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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You have had the social met & moved on to the 1st fun meet, so do you bring a gift or arrive 1 hand longer than the other.

I wouldnt visit a friends house without bringing some wine, so if meeting a lady or a couple I would normally bring wine & some chocolate.

I wouldnt bring flowers as thst I feel is a romantic jesters and Fab is not about romance.

So guys & ladies what would you bring

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By *ynchsimonMan
over a year ago

North county Dublin Meath

Condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have had the social met & moved on to the 1st fun meet, so do you bring a gift or arrive 1 hand longer than the other.

I wouldnt visit a friends house without bringing some wine, so if meeting a lady or a couple I would normally bring wine & some chocolate.

I wouldnt bring flowers as thst I feel is a romantic jesters and Fab is not about romance.

So guys & ladies what would you bring "

Respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of my meets have come empty handed which I never really mind. But when they do bring something it gets them maaaaaaajor brownie points. So I think you're onto a good strategy OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly i wouldn't expect a meet to turn uo with anything.. But if they are coming from the south.. Southern tayto will always put a smile on my face..

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

A nice bottle of red always goes down well I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice bottle of red always goes down well I think."

Only if she drinks red, or wine at all!

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

If we were visiting someone's house we would bring a drink nice to be nice

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh


"Honestly i wouldn't expect a meet to turn uo with anything.. But if they are coming from the south.. Southern tayto will always put a smile on my face.. "

Were clearly bringing you the northern tayto now, thee best

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By *ellable4itMan
over a year ago

D7

I was meeting a girl for the first time and just going for a walk in a park during the daytime. As we were both driving there separately and to break the ice i bought

https://www.qdstores.co.uk/products/white-impressions-toilet-tissue-pack-of-12.html

That way I got more than the usual 'you only get one first impression' in fact I got 9 and 3 free!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was meeting a girl for the first time and just going for a walk in a park during the daytime. As we were both driving there separately and to break the ice i bought

https://www.qdstores.co.uk/products/white-impressions-toilet-tissue-pack-of-12.html

That way I got more than the usual 'you only get one first impression' in fact I got 9 and 3 free!!"

This would work on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Father has a saying "Never arrive to someones home with one hand longer than the other" so I would always bring something like wine or biscuits or flowers. If someone is gracious enough to welcome you into their home you should be gracious enough to bring a small token of appreciation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Father has a saying "Never arrive to someones home with one hand longer than the other" so I would always bring something like wine or biscuits or flowers. If someone is gracious enough to welcome you into their home you should be gracious enough to bring a small token of appreciation. "

Turf is as good a gift as any Rosebush

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By *ellable4itMan
over a year ago

D7


"I was meeting a girl for the first time and just going for a walk in a park during the daytime. As we were both driving there separately and to break the ice i bought

https://www.qdstores.co.uk/products/white-impressions-toilet-tissue-pack-of-12.html

That way I got more than the usual 'you only get one first impression' in fact I got 9 and 3 free!!

This would work on me "

I can tell from that that we may be only the same silly sense of humour level. But it went down well and that was exactly the plan.We both had a laugh at it and it eased her nerves/butterflies straight away. I take my messing very seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Father has a saying "Never arrive to someones home with one hand longer than the other" so I would always bring something like wine or biscuits or flowers. If someone is gracious enough to welcome you into their home you should be gracious enough to bring a small token of appreciation. "

I'm the same Rosy. That lesson was beaten into me from a very young age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly i wouldn't expect a meet to turn uo with anything.. But if they are coming from the south.. Southern tayto will always put a smile on my face..

Were clearly bringing you the northern tayto now, thee best "

I don't like northern tayto.. But thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Father has a saying "Never arrive to someones home with one hand longer than the other" so I would always bring something like wine or biscuits or flowers. If someone is gracious enough to welcome you into their home you should be gracious enough to bring a small token of appreciation. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's if invited to their house, I certainly wouldn't expect a man to bring anything but condoms and a good attitude to a hotel meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Father has a saying "Never arrive to someones home with one hand longer than the other" so I would always bring something like wine or biscuits or flowers. If someone is gracious enough to welcome you into their home you should be gracious enough to bring a small token of appreciation.

Turf is as good a gift as any Rosebush "

I have being known to arrive to a certain Fabbers home bearing bags of Turf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly i wouldn't expect a meet to turn uo with anything.. But if they are coming from the south.. Southern tayto will always put a smile on my face.. "

Couple of wee shops in Belfast sell these, I'll leave a bag for you behind the till

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I am the gift ffs what more could they want ?

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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago

Dublin or anywhere

check what wine they like first then bring two bottles..one for yourself of coarse // it works allways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Last couple we met gave us a box of Black Magic...they might last till Christmas

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've never had a gift off a first meet and neither have I ever brought one with me either. I don't think I'd want one either a first meet is to see if we get on or not.

The only thing I'd expect any guy to bring with him anytime is condoms but sometimes even that is not guaranteed it seems. Luckily I have them with me just in case which has been a good call more than once.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Literally never leave my house for meets but it's lovely when a guy brings something, I've had guys bring wine or chocolate before! It's truly not necessary though, just a nice touch.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Cake

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee


"Honestly i wouldn't expect a meet to turn uo with anything.. But if they are coming from the south.. Southern tayto will always put a smile on my face.. "

They are the best...,noted

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A meat package.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met this beautiful lady for a social meet in a beautiful quite pub but in chatting way earlier before the meet in conversation one night l asked her her favourite wine,so at the end of the meet that night just before she left in her car l gave her the bottle of wine to which she was delighted and most grateful for,it took her by surprise as she said usually gifts are given when a person would meet and not leaving for home so as she didn't receive it earlier when she did receive it before she left it added to the night and said it was a lovely touch.

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee

Cream! Close tread!!

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By *oad tripperMan
over a year ago

derry

On my way from Donegal. Tayto/ milk choc combo.

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