FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Friends to be or not to be

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I don’t take the friends as real friends only just to allow certain people to see more of me...

What’s your criteria for friends on Fab ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I don’t take the friends as real friends only just to allow certain people to see more of me...

What’s your criteria for friends on Fab ?

"

Somewhere you’ve spoke to for a while surely?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I don’t take the friends as real friends only just to allow certain people to see more of me...

What’s your criteria for friends on Fab ?

Somewhere you’ve spoke to for a while surely?"

Single guys can’t afford to not treat all as friends..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"As I don’t take the friends as real friends only just to allow certain people to see more of me...

What’s your criteria for friends on Fab ?

Somewhere you’ve spoke to for a while surely?

Single guys can’t afford to not treat all as friends.. "

Then you don't need to worry about what others do. Just add everyone. I only add those that I've been chatting to for quite a while.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A degree of sanity

Unconditional laughter at Kaizer's jokes

Proper diction

And a nice rack helps

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I don’t take the friends as real friends only just to allow certain people to see more of me...

What’s your criteria for friends on Fab ?

Somewhere you’ve spoke to for a while surely?

Single guys can’t afford to not treat all as friends.. "

Each to there I guess but would you allow them to add you as friend if they had no friends only pics?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood if I see a profile with a good pic I'll want to see more so I'll add them to have a perv

Normally I would have been chatting with them for a while

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Do men tend to add men as friends or is it a complete no no

What is the function of a friend request

For me I've been chatting to loads of women and couples on here

I like their pictures and would like to see more of them but would never friend request them

I've always assumed that its their choice to ask and not mine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

Only use friends for potential meets to to see more of them, we keep our friends list short and regularly cut it back

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to cull, now you mention it OP

We keep it short

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The criteria btw is that we might be interested in meeting them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I don’t take the friends as real friends only just to allow certain people to see more of me...

What’s your criteria for friends on Fab ?

"

Suppose those chatting for a while and then have agreed to meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Time to cull, now you mention it OP

We keep it short"

Ahh the back fired ... getting cut.. lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have to be chatting to someone for a good while before I will add them as a friend on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I've been chatting to for a while and like.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do men tend to add men as friends or is it a complete no no

What is the function of a friend request

For me I've been chatting to loads of women and couples on here

I like their pictures and would like to see more of them but would never friend request them

I've always assumed that its their choice to ask and not mine "

Nah Bog I wouldn’t add a man, I probably would’ve at the start of being here but got a lot of guys that weren’t just interested in just being friends.

Ye I try not to ask to be friends but occasionally do.. but I don’t put much stock in it..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone I've been chatting to for a while and like."

That sounds like me but there are different views as some just like getting fabs..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"As I don’t take the friends as real friends only just to allow certain people to see more of me...

What’s your criteria for friends on Fab ?

Somewhere you’ve spoke to for a while surely?

Single guys can’t afford to not treat all as friends..

Each to there I guess but would you allow them to add you as friend if they had no friends only pics?"

Nope... Because what's in it for me if they have no friend pics?

Unless we've met and are actually 'friends' then possibly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only accept friend requests from those I have been chatting to and we have swapped face pictures in mail with. I will not accept a friend request from a random add. At that I delete my friend list alot

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Friends are just what it says.....ones that I have met and have a relationship with. Those im interested in stay on my hotlist till I meet them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only accept friend requests from those I have been chatting to and we have swapped face pictures in mail with. I will not accept a friend request from a random add. At that I delete my friend list alot "

I agree with you because I think its plain weird sending a friend request having not chatted, but I guess the nuance when somebody feels it’s something that a chatter must be somebody that they actually want to shag to be friends, or is it ok to be friends and just be plutonic, if it’s even a thing here on Fab...?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

I only have 4 people on my friends list. 3 of them I speak to regularly. And 1 is my best friend.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If you have too many friends no one really knows which one you are asking for.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

Friends is just access to more pix.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only accept friend requests from those I have been chatting to and we have swapped face pictures in mail with. I will not accept a friend request from a random add. At that I delete my friend list alot

I agree with you because I think its plain weird sending a friend request having not chatted, but I guess the nuance when somebody feels it’s something that a chatter must be somebody that they actually want to shag to be friends, or is it ok to be friends and just be plutonic, if it’s even a thing here on Fab...?"

I have made one of the best friends I could possible ever have through fab, he is male. We have flirty banter and that's about it. He is happy with a girlfriend now and I am delighted for him. And he has supported me through some of my darkest days including battling a painkiller addiction

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only have 4 people on my friends list. 3 of them I speak to regularly. And 1 is my best friend. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only have 4 people on my friends list. 3 of them I speak to regularly. And 1 is my best friend. "

That’s really sweet..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only accept friend requests from those I have been chatting to and we have swapped face pictures in mail with. I will not accept a friend request from a random add. At that I delete my friend list alot

I agree with you because I think its plain weird sending a friend request having not chatted, but I guess the nuance when somebody feels it’s something that a chatter must be somebody that they actually want to shag to be friends, or is it ok to be friends and just be plutonic, if it’s even a thing here on Fab...?

I have made one of the best friends I could possible ever have through fab, he is male. We have flirty banter and that's about it. He is happy with a girlfriend now and I am delighted for him. And he has supported me through some of my darkest days including battling a painkiller addiction "

Now THATS a friend .. awesome stuff

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

People I've actually met and know.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I usually keep mine short but lately I'm thinking I'll just might except them all and see what happens.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to keep mine short, people I have been chatting with, who have similar interests and the chat is progressing to a likely meet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People I've actually met and know."

Tough thing to do these days Scotty

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend list is miniscule compared to my block list

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Actual friends! Being people I am friends with in real life, or people I talk to regularly online.

I will add someone to see their friends only pics, then remove again when I'm done.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have to be on a friend's list to just have a chat with someone Does this make you feel special Is there a difference to messaging on a friends list and just messaging on site

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *argus12Man
over a year ago

meath dublin / london

A fab friend is someone who you’ve chatted to for a while and would enjoy meeting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Do you have to be on a friend's list to just have a chat with someone Does this make you feel special Is there a difference to messaging on a friends list and just messaging on site "

Nope

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have to be on a friend's list to just have a chat with someone Does this make you feel special Is there a difference to messaging on a friends list and just messaging on site

Nope "

??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Do you have to be on a friend's list to just have a chat with someone Does this make you feel special Is there a difference to messaging on a friends list and just messaging on site

Nope

??"

What?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab friends - not worth the paper it written on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only people I've played with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept friend requests from this I've chatted to, and if there's a meet possible ( Obviously not right now)

I'm still very private with a lot of them.

Now in terms of actual friends , that's rare here. But I would consider a couple of people I've met through fab overall friends outside of this scene so to speak

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

People we've met or will be imminently meeting..

The unwanted request from those we've never even spoken to = insta-block

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only people I've played with. "

That would list would be very exclusive for me.. lol newbies guys gotta reach out more

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top