id find it so intimate to be allowed. huge turn on.

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By *r1Mrs1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

We've been watched in the Vanilla club. It was a real turn on. Hopefully we get to do it again when things return to normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ve been that guy and one of the hottest meets

Was invited to a cpls hotel room

Was told and all agree before hand the rules

I was there to watch only and wasn’t to touch myself, no talking and the chair placed out for me wasnt to be moved etc

Ong just wow - the look / eye contact off the fem just wow unreal neet

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By *peasinapod1Couple
over a year ago

dublin

We like to put on a show and also to watch . Love being caught or watched in the car . Oh bring back to the Cooley mountains

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"I’m amused that most people presume the watcher will be a man

Thanks for saying that watching is on my bucket list, id find it so intimate to be allowed. huge turn on. "

Tried to PM you there but can’t.

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

We been watched few times in vanilla on our own and with a couple, was such a turn on.

Bring back those sexy fun filled nights of debauchery.

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