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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I found last week hard, trying to keep spirits up with the people around me, and all weekend I've felt huge emotions, need a big cry but the tears don't come,

And tomorrow is the start of another week.

Sorry if this puts a damper on your wknd, but I need to vent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a good cry , or go outside and scream. Stick on a movie or TV that makes you laugh.

Sending you virtual hugs, think times are hard on everyone at the moment so don't be afraid to reach out to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fukin tell me about it having a family member that I adore diying of terminal cancer he's in so much pain and the confusion and just bones liying in bed and he might be going on the morphine box tomorrow. Which means it's game over he's fight will be gone! And then too top that off im out of work for the third time this year. I've an absolute pain in my bollox at this stage. Grrrrrr sorry for the anger faces but I need it. And I suffer with major depression and anxiety pills not worth a fuck life is insane atm for me. And most likely others 51 suicides in homelessness alone people are going down rapidly in Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found last week hard, trying to keep spirits up with the people around me, and all weekend I've felt huge emotions, need a big cry but the tears don't come,

And tomorrow is the start of another week.

Sorry if this puts a damper on your wknd, but I need to vent"

Been there years ago, what worked for me was :- Find a quiet spot of scream at the top of your lungs, vent your anger name what’s causing you to feel like that’s. Just lose your temper and all control. When you start feel like it is starting building back up, get a pen and paper and write out how you are feeling and when it passes burn the paper.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Sorry to hear you are having a hard time op. There is nonharm. On venting at all. Times are hard for a lot of people at present bit that doesn't lessen how hard you are struggling. I hope you have family or friends close who you can confide in. And never worry about having to talk.

Dirtyboy so sorry to hear about what you are going through as well. Cancer is a terrible disease and it's so hard to be with someone near the end and know you can't do anything to ease their pain. But them knowing you care will mean a lot even if at the moment they can't tell you. Take some comfort on that. I hope you have some time after to grieve and find another job soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear you are having a hard time op. There is nonharm. On venting at all. Times are hard for a lot of people at present bit that doesn't lessen how hard you are struggling. I hope you have family or friends close who you can confide in. And never worry about having to talk.

Dirtyboy so sorry to hear about what you are going through as well. Cancer is a terrible disease and it's so hard to be with someone near the end and know you can't do anything to ease their pain. But them knowing you care will mean a lot even if at the moment they can't tell you. Take some comfort on that. I hope you have some time after to grieve and find another job soon. "
thanks _ustboo your very kind it's just so hard that he cannot communicate with us an is so confused on who's who and what's what. Its madness this man never smoked was never ever sick never took an meds for like blood pressure. And now a tiny tumor has bet him right too the bones in 6 months unbelievable.. but thanks again and hopefully OP you will feel better soon I wish you well buddy and if you wanna let off some steam pm me. And anyone else no harm in chatting too get stuff off our chest take care all XX

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere


"I found last week hard, trying to keep spirits up with the people around me, and all weekend I've felt huge emotions, need a big cry but the tears don't come,

And tomorrow is the start of another week.

Sorry if this puts a damper on your wknd, but I need to vent"

Hey OP, I feel ya buddy. And there's always someone here to talk to. Don't force the tears, let them come in their own time. You're doing great xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found last week hard, trying to keep spirits up with the people around me, and all weekend I've felt huge emotions, need a big cry but the tears don't come,

And tomorrow is the start of another week.

Sorry if this puts a damper on your wknd, but I need to vent"

Sending virtual hugs your way keep your chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry your having it really tough at the moment imperial & dirty boy. Sometimes just talking it out helps to get the tears going, and then you feel a release.

Samaratins are always available to chat, and it’s helped me at times to just get things off my chest, have a good cry, and get some perspective.

Freephone: 116 123

Sending a virtual hug

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Fukin tell me about it having a family member that I adore diying of terminal cancer he's in so much pain and the confusion and just bones liying in bed and he might be going on the morphine box tomorrow. Which means it's game over he's fight will be gone! And then too top that off im out of work for the third time this year. I've an absolute pain in my bollox at this stage. Grrrrrr sorry for the anger faces but I need it. And I suffer with major depression and anxiety pills not worth a fuck life is insane atm for me. And most likely others 51 suicides in homelessness alone people are going down rapidly in Ireland "
I feel for you and relate what your saying with a family member with the big c, watching my mother go through it was horrendous.... 2020 should be written off what a totally horrific year for everyone more for others like yourself dealing with a family illness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here a huge tight hug your way OP. I hope your day and week stay sunny.

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

Keep your spirits up op,,tomorrow is not written yet..

Sorry to hear about what your going through "dirtyguy",,when through the same with my mother a while back ,,lost her to cancer within 3months,thankfully she was put on "pump" to ease pain, hard to watch the person you love,slowly slip away and there's nothing you can do to stop it..

Be strong for yourself and them ..

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