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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

Hi there everybody, I just thought I'd post this here and see if I could get any advice. I'm a single male and I know we're not exactly in high demand

I have a little experience here but just a little and I'm looking for any advice as to the best way to navigate the site as a single male. I don't want to pester people but at the same time I would like to get out there more and meet more people. Any help would be much appreciated.

All the best,

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there everybody, I just thought I'd post this here and see if I could get any advice. I'm a single male and I know we're not exactly in high demand

I have a little experience here but just a little and I'm looking for any advice as to the best way to navigate the site as a single male. I don't want to pester people but at the same time I would like to get out there more and meet more people. Any help would be much appreciated.

All the best,

C"

Bitches love a bit of negging. Always keeps them on their toes and eager for your appreciation!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Most women and couples will tell you that single males are in demand so you need to stand out from the crowd.

The advice always given is to flesh out your profile with both text and a variety of pics.

Spend time on the window dressing so to speak.

Engage more on the forums so that others get a better feeling for your general demeanor and approach.

Too many single males see it as a competition but your biggest competitor is yourself. Don't compare yourself to others.

It has been said on here recently that some guys are afraid to be themselves because they will fall short so they try to copy others and create a fab persona.

It might work for some but as the old saying goes, "You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time."

Be true to yourself and your expectations and remain confident in what you want from the site and you will find navigation much easier.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Most women and couples will tell you that single males are in demand so you need to stand out from the crowd.

The advice always given is to flesh out your profile with both text and a variety of pics.

Spend time on the window dressing so to speak.

Engage more on the forums so that others get a better feeling for your general demeanor and approach.

Too many single males see it as a competition but your biggest competitor is yourself. Don't compare yourself to others.

It has been said on here recently that some guys are afraid to be themselves because they will fall short so they try to copy others and create a fab persona.

It might work for some but as the old saying goes, "You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time."

Be true to yourself and your expectations and remain confident in what you want from the site and you will find navigation much easier.

"

Do you type that every time new or do you recycle?

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Always make you messages stand out. Something like "hey hows you" or "want some fun". For maximum effect make sure you send it every day repeatedly.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Most women and couples will tell you that single males are in demand so you need to stand out from the crowd.

The advice always given is to flesh out your profile with both text and a variety of pics.

Spend time on the window dressing so to speak.

Engage more on the forums so that others get a better feeling for your general demeanor and approach.

Too many single males see it as a competition but your biggest competitor is yourself. Don't compare yourself to others.

It has been said on here recently that some guys are afraid to be themselves because they will fall short so they try to copy others and create a fab persona.

It might work for some but as the old saying goes, "You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time."

Be true to yourself and your expectations and remain confident in what you want from the site and you will find navigation much easier.

"

More wise words from RB. Agree 100%. The lads who chat to, and support each other on the forums are a far more attractive prospect than those who cut each other down. JUST BE SOUND - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite when taking rejection here. Fab gets to be a small world so disrespectful men dont get far. I told a guy this morning I wasn't meeting due to Covid and he said I shouldn't be on this site so and him here a wet week ffs.

Use this time during the current shit show to work on your profile and engage in the forums and learn about the lifestyle. Some of the males here on the forums are knee deep in fanny because people see their personalities shine through. Unfortunately doesn't work if your a dickhead though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there everybody, I just thought I'd post this here and see if I could get any advice. I'm a single male and I know we're not exactly in high demand

I have a little experience here but just a little and I'm looking for any advice as to the best way to navigate the site as a single male. I don't want to pester people but at the same time I would like to get out there more and meet more people. Any help would be much appreciated.

All the best,

C"

Best advice is don't be a dick and to have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be polite when taking rejection here. Fab gets to be a small world so disrespectful men dont get far. I told a guy this morning I wasn't meeting due to Covid and he said I shouldn't be on this site so and him here a wet week ffs.

Use this time during the current shit show to work on your profile and engage in the forums and learn about the lifestyle. Some of the males here on the forums are knee deep in fanny because people see their personalities shine through. Unfortunately doesn't work if your a dickhead though "

This

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Most women and couples will tell you that single males are in demand so you need to stand out from the crowd.

The advice always given is to flesh out your profile with both text and a variety of pics.

Spend time on the window dressing so to speak.

Engage more on the forums so that others get a better feeling for your general demeanor and approach.

Too many single males see it as a competition but your biggest competitor is yourself. Don't compare yourself to others.

It has been said on here recently that some guys are afraid to be themselves because they will fall short so they try to copy others and create a fab persona.

It might work for some but as the old saying goes, "You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time."

Be true to yourself and your expectations and remain confident in what you want from the site and you will find navigation much easier.

More wise words from RB. Agree 100%. The lads who chat to, and support each other on the forums are a far more attractive prospect than those who cut each other down. JUST BE SOUND - Mrs "

Agree one hundred per cent just be yourself. Don't try and big yourself up by putting others down. Have a laugh and join in the forums.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Group hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Group hug "

You offering to hug all the inexperienced males Hardy? Very kind of you

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh


"Group hug

You offering to hug all the inexperienced males Hardy? Very kind of you "
ooops wrong tread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can bé tough alright.. I am trying to contribute to forum etc these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take no for an answer, if they block you just create another profile and message them again, never fails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... and I know we're not exactly in high demand "

Speak for yourself Poncho

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By *ovedeeplove OP   Man
over a year ago

Rathdrum

I'm not on here often so seeing all the responses now. Thanks everyone for the advice, and some of you for the laughs

I appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't take no for an answer, if they block you just create another profile and message them again, never fails "

Solid advice.

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