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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m personally all for the slow sensuous kissing as lead up to sex but everyone has their own fit and some people ban it totally! What’s your thing?

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Has to be kissing...its so important.A good kisser can make or break the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing 100% all the time. It started with a kiss....

You know the one, where you know its going to be hot, your tummy does somersaults, your skin tingles from their touch and you forget to come up for air

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing 100% all the time. It started with a kiss....

You know the one, where you know its going to be hot, your tummy does somersaults, your skin tingles from their touch and you forget to come up for air "

Or the one where you think hot hot then you kiss and it’s all tongues and you have a big wet face and the passion dies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing 100% all the time. It started with a kiss....

You know the one, where you know its going to be hot, your tummy does somersaults, your skin tingles from their touch and you forget to come up for air

Or the one where you think hot hot then you kiss and it’s all tongues and you have a big wet face and the passion dies lol "

Oh to be 18 again lol

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I like kissing (and I like to think I'm good at it). I definitely see it as the start of any sexual encounter. I did have one meet a few years ago with a couple, where there was a ground rule that she and I weren't allowed to kiss; while we did have a good time, it definitely felt that something was missing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like kissing (and I like to think I'm good at it). I definitely see it as the start of any sexual encounter. I did have one meet a few years ago with a couple, where there was a ground rule that she and I weren't allowed to kiss; while we did have a good time, it definitely felt that something was missing."

I couldn’t even get there if I couldn’t kiss the person, it would feel so cold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing most important part to see if there s chemistry

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

No kissing, no passion, no point.

Plenty of kissing and then some more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sales of lip balm will sky rocket next year when all this kissing starts again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely there has to be kissing and it needs to be proper sensual kissing to start, if done properly the feeling you get should last long after your finished. If there is no build up or chemistry then it's not worth it. Although they say a bad kisser can be tought.. I'm not sure!

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Kissing yes yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely there has to be kissing and it needs to be proper sensual kissing to start, if done properly the feeling you get should last long after your finished. If there is no build up or chemistry then it's not worth it. Although they say a bad kisser can be tought.. I'm not sure! "

Oh they definitely can ......if they are worth the effort lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without kissing there is no point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Divine where did you get the spotty shoes lol sorry not in relation to this forum although wearing those while kissing someone would be great lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Divine where did you get the spotty shoes lol sorry not in relation to this forum although wearing those while kissing someone would be great lol "

A friend had them and never wore them so give me them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Divine where did you get the spotty shoes lol sorry not in relation to this forum although wearing those while kissing someone would be great lol

A friend had them and never wore them so give me them. "

They are quite fetching

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Definitely kissing good kisser gets you all fired up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has to be kissing...its so important.A good kisser can make or break the meet."

This (dark)

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Divine where did you get the spotty shoes lol sorry not in relation to this forum although wearing those while kissing someone would be great lol

A friend had them and never wore them so give me them. "

Was her name cruella by any chance

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I’m personally all for the slow sensuous kissing as lead up to sex but everyone has their own fit and some people ban it totally! What’s your thing? "

It’s essential. It isn’t even the frosting on the cake, it’s the foundation base that everything else is built on.

Must be subconsciously craving cake today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Divine where did you get the spotty shoes lol sorry not in relation to this forum although wearing those while kissing someone would be great lol

A friend had them and never wore them so give me them.

They are quite fetching "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Divine where did you get the spotty shoes lol sorry not in relation to this forum although wearing those while kissing someone would be great lol

A friend had them and never wore them so give me them.

Was her name cruella by any chance "

Nope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow sensual kissing is very important foundation for whatever you want to follow. Love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't kiss I'll give it a miss!

Daisy

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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago

kildare

Has to b kissing xxxx

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By *321funMan
over a year ago

Laois

Definitely has to be kissing 100% xx

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By *unsoundMan
over a year ago

Ennis

I kiss and dont tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is one of the most enjoyable parts of any meet be that a social (kiss test) of a play meet

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Hard ta bate an aul shift

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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh Yessssss it has to be Kissing....I find it so sensual and find it really sets the mood for more fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no interest in kissing anyone other than my own man when we meet.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kisses is essential for me. It brings Chemistry that one step further, you actually know...well I do anyway...whether there's gonna be sex or not after that first kiss

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"I’m personally all for the slow sensuous kissing as lead up to sex but everyone has their own fit and some people ban it totally! What’s your thing? "

You hit it in 1 Dingding! A kiss leading to a hot passionate kissing and touching, oh my word, I need to loosen my collar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kiss can tell a lot. A good kiss can lead to good fun. A bad kiss is a turn off straight away

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I did meet someone and the kiss was like 90mph tongue everywhere, and I kinda thought, this would feel much better on my cock. I was right

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I had my first kiss in 8 years earlier this year

Its what I missed the most to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kiss can tell a lot. A good kiss can lead to good fun. A bad kiss is a turn off straight away "

Everything starts from a kiss

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By *ll about fun timeCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/Wmeath

Ms here I prefer not to kiss if I can due to wanting to hold sometimes back for just us.. But I'm aware himself has to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kiss can tell a lot. A good kiss can lead to good fun. A bad kiss is a turn off straight away

Everything starts from a kiss "

Kaizer's krooning....

"Started with a kiss, never thought it would come to this..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick response; Kissing is a must.... the feeling of a woman’s soft warm lips and the tingles that happen from there are what it is all about. As has been said, it all starts with a kiss.

On a longer version of response, I pass time with words with friends (scrabble) app, and today I managed the word Snogs (not a huge point scoring word.... ) and the game offers definitions, so being a curious type and thinking Snog is in my reference almost exclusive to Irish/Scottish (might even give it to the Brits) the definition was as follows: *Verb - to kiss and cuddle amorously*

Any Fabsters playing Words With Friends?? PM me and let’s get a game going....

I end by saying that a snog is a definite must for me and enjoyable escapades.

T

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Kissing is essential for me if things are to go farther there is no way I'd have sex with someone without kissing first. It's how you can tell if you have chemistry.

I have had sex with guys who weren't great kissers and to be honest the sex we had usually reflected that as well. So now if the kiss doesn't work then it goes no farther.

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By *ereus3Couple
over a year ago

Dundalk


"Kissing is essential for me if things are to go farther there is no way I'd have sex with someone without kissing first. It's how you can tell if you have chemistry.

I have had sex with guys who weren't great kissers and to be honest the sex we had usually reflected that as well. So now if the kiss doesn't work then it goes no farther. "
exactly this

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By *uscious louWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Kissing is the key to everything

If a kiss lacks passion no point in going any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a kiss test first

Have to balance showing some passion with seeming too eager though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing but i can and have went totally without aswell it all depends on the kind of meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing. Like the appetiser before the main course

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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago

South Tipperary

Yes....

But some times I like a chicken rooll...

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Sensual slow kissing yessss please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your kiss is on my list...your kiss is what l miss when l turn out the light...

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Omg kissing is absolutely essential! If the first kiss isn’t mind blowing, forget it. Not happening.

My 2nd meet off fab, a kiss in a lift after a coffee and my knees went from under me. Thank god he had a hold of me. Our sex is still as amazing nearly a year later.

It’s why I like men taller than me, I like to have to put my head back to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't kiss I'll give it a miss!

Daisy"

One kiss and you definitely won't miss

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

Has to be kissing is one of my biggest turn ons no kissing no meet

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By *rownBear365Man
over a year ago

city

Love kissing but it can be so off-putting then the other person is a terrible kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started with a kiss lol

Kissing is definitely a must wouldn't be the same with no kissing

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Always kissing!

If the lips don't meet, the uglies ain't bumping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny kissing is maybe one of the best parts of the whole sexual exp. But I really do understand why some couples won't allow others to kiss their partners. It makes sense to me. Still would miss it though :-x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m personally all for the slow sensuous kissing as lead up to sex but everyone has their own fit and some people ban it totally! What’s your thing?

It’s essential. It isn’t even the frosting on the cake, it’s the foundation base that everything else is built on.

Must be subconsciously craving cake today!"

And it makes it so hot.. just right duration, to much and you spoil it...too little and, well its just delicious wet batter.

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

Absolutely.

Kissing all the way.

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington

Funny isn't it - only 2 people replied they don't kiss on a meet, but everyone one else loves it.

Is not kissing a bit like voting Tory - you don't want to own up 'cos it seems so wrong

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Funny isn't it - only 2 people replied they don't kiss on a meet, but everyone one else loves it.

Is not kissing a bit like voting Tory - you don't want to own up 'cos it seems so wrong "

you must be on the wrong forum. Theres no tory party here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny isn't it - only 2 people replied they don't kiss on a meet, but everyone one else loves it.

Is not kissing a bit like voting Tory - you don't want to own up 'cos it seems so wrong "

As one of the two you're referring to, it's hardly like owning up to being an axe murderer

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By *elfastcouple30sCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

All about the kissing love it

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Funny isn't it - only 2 people replied they don't kiss on a meet, but everyone one else loves it.

Is not kissing a bit like voting Tory - you don't want to own up 'cos it seems so wrong

As one of the two you're referring to, it's hardly like owning up to being an axe murderer

"

Imagine having freedom of choice......the cheek of you not kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny isn't it - only 2 people replied they don't kiss on a meet, but everyone one else loves it.

Is not kissing a bit like voting Tory - you don't want to own up 'cos it seems so wrong

As one of the two you're referring to, it's hardly like owning up to being an axe murderer

Imagine having freedom of choice......the cheek of you not kissing "

I'm just a cold and heartless freak BM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it's got to be kissing. No kissing is like a 99 without the flake. It's still good without but even better with nice soft wet juicy lips coming together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential in my opinion, I love a slow sensual kiss on the neck then the guy makes his way up to my lips, licking them gently, then biting the bottom lip, before he puts his tongue in my mouth, it's such a turn on

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Kissing is essential in my opinion, I love a slow sensual kiss on the neck then the guy makes his way up to my lips, licking them gently, then biting the bottom lip, before he puts his tongue in my mouth, it's such a turn on "

Got me hard just reading it

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone


"A kiss can tell a lot. A good kiss can lead to good fun. A bad kiss is a turn off straight away "

I feel the same about kissing

Mrs.Sun

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

Kissing is crucial for the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the kissing!!! All of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the bestest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m personally all for the slow sensuous kissing as lead up to sex but everyone has their own fit and some people ban it totally! What’s your thing? "

I think kissing is a must be a hand job at the start with it turns me on the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a huge part of the fun and developing the, er, excitement...

That said, it can still be fun without. Depends very much in who you're with.

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By *herieWoman
over a year ago

The Burbs

Kissing every time!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The initial kiss dictates the rest of the meet. It sets the tone and adjusts the intensity level.

Subsequent kisses help maintain that passion or take it to the next level.

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By *oejoxxxMan
over a year ago

anywhere


"I’m personally all for the slow sensuous kissing as lead up to sex but everyone has their own fit and some people ban it totally! What’s your thing? "

Completely agree, absolutely essential in my opinion. being a good kisser is very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is no kissing there is no connection so there is no sex.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

I can see why maybe in an MFM if its a couple plus one and the couple want to retain kissing as something that they alone share.

If its 1 on 1 then kissing is a great indicator of how good the sex is gonna be. If the person invested time over the years in learning how to kiss and are a good kisser, then chances are they applied the same dedication to learning how to be a good fuck..

Great kissers respond in real time to the kiss and it evolves, changes and is exciting for ever second as you do not know what is coming next. Mmmm..!

Nothing worse than getting someone who only knows the washing machine technique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see why maybe in an MFM if its a couple plus one and the couple want to retain kissing as something that they alone share.

If its 1 on 1 then kissing is a great indicator of how good the sex is gonna be. If the person invested time over the years in learning how to kiss and are a good kisser, then chances are they applied the same dedication to learning how to be a good fuck..

Great kissers respond in real time to the kiss and it evolves, changes and is exciting for ever second as you do not know what is coming next. Mmmm..!

Nothing worse than getting someone who only knows the washing machine technique. "

Thank you for understanding the other perspective. It's often in short supply. I've no doubt I would feel differently about it were I single

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By *ountry Bumpkins69Couple
over a year ago

neverland

Most certainly kissing is a must for us

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

Kissing please

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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

Hit send too early

Yes, kissing is so important. If you're not on the same wavelength with someone 'kissing wise' you're going to remember that shit!!

I can't imagine the notion of a non kissing play meet.? Just sounds a bit empty or mechanical ...to me anyway

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By *eaAndBenCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I don’t think we’d meet if kissing was off the cards. Kissing is too much fun! That first touch I don’t even know how you’d initiate anything else without that first. It’s such a natural organic part of the experience.

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By *eaAndBenCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"

Nothing worse than getting someone who only knows the washing machine technique. "

Wait! What? There’s other techniques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing...but a few on here are very anti kissing

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By *irty_mindMan
over a year ago

in the sticks

Oh yes, love it

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By *oxtrotTangoLoveMan
over a year ago

monkstown/kentstown


"I’m personally all for the slow sensuous kissing as lead up to sex but everyone has their own fit and some people ban it totally! What’s your thing? "

Definitely 100% kissing for me NO Kissing no go for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quality house needs a good foundation and a quality ride needs alot of good kissing..

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Kissin is a requirement for a fun time

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

Kilrea

Definitely k7ssing it could make or break a meet for me, heightens the urge for sex

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By *lderandbolderMan
over a year ago

clonakilty

A slow sensual kiss is necessary for me to lead to good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss seals the deal every time

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh


"Kiss seals the deal every time"
and from memory not a bad aul kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m personally all for the slow sensuous kissing as lead up to sex but everyone has their own fit and some people ban it totally! What’s your thing? "

100% OP it’s a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of kissing yes

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