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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone...did it ever happen to anyone here that had meets and things went well but then either one or the other wanted a " relationship " ? ..if so..how did it fare out ?..either way ...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It takes 2 to have a relationship. If you arent into it then say no and voila.. no relationship. If you are into it then great, you are both now in a relationship, congratulations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in a relationship thanks to both wanting it, best thing that ever happened to us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're in a relationship thanks to both wanting it, best thing that ever happened to us"

AWESOME ...great to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it's happened to me. Being rejected always hurts of course, but if you talk about it honestly as soon as you start to catch those feels, then you can nip it in the bud before you start falling in love. Then you're really just getting over a crush, which is must easier and less soul destroying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep it's happened to me. Being rejected always hurts of course, but if you talk about it honestly as soon as you start to catch those feels, then you can nip it in the bud before you start falling in love. Then you're really just getting over a crush, which is must easier and less soul destroying. "

Can't be anyway easy but you're fully correct its important for people to lay their cards on the table from the very start..if a person knows the other isn't lnterested in anything more at least both know then it's a road that won't be travelled .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mt with an older gal. It was supposed to be a once off meet. We met and clicked, we talked for ages before getting down to it. I left but she kept asking me to stay the night.

But she said we may catch feelings if we keep meeting so we agreed not to. She asked a couple of times since to meet but I reminded her of what may happen. Was for the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mt with an older gal. It was supposed to be a once off meet. We met and clicked, we talked for ages before getting down to it. I left but she kept asking me to stay the night.

But she said we may catch feelings if we keep meeting so we agreed not to. She asked a couple of times since to meet but I reminded her of what may happen. Was for the best "

Isn't it amazing how things could escalate so quickly without even maybe wanting it ..she said ye might catch feelings but yet asked a few times since to meet..was there much distance to travel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mt with an older gal. It was supposed to be a once off meet. We met and clicked, we talked for ages before getting down to it. I left but she kept asking me to stay the night.

But she said we may catch feelings if we keep meeting so we agreed not to. She asked a couple of times since to meet but I reminded her of what may happen. Was for the best

Isn't it amazing how things could escalate so quickly without even maybe wanting it ..she said ye might catch feelings but yet asked a few times since to meet..was there much distance to travel ?"

It was very ! And no it was just 5 minutes away. I was definitely attracted to her and she was great but wouldnt of been healthy to meet again I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mt with an older gal. It was supposed to be a once off meet. We met and clicked, we talked for ages before getting down to it. I left but she kept asking me to stay the night.

But she said we may catch feelings if we keep meeting so we agreed not to. She asked a couple of times since to meet but I reminded her of what may happen. Was for the best

Isn't it amazing how things could escalate so quickly without even maybe wanting it ..she said ye might catch feelings but yet asked a few times since to meet..was there much distance to travel ?

It was very ! And no it was just 5 minutes away. I was definitely attracted to her and she was great but wouldnt of been healthy to meet again I thought "

Was it the age then ?

If it was good then why be afraid of what might happen . Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mt with an older gal. It was supposed to be a once off meet. We met and clicked, we talked for ages before getting down to it. I left but she kept asking me to stay the night.

But she said we may catch feelings if we keep meeting so we agreed not to. She asked a couple of times since to meet but I reminded her of what may happen. Was for the best

Isn't it amazing how things could escalate so quickly without even maybe wanting it ..she said ye might catch feelings but yet asked a few times since to meet..was there much distance to travel ?

It was very ! And no it was just 5 minutes away. I was definitely attracted to her and she was great but wouldnt of been healthy to meet again I thought

Was it the age then ?

If it was good then why be afraid of what might happen . Just curious "

Well she was 20 years older. I didn't want anything serious so best to leave it at that I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its happened before. Cant change feelings when you get them. We’re still really good friends now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here 4 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to just treat this site for what it is ...sex. Relationships RARELY happen here

Relationships need Two mature grounded people..

IF you want a relationship . KNOW YOUR mind . join a dating agency that charges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman and I started an affair many years and several relationships ago. We agreed that it going be a physical thing as we both had relationships, albeit shitty ones. Over time she developed feelings and it all came to a head when she pretended to be pregnant to force me to stay with her. She wasn't, BTW, she admitted she'd made a mistake with her dates and thought she'd forgotten to take her pill. Very stressful for both of us, I have no bitterness for her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Better to just treat this site for what it is ...sex. Relationships RARELY happen here

Relationships need Two mature grounded people..

IF you want a relationship . KNOW YOUR mind . join a dating agency that charges "

Not everyone maybe has the money to spend on dating agencies and who knows even in a joint like this that a person might meet an incredible person that even two mins in you don't want the night to end...and as regards your thoughts about treating things here for just sex ..that may be your thoughts but for me there has to be a mental connection .. something that truly ignites a totally amazing Beautifully filthy sexual situation far far greater than just sex , something a person just can't explain.. something a person Dont know how it happened..it just did ..

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