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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do so many men send messages along the lines of "I want to dress you up in....bla bla bla"?

I am not a doll. You don't get to dress me in anything.

Do other women find this as irritating as me? Or are there ladies out there who would be into it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a similar message this afternoon.. I wanna dress you up in short skirt and heels..boring from random strangers

When it's someone im actually involved with.. Its hot

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I’d be more inclined to undress you OP than dress you up

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

But Im Ken.... permanent smile made of plastic and no penis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not even a plastic penis?

It doesn't neccessarily need to be attached to your body

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Swinger Barbie could be all the rage this Christmas. Just think of the accessories.

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint


"Why do so many men send messages along the lines of "I want to dress you up in....bla bla bla"?

I am not a doll. You don't get to dress me in anything.

Do other women find this as irritating as me? Or are there ladies out there who would be into it?"

Come Barbie let’s go party!!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

this has never been said to me. I feel left out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this has never been said to me. I feel left out lol"

Oh I'm so sorry. Here...

I want to dress you up in a nice wolly jumper and comfy pants and sit you by the fire with a nice cup of tea.

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

I think cloths look a lot better when they are on the floor and theres a naked naughty lady standing beside them!

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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Funnily enough when I'm naked people usually ask me to put clothes on...lol

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"this has never been said to me. I feel left out lol

Oh I'm so sorry. Here...

I want to dress you up in a nice wolly jumper and comfy pants and sit you by the fire with a nice cup of tea. "

im not saying no to that offer!!!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"this has never been said to me. I feel left out lol

Oh I'm so sorry. Here...

I want to dress you up in a nice wolly jumper and comfy pants and sit you by the fire with a nice cup of tea. "

But in all seriousness if a fella messaged me that hed be told where to go fairly lively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get told to put my clothes back on oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to put you in heels stockings and a short skirt and watch you from behind as you walk"

Yip got this message

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I think they're just trying to be different, but its cringe alright

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By *umonyou999Man
over a year ago

newtownabbey

You seem to be doing an amazing job of it yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you're not a person, just an object for their gratification

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell


""I'd love to put you in heels stockings and a short skirt and watch you from behind as you walk"

Yip got this message "

Seems he was definitely doing the rounds haha

We all must have got it.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye I have gotten a few of theses messages they just make me roll my eyes a lot. Or the ones who will buy me lingerie so I can wear it for them as well. Nah thanks random people offering this will never appeal.

Dressing up a certain way for someone I meet tho well that's definitely a turn on and something I'm very happy to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many men send messages along the lines of "I want to dress you up in....bla bla bla"?

I am not a doll. You don't get to dress me in anything.

Do other women find this as irritating as me? Or are there ladies out there who would be into it?"
i remember seeing a program about men that get sexual kick out of dolls and mannequins. There are companies that make them and very real looking. Bit odd but each to own! For the rest of us normal guys i think we prefer undress a woman rather than dress her up like some barbie doll!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get told to put my clothes back on oops"

I certainly wouldn’t want you to put them back on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What!!! Yous actually receive these, bit of a head scratcher that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know if anybody remembers the early ninties film Boxing Helena but it gives me those kind of vibes.

I actually asked one fella if he wanted to keep me on a shelf so he could take me down and play with me whenever he wanted. He said "yea that'd be awesome"

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By *entleman PoliteMan
over a year ago

Mars

Why am I singing the song?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Nobody will ever tell me what to wear as i wear what i want. I hate it when men state they want to play with me as it puts me in mind of a toy which will be discarded when bored with it. Words say so much so should be used properly.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kaizer gets this too... Alot!

You know what ladies, the Manbeast is much more than a ridiculously beautiful hunk o' flesh

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I don't know if anybody remembers the early ninties film Boxing Helena but it gives me those kind of vibes.

I actually asked one fella if he wanted to keep me on a shelf so he could take me down and play with me whenever he wanted. He said "yea that'd be awesome"

"

Did he want to cut off your arms and legs to just leave you arsing about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know if anybody remembers the early ninties film Boxing Helena but it gives me those kind of vibes.

I actually asked one fella if he wanted to keep me on a shelf so he could take me down and play with me whenever he wanted. He said "yea that'd be awesome"

Did he want to cut off your arms and legs to just leave you arsing about "

It is a good arse though. I suppose it's had to blame him

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I don't know if anybody remembers the early ninties film Boxing Helena but it gives me those kind of vibes.

I actually asked one fella if he wanted to keep me on a shelf so he could take me down and play with me whenever he wanted. He said "yea that'd be awesome"

Did he want to cut off your arms and legs to just leave you arsing about

It is a good arse though. I suppose it's had to blame him "

And it would give him somewhere to park the oul bike

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

What's wrong to dress up in a certain way if it turns your meet on?

As for the random dress up messages, it's just a random message, right? Use it as a filter if it gets you worked up.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Why do so many men send messages along the lines of "I want to dress you up in....bla bla bla"?

I am not a doll. You don't get to dress me in anything.

Do other women find this as irritating as me? Or are there ladies out there who would be into it?"

...so you’re saying that these guys quote part of a Popular Madonna song, can’t remember the rest and just improvise the end of it with “bla bla bla”...?

Bizarre. Personally I wouldn’t even respond to them since they can’t even be bothered to google the rest of the song.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more into taking cloths off than putting them on haha

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By *-d83Man
over a year ago

derry


"Why do so many men send messages along the lines of "I want to dress you up in....bla bla bla"?

I am not a doll. You don't get to dress me in anything.

Do other women find this as irritating as me? Or are there ladies out there who would be into it?"

Judging by your pics I'd say you've already got the outfits sorted OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many men send messages along the lines of "I want to dress you up in....bla bla bla"?

I am not a doll. You don't get to dress me in anything.

Do other women find this as irritating as me? Or are there ladies out there who would be into it?"

Never heard the likes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you're not a person, just an object for their gratification"

I’m not being funny but... there are a lot of profiles that read .. ye I’m fine.. my mornings great.. stop sending banal messages.. the prompt seen by a lot of guys would be say something original.. dressing up is obviously what a lot of guys have decided.. is in some way original.. having said that Puddles is perfect the way she is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies enjoy that kind of stuff in my experience, to know what you are imagining and to help realise it.

Others don’t. I guess it would be a good move from men not to assume ALL women do.

To avoid encountering it, if it drives you nuts (bearing in mind this is online and people can often be anonymous so they tend to err towards more stupid) you could say as much in your profile?

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