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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious as to what's everyone's go to thing to do on a first meet. I know some people like to meet for coffee or others for food.

My favourite social meet is to go on a walk or hike with the person. Makes any nerves that are there to dissappear and makes both individuals at ease

Let me know what you guys like to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious as to what's everyone's go to thing to do on a first meet. I know some people like to meet for coffee or others for food.

My favourite social meet is to go on a walk or hike with the person. Makes any nerves that are there to dissappear and makes both individuals at ease

Let me know what you guys like to do "

I too like to lead initial meets into a secluded woodland or mountain like area - nice and lonesome, no one around for miles - not even a phone reception

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just curious as to what's everyone's go to thing to do on a first meet. I know some people like to meet for coffee or others for food.

My favourite social meet is to go on a walk or hike with the person. Makes any nerves that are there to dissappear and makes both individuals at ease

Let me know what you guys like to do

I too like to lead initial meets into a secluded woodland or mountain like area - nice and lonesome, no one around for miles - not even a phone reception "

Well that doesn't sound half creepy at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Well that doesn't sound half creepy at all "

Oh it's not creepy at all... There's tree limbs for rope.... Bogs for handy digging and disposal....

I mean - It's not like I'd actually DO anything... It's more so "the IMPLICATION", ya feel me bro?

I got a system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd avoid like the plague anyone wanting to have a first social meet in any sort of seclusion. It would make me wildly uncomfortable and I'd seriously question the motives of anyone suggesting it.

A coffee shop for me. It's neutral, public, and easy to walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like walks.. In public places, I think it can be easier to talk and get each others vibe..

Coffee shops are good too when open lol i wouldn't do drinks as a first meet because I don't make wise decisions after 2 or 3 lol

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"I like walks.. In public places, I think it can be easier to talk and get each others vibe..

Coffee shops are good too when open lol i wouldn't do drinks as a first meet because I don't make wise decisions after 2 or 3 lol"

Era no-one makes wise decisions at that hour of the morning

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Good old fashioned axe throwing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like walks.. In public places, I think it can be easier to talk and get each others vibe..

Coffee shops are good too when open lol i wouldn't do drinks as a first meet because I don't make wise decisions after 2 or 3 lol

Era no-one makes wise decisions at that hour of the morning "

I meant 2 or 3 drinks lol

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"I like walks.. In public places, I think it can be easier to talk and get each others vibe..

Coffee shops are good too when open lol i wouldn't do drinks as a first meet because I don't make wise decisions after 2 or 3 lol

Era no-one makes wise decisions at that hour of the morning

I meant 2 or 3 drinks lol "

Oh, that makes sense

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

Definitely a coffee and a walk in a public setting. Possibly drinks when things were more normal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good old fashioned axe throwing"

DUCK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing of course "

Can't wait till we meet Boo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee and a walk around weather permitting of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing of course

Can't wait till we meet Boo. "

For the thousandth time Batshit!

Kaizer ain't gonna shift ya

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Kissing of course

Can't wait till we meet Boo.

For the thousandth time Batshit!

Kaizer ain't gonna shift ya "

Oh this I need to see....

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"

Well that doesn't sound half creepy at all

Oh it's not creepy at all... There's tree limbs for rope.... Bogs for handy digging and disposal....

I mean - It's not like I'd actually DO anything... It's more so "the IMPLICATION", ya feel me bro?

I got a system. "

Love it when someone makes Philly references. Well done, sir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing of course

Can't wait till we meet Boo.

For the thousandth time Batshit!

Kaizer ain't gonna shift ya

Oh this I need to see.... "

Kaizer just got sick in his mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing of course

Can't wait till we meet Boo.

For the thousandth time Batshit!

Kaizer ain't gonna shift ya "

Ah ye all say that, till you get a peek at my baby blues!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I don't know if it would be suitable for a first date but a friend on mine when we were in our twenties reckoned that if he was ever going to propose to a woman he'd bring her to the graveyard and his family plot, then ask the classic question... "would ya like to be buried with my people?"

Strangely enough, he's still single

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I don't know if it would be suitable for a first date but a friend on mine when we were in our twenties reckoned that if he was ever going to propose to a woman he'd bring her to the graveyard and his family plot, then ask the classic question... "would ya like to be buried with my people?"

Strangely enough, he's still single "

Strange that eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing of course

Can't wait till we meet Boo.

For the thousandth time Batshit!

Kaizer ain't gonna shift ya

Ah ye all say that, till you get a peek at my baby blues! "

Shiver me timbers big boy

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"I don't know if it would be suitable for a first date but a friend on mine when we were in our twenties reckoned that if he was ever going to propose to a woman he'd bring her to the graveyard and his family plot, then ask the classic question... "would ya like to be buried with my people?"

Strangely enough, he's still single "

friend eh

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I don't know if it would be suitable for a first date but a friend on mine when we were in our twenties reckoned that if he was ever going to propose to a woman he'd bring her to the graveyard and his family plot, then ask the classic question... "would ya like to be buried with my people?"

Strangely enough, he's still single

friend eh "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I don't know if it would be suitable for a first date but a friend on mine when we were in our twenties reckoned that if he was ever going to propose to a woman he'd bring her to the graveyard and his family plot, then ask the classic question... "would ya like to be buried with my people?"

Strangely enough, he's still single

Strange that eh "

Sure the wimmin don't know a good thing when they see it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest something dangerous for a first meet; like swimming with sharks. If they say yes you know they're definitely interested.....and possibly crazy

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I don't know if it would be suitable for a first date but a friend on mine when we were in our twenties reckoned that if he was ever going to propose to a woman he'd bring her to the graveyard and his family plot, then ask the classic question... "would ya like to be buried with my people?"

Strangely enough, he's still single

Strange that eh

Sure the wimmin don't know a good thing when they see it! "

Just too fussy that's the issue

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I usually would meet for a coffee somewhere public. In saying that I have done 2 walks for a first meet. It all depends on the person I'm chatting to.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I don't know if it would be suitable for a first date but a friend on mine when we were in our twenties reckoned that if he was ever going to propose to a woman he'd bring her to the graveyard and his family plot, then ask the classic question... "would ya like to be buried with my people?"

Strangely enough, he's still single

Strange that eh

Sure the wimmin don't know a good thing when they see it!

Just too fussy that's the issue "

Sure y'know yourself like...

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Our last social was a coffee in a lovely park. A walk around the park deflected from the reason we were there, so the nerves disappeared and we had a very open conversation as a result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee or a drink is just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our last social was a coffee in a lovely park. A walk around the park deflected from the reason we were there, so the nerves disappeared and we had a very open conversation as a result "

Ye this sounds good...

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Apart from coffee, drinks and walks.

A game of pool, mini golf and ice skating are also good solid options. And no, it doesn't have to be a date of any kind. Different activities will add reason to converse and communicate with a new person.

I went as far as Pokemon hunting numerous times with a fellow fabber and we genuinely had a blast.

Missus

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Our last social was a coffee in a lovely park. A walk around the park deflected from the reason we were there, so the nerves disappeared and we had a very open conversation as a result

Ye this sounds good... "

Bring the runners, we'll go for a jog instead

Don't spill the coffee

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

Favourite place we got asked to go was skating rink brought back memories of my youth...

But a few drinks In our not so local is usually the spot for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our last social was a coffee in a lovely park. A walk around the park deflected from the reason we were there, so the nerves disappeared and we had a very open conversation as a result

Ye this sounds good...

Bring the runners, we'll go for a jog instead

Don't spill the coffee "

I’ll bring my travel cup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Favourite place we got asked to go was skating rink brought back memories of my youth...

But a few drinks In our not so local is usually the spot for us "

Ah the ice rink.. hard to be smooth when your falling on your arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice quite intimate pub where you can find a nice quite intimate corner so you can listen to the lady ...nothing as bad as a busy place and all hustle and bussle going on all around you..an intimate place for an intimate chat...

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"Yeah I'd avoid like the plague anyone wanting to have a first social meet in any sort of seclusion. It would make me wildly uncomfortable and I'd seriously question the motives of anyone suggesting it.

A coffee shop for me. It's neutral, public, and easy to walk away "

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Coffee, for me. Public place, nobody passes any remarks on two (or three) people sitting having a chat and it's as natural a setting as any to chat and eye each other up. That, and I like coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite preference is a coffee somewere. Walk would be OK once it's in a public setting. Anything but a cinema meet..

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We have enjoyed a quiet drink in a bar or over a coffee and have also done a social walk which was fun and flirty, and maybe a quick flash

Mrs Gs

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Just curious as to what's everyone's go to thing to do on a first meet. I know some people like to meet for coffee or others for food.

My favourite social meet is to go on a walk or hike with the person. Makes any nerves that are there to dissappear and makes both individuals at ease

Let me know what you guys like to do "
you'll be waiting an awful long time for a meet on here.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

The weather's changed but a takaway coffee and a walk on a beach is nice

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Coffee meet best ..service station or cafe ..have had a few takeaway outdoor since lockdown..

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