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By *ondalinger OP   Man
over a year ago

City center

Hey all.

Anybody else struggle with turning 41. Getting older has never bothered me. But this time has. Really badly. Over the hill I'm not. But my 15 year old beat me in a race, and im struggling with that side of getting old. Plus theres a whole load of shit i thought i would have done by now. Or is it just a case of get your finger out and get fucking to it

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's so long ago I can't remember but the one thing I've learned in recent years is that there's no point in dwelling on what you haven't done.

It used to be said that life begins at 40 but in reality it can begin at any age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all.

Anybody else struggle with turning 41. Getting older has never bothered me. But this time has. Really badly. Over the hill I'm not. But my 15 year old beat me in a race, and im struggling with that side of getting old. Plus theres a whole load of shit i thought i would have done by now. Or is it just a case of get your finger out and get fucking to it"

I struggled turning 40 thought I was over the hill. But I changed my attitude and am now feeling confident and in the best shape of my life. There's still plenty of miles left on us vintage models

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all.

Anybody else struggle with turning 41. Getting older has never bothered me. But this time has. Really badly. Over the hill I'm not. But my 15 year old beat me in a race, and im struggling with that side of getting old. Plus theres a whole load of shit i thought i would have done by now. Or is it just a case of get your finger out and get fucking to it"

I have to say my 40s have been great. So get out and enjoy it.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No it never bothered me at all. It's not a big deal as far as I've been concerned. Age is literally just a number. Ye there's things I can't do like I could when I was younger. Mind you I was never any good at running if someone sees me running they better run too as there is definitely something not pleasant chasing me

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Look in the end of the day age is simply a number live your life at whatever pace you want if you keep thinking about your age the more it maybe daunting on you I don't know maybe in your free time try out things you have been wanted to do

My eldest is 10 and he can beat me in a race shockingly I used to be quite fast lol but it doesn't get to me it's something to be proud of him for doing more activities with your kids certainly keeps you on your toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understood why people have such meltdowns over so-called "milestone" birthdays, everyone is headed in the same direction

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By *ondalinger OP   Man
over a year ago

City center

I was thinking of accidentally on purpose injuring him a lil. Nothing heavy, just tore achilles or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never too late to achieve anything, Ohpee

Time spent wishing is time wasted. Dreams, whether you think they're too big or too small, all start with the same first step! Setting your mind to it.

So don't let the thought of them overwhelm you, small steps lead to big changes.

Nobody knows what tomorrow will bring sure so living in the here and now is all we can do! Embrace it, don't waste it

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

Turning 40 never phased me in the slightest I'll be 43 at Christmas and I'm still not bothered. My life long friend however was devastated at Turning 40. She litterly went into hiding a week before and after turning 40.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Hey all.

Anybody else struggle with turning 41. Getting older has never bothered me. But this time has. Really badly. Over the hill I'm not. But my 15 year old beat me in a race, and im struggling with that side of getting old. Plus theres a whole load of shit i thought i would have done by now. Or is it just a case of get your finger out and get fucking to it"

The other option to getting older is dying

I'd rather die slowly

Wait till you get to my age and some of your kids have a better sex life ....that'll feckin upset ya

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Turning 40 never phased me in the slightest I'll be 43 at Christmas and I'm still not bothered. My life long friend however was devastated at Turning 40. She litterly went into hiding a week before and after turning 40."
Its a number and some of us can’t Count thank God we lose track and we just live in the moment and that’s the only way to live now

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By *urious1983NIWoman
over a year ago

Lisburn

Becoming older is a privledge some don't get to experience...

When I turned 30, I was a mess. 40 is drawing closer & I'm ready to embrace it

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

I (mrs) hated turning 40. Felt that was it, all down hill from there, best years gone etc. But you have to embrace what you have, be greatful for every chance at a new experience and be open to exploring more. Then age really does not matter.

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh


"Becoming older is a privledge some don't get to experience...

When I turned 30, I was a mess. 40 is drawing closer & I'm ready to embrace it "

So true.. Some don't get to...

Enjoy all live life to the full, travel the world it a beaut place

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By *andycd20000TV/TS
over a year ago

limerick side of ennis.

I'm 64 and a cross dresser all my life. Yes for some it can be tough. Not for me. Yes you slow down. But it is how you treat it. I love life. I will pass no apology for who or what I am. So enjoy life and live long.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

It's all in the mind op. Be grateful you've survived 41 years on this planet and vow to make the next 41+ even better. I'm 48 and the fittest, happiest and most body confident I've ever been. Get training and vow to beat your 15-year old the next time. Let that be your first goal and go from there. Mrs

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"It's all in the mind op. Be grateful you've survived 41 years on this planet and vow to make the next 41+ even better. I'm 48 and the fittest, happiest and most body confident I've ever been. Get training and vow to beat your 15-year old the next time. Let that be your first goal and go from there. Mrs "

I've never looked at your ages before your above post.

Looking at your pictures and video I genuinely assumed you were both in your 30's

Well done to both of ye

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By *ercedes60Man
over a year ago

waterford

Only a number girl. Ffs 40 is when fun starts. From my experience I hit 40 and said that’s it I’m going to fulfill my needs. Experience is the key and you know what you like and what turns you on and what fulfills your climax. Christ In my 20,s and 30,s I was locked and couldn’t even remember getting the ride????????. Now I pace myself hydrate and enjoy every minute. And I’ve been told 50,s even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned 41 in the summer and with lockdown and weight gain that came

With it have to say I did start to feel the same , after a few weeks break off work I started to change my eating habits for the better and upped the amount of cardio training and with a half decent weight loss I’m feeling much better about myself ... even started putting on smart clothes again after slouching around in tracks or shorts most of time as am working at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i turn 44 tomorrow and its only a number to me . loving life and living it to the max,

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Well once ya turn 40 your like a model t Ford "start by hand and jump on when ya get the thing going

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I’m 52 and have to say the last 5 or 6 years have been the best of my life. I feel like a teenager. I can do most things and play a lot of sports only difference I notice is takes a bit longer to recover and my eyesight closeup has gone to shit so can’t even read my phone without reading glasses which is a pain. Otherwise it’s been great and I’m looking forward to turning 53.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I’m 52 and have to say the last 5 or 6 years have been the best of my life. I feel like a teenager. I can do most things and play a lot of sports only difference I notice is takes a bit longer to recover and my eyesight closeup has gone to shit so can’t even read my phone without reading glasses which is a pain. Otherwise it’s been great and I’m looking forward to turning 53."

Yep, the bloody reading glasses are the only drawback

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

i love the positivity. Just wish i could feel the bloody same. I used to love my birthday but once i got over 36 ive started to dread it and it gets worse as each year goes by

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I found turning 30 worse than turning 40 to be honest

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I found turning 30 worse than turning 40 to be honest "

I found turning 25 worse than turning 48

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"I found turning 30 worse than turning 40 to be honest

I found turning 25 worse than turning 48 "

Isn't it strange. You look fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inside I still feel 20 something and forget until I look in the mirror that is. The body is aging but the mind still sees plenty of joy in life

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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"i turn 44 tomorrow and its only a number to me . loving life and living it to the max,"

Happy birthday for tomorrow.. I am usually like you but I am just out of 14 days quarantine and I have to say I'm feelin every day of my age since I need to find my mojo.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turning 30 was depressing...40 didnt bother me at all..now closer to 50 what scary is how fast time seem to be passing these days...Way happier though than ever before

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