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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never heard of Fab. I definitely was well aware of swinging and although the thought intrigued me I never delved into it.

I met a couple in London and we got talking. One thing led to another and next thing I know it's game on. Afterwards they asked if I was on Fabswingers and I had no clue what it was at the time. A quick talk and ever since then I was hooked.

How did you get introduced to this life? Was it something you came across or seeked out? Interested to hear

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

Was on another site ( im not allowed name here) more a fetish site and heard about it over on that..

The fabbers are defo more chilled than the fetters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was on another site ( im not allowed name here) more a fetish site and heard about it over on that..

The fabbers are defo more chilled than the fetters lol "

Snap exact same as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was on another site ( im not allowed name here) more a fetish site and heard about it over on that..

The fabbers are defo more chilled than the fetters lol "

I agree.. I found the fabbers easier to get along with and feel at ease with.

A one night stand told me about fab and i joined when i was bored on night..

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"Was on another site ( im not allowed name here) more a fetish site and heard about it over on that..

The fabbers are defo more chilled than the fetters lol

Snap exact same as me "

2 peas in a kinky pod lol

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"Was on another site ( im not allowed name here) more a fetish site and heard about it over on that..

The fabbers are defo more chilled than the fetters lol

I agree.. I found the fabbers easier to get along with and feel at ease with.

A one night stand told me about fab and i joined when i was bored on night.. "

Would defo agree x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was on another site ( im not allowed name here) more a fetish site and heard about it over on that..

The fabbers are defo more chilled than the fetters lol

Snap exact same as me

2 peas in a kinky pod lol"

I lasted 4 days on that. No forums like here and also it was clunky as hell

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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

A Tinder date during the summer.

-"What!!? You've never had a threesome?"

-"No,...nearly once..I suppose"

-"What about fab?"

-"What's fab? "

So yes, It appears I've lived a very sheltered life

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Well there was this one time at band camp....

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"A Tinder date during the summer.

-"What!!? You've never had a threesome?"

-"No,...nearly once..I suppose"

-"What about fab?"

-"What's fab? "

So yes, It appears I've lived a very sheltered life "

Sane and sound J, sane and sound

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Was on another site ( im not allowed name here) more a fetish site and heard about it over on that..

The fabbers are defo more chilled than the fetters lol

Snap exact same as me

2 peas in a kinky pod lol

I lasted 4 days on that. No forums like here and also it was clunky as hell"

There are forums on that site, they're just called Groups. It's set up very differently of course because it's aimed at building community rather than the dating / meets focus of Fab.

I used to read a lot of sex blogs in my late teens / 20s, had heard of That Other Site but thought it wasn't for me because I wasn't A Kinkster, I just liked sex. I did eventually join and really found my people! It all clicked for me straight away and I understood my sexuality a lot more. I became an active member of the Dublin kink scene, a munch moderator, and an event DM.

After a breakup I took a break from the kink scene and a new friend introduced me to a swingers chat group, and Fab. The rest is history!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was on another site ( im not allowed name here) more a fetish site and heard about it over on that..

The fabbers are defo more chilled than the fetters lol

Snap exact same as me

2 peas in a kinky pod lol

I lasted 4 days on that. No forums like here and also it was clunky as hell

There are forums on that site, they're just called Groups. It's set up very differently of course because it's aimed at building community rather than the dating / meets focus of Fab.

I used to read a lot of sex blogs in my late teens / 20s, had heard of That Other Site but thought it wasn't for me because I wasn't A Kinkster, I just liked sex. I did eventually join and really found my people! It all clicked for me straight away and I understood my sexuality a lot more. I became an active member of the Dublin kink scene, a munch moderator, and an event DM.

After a breakup I took a break from the kink scene and a new friend introduced me to a swingers chat group, and Fab. The rest is history!

"

Oh I'm mistaken then. I may give it a go, was never a kink guy but I may give it a go so

Good to have you here on Fab with us

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast

When I was an apprentice, I was assigned to one older guy (late 30s early 40s) usual chat and stuff, then he gave me a few porn sites to check out. This was earlyish days of internet porn, they where all cuckold sites, young guys fucking the married older wives, got me into it wasn’t till years later did I guess that he might of been hinting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never heard of Fab. I definitely was well aware of swinging and although the thought intrigued me I never delved into it.

I met a couple in London and we got talking. One thing led to another and next thing I know it's game on. Afterwards they asked if I was on Fabswingers and I had no clue what it was at the time. A quick talk and ever since then I was hooked.

How did you get introduced to this life? Was it something you came across or seeked out? Interested to hear "

I was introduced to this site,not life , by a female from another adult site..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was an innocent wee soul who was completely corrupted by others.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was an apprentice, I was assigned to one older guy (late 30s early 40s) usual chat and stuff, then he gave me a few porn sites to check out. This was earlyish days of internet porn, they where all cuckold sites, young guys fucking the married older wives, got me into it wasn’t till years later did I guess that he might of been hinting "

Man, he was definitely hinting lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a lovely lady on another site who recommend here. Had been on this place for a while and left after a work colleague started asking strange questions.

Couldn't resist popping back in during lockdown ??

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

I genuinely thought this was some kinda joke and that I wasn't really talking to real people lol obviously now it's the complete opposite

As to how I found this place well I was fresh out of a long relationship and I suppose the thought of not feeling wanted was kinda daunting so I used your friend and mine Google and just typed in swingers sites and this popped up so thought I'd give it a go

Il admit at 1st I was way too forward with my messages asking for meets right of the bat but I gradually understood this place a bit more so I changed my approach and fair enough I got my 1st meet then covid went and fucked everything up typical

But once the dust does finally settle there is one or two I'm hoping to pay a visit to and hopefully they know who they are if not then woe is me I guess

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Often talked about visiting a swingers club, but I was terrified. Finally plucked up the courage and went to Amsterdam last October. Loved the relaxed, erotic atmosphere and so joined another website in November. Told about Fab through a contact there and haven't looked back since - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In forums in another swinging site. Christ I remember the days of craigslist adds. Now that site had timewasters and pic collectors..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can learn alot from one night stand

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By *andy905Man
over a year ago

City Centre

I have no fucking clue, lost in the mists of time. I think it might have been a couple I met at a kink event?

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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago

Dublin or anywhere

when i lived in london a couple in the pub i used to use just asked me join them for a chat.He said (herself) fancies you and would you like to join us for a bit of fun.Never heard of this site before that.They told me about fab and i never looked back since !!

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

Google and then being lucky enough to have an amazing first meet with a couple who are now our friends.

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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago

kildare

I was always been curious and was lucky enough to meet some fun people over years. Got introduced to fab from a lady I meet on a dating site and joined for awhile. Went abt dating and meet the beautiful miss j and told her abt fab and she was interested in finding out more so here we are!

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Kinda moved here after other site I was on died a death.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

How did you get introduced to the life?

I was pushed out of my mothers vagina.

If swinging is your life then you need to take a good look at yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on Fet and generally being a bit naive and getting myself into trouble when an older woman took me under my wing and brought me here.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"How did you get introduced to the life?

I was pushed out of my mothers vagina.

If swinging is your life then you need to take a good look at yourself.

"

I'm sure everyone who plucks up the courage to start threads on here are thrilled to get replies like that - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was brought to a small sex party to cheer me up after a break up! I'd been interested in kink and fetish for a while so I was really intrigued by the offer and had a great night, that was it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone on bebo told me about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a regular party about 10 years ago and a girl mentioned swingers parties to me. I thought at first she was joking until she asked me to accompany her to a swingers club in blanchardstown.

As they say the rest is history

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I was chatting to a lad on a vanilla dating site and during the chat he suggested that I might be interested in a fetish site. I wasn't ready for that yet so he suggested here instead. That was 8 years ago and I've never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was chatting to a lad on a vanilla dating site and during the chat he suggested that I might be interested in a fetish site. I wasn't ready for that yet so he suggested here instead. That was 8 years ago and I've never looked back. "
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Good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A previous month long FWB has been on it previously and totally shocked me with her stories haha .... and I may have known about the site before that but probably thought it was kind of semi “fictional” or so something

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Started on here many years ago as a couple. He had been on the site prior and introduced me to it. The relationship ended but I stayed on. Wouldn't change any of it.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

My best mate was on here and told me about it so I joined. She has since left but I've stayed so far anyhow.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"My best mate was on here and told me about it so I joined. She has since left but I've stayed so far anyhow. "

And very glad you have JB

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

This site was my first introduction to it and that was accidental almost 4 years ago.

Have been on and off a few times since but this is the longest I've stayed.

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By *ilson84500Man
over a year ago

Portadown

I was told about in by a couple in a swingers club in London.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"My best mate was on here and told me about it so I joined. She has since left but I've stayed so far anyhow. "

Youre not allowed leave.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"My best mate was on here and told me about it so I joined. She has since left but I've stayed so far anyhow.

Youre not allowed leave. "

Ye you'd kick my ass if I did

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"My best mate was on here and told me about it so I joined. She has since left but I've stayed so far anyhow.

And very glad you have JB"

Thanks BM

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"My best mate was on here and told me about it so I joined. She has since left but I've stayed so far anyhow.

Youre not allowed leave.

Ye you'd kick my ass if I did "

ah no id just give out a bit and then nag you til you rejoined im not that violent like

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"My best mate was on here and told me about it so I joined. She has since left but I've stayed so far anyhow.

Youre not allowed leave.

Ye you'd kick my ass if I did

ah no id just give out a bit and then nag you til you rejoined im not that violent like "

I believe you

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"My best mate was on here and told me about it so I joined. She has since left but I've stayed so far anyhow.

Youre not allowed leave.

Ye you'd kick my ass if I did

ah no id just give out a bit and then nag you til you rejoined im not that violent like

I believe you "

Millions wouldn't

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By *appytoadsCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Been together since our teens, ran out of things to do to each other, natural progression I suppose...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on another website which was shite...initials A.M & was chatting to a girl who told me about fab so i signed up

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

2 women that wanted to fuck me Said I would enjoy the site. so I joined and I am enjoying the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google after a break up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a night out I went to the bar and while there 2 guys started to chat me up , Mr was watching and got turned on by it. We spoke abt it and next it happened I flirted back and we built on it each time. We decided to try a 3some.

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Friend told me about this site. I like the format of it and it easy to work out. Fab Site. Think this is one of the better ones to be truthful

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By *unner4funMan
over a year ago

Belfast-Coleraine

Google search

Glad I found it

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Seen an ad on donedeal

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse

I was on the blue fishing site back then. I saw on a lady profile "Not looking for a one off, go to fab for ONS" then I googled fab and here I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cracker,,,, went on a POF date and after spending a few hours having a bite to eat and walking around a certain city, we decided to grab a coffee before I headed for home.

Whilst drinking said coffee, my date cheekily asked me " so how long have you been on FAB".

When I replied " I have no idea what FAB is", she asked me to " Stop messing, seriously! How long are you on FAB".

I looked her square in the eye and said " I was chatting to you on POF and I have no idea what FAB is".

If I only had a camera to capture her reaction when she realised she was on a POF date and not a FAB social

Priceless.......

And the rest as they say is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in the craigslist of Ireland. Called Lacanto.

Haha it was so sketchy when I think about it. I was like 22 and they were 50. No prior meet, The add was "Hung gent for couple' We met in a house above a casino and the guy looked a bit dodgy and was a mercenary.

They were actually so nice and we had a great time. It did teach me a lesson.. about books and their covers and judging ...ehh something about that.

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast


"When I was an apprentice, I was assigned to one older guy (late 30s early 40s) usual chat and stuff, then he gave me a few porn sites to check out. This was earlyish days of internet porn, they where all cuckold sites, young guys fucking the married older wives, got me into it wasn’t till years later did I guess that he might of been hinting

Man, he was definitely hinting lol!"

It’s up there with the time I was on a nudist beach and this couple came an sat couple feet away from me. She was pullin some made stretch’s in front of me and I was enjoying the view, then her hubby says to me it’s very warm here and they are headin round the corner to a shady part. I remember being very disappointed then realising much later that he was saying fit me to join them!

I’m not great at takin hints

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Man, he was definitely hinting lol!

It’s up there with the time I was on a nudist beach and this couple came an sat couple feet away from me. She was pullin some made stretch’s in front of me and I was enjoying the view, then her hubby says to me it’s very warm here and they are headin round the corner to a shady part. I remember being very disappointed then realising much later that he was saying fit me to join them!

I’m not great at takin hints"

Oh the regrets! At least if it were to happen again you'll know what to do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A Tinder date during the summer.

-"What!!? You've never had a threesome?"

-"No,...nearly once..I suppose"

-"What about fab?"

-"What's fab? "

So yes, It appears I've lived a very sheltered life "

Ditto

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