FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

He's not my type

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"He's not my type but I'd still do him" do women say this much ? I know men say it almost every day. "I dont fancy her but I'd still give her one " etc...

I feel like women dont say this as much and why are men almost always more likely to drop standards? Also I'm not talking about Fab but life in general.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More about bragging to their mates IMO

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks"

In general if you're around any group of men you'd hear that, fair enough not all men but a fair percentage.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More about bragging to their mates IMO"

To be fair I say it around the lads alot but I'm more talk than action ...like most of us. I'd call it "Manter " jokes and general chat between men that they dont say as much around women .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Don't think it's something a woman would say. There's a connection between the mind and the pussy, the latter only works when the first is up for it.

In comparison men have two heads and when the little head takes over the thinking, the selection process follows simplified rules.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks"

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it has something to do with the fact that for many (not all) men, they can cum very easily even without being particularly turned on? So it doesn't really matter who they're with.

Women, on the other hand, usually find it much harder to cum (again, generalising) so they're not going to bother trying with someone they don't fancy.

Just spit balling here. But I know I wouldn't sleep with someone I didn't fancy because I'd know I wouldn't be able to enjoy it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

"

I mean, yeah on some level. But I think these attitudes are becoming less and less prevelant as gender roles evolve.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

"

I understand the logic.

But does the male half of your couple say nearly every day. "I dont fancy her but I'd give her one"

I havent been in a group of men that has said something like that in a very long time never mind daily tbh

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

"

Exactly this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

I understand the logic.

But does the male half of your couple say nearly every day. "I dont fancy her but I'd give her one"

I havent been in a group of men that has said something like that in a very long time never mind daily tbh"

Eh, some men are more socially evolved than others

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I think the OP would be 90% accurate.

A standing cock has no conscience. I'll leave you with that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Most definitely not there has to be a connection for me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP would be 90% accurate.

A standing cock has no conscience. I'll leave you with that."

Think that's a little harsh. There are definitely some men who are above this.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP would be 90% accurate.

A standing cock has no conscience. I'll leave you with that.

Think that's a little harsh. There are definitely some men who are above this. "

Some yes, but not that many

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP would be 90% accurate.

A standing cock has no conscience. I'll leave you with that."

Why would a cock stand with zero attraction?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

"

I'm slowly getting tired of those biological explanations. Yes they might explain some instincts and behaviour but they completely leave out the process of evolution, namely that we adapt to the ever changing environment. It's like they're stuck in the encrusted patriarchal system, trying desperately to cement the fading value of the providing man and the woman at home.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


""He's not my type but I'd still do him" do women say this much ? I know men say it almost every day. "I dont fancy her but I'd still give her one " etc...

I feel like women dont say this as much and why are men almost always more likely to drop standards? Also I'm not talking about Fab but life in general. "

Definetly not -I only" DO " my type

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP would be 90% accurate.

A standing cock has no conscience. I'll leave you with that.

Why would a cock stand with zero attraction? "

Opportunity

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP would be 90% accurate.

A standing cock has no conscience. I'll leave you with that.

Why would a cock stand with zero attraction?

Opportunity"

Shiver me timbers

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

I'm slowly getting tired of those biological explanations. Yes they might explain some instincts and behaviour but they completely leave out the process of evolution, namely that we adapt to the ever changing environment. It's like they're stuck in the encrusted patriarchal system, trying desperately to cement the fading value of the providing man and the woman at home. "

They are ONLY about the process of evolution. Our instincts are as a result of evolution, and it takes many many generations of environmental change to react and change. That's not to say individuals HAVE to behave in a certain way.. Individuals can choose choose their own behaviour, in spite of their instincts. Its not an excuse. Its not a reason to carry on as we always have with archaic systems like the patriarchy. What it does is provide clues as to WHY people act the way they do though. As man I feel instincts that I dislike sometimes, but we choose our behaviour. Ignoring obvious historical biological traits is to lose the ability to understand and to some extent to overcome.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

In general if you're around any group of men you'd hear that, fair enough not all men but a fair percentage."

Depends on who you mix with I guess. Again a very generalised statement. Don't think I've heard it around friends, but I've overheard it from lads just bragging.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

In general if you're around any group of men you'd hear that, fair enough not all men but a fair percentage.

Depends on who you mix with I guess. Again a very generalised statement. Don't think I've heard it around friends, but I've overheard it from lads just bragging."

Yep. I think it's a certain kind of man who says things like this to impress the lads. Certainly not the kind of man I'd be willing to sleep with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally it wouldn't be for me. Only ever slept/shagged/etc with people I found attractive.

But to each their own I suppose.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

In general if you're around any group of men you'd hear that, fair enough not all men but a fair percentage.

Depends on who you mix with I guess. Again a very generalised statement. Don't think I've heard it around friends, but I've overheard it from lads just bragging."

Well I've atleast 4 groups of mates who would be very different and at different stages in their lives and these statements happen in all of them. From my sports team to ,work mates, school mates and old local friends.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

In general if you're around any group of men you'd hear that, fair enough not all men but a fair percentage.

Depends on who you mix with I guess. Again a very generalised statement. Don't think I've heard it around friends, but I've overheard it from lads just bragging.

Yep. I think it's a certain kind of man who says things like this to impress the lads. Certainly not the kind of man I'd be willing to sleep with. "
you wouldn't even know. Men don't say these things around women.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Instinct but some can control them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

In general if you're around any group of men you'd hear that, fair enough not all men but a fair percentage.

Depends on who you mix with I guess. Again a very generalised statement. Don't think I've heard it around friends, but I've overheard it from lads just bragging.

Yep. I think it's a certain kind of man who says things like this to impress the lads. Certainly not the kind of man I'd be willing to sleep with. you wouldn't even know. Men don't say these things around women."

I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but ye aren't the masters of disguise that you think. It's pretty obvious which men are led by their dicks and which have active brain cells.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

In general if you're around any group of men you'd hear that, fair enough not all men but a fair percentage.

Depends on who you mix with I guess. Again a very generalised statement. Don't think I've heard it around friends, but I've overheard it from lads just bragging.

Yep. I think it's a certain kind of man who says things like this to impress the lads. Certainly not the kind of man I'd be willing to sleep with. you wouldn't even know. Men don't say these things around women.

I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but ye aren't the masters of disguise that you think. It's pretty obvious which men are led by their dicks and which have active brain cells. "

Its actually not but believe what you want.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

I'm slowly getting tired of those biological explanations. Yes they might explain some instincts and behaviour but they completely leave out the process of evolution, namely that we adapt to the ever changing environment. It's like they're stuck in the encrusted patriarchal system, trying desperately to cement the fading value of the providing man and the woman at home.

They are ONLY about the process of evolution. Our instincts are as a result of evolution, and it takes many many generations of environmental change to react and change. That's not to say individuals HAVE to behave in a certain way.. Individuals can choose choose their own behaviour, in spite of their instincts. Its not an excuse. Its not a reason to carry on as we always have with archaic systems like the patriarchy. What it does is provide clues as to WHY people act the way they do though. As man I feel instincts that I dislike sometimes, but we choose our behaviour. Ignoring obvious historical biological traits is to lose the ability to understand and to some extent to overcome. "

Perfectly put

Feeling an instinct is one thing, having the nous to keep it to yourself is another.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Wouldn't be something I'd be interested in doing but in saying that I have been with guys I don't initially find attractive because we got on really well.

And op guys do say it in front of women usually younger guys I found tho. I worked in a very much male environment for years so your theory they don't talk like that in front of women is wrong.

But I also don't believe all guys are ruled by their dick and their need to pro create with as many women as possible. Or that women are ruled by some inner need to have kids so look for a suitable mate for that.

I have sex with guys I like because I enjoy it simple as that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be fair I am not ruled by my dick. I've slept with less than 10 people and never had a one night stand. Also this is like my third profile in a few years on here and in that time I could have met around 8-10 people but they weren't for me. But I do say that around guys when we're all joking and I do know alot of men who have dropped their standards just for the ride. I dont know many women that have done so. This brought me to the conclusion that men are more likely....in general to drop standards or to atleast joke about it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we turned down couples and men on here due to clean and well attraction even though just sex he doesn't like the girl then he can't get aroused plus me with men

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I am not ruled by my dick. I've slept with less than 10 people and never had a one night stand. Also this is like my third profile in a few years on here and in that time I could have met around 8-10 people but they weren't for me. But I do say that around guys when we're all joking and I do know alot of men who have dropped their standards just for the ride. I dont know many women that have done so. This brought me to the conclusion that men are more likely....in general to drop standards or to atleast joke about it."

By your own logic though if women were to drop standards you wouldn't know about it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair I am not ruled by my dick. I've slept with less than 10 people and never had a one night stand. Also this is like my third profile in a few years on here and in that time I could have met around 8-10 people but they weren't for me. But I do say that around guys when we're all joking and I do know alot of men who have dropped their standards just for the ride. I dont know many women that have done so. This brought me to the conclusion that men are more likely....in general to drop standards or to atleast joke about it.

By your own logic though if women were to drop standards you wouldn't know about it."

I wouldn't but I'm also around women and never hear them joke about it unless they dont around men and women here have confirmed they don't really do it as much as I've experienced it with men doing it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I am not ruled by my dick. I've slept with less than 10 people and never had a one night stand. Also this is like my third profile in a few years on here and in that time I could have met around 8-10 people but they weren't for me. But I do say that around guys when we're all joking and I do know alot of men who have dropped their standards just for the ride. I dont know many women that have done so. This brought me to the conclusion that men are more likely....in general to drop standards or to atleast joke about it.

By your own logic though if women were to drop standards you wouldn't know about it.

I wouldn't but I'm also around women and never hear them joke about it unless they dont around men and women here have confirmed they don't really do it as much as I've experienced it with men doing it. "

Women don't have to, if it's just sex!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

"

I need to find some smaller and weaker women

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


""He's not my type but I'd still do him" do women say this much ? I know men say it almost every day. "I dont fancy her but I'd still give her one " etc...

I feel like women dont say this as much and why are men almost always more likely to drop standards? Also I'm not talking about Fab but life in general. "

I definitely agree and I'd love to know why too! It's pretty brutal when you find out someone you've fucked isn't actually into you in some way... I've gotten better at spotting it in advance but it's still a stinger.

For me, I can have an orgasm by myself, if I want sex it's about the rest of the stuff, kissing, intimacy, touch, connection etc... So I wouldn't be remotely interested in doing that with someone I wasn't actually into, in fact it would be kind of uncomfortable.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Also, possibly interesting point - this is why I don't ask men out / chase guys, because I think that most will go along with it (even though they're not that into someone) if there's a chance of sex. That's how you end up being 'lead on' by a guy who was never into you in the first place.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly think some people are shitslinging the OP, I think his intent was just genuine interest. On the other hand, I would have friends closer that were closer to apes than humans who would say that stuff often. Personally, I have ended relationships before sleeping with women because I lost attraction, yet if my second head was in control for more than a few minutes, I think I would have got with them.

From what I can tell from my female friends, they'll never sleep with someone they're not into, and they can lose interest quickly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

"

That's not true

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

"

I'd definitely believe it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heekyChap93Man
over a year ago


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

That's not true "

I'd have to agree with Kaizer for once

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

That's not true

I'd have to agree with Kaizer for once "

Never do that!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Just curious why is sex always about looks? Like does anyone think just about the experience?

Like I've been with one or two people that wouldn't have been my so called type but they are the two best nights I've had

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious why is sex always about looks? Like does anyone think just about the experience?

Like I've been with one or two people that wouldn't have been my so called type but they are the two best nights I've had "

I was just going to say the same. There are people over the course of my life who, on the face of it, have not been what I'd class as "my type" but over time a connection has formed and we've had great sex. Its maybe not exactly what the OP was referring to though. But I've never thought "I need a fuck and anyone will do"

Mrs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

"

You do realise that that's only half the quote??

Women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can.

But men marry who they want, women marry who they can.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

You do realise that that's only half the quote??

Women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can.

But men marry who they want, women marry who they can.

"

the plot thickens

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

You do realise that that's only half the quote??

Women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can.

But men marry who they want, women marry who they can.

the plot thickens "

Bahahaha... Sure wish he hadn't picked me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just curious why is sex always about looks? Like does anyone think just about the experience?

Like I've been with one or two people that wouldn't have been my so called type but they are the two best nights I've had "

My type isn't about looks tho... It's about overall attraction

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ioi94Man
over a year ago

drogheda

Why are ppl especially 1 male in particular getting offended by OP thread lol..

Everyone entitled to views especially on their own post

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone else wrote the other day in the forums (can’t remember who)

I wouldn’t fuck someone I wouldn’t date, and I wouldn’t date someone I wouldn’t fuck, I think that sums it up well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

That's not true

I'd have to agree with Kaizer for once

Never do that! "

Everyone agrees with Kaizer

Some just don't know it yet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

That's not true

I'd have to agree with Kaizer for once

Never do that!

Everyone agrees with Kaizer

Some just don't know it yet "

Yes, dear

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

I'm slowly getting tired of those biological explanations. Yes they might explain some instincts and behaviour but they completely leave out the process of evolution, namely that we adapt to the ever changing environment. It's like they're stuck in the encrusted patriarchal system, trying desperately to cement the fading value of the providing man and the woman at home.

They are ONLY about the process of evolution. Our instincts are as a result of evolution, and it takes many many generations of environmental change to react and change. That's not to say individuals HAVE to behave in a certain way.. Individuals can choose choose their own behaviour, in spite of their instincts. Its not an excuse. Its not a reason to carry on as we always have with archaic systems like the patriarchy. What it does is provide clues as to WHY people act the way they do though. As man I feel instincts that I dislike sometimes, but we choose our behaviour. Ignoring obvious historical biological traits is to lose the ability to understand and to some extent to overcome. "

Well going by your theory we still have the same instinct as a caveman ten thousands of years ago and you explain our behaviour today with it, so where does the evolution come in here?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

I'm slowly getting tired of those biological explanations. Yes they might explain some instincts and behaviour but they completely leave out the process of evolution, namely that we adapt to the ever changing environment. It's like they're stuck in the encrusted patriarchal system, trying desperately to cement the fading value of the providing man and the woman at home.

They are ONLY about the process of evolution. Our instincts are as a result of evolution, and it takes many many generations of environmental change to react and change. That's not to say individuals HAVE to behave in a certain way.. Individuals can choose choose their own behaviour, in spite of their instincts. Its not an excuse. Its not a reason to carry on as we always have with archaic systems like the patriarchy. What it does is provide clues as to WHY people act the way they do though. As man I feel instincts that I dislike sometimes, but we choose our behaviour. Ignoring obvious historical biological traits is to lose the ability to understand and to some extent to overcome.

Well going by your theory we still have the same instinct as a caveman ten thousands of years ago and you explain our behaviour today with it, so where does the evolution come in here? "

We stopped bashing ye over the head with a club and dragging ye off to be pillaged

#oggitchypoffterineesy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

I'm slowly getting tired of those biological explanations. Yes they might explain some instincts and behaviour but they completely leave out the process of evolution, namely that we adapt to the ever changing environment. It's like they're stuck in the encrusted patriarchal system, trying desperately to cement the fading value of the providing man and the woman at home.

They are ONLY about the process of evolution. Our instincts are as a result of evolution, and it takes many many generations of environmental change to react and change. That's not to say individuals HAVE to behave in a certain way.. Individuals can choose choose their own behaviour, in spite of their instincts. Its not an excuse. Its not a reason to carry on as we always have with archaic systems like the patriarchy. What it does is provide clues as to WHY people act the way they do though. As man I feel instincts that I dislike sometimes, but we choose our behaviour. Ignoring obvious historical biological traits is to lose the ability to understand and to some extent to overcome.

Well going by your theory we still have the same instinct as a caveman ten thousands of years ago and you explain our behaviour today with it, so where does the evolution come in here?

We stopped bashing ye over the head with a club and dragging ye off to be pillaged

#oggitchypoffterineesy "

well thats how himself got me so that means we were doing it wrong all along well shit. Im off to burn me bra

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

I'm slowly getting tired of those biological explanations. Yes they might explain some instincts and behaviour but they completely leave out the process of evolution, namely that we adapt to the ever changing environment. It's like they're stuck in the encrusted patriarchal system, trying desperately to cement the fading value of the providing man and the woman at home.

They are ONLY about the process of evolution. Our instincts are as a result of evolution, and it takes many many generations of environmental change to react and change. That's not to say individuals HAVE to behave in a certain way.. Individuals can choose choose their own behaviour, in spite of their instincts. Its not an excuse. Its not a reason to carry on as we always have with archaic systems like the patriarchy. What it does is provide clues as to WHY people act the way they do though. As man I feel instincts that I dislike sometimes, but we choose our behaviour. Ignoring obvious historical biological traits is to lose the ability to understand and to some extent to overcome.

Well going by your theory we still have the same instinct as a caveman ten thousands of years ago and you explain our behaviour today with it, so where does the evolution come in here?

We stopped bashing ye over the head with a club and dragging ye off to be pillaged

#oggitchypoffterineesy

well thats how himself got me so that means we were doing it wrong all along well shit. Im off to burn me bra"

See evolution had a part to play

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks

He's actually right, biological theory states that it's all about reproduction. Males need to spread their seed far and wide so are more inclined to copulate with as many females as possible. Females on the other hand, it's about protection of themselves and their offspring. So they will choose a mate who's bigger and stronger and will provide them with food, protection and shelter.

I'm slowly getting tired of those biological explanations. Yes they might explain some instincts and behaviour but they completely leave out the process of evolution, namely that we adapt to the ever changing environment. It's like they're stuck in the encrusted patriarchal system, trying desperately to cement the fading value of the providing man and the woman at home.

They are ONLY about the process of evolution. Our instincts are as a result of evolution, and it takes many many generations of environmental change to react and change. That's not to say individuals HAVE to behave in a certain way.. Individuals can choose choose their own behaviour, in spite of their instincts. Its not an excuse. Its not a reason to carry on as we always have with archaic systems like the patriarchy. What it does is provide clues as to WHY people act the way they do though. As man I feel instincts that I dislike sometimes, but we choose our behaviour. Ignoring obvious historical biological traits is to lose the ability to understand and to some extent to overcome.

Well going by your theory we still have the same instinct as a caveman ten thousands of years ago and you explain our behaviour today with it, so where does the evolution come in here? "

Not quite sure what you mean here. Which particular instinct or behaviour do you mean?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They are ONLY about the process of evolution. Our instincts are as a result of evolution, and it takes many many generations of environmental change to react and change. That's not to say individuals HAVE to behave in a certain way.. Individuals can choose choose their own behaviour, in spite of their instincts. Its not an excuse. Its not a reason to carry on as we always have with archaic systems like the patriarchy. What it does is provide clues as to WHY people act the way they do though. As man I feel instincts that I dislike sometimes, but we choose our behaviour. Ignoring obvious historical biological traits is to lose the ability to understand and to some extent to overcome. "

Yes exactly to all of that. I just disagree on the patriarchy stuff but certainly don't want to get into that.

Murder and other bad things are Natural but we strive to not do these things..

To the OP. It seems at the most basic level ...For a guy to get loads of women is hard...therefore we value it more. For a woman to get a load of men is very easy so we value that less. For her to get a very high quality male is not easy so we value that more.

I think this has its most basic root in that a female is 100% she is the parent of a child, and she can have ..we will say potentially tops 20 children. A male can potentially not be the parent of a child and have to spend resources rasing this child at a cost to his genes. But he can potentially have 1000s of children. e.g I have heard that 10% of Asains are related to Genghis Khan.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genghis Khan did spend most of his time riding, but I believe it was mostly on horseback as his kingdom ranged from Turkey to China and South into India.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine ass but put a bag over her head, is that what you mean op?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Someone else wrote the other day in the forums (can’t remember who)

I wouldn’t fuck someone I wouldn’t date, and I wouldn’t date someone I wouldn’t fuck, I think that sums it up well"

It was meeeee! I know that's not how it is for everyone, I definitely have more criteria than most people (don't mean that in a snobby way!) but it's just not worth it to me any more to have sex with someone I'm not excited about. I'd rather not bother.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genghis Khan did spend most of his time riding, but I believe it was mostly on horseback as his kingdom ranged from Turkey to China and South into India. "

https://www.crigenetics.com/blog/curious-research-information-are-most-asian-men-descended-from-genghis-khan

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1180246/

More like Bareback

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon


""He's not my type but I'd still do him" do women say this much ? I know men say it almost every day. "I dont fancy her but I'd still give her one " etc...

I feel like women dont say this as much and why are men almost always more likely to drop standards? Also I'm not talking about Fab but life in general. "
Speak for yourself ,My standards are highand I would;nt come second best as an olption for any woman

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eepimpactMan
over a year ago

Dublin

There are men and women all over the world that would sleep with someone without attraction or anything else involved.Also there are women that say the same things a man would say while in a group,just phrased differently.

So much easier rather than ppl arguing and trying to defend what one group says and doesn't say.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking there must be something in the reproduction theory with men. I've worked for years in a two guys in a truck driving around type jobs. Most guys I worked with would perv on every available woman. 99 percent of the guys only criteria was age or weight . I'm not talking a stone or 2 overweight if the girl was obese no comments were made or if she was past 50 too. Not scientific evidence ???? big butts got most reactions

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the saying goes..

"women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can"

(grabbing my popcorn)

That's not true

I'd have to agree with Kaizer for once

Never do that!

Everyone agrees with Kaizer

Some just don't know it yet

Yes, dear"

CASE & point

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm thinking there must be something in the reproduction theory with men. I've worked for years in a two guys in a truck driving around type jobs. Most guys I worked with would perv on every available woman. 99 percent of the guys only criteria was age or weight . I'm not talking a stone or 2 overweight if the girl was obese no comments were made or if she was past 50 too. Not scientific evidence ???? big butts got most reactions "

Butts are in this season but I've always been a fan.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you speak for yourself and not all of us. Thanks"

Couldn't of said it better myself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere


" I know I wouldn't sleep with someone I didn't fancy because I'd know I wouldn't be able to enjoy it. "

This....all of the day long

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top