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"Filters and ignore anyone that isn't verified or doesn't look interesting.. Sprinkle the block button liberally " I need to block unverified. It’s crappy cos I’ve met a couple of great guys that were unverified but I think it’s needs must now. | |||
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"Filters and ignore anyone that isn't verified or doesn't look interesting.. Sprinkle the block button liberally I need to block unverified. It’s crappy cos I’ve met a couple of great guys that were unverified but I think it’s needs must now. " Think you can specifically block new members! | |||
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"It’s like dealing with teenagers. I’m only back on after a break and absolutely sick of it already. Guys are now setting up multiple Kik and Fab accounts and hoping from account to account. Messaging repeatedly and not backing off, getting pissy when you say no. Then reproaching me from another account. No means no. FFS!! Seriously I’ve seen how rude some women are but after the last few days, I don’t bloody blame them. Never had this before. It’s driving me nuts. What are other people doing?? " Lots of new members here since lockdown as people didn't have a social life so came on here instead. Put some messaging filters in place, especially for new and unverified members | |||
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"You can block unverified members as well as block males from mailing you it's on the mail filter section " m I don’t want to block males I wish there was an asshole filter but I can’t seem to find it... | |||
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"You can block unverified members as well as block males from mailing you it's on the mail filter section m I don’t want to block males I wish there was an asshole filter but I can’t seem to find it... " LOL @ asshole filter... love it.. | |||
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"You can block unverified members as well as block males from mailing you it's on the mail filter section m I don’t want to block males I wish there was an asshole filter but I can’t seem to find it... " Block newbies, no public pics(even tho so many can cheat that one even tho they always claim they don't ) it cuts down a lot of the messages I found. | |||
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"It’s like dealing with teenagers. I’m only back on after a break and absolutely sick of it already. Guys are now setting up multiple Kik and Fab accounts and hoping from account to account. Messaging repeatedly and not backing off, getting pissy when you say no. Then reproaching me from another account. No means no. FFS!! Seriously I’ve seen how rude some women are but after the last few days, I don’t bloody blame them. Never had this before. It’s driving me nuts. What are other people doing?? " Welcome back to fab anyway now let's breath and slowly count to 10 slowly then back again then slowly repeat with me woosa breath in then again woosa now your back in the room calm less stressed less pissed off and your welcome if you need this again please pm me anytime | |||
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"There should be a real. If you don’t have a verification within a certain timeframe your account is suspended until you get one!!" But how would you get one if it was suspended? | |||
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"Seen so many come and go...so many ppl with different profiles too it’s hard to know who’s who lol" True or who is using other peoples pics worse is when some one breaks someones trust and uses their pics without knowledge. Usually ones who have multiple profiles cos they can't get meets on their own seem to be the worst offenders tho for that. | |||
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"Seen so many come and go...so many ppl with different profiles too it’s hard to know who’s who lol True or who is using other peoples pics worse is when some one breaks someones trust and uses their pics without knowledge. Usually ones who have multiple profiles cos they can't get meets on their own seem to be the worst offenders tho for that. " Only the lowest of the low would resort to that. | |||
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"Seen so many come and go...so many ppl with different profiles too it’s hard to know who’s who lol True or who is using other peoples pics worse is when some one breaks someones trust and uses their pics without knowledge. Usually ones who have multiple profiles cos they can't get meets on their own seem to be the worst offenders tho for that. Only the lowest of the low would resort to that." That is true they are the dregs of fab. | |||
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"There should be a real. If you don’t have a verification within a certain timeframe your account is suspended until you get one!!" And what timeframe do you suggest | |||
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"There should be a real. If you don’t have a verification within a certain timeframe your account is suspended until you get one!!" Yea an hour or fuvk off our website ya gobshite . I hear ya. Say it louder for the folks in the back there lad !!!!!¥? | |||
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"Seen so many come and go...so many ppl with different profiles too it’s hard to know who’s who lol True or who is using other peoples pics worse is when some one breaks someones trust and uses their pics without knowledge. Usually ones who have multiple profiles cos they can't get meets on their own seem to be the worst offenders tho for that. Only the lowest of the low would resort to that." | |||
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"There should be a real. If you don’t have a verification within a certain timeframe your account is suspended until you get one!! And what timeframe do you suggest " Nah ideas like that would create a more desperate response for men to try and meet and get verified. It’s unfortunate alright that there are pests but using filters and not changing the foundation of the site would keep a more natural feel, allowing everyone else to still enjoy the social side of the site. | |||
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"Seen so many come and go...so many ppl with different profiles too it’s hard to know who’s who lol True or who is using other peoples pics worse is when some one breaks someones trust and uses their pics without knowledge. Usually ones who have multiple profiles cos they can't get meets on their own seem to be the worst offenders tho for that. Only the lowest of the low would resort to that. That is true they are the dregs of fab. " | |||
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"To OP, to seize full control, block all single guys like Casey Lee recommended. " Why would I do that when it’s single guys I want to chat to? | |||
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"To OP, to seize full control, block all single guys like Casey Lee recommended. Why would I do that when it’s single guys I want to chat to? " Then just ignore the ones you aren't interested in Then ignore all their "manners" bullshit, and "ignorant" bullshit. | |||
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"To OP, to seize full control, block all single guys like Casey Lee recommended. Why would I do that when it’s single guys I want to chat to? " With that filter you can still message them and anyone you message will still be able to message you. It will just require you to make first contact | |||
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"To OP, to seize full control, block all single guys like Casey Lee recommended. Why would I do that when it’s single guys I want to chat to? " You contact the guys you like. No single guy can contact you. This includes good and annoying. It's an option if you are really being demented. Or orther option is allow all guys contact you and take the good with the bad. | |||
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"It’s like dealing with teenagers. I’m only back on after a break and absolutely sick of it already. Guys are now setting up multiple Kik and Fab accounts and hoping from account to account. Messaging repeatedly and not backing off, getting pissy when you say no. Then reproaching me from another account. No means no. FFS!! Seriously I’ve seen how rude some women are but after the last few days, I don’t bloody blame them. Never had this before. It’s driving me nuts. What are other people doing?? " Is that more than one guy with the second account? Just block em... | |||
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"Use filters and initiate contact yourself with those who spark interest. Simple" This ^^ | |||
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"Hard for genuine guys to get a break on here...... so many assholes obviously ruining any chances a decent guy has of making new friends. Very frustrating from a guys point of view too, to be honest." True..assholes.. neanderthals.... Probably the very "men" that would run a mile... not knowing what to do in the company of a woman | |||
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"Hi what about the honest new members who cant get a met because they are not vertified " Agreed, difficult... But there is never an excuse for being rude, and as for being pushy and not taking "no" for an answer, is bombarding gonna change things?? | |||
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"Hi what about the honest new members who cant get a met because they are not vertified " What about them? No one is entitled to meet just because they joined the site. Yes in these times of social distancing and restrictions a new member will not have the opportunity to to visit clubs or organised socials, but then I suppose we really shouldn't be meeting at all at present. You can still try to build a rapport with others on line, but again that still doesn't entitle anyone to meet when restrictions are lifted. Also not everyone demands that others are meet verified, we do, yes, but many others don't. | |||
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" Is that more than one guy with the second account? Just block em..." He had more than one Kid account - i suspect another Fab account but not sure... | |||
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" Agreed, difficult... But there is never an excuse for being rude, and as for being pushy and not taking "no" for an answer, is bombarding gonna change things??" This. I've no problem speaking to new people or unverified people. IN fact, just because someone is verified, doesn't mean they aren't rude dickheads. | |||
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"That is annoying OP and I'm sure it's very frustrating. Not all of us newbies are like that though there are a few diamonds in the rough " "Hi what about the honest new members who cant get a met because they are not vertified " I actually reached out and messaged two unverified male newbies recently and had coffee with both of them. They both had interesting well written profiles and really good photos which is rare here. I know it's used as a excuse all the time but both got verified within a month because they had good profiles. So I personally think it's a feeble excuse. Make an effort and you reap the rewards | |||
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"That is annoying OP and I'm sure it's very frustrating. Not all of us newbies are like that though there are a few diamonds in the rough Hi what about the honest new members who cant get a met because they are not vertified Good for you I actually reached out and messaged two unverified male newbies recently and had coffee with both of them. They both had interesting well written profiles and really good photos which is rare here. I know it's used as a excuse all the time but both got verified within a month because they had good profiles. So I personally think it's a feeble excuse. Make an effort and you reap the rewards " | |||
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"That is annoying OP and I'm sure it's very frustrating. Not all of us newbies are like that though there are a few diamonds in the rough Hi what about the honest new members who cant get a met because they are not vertified I actually reached out and messaged two unverified male newbies recently and had coffee with both of them. They both had interesting well written profiles and really good photos which is rare here. I know it's used as a excuse all the time but both got verified within a month because they had good profiles. So I personally think it's a feeble excuse. Make an effort and you reap the rewards " We will meet a sound newbie over a cocky "fill in later been here before know how it works" any day of the week | |||
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"You can block unverified members as well as block males from mailing you it's on the mail filter section m I don’t want to block males I wish there was an asshole filter but I can’t seem to find it... " If you figure it out will ya let me know | |||
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"It’s like dealing with teenagers. I’m only back on after a break and absolutely sick of it already. Guys are now setting up multiple Kik and Fab accounts and hoping from account to account. Messaging repeatedly and not backing off, getting pissy when you say no. Then reproaching me from another account. No means no. FFS!! Seriously I’ve seen how rude some women are but after the last few days, I don’t bloody blame them. Never had this before. It’s driving me nuts. What are other people doing?? " 6 weeks not one message sent to the pleasure consultant without initiation. Recommendation .. rejoin as a male | |||
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