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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hows things everyone I have been on this for a couple of months now and I'm having no luck with it. Struggling with replies & hook ups obviously I know covid is a playing part but.... Any advice would be great if I’m doing anything wrong? I’m verified & have a couple of pics up so just strange to struggle when I’m open to have fun.

Thanks everybody

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

Belfast-carlingford

Covid covid and more covid. Just be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As _razy-88 said covid is obviously a big factor, but maybe bulk up your bio it's very minimalistic not much to go on, you could add a few non dick pic photos

Best of luck OP

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Covid is playing a part. Obviously a lot of people arent meeting for that reason alone.

A lot of people would have a look at the profile of who sent the message before even opening the message itself. If i opened your profile, I wouldnt engage with you. Your profile is a means of introducing people to yourself. There is a massive ratio on here of men to women/couples and you have to make yourself stand out from the crowd. And one of your pictures would put me off straight away.

Finally, you really do need to have patience. As one of our lovely forum regulars says its not a dial a ride. Building up an interaction with a person and organising a meet takes time.

and also covid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even before we had a global pandemic single men struggled to get meets here. So now it's all the more difficult. Plus you're not technically allowed visitors to your house these days.

You have not asked for advice on your profile so it's against forum rules to give it unless you ask. So I won't comment on your profile. But personally if I saw a one line profile that's not meet verified I would instantly forget it. Guys need to put in serious effort around here to reap the benefits. Its unfortunately not dial a ride.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Singles guys quite often do find it tough going in here. And covid is making things even tougher. Like others have said above a lot of women will look at a profile before they answer a message. I look before I even open a message. A profile that doesn't tell me anything about the person or have generic mostly dick pics then I usually won't even answer the message anymore. Your profile is your ship window and it entices someone to want to interact with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hows things everyone I have been on this for a couple of months now and I'm having no luck with it. Struggling with replies & hook ups obviously I know covid is a playing part but.... Any advice would be great if I’m doing anything wrong? I’m verified & have a couple of pics up so just strange to struggle when I’m open to have fun.

Thanks everybody"

Youre looking for 'hook ups' during the worst health crisis for hundreds of years??

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no idea why you're having no joy OP. None. Can not come up with a single possible reason.

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland


"Hows things everyone I have been on this for a couple of months now and I'm having no luck with it. Struggling with replies & hook ups obviously I know covid is a playing part but.... Any advice would be great if I’m doing anything wrong? I’m verified & have a couple of pics up so just strange to struggle when I’m open to have fun.

Thanks everybody

Youre looking for 'hook ups' during the worst health crisis for hundreds of years??

Why?"

This might explain a lot, I noticed OP didn't answer the question. Looking for meets during COVID is pure madness and stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having similar issues as the OP. I would be very grateful of any advice or opinion on my profile.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Hows things everyone I have been on this for a couple of months now and I'm having no luck with it. Struggling with replies & hook ups obviously I know covid is a playing part but.... Any advice would be great if I’m doing anything wrong? I’m verified & have a couple of pics up so just strange to struggle when I’m open to have fun.

Thanks everybody"

Add more to your bio and maybe review your pic choices. But Covid is obviously also a big factor. Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having similar issues as the OP. I would be very grateful of any advice or opinion on my profile."

Three of your pictures are just about exactly the same and after reading your profile I still don't know much about you as a person. Try to get a coffee meet to get verified. Use this time during Covid to work on your photos and profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is a virtue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having similar issues as the OP. I would be very grateful of any advice or opinion on my profile.

Three of your pictures are just about exactly the same and after reading your profile I still don't know much about you as a person. Try to get a coffee meet to get verified. Use this time during Covid to work on your photos and profile."
Thanks. I appreciate your time to look and give advice. Ya took all the pics in the same night.

I'll take the tip on board.cheers

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