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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss." we're in the middle of a pandemic...there's not meant to be meets There's a huge amount of fake profiles with fake cam profiles Why should people have to be verified | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. we're in the middle of a pandemic...there's not meant to be meets There's a huge amount of fake profiles with fake cam profiles Why should people have to be verified " There's a huge amount of real profiles with fake cam veris also. Actual meets disguised as such | |||
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"No. Not everyone is on the same journey and not everyone is here to rack up verifications. Some people are only finding their feet and exploring a whole new world which shouldn't have a time limit." You don’t need to rack up the verifications. But they certainly serve a purpose. Could be right on the time limit. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. we're in the middle of a pandemic...there's not meant to be meets There's a huge amount of fake profiles with fake cam profiles Why should people have to be verified " Your not in favour of people being verified? | |||
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"I rarely take heed of the cam verifications . They hold nothing for me . As others have said a lot of fake profiles seem to have Cam verifications. " Absolutely which is absolutely pointless. Verifications are incredibly important on this site. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss." Also I've met a man a few times and neither of us have verified each other. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. we're in the middle of a pandemic...there's not meant to be meets There's a huge amount of fake profiles with fake cam profiles Why should people have to be verified Your not in favour of people being verified?" I read verifications but what percentage of them use the exact same phrases everytime Have you ever read a bad one | |||
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"I rarely take heed of the cam verifications . They hold nothing for me . As others have said a lot of fake profiles seem to have Cam verifications. Absolutely which is absolutely pointless. Verifications are incredibly important on this site. " They are important to a sense that the person has showed up . But has anyone ever read a verification where the person they have met hasn't been anything but amazing | |||
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"What does a verification do for a profile Some verifications are 20 people saying hello to the same person in a club Verifications are a snapshot of someone in a moment of time Doesn't mean they're going to turn up for a meet the next time " Verifications prove, the person is real, that they have actually met people, that they’re genuine. You’re talking about the verifications in such small details and are taking about exceptions and not the rule. Answer me this. Would you be more like to meet or share a face pic with a profile with a few verifications from other people or with a profile that was on here 12 months with no verifications? | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. we're in the middle of a pandemic...there's not meant to be meets There's a huge amount of fake profiles with fake cam profiles Why should people have to be verified Your not in favour of people being verified? I read verifications but what percentage of them use the exact same phrases everytime Have you ever read a bad one " Exactly this | |||
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"I rarely take heed of the cam verifications . They hold nothing for me . As others have said a lot of fake profiles seem to have Cam verifications. Absolutely which is absolutely pointless. Verifications are incredibly important on this site. Absolutely need to take them with a pinch a salt but they serve a purpose They are important to a sense that the person has showed up . But has anyone ever read a verification where the person they have met hasn't been anything but amazing " | |||
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"I rarely take heed of the cam verifications . They hold nothing for me . As others have said a lot of fake profiles seem to have Cam verifications. Absolutely which is absolutely pointless. Verifications are incredibly important on this site. " A verification would never encourage me to meet someone but depending on who it's from could certainly discourage me. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. we're in the middle of a pandemic...there's not meant to be meets There's a huge amount of fake profiles with fake cam profiles Why should people have to be verified Your not in favour of people being verified? I read verifications but what percentage of them use the exact same phrases everytime Have you ever read a bad one " I’ve read ones that are one liners and one that are paragraphs long. It’s easy to use your head and differentiate | |||
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"What does a verification do for a profile Some verifications are 20 people saying hello to the same person in a club Verifications are a snapshot of someone in a moment of time Doesn't mean they're going to turn up for a meet the next time Verifications prove, the person is real, that they have actually met people, that they’re genuine. You’re talking about the verifications in such small details and are taking about exceptions and not the rule. Answer me this. Would you be more like to meet or share a face pic with a profile with a few verifications from other people or with a profile that was on here 12 months with no verifications?" You are very naive if you believe a verification proves someone is real. There are many profiles on here that have verified themselves | |||
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"I rarely take heed of the cam verifications . They hold nothing for me . As others have said a lot of fake profiles seem to have Cam verifications. Absolutely which is absolutely pointless. Verifications are incredibly important on this site. A verification would never encourage me to meet someone but depending on who it's from could certainly discourage me. " So you agreed they are needed on this site then? | |||
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"What does a verification do for a profile Some verifications are 20 people saying hello to the same person in a club Verifications are a snapshot of someone in a moment of time Doesn't mean they're going to turn up for a meet the next time Verifications prove, the person is real, that they have actually met people, that they’re genuine. You’re talking about the verifications in such small details and are taking about exceptions and not the rule. Answer me this. Would you be more like to meet or share a face pic with a profile with a few verifications from other people or with a profile that was on here 12 months with no verifications? You are very naive if you believe a verification proves someone is real. There are many profiles on here that have verified themselves" Can you answer the question please? | |||
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"I came across a profile last night offering cam veris to new users. How does a cam veri prove your not fake or a time waster. I find veris important as I least I know the guy is real, will turn up to meet. " Absolutely this. Certainly helps remove time wasters aswell | |||
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"What does a verification do for a profile Some verifications are 20 people saying hello to the same person in a club Verifications are a snapshot of someone in a moment of time Doesn't mean they're going to turn up for a meet the next time Verifications prove, the person is real, that they have actually met people, that they’re genuine. You’re talking about the verifications in such small details and are taking about exceptions and not the rule. Answer me this. Would you be more like to meet or share a face pic with a profile with a few verifications from other people or with a profile that was on here 12 months with no verifications?" Well honestly it would depend on who verified them. One quality verification be it 12 months old is much better than someone who has weekly verifications of which is repetitive and all say the same things about the guys. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss." No I don't think so. Veris don't mean a lot at the end of the day they certainly don't mean a profile isn't fake. Especially cam and pic veris I always take with a pinch of salt. Plenty of people meet and don't veri each other as well. And especially at this time it's very difficult for people especially men to get a veri so to put a time limit on that would be unfair. | |||
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"I rarely take heed of the cam verifications . They hold nothing for me . As others have said a lot of fake profiles seem to have Cam verifications. Absolutely which is absolutely pointless. Verifications are incredibly important on this site. A verification would never encourage me to meet someone but depending on who it's from could certainly discourage me. " Absolutely | |||
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"What does a verification do for a profile Some verifications are 20 people saying hello to the same person in a club Verifications are a snapshot of someone in a moment of time Doesn't mean they're going to turn up for a meet the next time Verifications prove, the person is real, that they have actually met people, that they’re genuine. You’re talking about the verifications in such small details and are taking about exceptions and not the rule. Answer me this. Would you be more like to meet or share a face pic with a profile with a few verifications from other people or with a profile that was on here 12 months with no verifications? Well honestly it would depend on who verified them. One quality verification be it 12 months old is much better than someone who has weekly verifications of which is repetitive and all say the same things about the guys." Yup definitely this. Quality over quantity. | |||
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"What does a verification do for a profile Some verifications are 20 people saying hello to the same person in a club Verifications are a snapshot of someone in a moment of time Doesn't mean they're going to turn up for a meet the next time Verifications prove, the person is real, that they have actually met people, that they’re genuine. You’re talking about the verifications in such small details and are taking about exceptions and not the rule. Answer me this. Would you be more like to meet or share a face pic with a profile with a few verifications from other people or with a profile that was on here 12 months with no verifications? You are very naive if you believe a verification proves someone is real. There are many profiles on here that have verified themselves Can you answer the question please?" I've said all I'm saying on the subject. Don't start a thread if you are going to demand answers | |||
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"What does a verification do for a profile Some verifications are 20 people saying hello to the same person in a club Verifications are a snapshot of someone in a moment of time Doesn't mean they're going to turn up for a meet the next time Verifications prove, the person is real, that they have actually met people, that they’re genuine. You’re talking about the verifications in such small details and are taking about exceptions and not the rule. Answer me this. Would you be more like to meet or share a face pic with a profile with a few verifications from other people or with a profile that was on here 12 months with no verifications? You are very naive if you believe a verification proves someone is real. There are many profiles on here that have verified themselves Can you answer the question please? I've said all I'm saying on the subject. Don't start a thread if you are going to demand answers" Demand hahahahhaha | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss." I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. | |||
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"Just getting back to your question If someone is not verified within 6 months what should happen to them " The naughty chair | |||
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"Just getting back to your question If someone is not verified within 6 months what should happen to them The naughty chair " Ohh now that could be fun | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. " What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site | |||
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"Just getting back to your question If someone is not verified within 6 months what should happen to them The naughty chair " Ffs there's a chair as well as a step | |||
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"Just getting back to your question If someone is not verified within 6 months what should happen to them The naughty chair Ohh now that could be fun " Plenty of Room Miss Bo | |||
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"Just getting back to your question If someone is not verified within 6 months what should happen to them The naughty chair Ffs there's a chair as well as a step " The chair is the 2nd strike | |||
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"At the end of the day some judge their popularity on how many verifications they have, then there are those who don't care. " And than theres the few that do judge on the number of veris a person has. I got a message once saying I got around a bit with all mine lol | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site " I think I was 9 months here before I was verifed. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site " The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months | |||
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"At the end of the day some judge their popularity on how many verifications they have, then there are those who don't care. And than theres the few that do judge on the number of veris a person has. I got a message once saying I got around a bit with all mine lol" Yes well I got judged for not having enough and that was by a woman, she also said she couldn't understand why I was in fab too . Rather odd lady. | |||
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"At the end of the day some judge their popularity on how many verifications they have, then there are those who don't care. And than theres the few that do judge on the number of veris a person has. I got a message once saying I got around a bit with all mine lol Yes well I got judged for not having enough and that was by a woman, she also said she couldn't understand why I was in fab too . Rather odd lady." The joys of fab lol | |||
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"At the end of the day some judge their popularity on how many verifications they have, then there are those who don't care. " This exactly. And everyone has a right to have or not have veris. Just like if you show them or not. And anyhow if you actually talk to someone you usually get a pretty good idea if they are genuine or not. I've met several unverified people all showed up when we arranged to meet. The only time I do take notice is if it is a veri from someone where I'd rather just avoid any drama that might follow if you meet the person. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months " Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? | |||
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"At the end of the day some judge their popularity on how many verifications they have, then there are those who don't care. And than theres the few that do judge on the number of veris a person has. I got a message once saying I got around a bit with all mine lol" Ah now seriously that's nuts. | |||
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"At the end of the day some judge their popularity on how many verifications they have, then there are those who don't care. This exactly. And everyone has a right to have or not have veris. Just like if you show them or not. And anyhow if you actually talk to someone you usually get a pretty good idea if they are genuine or not. I've met several unverified people all showed up when we arranged to meet. The only time I do take notice is if it is a veri from someone where I'd rather just avoid any drama that might follow if you meet the person. " Absolutely totally see how they serve a purpose when you want to avoid someone | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers?" What would you suggest ? | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months " I'm in that category, I have clearly stated I'm not interested in meeting just yet so does that mean I should be banned from the site op? Or as Bog M asked what do you suggest happens to me? | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? What would you suggest ? " If your unable to meet you would send a pic to admin to verify yourself. | |||
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"At the end of the day some judge their popularity on how many verifications they have, then there are those who don't care. This exactly. And everyone has a right to have or not have veris. Just like if you show them or not. And anyhow if you actually talk to someone you usually get a pretty good idea if they are genuine or not. I've met several unverified people all showed up when we arranged to meet. The only time I do take notice is if it is a veri from someone where I'd rather just avoid any drama that might follow if you meet the person. Absolutely totally see how they serve a purpose when you want to avoid someone " Not all veris are shown so not necessarily tho. I still don't agree someone needs to be veried in 6 months tho. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months I'm in that category, I have clearly stated I'm not interested in meeting just yet so does that mean I should be banned from the site op? Or as Bog M asked what do you suggest happens to me? " Are you not photo verified? | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? What would you suggest ? If your unable to meet you would send a pic to admin to verify yourself. " That will only clarify if whether you're a man or a woman. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers?" A thread a few months ago asked are you a swinger. Most people that answered said no that they can't be classified as swingers | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? A thread a few months ago asked are you a swinger. Most people that answered said no that they can't be classified as swingers " Why can’t they be classified as swingers? | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? What would you suggest ? If your unable to meet you would send a pic to admin to verify yourself. That will only clarify if whether you're a man or a woman. " Only show much can be done but it won’t still give it an extra layer. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? A thread a few months ago asked are you a swinger. Most people that answered said no that they can't be classified as swingers " who needs labels . We are all here for what we want to get out of Fab. So what if some just want chat or others want to meet. We all have a right to chose for ourselves and do what makes us happy. As long as someone is respectful of others they in my eyes should be allowed here with being categorised or labelled. | |||
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"At the end of the day some judge their popularity on how many verifications they have, then there are those who don't care. This exactly. And everyone has a right to have or not have veris. Just like if you show them or not. And anyhow if you actually talk to someone you usually get a pretty good idea if they are genuine or not. I've met several unverified people all showed up when we arranged to meet. The only time I do take notice is if it is a veri from someone where I'd rather just avoid any drama that might follow if you meet the person. Absolutely totally see how they serve a purpose when you want to avoid someone Not all veris are shown so not necessarily tho. I still don't agree someone needs to be veried in 6 months tho. " Not even with a pic? | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? What would you suggest ? If your unable to meet you would send a pic to admin to verify yourself. That will only clarify if whether you're a man or a woman. Only show much can be done but it won’t still give it an extra layer." What do you mean I don't understand. | |||
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"Photo verification should be mandatory, if for no other reason than to prove you are over 18. Since there's no 'live' pic option here, some sort of timed random photo, touching your left eyebrow with your right finger (or one of many other combos of pics) to be provided within five minutes of the request would work. No-one has yet to give a decent explanation as to why someone could be on here for months without anyone in charge having seen something that proves they're legal to be here. " Thank you! | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? What would you suggest ? If your unable to meet you would send a pic to admin to verify yourself. That will only clarify if whether you're a man or a woman. Only show much can be done but it won’t still give it an extra layer. What do you mean I don't understand. " Sorry auto correct. Would you not feel safer and more comfortable knowing that someone has shared a pic of themselves with admin like you have? Level playing field. | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? " I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? What would you suggest ? If your unable to meet you would send a pic to admin to verify yourself. That will only clarify if whether you're a man or a woman. Only show much can be done but it won’t still give it an extra layer. What do you mean I don't understand. Sorry auto correct. Would you not feel safer and more comfortable knowing that someone has shared a pic of themselves with admin like you have? Level playing field. " Actually no. As all it proves is that they are male or female . Admin know nothing about who they are . | |||
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"At the end of the day some judge their popularity on how many verifications they have, then there are those who don't care. This exactly. And everyone has a right to have or not have veris. Just like if you show them or not. And anyhow if you actually talk to someone you usually get a pretty good idea if they are genuine or not. I've met several unverified people all showed up when we arranged to meet. The only time I do take notice is if it is a veri from someone where I'd rather just avoid any drama that might follow if you meet the person. Absolutely totally see how they serve a purpose when you want to avoid someone Not all veris are shown so not necessarily tho. I still don't agree someone needs to be veried in 6 months tho. Not even with a pic?" No I've seen quite a few profiles that are not real with pic veris so as far as I'm concerned photo veris mean nothing. There are a few that even pop up on the forums pretty regularly that have pic veri sometimes and veris every time that are fake as hell. | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ?" Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. I've just checked my veris there is 6 months between my last two veris, why should I be "punished" or whatever you think should happen if a person doesn't have a recent veri. What I was trying to say was once you sign up you have a certain window to be verified. Like 6 months as an example. You don’t have to have recent ones. Just one within a certain time frame of starting on the site The site survives because of the amount of people that pay to be a site supporter How many of them are not verified and no meets The site wouldn't survive if these people were thrown off after 6 months Why would they be thrown off? Surely if they join a swinging site there should be an acceptance that they would need to eventually meet fellow swingers? What would you suggest ? If your unable to meet you would send a pic to admin to verify yourself. That will only clarify if whether you're a man or a woman. Only show much can be done but it won’t still give it an extra layer. What do you mean I don't understand. Sorry auto correct. Would you not feel safer and more comfortable knowing that someone has shared a pic of themselves with admin like you have? Level playing field. Actually no. As all it proves is that they are male or female . Admin know nothing about who they are . " It proves there willing to share a pic. Surely that’s better than someone who is not willing to share a pic. What reason would someone have not to share a pic? | |||
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"Op I do read verifications but sometimes they tell you more by what you cant see instead of what you can How many people have veris by only hidden profiles or by people that haven't been on the site in yrs Thats no good to anyone looking them up Cam veris now are just a way of by-passing the no meets rule because everyone of them is an actual meet What should happen to people with no verifications " But your still using them to make a judgment. Lol do you not see the irony of you comment? Why would someone not share a pic within 6 months of joining up? Be given a warning or the account restricted. | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic?" so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? | |||
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"I got messages from a guy who was meet, photo and cam verified I did a reverse Google search on his pictures he was using pictures of a deceased z list celebrity explain to me how all those verifications kept anyone safe op? " This happens so much here. | |||
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"I got messages from a guy who was meet, photo and cam verified I did a reverse Google search on his pictures he was using pictures of a deceased z list celebrity explain to me how all those verifications kept anyone safe op? This happens so much here. " Why did the other people verify him? What did admin say when you reported him? | |||
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"I got messages from a guy who was meet, photo and cam verified I did a reverse Google search on his pictures he was using pictures of a deceased z list celebrity explain to me how all those verifications kept anyone safe op? This happens so much here. Why did the other people verify him? What did admin say when you reported him?" In my experience this could be a guy who is using more than one account here and has verified himself though fake accounts. | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ?" You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? | |||
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"I got messages from a guy who was meet, photo and cam verified I did a reverse Google search on his pictures he was using pictures of a deceased z list celebrity explain to me how all those verifications kept anyone safe op? This happens so much here. Why did the other people verify him? What did admin say when you reported him?" Admin never reply to you on reports | |||
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"I think if ppl have been on fab even 6 months to a year is great time to rack a few if any verifications up.....I know most of mine are cam ones but I've met a good lot in 9 months....find it strange if talking to someone who's been on here even a year but no verifications or pictures up? Or is that just me? " No that would be good behaviour and you being safe | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months?" Because they don't want to. I didn't do one for I'd say at least 9 months and why because I couldn't be bothered. | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months?" Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here. | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here." Did it work | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here." But you were still verified | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here. But you were still verified " Yeah but it took me over 6 months to get meey verified from the time I joined so I'd have had to delete my profile before I'd ever got verified. | |||
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"Op I do read verifications but sometimes they tell you more by what you cant see instead of what you can How many people have veris by only hidden profiles or by people that haven't been on the site in yrs Thats no good to anyone looking them up Cam veris now are just a way of by-passing the no meets rule because everyone of them is an actual meet What should happen to people with no verifications But your still using them to make a judgment. Lol do you not see the irony of you comment? Why would someone not share a pic within 6 months of joining up? Be given a warning or the account restricted. " Everything about a profile is used to make a judgement We both looked at each others profile since this thread started because we've never had any interaction before so we make a judgement about each other and have a conversation on here I did say I read verifications but to be honest any meet I've had is based on my own intuition in dealing with the people or couple in private conversations. Some people find it hard to find their feet on here and I don't think they should be punished for that | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here. But you were still verified Yeah but it took me over 6 months to get meey verified from the time I joined so I'd have had to delete my profile before I'd ever got verified." Why would have had to delete your profile? | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here. But you were still verified Yeah but it took me over 6 months to get meey verified from the time I joined so I'd have had to delete my profile before I'd ever got verified. Why would have had to delete your profile?" Because I didn't want to get photo verified so it would have been 6 months no verification. Under your rule I would have had to do what exactly ? | |||
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"Op I do read verifications but sometimes they tell you more by what you cant see instead of what you can How many people have veris by only hidden profiles or by people that haven't been on the site in yrs Thats no good to anyone looking them up Cam veris now are just a way of by-passing the no meets rule because everyone of them is an actual meet What should happen to people with no verifications But your still using them to make a judgment. Lol do you not see the irony of you comment? Why would someone not share a pic within 6 months of joining up? Be given a warning or the account restricted. Everything about a profile is used to make a judgement We both looked at each others profile since this thread started because we've never had any interaction before so we make a judgement about each other and have a conversation on here I did say I read verifications but to be honest any meet I've had is based on my own intuition in dealing with the people or couple in private conversations. Some people find it hard to find their feet on here and I don't think they should be punished for that " “They tell you more from what you can’t see than what you can”. Your words. You use them. | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here. But you were still verified Yeah but it took me over 6 months to get meey verified from the time I joined so I'd have had to delete my profile before I'd ever got verified. Why would have had to delete your profile? Because I didn't want to get photo verified so it would have been 6 months no verification. Under your rule I would have had to do what exactly ?" God you have a great imagination. Something has got your back up. I don’t have a rule. | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here. But you were still verified Yeah but it took me over 6 months to get meey verified from the time I joined so I'd have had to delete my profile before I'd ever got verified. Why would have had to delete your profile? Because I didn't want to get photo verified so it would have been 6 months no verification. Under your rule I would have had to do what exactly ? God you have a great imagination. Something has got your back up. I don’t have a rule. " Ok then let's clear this up under your suggestion people have to be at least photo verified within 6 months yes ? If they don't get verified photo , web or meet what happens to them ? | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here. But you were still verified Yeah but it took me over 6 months to get meey verified from the time I joined so I'd have had to delete my profile before I'd ever got verified. Why would have had to delete your profile? Because I didn't want to get photo verified so it would have been 6 months no verification. Under your rule I would have had to do what exactly ? God you have a great imagination. Something has got your back up. I don’t have a rule. Ok then let's clear this up under your suggestion people have to be at least photo verified within 6 months yes ? If they don't get verified photo , web or meet what happens to them ?" Maybe a restricted account | |||
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"I actually think how someone interacts with others in the forums is a good indicator of their character. " That is so true. It's beats any veri system going and tells a lot more about a person. | |||
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"I actually think how someone interacts with others in the forums is a good indicator of their character. So much this " It absolutely is. But people are far more inclined to meet someone who is verified as opposed to someone who is not. Let’s not fool each other on that one. | |||
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"Op I do read verifications but sometimes they tell you more by what you cant see instead of what you can How many people have veris by only hidden profiles or by people that haven't been on the site in yrs Thats no good to anyone looking them up Cam veris now are just a way of by-passing the no meets rule because everyone of them is an actual meet What should happen to people with no verifications But your still using them to make a judgment. Lol do you not see the irony of you comment? Why would someone not share a pic within 6 months of joining up? Be given a warning or the account restricted. Everything about a profile is used to make a judgement We both looked at each others profile since this thread started because we've never had any interaction before so we make a judgement about each other and have a conversation on here I did say I read verifications but to be honest any meet I've had is based on my own intuition in dealing with the people or couple in private conversations. Some people find it hard to find their feet on here and I don't think they should be punished for that “They tell you more from what you can’t see than what you can”. Your words. You use them. " Op on every post I wrote I said I read them and use them to help me make decisions about the person But that people shouldn't be thrown off for not having any | |||
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"Op I do read verifications but sometimes they tell you more by what you cant see instead of what you can How many people have veris by only hidden profiles or by people that haven't been on the site in yrs Thats no good to anyone looking them up Cam veris now are just a way of by-passing the no meets rule because everyone of them is an actual meet What should happen to people with no verifications But your still using them to make a judgment. Lol do you not see the irony of you comment? Why would someone not share a pic within 6 months of joining up? Be given a warning or the account restricted. Everything about a profile is used to make a judgement We both looked at each others profile since this thread started because we've never had any interaction before so we make a judgement about each other and have a conversation on here I did say I read verifications but to be honest any meet I've had is based on my own intuition in dealing with the people or couple in private conversations. Some people find it hard to find their feet on here and I don't think they should be punished for that “They tell you more from what you can’t see than what you can”. Your words. You use them. Op on every post I wrote I said I read them and use them to help me make decisions about the person But that people shouldn't be thrown off for not having any " Why would you think they would be thrown off? | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here. But you were still verified Yeah but it took me over 6 months to get meey verified from the time I joined so I'd have had to delete my profile before I'd ever got verified. Why would have had to delete your profile? Because I didn't want to get photo verified so it would have been 6 months no verification. Under your rule I would have had to do what exactly ? God you have a great imagination. Something has got your back up. I don’t have a rule. Ok then let's clear this up under your suggestion people have to be at least photo verified within 6 months yes ? If they don't get verified photo , web or meet what happens to them ? Maybe a restricted account " That already happens non paying accounts are restricted , also people can restrict non verified people from contacting them. Most people I know have that filter in place. So just want that filter not to be a choice and that it automatically applies ? | |||
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"Why not ban everyone who is here longer than a year but has less than 5 verifications ? I dunno. Why would you ban anyone? You want it mandatory to be verified what if people don't get verified ? Surely they'd have to leave ? Leave and ban are two completely different words. What reason would someone have not to have a pic verification within 6 months of joining? Because they don't want to have a face pic on a swinger's website regardless of if it's private or not it's still their in their database/server etc. I know loads of people that don't have face pics on here Who said anything about a face pic? so you just want people to be verified that they are a man or a woman ?? Sounds like someone has been catfished by a bloke pretending to be a woman ? You’re doing a lot of assuming there pal. Again because you seem to have missed this the last time. Any reason why someone would not be pic verified after 6 months? Yes they don't want to be. It's that simple. The only reason I got photo verified ( I had about 50 meet verifications before I did) was because I needed to be when I applied to be a mod on here. But you were still verified Yeah but it took me over 6 months to get meey verified from the time I joined so I'd have had to delete my profile before I'd ever got verified. Why would have had to delete your profile? Because I didn't want to get photo verified so it would have been 6 months no verification. Under your rule I would have had to do what exactly ? God you have a great imagination. Something has got your back up. I don’t have a rule. Ok then let's clear this up under your suggestion people have to be at least photo verified within 6 months yes ? If they don't get verified photo , web or meet what happens to them ? Maybe a restricted account That already happens non paying accounts are restricted , also people can restrict non verified people from contacting them. Most people I know have that filter in place. So just want that filter not to be a choice and that it automatically applies ?" Maybe yes. Maybe restrict to one see profiles that are also non verified like there’s. Endless options to be fair. Doesn’t mean it would be right or wrong. But from your great examples restricted accounts definitely work | |||
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"Last year I gave a man here his first verification. We started out chatting in the forums and took it from there. He may have been here a year already before we chatted." Love this | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. we're in the middle of a pandemic...there's not meant to be meets There's a huge amount of fake profiles with fake cam profiles Why should people have to be verified Your not in favour of people being verified? I read verifications but what percentage of them use the exact same phrases everytime Have you ever read a bad one " You could argue the standard phrased are the bad ones, at least that's how I read them. | |||
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"Pretty sure you have to be either photo or meet verified to post on the forums" I don't think so Casey as a lot of new profiles who haven't been verified have started thread's here . Like that guy from sligo | |||
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"Pretty sure you have to be either photo or meet verified to post on the forums I don't think so Casey as a lot of new profiles who haven't been verified have started thread's here . Like that guy from sligo " I thought you just had to be a paying member to post on forums | |||
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"Pretty sure you have to be either photo or meet verified to post on the forums I don't think so Casey as a lot of new profiles who haven't been verified have started thread's here . Like that guy from sligo I thought you just had to be a paying member to post on forums" Just verified by picture or meet/webcam | |||
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"Pretty sure you have to be either photo or meet verified to post on the forums I don't think so Casey as a lot of new profiles who haven't been verified have started thread's here . Like that guy from sligo I thought you just had to be a paying member to post on forums Just verified by picture or meet/webcam" That's my understanding | |||
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"Pretty sure you have to be either photo or meet verified to post on the forums I don't think so Casey as a lot of new profiles who haven't been verified have started thread's here . Like that guy from sligo I thought you just had to be a paying member to post on forums Just verified by picture or meet/webcam" Oh right....I wasnt sure | |||
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"I have seen threads started by members who have no verifications. " Were they picture verified? | |||
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"A few threads started a couple of weeks ago by people that got banned subsequently were photo verified...fake profile picture but photo verified ...don't understand how thats done " Do you know the name of any of these threads? Why were people banned? | |||
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"I have seen threads started by members who have no verifications. Were they picture verified? " Yes one definitely was | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining." Yes regardless of whether verified or not. | |||
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"A few threads started a couple of weeks ago by people that got banned subsequently were photo verified...fake profile picture but photo verified ...don't understand how thats done Do you know the name of any of these threads? Why were people banned?" Some people set up fake profiles to act the bollox..annoy people and then they get caught and thrown off the site... | |||
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"A few threads started a couple of weeks ago by people that got banned subsequently were photo verified...fake profile picture but photo verified ...don't understand how thats done Do you know the name of any of these threads? Why were people banned? Some people set up fake profiles to act the bollox..annoy people and then they get caught and thrown off the site..." Would they not just set up another fake profile then? | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss." My last verification was 9 months ago :/ Am I outta the loop? Generally speaking, meet verifications don't mean a whole lot to me in that a guy doesn't have to be verified for me to chat to him or want to arrange a meet. | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss. My last verification was 9 months ago :/ Am I outta the loop? Generally speaking, meet verifications don't mean a whole lot to me in that a guy doesn't have to be verified for me to chat to him or want to arrange a meet. " No your not outa the loop. This has already been cleared up. | |||
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"A few threads started a couple of weeks ago by people that got banned subsequently were photo verified...fake profile picture but photo verified ...don't understand how thats done Do you know the name of any of these threads? Why were people banned? Some people set up fake profiles to act the bollox..annoy people and then they get caught and thrown off the site... Would they not just set up another fake profile then?" Everyday...after 2 weeks you can post on the forums So they set them up ready to go once they get caught on another profile | |||
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"A few threads started a couple of weeks ago by people that got banned subsequently were photo verified...fake profile picture but photo verified ...don't understand how thats done Do you know the name of any of these threads? Why were people banned? Some people set up fake profiles to act the bollox..annoy people and then they get caught and thrown off the site... Would they not just set up another fake profile then? Everyday...after 2 weeks you can post on the forums So they set them up ready to go once they get caught on another profile " Prob another reason why ID should be required | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. " "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other | |||
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"A few threads started a couple of weeks ago by people that got banned subsequently were photo verified...fake profile picture but photo verified ...don't understand how thats done " If it's the same person I'm thinking of they are back again pic veried again as well. How I don't know but it is a constant circle. They come get kicked off are back weeks later. The only surprise is how long it takes then to come back each time. | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other " So a site user could could verify their own fake profiles ....thats the bit i didn't understand | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other So a site user could could verify their own fake profiles ....thats the bit i didn't understand " It's possible but I know there were ways to stop that happening in the past I. P. addresses etc | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other So a site user could could verify their own fake profiles ....thats the bit i didn't understand It's possible but I know there were ways to stop that happening in the past I. P. addresses etc" It seems to me that this can be bypassed easily | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other So a site user could could verify their own fake profiles ....thats the bit i didn't understand It's possible but I know there were ways to stop that happening in the past I. P. addresses etc It seems to me that this can be bypassed easily " Something to take up with admin I guess. Not our circus. | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other So a site user could could verify their own fake profiles ....thats the bit i didn't understand It's possible but I know there were ways to stop that happening in the past I. P. addresses etc It seems to me that this can be bypassed easily Something to take up with admin I guess. Not our circus. " With mobile internet and shared IP addresses this is less successful than it once was when everyone accessed from a desktop or laptop. | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other So a site user could could verify their own fake profiles ....thats the bit i didn't understand It's possible but I know there were ways to stop that happening in the past I. P. addresses etc It seems to me that this can be bypassed easily Something to take up with admin I guess. Not our circus. " Its easy to spot them . I never report I just avoid. | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other So a site user could could verify their own fake profiles ....thats the bit i didn't understand It's possible but I know there were ways to stop that happening in the past I. P. addresses etc It seems to me that this can be bypassed easily Something to take up with admin I guess. Not our circus. Its easy to spot them . I never report I just avoid. " | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other " This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages? | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. " Glad this has been cleared up as incorrect | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages?" If it's us your asking we never have seen that | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages? If it's us your asking we never have seen that " No it was bog man and inquisitive lady | |||
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"Should members have to be verified within a certain time frame? Maybe a 6 month window. Can be meet, webcam or pic! Discuss." I guess it depends like the more meet verifications you have the more likely you will get invited to certain parties but of course if parties isn't your thing then the number of your verifications and how recent they are wouldn't really matter to you to me this isnt some kind of race and plus we are on the middle of a pandemic so you have to take that into account | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages? If it's us your asking we never have seen that No it was bog man and inquisitive lady " There are numerous threads here starred accross the forums by people who are not verified by other members. | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages? If it's us your asking we never have seen that No it was bog man and inquisitive lady " I think i said I've seen fake profiles verified start threads and couldn't understand how It's since been explained that a verified profile setting up fakes can verify the fake in the first place which allows them to post | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages? If it's us your asking we never have seen that No it was bog man and inquisitive lady " Here is one for you. Go to the green arrow beside your name you'll see a list of threads you've commented on. Scroll down and you'll see a thread started by a man who is not verified by another fab member. | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages? If it's us your asking we never have seen that No it was bog man and inquisitive lady Here is one for you. Go to the green arrow beside your name you'll see a list of threads you've commented on. Scroll down and you'll see a thread started by a man who is not verified by another fab member. " But he is verified? | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages? If it's us your asking we never have seen that No it was bog man and inquisitive lady Here is one for you. Go to the green arrow beside your name you'll see a list of threads you've commented on. Scroll down and you'll see a thread started by a man who is not verified by another fab member. But he is verified?" Only photo verified which states he is a man | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages? If it's us your asking we never have seen that No it was bog man and inquisitive lady Here is one for you. Go to the green arrow beside your name you'll see a list of threads you've commented on. Scroll down and you'll see a thread started by a man who is not verified by another fab member. But he is verified? Only photo verified which states he is a man " Can you find any of the ones you can remember with no verification ? | |||
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"You can add and create posts in forum after a certain number of days after joining. Yes regardless of whether verified or not. "To post to the forum, you must have been a member for over 14 days (336 hrs) AND be photo verified or verified by another site user, to post" From the faqs on the site so you do need to be verified in one form or other This clears up a lot. Guys how did ye see non verified accounts starting threads and leaving messages? If it's us your asking we never have seen that No it was bog man and inquisitive lady Here is one for you. Go to the green arrow beside your name you'll see a list of threads you've commented on. Scroll down and you'll see a thread started by a man who is not verified by another fab member. But he is verified? Only photo verified which states he is a man Can you find any of the ones you can remember with no verification ?" Why is it so important? | |||
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