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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where do I start I been a member for a while now but haven't had much luck in getting anywhere with anyone, I'm single not into messing any around, honest with manners maybe thats not what people want? Any advice on where I'm going wrong?

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By *ockhard and SweetcheeksCouple
over a year ago

City

Hasn't got anything to do with your profile, Its this pandemic at the moment that's after crippling the lifestyle!!

Alot of people not willing to take the risk on meeting at the moment!!

It's so quiet here lately and will be the case for awhile yet!! Well just have to get on with it

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

It all starts with a profile. Do you honestly think Sydney university have any interest in fab? they don't. 5 pics and not 1 attention grabbing. Your bio sounds like your cheat, why required discretion? 98% of guys think women want to read the guy loves given oral

Basically you don't come across interesting at all. Sorry to be blunt.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Hasn't got anything to do with your profile, Its this pandemic at the moment that's after crippling the lifestyle!!

Alot of people not willing to take the risk on meeting at the moment!!

It's so quiet here lately and will be the case for awhile yet!! Well just have to get on with it "

The pandemic hasn't been around since 2018

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for advice and will take it on board everyone has different opinions on what photos they find attention grabbing or not so hopefully all don't agree on my photos

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By *uess.who30Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Galway/London

Hi OP, i see you've come for advice, not negativity...

Develop your profile over the next while as lockdown is effecting everyone... but your profile should show your character and What you're about... develop that now while its quiet, everyone finds their way.

Don't be demoralised.. like real life there are positive and negative people... a read of the profile usually gives you insight... same for others.

Also... geographic experience/understanding goes a long way.. develop a profile about you, as you'll find its not so much about impressing... as just being real... people get impressed by honesty and reality.

Thats my opinion.. all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do I start I been a member for a while now but haven't had much luck in getting anywhere with anyone, I'm single not into messing any around, honest with manners maybe thats not what people want? Any advice on where I'm going wrong?"

The only advice l could give you is the good ol' Journey song.." Don't Stop Believing...hold on to that feeling ".

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"Hasn't got anything to do with your profile, Its this pandemic at the moment that's after crippling the lifestyle!!

Alot of people not willing to take the risk on meeting at the moment!!

It's so quiet here lately and will be the case for awhile yet!! Well just have to get on with it

The pandemic hasn't been around since 2018"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all starts with a profile. Do you honestly think Sydney university have any interest in fab? they don't. 5 pics and not 1 attention grabbing. Your bio sounds like your cheat, why required discretion? 98% of guys think women want to read the guy loves given oral

Basically you don't come across interesting at all. Sorry to be blunt."

If we are being blunt I think it has to be said you come off as well... Rude in yours.

You just list how many things will make a mail get deleted. Over and over. Same with no dick pics. You say these things more than once.

It feels like I would have to walk on eggshells to converse with you. That's not interesting either.

You are correct that it all starts with the profile. But it should be warm, welcoming and a chance to showcase your personality. Especially a sense of humour.

A profile should not be a procedural list.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I cant see anything wrong with your profile really... best advice I have is to approach people who are looking for the same things you are looking for, and offer them something they are interested in. Be polite and try and attend any events there are locals at. You need to get to know the people who hold parties so you'll be on the list when the time comes... or maybe host an event or party yourself!

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

There's nothing actually wrong with your profile, but there's nothing that makes you unique from all the other single guys with cocks who want what you want & are reasonably physically fit.

Inject a bit of your personality, your humour or style. Maybe a picture or two that doesn't have your crotch as the main theme. I don't know about others, but it makes me wonder if you think that's all you have to offer or you think that's the most interesting thing about you & I'm sure that's not the case.

And yes, Covid, but you can still build connections & networks while physical meets aren't happening

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"It all starts with a profile. Do you honestly think Sydney university have any interest in fab? they don't. 5 pics and not 1 attention grabbing. Your bio sounds like your cheat, why required discretion? 98% of guys think women want to read the guy loves given oral

Basically you don't come across interesting at all. Sorry to be blunt.

If we are being blunt I think it has to be said you come off as well... Rude in yours.

You just list how many things will make a mail get deleted. Over and over. Same with no dick pics. You say these things more than once.

It feels like I would have to walk on eggshells to converse with you. That's not interesting either.

You are correct that it all starts with the profile. But it should be warm, welcoming and a chance to showcase your personality. Especially a sense of humour.

A profile should not be a procedural list.

"

I use my profile as a repellent, so thank you for noticing how unwelcoming and cold it is

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh


"Where do I start I been a member for a while now but haven't had much luck in getting anywhere with anyone, I'm single not into messing any around, honest with manners maybe thats not what people want? Any advice on where I'm going wrong?"
Hugo boss is the way ta go you'll be knee deep in it real panty dropper stuff

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"It all starts with a profile. Do you honestly think Sydney university have any interest in fab? they don't. 5 pics and not 1 attention grabbing. Your bio sounds like your cheat, why required discretion? 98% of guys think women want to read the guy loves given oral

Basically you don't come across interesting at all. Sorry to be blunt.

If we are being blunt I think it has to be said you come off as well... Rude in yours.

You just list how many things will make a mail get deleted. Over and over. Same with no dick pics. You say these things more than once.

It feels like I would have to walk on eggshells to converse with you. That's not interesting either.

You are correct that it all starts with the profile. But it should be warm, welcoming and a chance to showcase your personality. Especially a sense of humour.

A profile should not be a procedural list.

I use my profile as a repellent, so thank you for noticing how unwelcoming and cold it is "

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

It's not that your profile is bad, it's that it's utterly generic. There's nothing there to give that little hint of something interesting.. As a guy on fab you're a small fish in a very big pond, you need to show some personality and some more interesting pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi OP, i see you've come for advice, not negativity...

Develop your profile over the next while as lockdown is effecting everyone... but your profile should show your character and What you're about... develop that now while its quiet, everyone finds their way.

Don't be demoralised.. like real life there are positive and negative people... a read of the profile usually gives you insight... same for others.

Also... geographic experience/understanding goes a long way.. develop a profile about you, as you'll find its not so much about impressing... as just being real... people get impressed by honesty and reality.

Thats my opinion.. all the best "

How sexy is to be real!! Best advice ever.

Your profile isn't bad OP. Maybe less "I'm my dick" pics...just saying.... good luck

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By *oadrunner2000Man
over a year ago

city centre


"Hasn't got anything to do with your profile, Its this pandemic at the moment that's after crippling the lifestyle!!

Alot of people not willing to take the risk on meeting at the moment!!

It's so quiet here lately and will be the case for awhile yet!! Well just have to get on with it

The pandemic hasn't been around since 2018"

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By *oadrunner2000Man
over a year ago

city centre


"It all starts with a profile. Do you honestly think Sydney university have any interest in fab? they don't. 5 pics and not 1 attention grabbing. Your bio sounds like your cheat, why required discretion? 98% of guys think women want to read the guy loves given oral

Basically you don't come across interesting at all. Sorry to be blunt."
that's a bit harsh.... Coming from a profile that has basically called out a list of I don't like this and don't do that....sorry to be blunt

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