FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *aiseanagusspraoi OP Man
over a year ago

city

I always said I'd never want them.. But lately it's seems because I don't agree to them it's no conversation and a straight block which is harsh imo

Fair enough a few ladies agree with me and don't do them either but a lot now want them

Should I change my stance

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Chatted to quite a few with no veris. I form my own opinions rather than base them on what others say.

I've had a couple of social meets which went well but veris were never discussed so they aren't a priority.

In saying that though if you've been on a while and don't have any veris at all I can see why it might put some people off as they use veris to confirm that you have actually turned up to arranged socials etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of people will dismiss you immediately as your here a year without a verify. So a coffee meet verify wouldn't do you any harm. Just shows you are genuine. I have met unverified men before not so much anymore. I was sick of the no shows and expectations of a blowjob in the car when we had a coffee meet. But saying that if I'm suitably impressed with a unverified newbies efforts in his profile I'm happy to send the first message.

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By *ryffinwhore_96Woman
over a year ago

Dublin 12

Why is it you dont agree to them? I can understand not caring about them but you said you dont agree with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it you dont agree to them? I can understand not caring about them but you said you dont agree with them?"

Exactly, you do not have to display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. You will get nowhere here without them.

I do understand not wanting them. I was literally having a laugh about this with a guy earlier on.

Most of the verifications given here are incredibly cringy and uncomfortable to read and often seem disingenuous when they all start to read the same. People really need to stop treating them like a yelp review.

BUT you can make your verifications visible but private, so people can see you have X amount of verifications but can't actually read them. That's my preference personally.

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By *aiseanagusspraoi OP Man
over a year ago

city

I suppose agree was the wrong word to use. It's just I don't feel right taking about personal things that went on between me and another woman...

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By *aiseanagusspraoi OP Man
over a year ago

city

"Lot of people will dismiss you immediately as your here a year without a verify. So a coffee meet verify wouldn't do you any harm. Just shows you are genuine. I have met unverified men before not so much anymore. I was sick of the no shows and expectations of a blowjob in the car when we had a coffee meet. But saying that if I'm suitably impressed with a unverified newbies

efforts in his profile I'm happy to send the first message."

That's fair enough... Its definitely harder here without them.. I don't mind making the extra effort tho... But some don't even give me a chance. Its straight block. Which I respect too.. I don't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose agree was the wrong word to use. It's just I don't feel right taking about personal things that went on between me and another woman..."

Verifications don't have to be, nor should they really be in the first place, graphic or overly detailed.

They simply show that you are who you say you are!

The different types of verifications are what some may look at and consider rather than what's said in them; for example 'meeting in person' potentially shows you're more reliable to show up rather than a series of webcam verifications.

You never have to display any sure, ultimately you make your profile work for you, and as shown above it's not a universal deal breaker to be unverified. However, don't shy away from them because you think you have to be explicit. Best of luck whatever you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose agree was the wrong word to use. It's just I don't feel right taking about personal things that went on between me and another woman..."

I would never give a graphic verification that's between me and the people I met. The entire world doesn't need to know I can suck an orange through a hose

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"I suppose agree was the wrong word to use. It's just I don't feel right taking about personal things that went on between me and another woman...

I would never give a graphic verification that's between me and the people I met. The entire world doesn't need to know I can suck an orange through a hose

but you can do it though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most won't converse with a no Veri as they have no idea if it's a fake profile or not ,once verified l never asked for any more or give them unless the lady asks but there's no doubt about it getting conversations or meets without veris is a lot harder..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also have no verifying but that was same view as yourself.

But after reading the replies here I see the point of them.

Never knew you could block wording and only have that you are Verified.

But don't give up as there are some great people on here too.

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By *aiseanagusspraoi OP Man
over a year ago

city

Well said

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