FabSwingers.com forum: Body count

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is a pretty simple question, does body count matter to any of you if you were looking for a relationship? In fact, would a drastically high number make a difference? And what would you even consider to be a high number?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

No.. But a lack of experience might be an issue if someone was very very inexperienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. I wouldn't care.

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By *argus12Man
over a year ago

meath dublin / london

Great profile pic belle

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"This is a pretty simple question, does body count matter to any of you if you were looking for a relationship? In fact, would a drastically high number make a difference? And what would you even consider to be a high number?"

I think 100+ is "high" but I wouldn't care. Don't think I'd even think to ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not an Ice-T thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not an Ice-T thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant rationalise it but high numbers would turn me off , I dont know why but i dont ask how many partners people have had cause I dont want to be bothered by it

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I cant rationalise it but high numbers would turn me off , I dont know why but i dont ask how many partners people have had cause I dont want to be bothered by it "

That'll be the good old patriarchy

You're right, it's best not to ask if you know it bothers you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not an Ice-T thread

BC BC BC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh if they have killed one person thats probably enough to put me off

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Tbh if they have killed one person thats probably enough to put me off"

Genuine LOL (it was more of a honk tbh)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cant rationalise it but high numbers would turn me off , I dont know why but i dont ask how many partners people have had cause I dont want to be bothered by it

That'll be the good old patriarchy

You're right, it's best not to ask if you know it bothers you! "

Gotta say I was expecting at least one of these answers and more so from a man. I am trying to think of an argument besides the Patriarchy but I am at a loss. It was nice to see the general consensus is no though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tbh if they have killed one person thats probably enough to put me off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant rationalise it but high numbers would turn me off , I dont know why but i dont ask how many partners people have had cause I dont want to be bothered by it

That'll be the good old patriarchy

You're right, it's best not to ask if you know it bothers you!

But I know women that wouldn't be too keen on men who have slept around alot ,what would that be attributed to?

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

We all have a past, so as long as your enjoying life who cares how many someone else was with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about the number per se, the person could have other issues which led to an exceptionally low or high number of partners, I'd be more interested in that.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

"This is not an Ice-T thread

BC BC BC

Bodycount's in da house....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant rationalise it but high numbers would turn me off , I dont know why but i dont ask how many partners people have had cause I dont want to be bothered by it

That'll be the good old patriarchy

You're right, it's best not to ask if you know it bothers you!

But I know women that wouldn't be too keen on men who have slept around alot ,what would that be attributed to?"

A fear he's always on the lookout for the next conquest perhaps? Obsession about high numbers in a partner's past is often more about one's own insecurities.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I cant rationalise it but high numbers would turn me off , I dont know why but i dont ask how many partners people have had cause I dont want to be bothered by it

That'll be the good old patriarchy

You're right, it's best not to ask if you know it bothers you!

But I know women that wouldn't be too keen on men who have slept around alot ,what would that be attributed to?"

Also the patriarchy, albeit a different facet of it (toxic masculinity & compulsory monogamy vs slut shaming) We all live under the same system, it just affects different groups in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cant rationalise it but high numbers would turn me off , I dont know why but i dont ask how many partners people have had cause I dont want to be bothered by it

That'll be the good old patriarchy

You're right, it's best not to ask if you know it bothers you!

But I know women that wouldn't be too keen on men who have slept around alot ,what would that be attributed to?

A fear he's always on the lookout for the next conquest perhaps? Obsession about high numbers in a partner's past is often more about one's own insecurities."

This is something I understand very well, might be another topic, the idea of men and "conquests", I do want to see if any woman would be bothered by a high body count just to see their reasoning, and no one has yet to say what they consider a high body count yet.

I'd probably say 40 for men around my age and maybe 50 for women? Its really hard to tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant rationalise it but high numbers would turn me off , I dont know why but i dont ask how many partners people have had cause I dont want to be bothered by it

That'll be the good old patriarchy

You're right, it's best not to ask if you know it bothers you!

But I know women that wouldn't be too keen on men who have slept around alot ,what would that be attributed to?

A fear he's always on the lookout for the next conquest perhaps? Obsession about high numbers in a partner's past is often more about one's own insecurities.

I'd probably say 40 for men around my age and maybe 50 for women? Its really hard to tell"

I'm guessing that for most, high is "more than me" and low is "less than me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me, I never even thought to ask R and he hasn't asked me.

When you get to our age we are bound to have a past, but it's how we treat each other that matters at the end of the day.

Just like age, it's nothing but a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 100 is high, but again it wouldn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not an Ice-T thread

BC BC BC

Bodycount's in da house...."

Aaaaaww shit

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

A high body count apparently is good for party invites not so much for low body counts altho there are plenty that prefer low body counts to high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It genuinely wouldn't bother me tbh..

Id like to think that if i liked someone enough to be in a relationship with them then how they treated me is the important bit.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'd stir away from a low body count. Other than that I couldn't be arsed, none of my business, same works the other way around.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Body count ? Do you mean people they've killed or people I've slept with ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Body count ? Do you mean people they've killed or people I've slept with ? "

I mean if you've killed anyone, I guess I'd like to know, but in this context, the slept with body count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is three a lot?

People you've slept with? No. Murders? Yes!

Sure being on here, everyone's hoping their count is going to get higher, so why would any of us care? I lost count a long time ago anyway

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

Wouldn't bother me as I love hearing about past lovers can be a turn on or off depending on the couple. Everyone has a past some more erotic or interesting than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My go to number is 8 but obviously it is drastically higher and only give that when asked in vanilla life.

It shouldn’t count and to be judged on it is disgraceful - Eros only found out my number in passing and was giving himself a pat on the back with being my best yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is three a lot?

People you've slept with? No. Murders? Yes!

Sure being on here, everyone's hoping their count is going to get higher, so why would any of us care? I lost count a long time ago anyway

What about only 2 murders? Is that acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My go to number is 8 but obviously it is drastically higher and only give that when asked in vanilla life.

It shouldn’t count and to be judged on it is disgraceful - Eros only found out my number in passing and was giving himself a pat on the back with being my best yet.

If anyone in any life asked me I'd tell them to mind their own fucking business!

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"My go to number is 8 but obviously it is drastically higher and only give that when asked in vanilla life.

It shouldn’t count and to be judged on it is disgraceful - Eros only found out my number in passing and was giving himself a pat on the back with being my best yet.

If anyone in any life asked me I'd tell them to mind their own fucking business!"

I'd just tell em, I'm always interested in seeing their reaction - tells me a lot about the kind of person they are!

Not that mine is wildly high, 40ish at this stage I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actually know my number tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My go to number is 8 but obviously it is drastically higher and only give that when asked in vanilla life.

It shouldn’t count and to be judged on it is disgraceful - Eros only found out my number in passing and was giving himself a pat on the back with being my best yet.

If anyone in any life asked me I'd tell them to mind their own fucking business!

I'd just tell em, I'm always interested in seeing their reaction - tells me a lot about the kind of person they are!

Not that mine is wildly high, 40ish at this stage I'd say. "

The fact that they're asking tells me the kind of person they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do most people only keep track of their total number?

Whenever I'm with someone I update a GitHub data set with all their information.

I like to be able to export it to a pivot table where categorise them in terms of sexual act (shift/finger/oral/ride), age, location, hair colour, etc. You'd never know when that data could be needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do most people only keep track of their total number?

Whenever I'm with someone I update a GitHub data set with all their information.

Sounds as exciting as the covid hub!

At this stage, I'm pretty sure I've completely forgotten some people

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Is three a lot?

People you've slept with? No. Murders? Yes!

Sure being on here, everyone's hoping their count is going to get higher, so why would any of us care? I lost count a long time ago anyway

What about only 2 murders? Is that acceptable?"

You need to change your name to never sleeping Gary in case murder is on her mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is three a lot?

People you've slept with? No. Murders? Yes!

Sure being on here, everyone's hoping their count is going to get higher, so why would any of us care? I lost count a long time ago anyway

What about only 2 murders? Is that acceptable?

You need to change your name to never sleeping Gary in case murder is on her mind "

Haha. Or itd be Sleeping with the fishes Gary

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

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thats what i was thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do most people only keep track of their total number?

Whenever I'm with someone I update a GitHub data set with all their information.

I mean it would be a great data set for a an AI, imagine a matching system on here using that set? The possibilities are endless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do most people only keep track of their total number?

Whenever I'm with someone I update a GitHub data set with all their information.

I mean it would be a great data set for a an AI, imagine a matching system on here using that set? The possibilities are endless

It worked out well for me, because my new lover is actually an AI.

I asked her to rate me on a scale from 0 to 1. She responded $return() FLOATING POINT ERROR.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do most people only keep track of their total number?

Whenever I'm with someone I update a GitHub data set with all their information.

I mean it would be a great data set for a an AI, imagine a matching system on here using that set? The possibilities are endless

It worked out well for me, because my new lover is actually an AI.

I asked her to rate me on a scale from 0 to 1. She responded $return() FLOATING POINT ERROR."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So do most people only keep track of their total number?

Whenever I'm with someone I update a GitHub data set with all their information.

I mean it would be a great data set for a an AI, imagine a matching system on here using that set? The possibilities are endless

It worked out well for me, because my new lover is actually an AI.

I asked her to rate me on a scale from 0 to 1. She responded $return() FLOATING POINT ERROR."

I'd say it would be an out of bounds exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do most people only keep track of their total number?

Whenever I'm with someone I update a GitHub data set with all their information.

I mean it would be a great data set for a an AI, imagine a matching system on here using that set? The possibilities are endless

It worked out well for me, because my new lover is actually an AI.

I asked her to rate me on a scale from 0 to 1. She responded $return() FLOATING POINT ERROR.

I'd say it would be an out of bounds exception

Haha. In this context, an out of bounds exception sounds like when someone agreed to have outdoor sex... just this once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you started your sex life at 20 & had 1 partner a year until 50 that would be 30 partners...is that alot or just thecrealiry of a life lived.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"So do most people only keep track of their total number?

Whenever I'm with someone I update a GitHub data set with all their information.

Sounds as exciting as the covid hub!

At this stage, I'm pretty sure I've completely forgotten some people"

This

I'm the same.

Forgotten some until a friend reminds me in conversation and I'm all Oh Yeah and closing my eyes trying to remember

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Is three a lot?

People you've slept with? No. Murders? Yes!

Sure being on here, everyone's hoping their count is going to get higher, so why would any of us care? I lost count a long time ago anyway

3 isn't that many murders it would depend on the context really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is three a lot?

People you've slept with? No. Murders? Yes!

Sure being on here, everyone's hoping their count is going to get higher, so why would any of us care? I lost count a long time ago anyway

3 isn't that many murders it would depend on the context really

Idiots on the forums? Not that many

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