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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

I said to a person today I'm fussy, I need physical attraction. the reply was that makes you very vain. whats your view?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

That's a nonsensical response

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

How can you be vain if your not attracted to someone

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"How can you be vain if your not attracted to someone "
I'd say she was saying because I'm very fussy, I'm vain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fussy than as I definitely have to be attracted to someone to have fun and im definitely not vain.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"How can you be vain if your not attracted to someone I'd say she was saying because I'm very fussy, I'm vain "
still don't make you vain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh shite i must be vain also. Its so selfish to think that sometimes you like to be physically attracted to someone. I mean what's the world coming to . The cheek of some ppl

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Why would wanting to find someone attractive make you vain. That makes no sense.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Ahhh shite i must be vain also. Its so selfish to think that sometimes you like to be physically attracted to someone. I mean what's the world coming to . The cheek of some ppl "

Youre so vain you probably think this song is about you,

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Why would wanting to find someone attractive make you vain. That makes no sense. "
said there is alot more important stuff then physical attraction

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Why would wanting to find someone attractive make you vain. That makes no sense. said there is alot more important stuff then physical attraction "

Sure but it depends on what context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they meant to say shallow not vain but regardless of that, its not a crime or bad thing to need physical attraction. Physical attraction is an amazing feeling. I love seeing beautiful people.

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

No we totally agree with you on this point, it ain't shallow it's being honest, we certainly need the physical attraction xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say it's shallow or vain at all. If there's no physical attraction then for me, it's not happening. Who I find attractive may not be someone else's cup of tea at all but one thing is certain, if I don't fancy them then there'll be no riding them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a physical reaction for sure? Anyone who says different is probably lying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Yes definitely physical attraction is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all love that connection but anyone that says physical attraction isn't important is lying. Not vain at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical Attraction yes to draw me in but a good personality keeps me more interested as time goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need much more than physical attraction for me it's the psychological connection and chemistry that works. When i entered the world of fab first it was all a novelty but now i know what works and what doesn't. Physical attraction is definitely important for me OP never mind that person you are not vein at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physical Attraction yes to draw me in but a good personality keeps me more interested as time goes on."
that is so true... And you can have good laugh too

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Physical Attraction yes to draw me in but a good personality keeps me more interested as time goes on."

I would say that a good personality contributes to making a person physically attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find when you’re attracted to someone the more u start to like them the more attractive they become to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imo if there is no attraction it’s just cold sex if ye meet. Attraction is a good part of the fun. The anticipation of meeting someone for the first time with the attraction on both sides makes the meet worth while

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe she meant you were shallow if you based it on physical attraction alone?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Vain is when you're obsessed with your own appearance, other people's looks have very little to do with that.

Anyhow it's ridiculous to make a character trait out of someone's sexual selection factors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all vain so cause it's a very important part as well as the chemistry. If you don't have that on a meet the fun wouldn't be enjoyable.. That's for me anyway

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I'm vein as well then cause I have to have to have an attraction as well to the person ...

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

for me you have to be physically attracted to the person in some way. that pulls you in and then a good personality keeps you there.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

I find the personality is way more important than physical looks..to know a persons mind and being aware that they understand you is riveting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be a physical reaction for sure? Anyone who says different is probably lying lol"

For me beautiful eyes and smile are physically attractive. People might be super fit but if I cannot tick two boxes altogether then nothing really would happen.

For you it could be a fit sexy blonde, etc

People have own standards/preferences and they lead them to whom they want to chat and meet.

I had a pleasure to chat with a person I've never seen before. She was charming by just exchanging the mails.

I was in shock when met her first time. I had imagined a few times how beauty she is: big blue eyes and amazing smile but what I've seen was too perfect to be real. Her smile made me wanting her! It was really hard to control myself

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

what I don't have is a "type". i find an array of women attractive

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"for me you have to be physically attracted to the person in some way. that pulls you in and then a good personality keeps you there. "

For once we agree

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"for me you have to be physically attracted to the person in some way. that pulls you in and then a good personality keeps you there.

For once we agree "
I'd say you agree with me on alot and just say otherwise

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Physical attraction isn't important... it's necessary. Otherwise there will be no hardon and no lubrication. It's not fussy or shallow to require an erection to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction is vital

It’s not a relationship I’m after so personality and humour isn’t my first priority and I’m not interested in quantity so quality it is

Yep that makes me shallow but I don’t care

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

Guess I'm vain too.

I have to be physically attracted to someone to wanna jump their bones

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By *uscious louWoman
over a year ago

dublin

I’m obviously vain too definitely has to be physical attraction otherwise it’s pointless

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

The good news is that in the real world different people find different things attractive.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Didnt realise till now but I'm not vain

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Didnt realise till now but I'm not vain "

I think you're saying you'll literally fuck anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No attraction No erection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didnt realise till now but I'm not vain

I think you're saying you'll literally fuck anyone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction gets you interested....anything after that brings you back

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