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By *hinkimfucked OP   Man
over a year ago

navan

Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They decided they already don't like you so save themselves time.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

No interest in chatting or you're not what they want.

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By *hinkimfucked OP   Man
over a year ago

navan

Why not just ignore the message and get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people will text again and again and again so most people wont take that chance and put it to rest early.

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By *unguyhere2020Man
over a year ago

Galway can travel


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????"

Yes it be so much nicer and honest if they just said sorry not interested

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By *hinkimfucked OP   Man
over a year ago

navan


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????

Yes it be so much nicer and honest if they just said sorry not interested "
exactly only takes a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????

Yes it be so much nicer and honest if they just said sorry not interested exactly only takes a minute"

From what I've read on the forums, people used to turn down people nicely by text but then some people could not take rejection and either became abusive or kept trying to change their minds. I'm not saying you would do that but because of that people dont reply anymore if they know they're not interested.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

All part n parcel of fab. I wouldnt worry to much about it.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

if I've messaged you a thanks but no thanks before then I block if you message again a few times as that's just anniying especially when you can see that you've messaged before and obviously didn't work out.

I also block if advised by other girls of any red flags. #girlcode

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I just looked and I actually have you blocked OP You hound people and don't take no thanks

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town


"

From what I've read on the forums, people used to turn down people nicely by text but then some people could not take rejection and either became abusive or kept trying to change their minds. I'm not saying you would do that but because of that people dont reply anymore if they know they're not interested. "

Exactly this

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By *hinkimfucked OP   Man
over a year ago

navan


"if I've messaged you a thanks but no thanks before then I block if you message again a few times as that's just anniying especially when you can see that you've messaged before and obviously didn't work out.

Could you pm me please

I also block if advised by other girls of any red flags. #girlcode"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I've messaged you a thanks but no thanks before then I block if you message again a few times as that's just anniying especially when you can see that you've messaged before and obviously didn't work out.

I also block if advised by other girls of any red flags. #girlcode"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????"

Why do you want to be able to contact someone that clearly isn't interested in you?

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By *heekyChap93Man
over a year ago


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????"

Because they don't like ya! why do you think that way ya can't keep pestering them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????

Yes it be so much nicer and honest if they just said sorry not interested exactly only takes a minute

From what I've read on the forums, people used to turn down people nicely by text but then some people could not take rejection and either became abusive or kept trying to change their minds. I'm not saying you would do that but because of that people dont reply anymore if they know they're not interested. "

Exactly

, nice to see people who can take the idea on board

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????

Yes it be so much nicer and honest if they just said sorry not interested exactly only takes a minute"

Because sometimes that just leads to abuse as well. So some block to avoid having to deal with that. It's their profile they can do what they want.

I don't see why getting blocked by a complete stranger is such a big deal. Just block back and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????

Yes it be so much nicer and honest if they just said sorry not interested exactly only takes a minute"

Fair enough. But what if you get anout 20-30 messages a day? Do you really think we should have to spend 20-30 minutes a day politely say no to people?

And honestly, at least half of those polite nos would get abusive messages back, or responses trying to convince us to change our minds. It's really fucking annoying.

Why can't you just be OK with knowing off the bat that someone's not interested? They're saving you time too ya know?

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Build a bride and get over it

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Build a bride and get over it "

Bridge

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

To be honest, to measure ones true maturity, block them if you dont like them. They must know that the other person is not into them and take it on the chin, not complaining. Unfortunately, some men here have given men bad names because they could not act like adults and was told no means no.

Age doesnt measure maturity here

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Build a bride and get over it

Bridge "

Maybe building the bride is a better idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Build a bride and get over it

Bridge

Maybe building the bride is a better idea"

Snort.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Build a bride and get over it

Bridge

Maybe building the bride is a better idea

Snort."

Japanese electric bride robot

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"Build a bride and get over it

Bridge

Maybe building the bride is a better idea"

Build it and they will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been blocked on here reminds me of taking the bins out ..it just means i don't have to on occasion! Just move on, plenty more people on here (dark)

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????

Yes it be so much nicer and honest if they just said sorry not interested exactly only takes a minute"
people owe you nothing they dont have to get back to you and message back if they dont want too .its upto them if they want to get in touch so message once and move along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is owed a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wheres the #ladscode version of #girlcode?

I never get a 'careful now, she will keep hounding you for meets so best block her straight away' message off any of the guys here*

* (in fairness i have all men filtered but the point still stands )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????

Yes it be so much nicer and honest if they just said sorry not interested exactly only takes a minute people owe you nothing they dont have to get back to you and message back if they dont want too .its upto them if they want to get in touch so message once and move along "

I owe you nerrr-thing

Ooh err

Nerrr-thing at all

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

It's seems blocked threads is the theme of today lol

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Why worry getting blocked by a random person on fab ....

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Wheres the #ladscode version of #girlcode?

I never get a 'careful now, she will keep hounding you for meets so best block her straight away' message off any of the guys here*

* (in fairness i have all men filtered but the point still stands )"

I'm 1000% certain that men on here discuss women in private chats, share pics, info, approach tactics etc. I'm sure that they warn eachother off "psychos" and "drama" etc.

With women we are mostly sharing information about who is safe to play with or who has broken consent, pushed boundaries, lied about being single, assaulted someone, transmitted an STI, ETC. Not to say that we don't share more fun and low stakes info as well, but the main point is to keep eachother safe!!

I think that everyone in the community should have a group of close friends in the community to share information with, for safety reasons.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Wheres the #ladscode version of #girlcode?

I never get a 'careful now, she will keep hounding you for meets so best block her straight away' message off any of the guys here*

* (in fairness i have all men filtered but the point still stands )

I'm 1000% certain that men on here discuss women in private chats, share pics, info, approach tactics etc. I'm sure that they warn eachother off "psychos" and "drama" etc.

With women we are mostly sharing information about who is safe to play with or who has broken consent, pushed boundaries, lied about being single, assaulted someone, transmitted an STI, ETC. Not to say that we don't share more fun and low stakes info as well, but the main point is to keep eachother safe!!

I think that everyone in the community should have a group of close friends in the community to share information with, for safety reasons. "

Can I be your friend

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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago

Middle Earth


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????"

Because they are not interested. And rather than open lines of communication by saying no they shit it down immediately. You should be grateful no fear of false hope

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

We tend to be block rude/crude messages but the longer we are here the more it becomes easier to block people we arnt interested in. Some guys don't get the concept that we arnt interested in them, they either bombard us with why? Or ignore that fact and keep messaging anyway. Then you get the abusive messages as well, calling us fat/too old/ugly etc. ...easier to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????"
many reasons.. They aren't interested in you.. They didn't like your first message.. They know if they reply with sorry no not for me they will get replies back trying to convince them otherwise.. The list is endless however don't take it personally or do but regardless that's how things go on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Build a bride and get over it

Bridge

Maybe building the bride is a better idea"

She would still turn out a Crank! Even if you built her yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people block you when you try to introduce yourself????"

Numerous reasons as stated above. No point complaining about it as not much you can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it interesting and telling the lack of the others perspective from both parties. I don't agree with blocking unless abusive.

Blocked males

Guys if you are blocked it can be odd but remember the ratios are crazy and there are sometimes upwards of 2000 messages coming into girls or couples if they miss a few days. Seen as we all don't have time to talk to all the people we like we can't be expected to spend that time talking to people we don't like or have never met. It's fustrating because they maybe didn't get to know you but you have to roll with it as other users said.

Girls/Couples

Again the odds are in your favour. You must imagine having no messages ever from anyone. And the frustration that can cause. If someone is abusive blocking is the best way for sure. When you have many messages it is as other users say impossible to respond to all I am sure. But I guess do keep in mind if possible..some of these men might never really meet people don't know how to communicate. Biology and life is a lottery and we need to be as kind as we can. People say "you have no obligation to yadda yadda yadda". But we should be nice and make the world a little less shitty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it interesting and telling the lack of the others perspective from both parties. I don't agree with blocking unless abusive.

Blocked males

Guys if you are blocked it can be odd but remember the ratios are crazy and there are sometimes upwards of 2000 messages coming into girls or couples if they miss a few days. Seen as we all don't have time to talk to all the people we like we can't be expected to spend that time talking to people we don't like or have never met. It's fustrating because they maybe didn't get to know you but you have to roll with it as other users said.

Girls/Couples

Again the odds are in your favour. You must imagine having no messages ever from anyone. And the frustration that can cause. If someone is abusive blocking is the best way for sure. When you have many messages it is as other users say impossible to respond to all I am sure. But I guess do keep in mind if possible..some of these men might never really meet people don't know how to communicate. Biology and life is a lottery and we need to be as kind as we can. People say "you have no obligation to yadda yadda yadda". But we should be nice and make the world a little less shitty.

"
perfectly but.. And in an ideal world yes we would reply to every message but you simply can't and as I said even when you do and say no sorry not for me you get bombarded with oh give me a chance etc you can't win either way so it's easier to block and move on

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I'm laughing. I tell you that I have you blocked because you hound people and don't take no for an answer and then you ask for me to pm you now!!!!!

Seriously, point prove.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Oh and you also found me on Facebook and started to stalk me there! There's rules that you don't overstep in this community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and you also found me on Facebook and started to stalk me there! There's rules that you don't overstep in this community. "
that's f***Ed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and you also found me on Facebook and started to stalk me there! There's rules that you don't overstep in this community. "

I've got one of those too unfortunately

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and you also found me on Facebook and started to stalk me there! There's rules that you don't overstep in this community.

I've got one of those too unfortunately

L"

Fuck off I found your bebo by mistake

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

Maybe you are looking to meet during a pandemic?? just a taught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and you also found me on Facebook and started to stalk me there! There's rules that you don't overstep in this community.

I've got one of those too unfortunately

L

Fuck off I found your bebo by mistake"

I'm not that old cheeky

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"I find it interesting and telling the lack of the others perspective from both parties. I don't agree with blocking unless abusive.

Blocked males

Guys if you are blocked it can be odd but remember the ratios are crazy and there are sometimes upwards of 2000 messages coming into girls or couples if they miss a few days. Seen as we all don't have time to talk to all the people we like we can't be expected to spend that time talking to people we don't like or have never met. It's fustrating because they maybe didn't get to know you but you have to roll with it as other users said.

Girls/Couples

Again the odds are in your favour. You must imagine having no messages ever from anyone. And the frustration that can cause. If someone is abusive blocking is the best way for sure. When you have many messages it is as other users say impossible to respond to all I am sure. But I guess do keep in mind if possible..some of these men might never really meet people don't know how to communicate. Biology and life is a lottery and we need to be as kind as we can. People say "you have no obligation to yadda yadda yadda". But we should be nice and make the world a little less shitty.

"

We block people for lots of reasons, not reading out profile, being dicks on the forum, repeated messaged when we clearly aren't interested, showing up on who viewed me a creepy amount of times.. Its our decision who we block, and our decision who we reply to, we answer to no one but ourselves

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

Ive blocked myself Because I can’t handle my own sexiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive blocked myself Because I can’t handle my own sexiness "
and ever so modest

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint


"Ive blocked myself Because I can’t handle my own sexiness and ever so modest "
.

Another one of my many qualities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive blocked myself Because I can’t handle my own sexiness and ever so modest .

Another one of my many qualities "

Oh so true B

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive blocked myself Because I can’t handle my own sexiness and ever so modest .

Another one of my many qualities "
im going to add humourous to that list

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By *hinkimfucked OP   Man
over a year ago

navan

Jaysus this kicked up a storm

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