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By *rish boy 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Southside

I was asked by a couple to meet on here, I explained I’m straight and only interested in her. Don’t mind sharing and same room but he wanted to give me oral. I said I wasn’t interested but they think it’s ok for him to do it on me and don’t think it’s any different than her doing it? What does everyone think, is this something straight men get asked to do or is this a bi sexual act?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked by a couple to meet on here, I explained I’m straight and only interested in her. Don’t mind sharing and same room but he wanted to give me oral. I said I wasn’t interested but they think it’s ok for him to do it on me and don’t think it’s any different than her doing it? What does everyone think, is this something straight men get asked to do or is this a bi sexual act?"

If its not for you..its not for you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone trying to persuade us beyond our boundaries is a no-meet, it's disrespectful.

Do what you are comfortable with.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I was asked by a couple to meet on here, I explained I’m straight and only interested in her. Don’t mind sharing and same room but he wanted to give me oral. I said I wasn’t interested but they think it’s ok for him to do it on me and don’t think it’s any different than her doing it? What does everyone think, is this something straight men get asked to do or is this a bi sexual act?"

They arent sexually compatible with you. Move on

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

It would be a definite no from me. Block and move on.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Look if you dont want to do it dont simple.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Would definitely be a no from us and move on

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

No matter who you are never do something you don't want to do with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only do what you are comfortable with in any situation. Someone who is trying to persuade you otherwise is out of order. Block and move on.

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

If it doesn't sit right with you ,,its not for you

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards

I just avoid profiles that say the male is Bi. Wouldn't be for me

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I just avoid profiles that say the male is Bi. Wouldn't be for me "

Unfortunately some people lie on here and say straight on their profile but are flexible really

The Op has a verification from a tv/ts....some men/ couples would think it's ok to ask him because of that.

No matter what he has down on his profile its not ok to hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well flexible is a word alright. I would never meet a male on here, but if meeting a couple and he wanted to suck me i would have no problem in part of the 3some. I wouldnt want to suck him back as id be interested in her only.

what does that make me?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’d have had a better chance if he asked in the moment, although that’s putting you on the spot and not ok.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I don't thonk there is any harm asking. But the answer, be it yes or no should be heard and respected. Pushing beyond this is not ok. As everyone else has said, if it doesn't feel right then it's time to pass and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get asked this a lot, and it's not something I'm comfortable with so respectfully decline.

Each to their own opinion and mindset.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Ah look hey it is what it is ..

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I was asked by a couple to meet on here, I explained I’m straight and only interested in her. Don’t mind sharing and same room but he wanted to give me oral. I said I wasn’t interested but they think it’s ok for him to do it on me and don’t think it’s any different than her doing it? What does everyone think, is this something straight men get asked to do or is this a bi sexual act?"

There's no such thing as a bisexual or gay or straight sexual act... Participating in a certain thing doesn't define your sexuality, only you can.

If you're not into it, you're not into it... But don't let your ideas about sexual orientation define what you like!

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