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By *arl2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Does anyone actually chat are meet on fab anymore as plp has said on forums before I honestly think I'm polite and always msg with manners and send a pic with my msg but still gets me no where why is this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being polite and having manners is the basic entry requirements to being a functional adult.

If all a woman is looking for is someone polite with manners, they are setting the bar pretty low.

I'm guessing they are looking for someone that brings something more to the table. What that 'something' is, depends on the person.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Jeez I wonder why people aren't fucking strangers left right and centre. Hmm

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By *arl2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

I know been polite is the norm but u often see women giving out thst such a fella was rude and msg them been pure ignorant and nasty which isn't me but I still get no reply to msgs I send thsts all I'm saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think being polite and having manners is the basic entry requirements to being a functional adult.

If all a woman is looking for is someone polite with manners, they are setting the bar pretty low.

I'm guessing they are looking for someone that brings something more to the table. What that 'something' is, depends on the person."

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By *arl2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN


"Jeez I wonder why people aren't fucking strangers left right and centre. Hmm"
I'm not talking about fucking strangers but it's not hard to chat are maybe meet up for a coffee I never mention fucking anyone did i

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

A lot of people aren't meeting right now full stop.

Have you also considered using better photos and trying to sell yourself a bit more? Women actually read profiles. Shocking I know.

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By *arl2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Well any advice would be great thanks but whsts wrong with my pics and profile I've private pics thst I always send with my first msg

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Jeez I wonder why people aren't fucking strangers left right and centre. Hmm I'm not talking about fucking strangers but it's not hard to chat are maybe meet up for a coffee I never mention fucking anyone did i"

Whats the point. The aim of this place is to meet strangers to fuck. That's probably the reason most folks aren't responding to you. It's pointless

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By *arl2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

I want to fuck in time but I dont just msg women and say you wanna fuvk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same thing as Tinder.

There is a ridiculous amount of men to women/couples here. So the top % of males do most of the fucking. You need to as other users say stand out more and put more work in as a male unfortunately.

You could try writing more stuff about yourself. (But frustratingly sometimes writing less is desired so it's impossible to win at times)

Maybe expirements with more photos taking them at random times and see if one looks good to you for some reason.

Keep going and it should get easier. Also post-covid will be easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think being polite and having manners is the basic entry requirements to being a functional adult.

If all a woman is looking for is someone polite with manners, they are setting the bar pretty low.

I'm guessing they are looking for someone that brings something more to the table. What that 'something' is, depends on the person."

This!

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

I have the same problem, I behaved like a gentleman I write with manners, education and courtesy. When they answer me, they make fun of me that I compliment them with my writing and they write "No, thanks" when they answer me. Any constructive suggestions !!!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's not just about having manners or complimenting someone tho.Most women get compliments in first messages even if it is sometimes put in a more cruse fashion. But I doubt any woman believes every guy messaging her actually means any of those.

I know before I read a message from anyone new I look at their profile if their profile doesn't appeal to me or if they live hours away etc then depending on what kind of message they have sent it either gets answered with a no thank you or deleted unanswered. Your profile is your shop window on here basically a good one will entice people to chat with you. But as for what you should have on yours well that is entirely up to you. It's a reflection of you and what appeals to one person will not appeal to another.

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin


"It's not just about having manners or complimenting someone tho.Most women get compliments in first messages even if it is sometimes put in a more cruse fashion. But I doubt any woman believes every guy messaging her actually means any of those.

I know before I read a message from anyone new I look at their profile if their profile doesn't appeal to me or if they live hours away etc then depending on what kind of message they have sent it either gets answered with a no thank you or deleted unanswered. Your profile is your shop window on here basically a good one will entice people to chat with you. But as for what you should have on yours well that is entirely up to you. It's a reflection of you and what appeals to one person will not appeal to another."

Please can you give me your opinion or recommendations about my profile

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


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Please can you give me your opinion or recommendations about my profile"

What appeals to me won't appeal to others tho. You have to just make it how you like.

The one thing I wouldn't like is meeting in your flat I prefer somewhere that is neutral for a first paly meet but then that would appeal to plenty of others but personally I would not go anyone's home until I knew them well.

And I don't think many women are going to send you their proposals about what they want to do. But yet again that's just me.

Just make the profile about you it will appeal to someone.

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By *melia11Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Heya OP,

I can only speak from my own experience here, but I think the vast majority of men who contact me don't bother to read my profile... If a sender shows they use some discernment by calling out something in my profile rather than my pic or the much used 'Hey', I'm much more likely to read the message. I hope that helps?

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I want to fuck in time but I dont just msg women and say you wanna fuvk "

You’ve met two couples during Covid - 19.

I’d say you’re doing better than most single guys living rurally

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By *hy NewbysCouple
over a year ago

Maynooth

Try to stand out, take more flattering pictures and spelling/grammar as well, read over your messages before sending them, use commas and full stops.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"It's not just about having manners or complimenting someone tho.Most women get compliments in first messages even if it is sometimes put in a more cruse fashion. But I doubt any woman believes every guy messaging her actually means any of those.

I know before I read a message from anyone new I look at their profile if their profile doesn't appeal to me or if they live hours away etc then depending on what kind of message they have sent it either gets answered with a no thank you or deleted unanswered. Your profile is your shop window on here basically a good one will entice people to chat with you. But as for what you should have on yours well that is entirely up to you. It's a reflection of you and what appeals to one person will not appeal to another."

Omg THIS. Your profile is like a menu board outside a restaurant, if it's not appealing, nobody is gonna be interested, no matter what you say to them.

If there's low effort in the profile, I presume there'll be low effort in the interaction / bedroom.

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

you either click with a person or you don't, most people here are very fickle.. no meet with cock pic on profile, no meet with ass showing on profile no bi,be a photographer and take better pics, any Grammer errors on profile etc etc etc.

the only way to truly know someone is face to face.

Also covid is putting alot of people off

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"I know been polite is the norm but u often see women giving out thst such a fella was rude and msg them been pure ignorant and nasty which isn't me but I still get no reply to msgs I send thsts all I'm saying "

Has anyone told you that nobody owes you anything here if they ain't replying maybe try at a different time or move on it's that simple

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By *omtom1969Man
over a year ago

ashbourne

Fab is a woman's delight,, so few women nd too many men,, the women have all the control, they own us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Please can you give me your opinion or recommendations about my profile

What appeals to me won't appeal to others tho. You have to just make it how you like.

The one thing I wouldn't like is meeting in your flat I prefer somewhere that is neutral for a first paly meet but then that would appeal to plenty of others but personally I would not go anyone's home until I knew them well.

And I don't think many women are going to send you their proposals about what they want to do. But yet again that's just me.

Just make the profile about you it will appeal to someone. "

But there are loads of common things that work for the majority of women. It's like trends on tinder. Just certain things work. Of course real magic happens when you find the matching peice to your real self, or intrest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a guy has to READ a lady's profile..find something that's wrote on it that's maybe not on another's and focus your question in your message on that l find a lot of the time it's wayyyyyyyyyy easier to get chatting to a lady if you reply or reply privately to a topic or post they have put on the forums as it shows you've an interest in what they're saying or their opinion as well ..not only wanting to get them naked ..believe it or not once a guy stimulates a lady's mind ..it gives her the impression there's more to this guy other than thinking with his dick ..

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