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By *ackpower OP   Man
over a year ago

blanch

Anyone a way to annoy a boss that is treating you like shit.

Can't punch him in the face??

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

report him to HR or failing that piss in his coffee

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

or get his car keys and hide prawns around in the car and wait for the smell when they start to go off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define treating you like shit?

Possibly look into reporting to hr or filing a grievance

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By *ackpower OP   Man
over a year ago

blanch

Not going down the hr route, not worth the fall back..

Making his car smell is good though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they are under pressure or struggling at the moment. Is there anything you can do to improve the situation rather that escalating the problems.

Sometimes speaking to someone directly is the easiest fix.

If you have tried all that as others have said report to HR

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By *ackpower OP   Man
over a year ago

blanch

Tried all that.

I'd prefer to pass him off now, I'd get more outta that than going to hr, might sound petty but he has being doing my head in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join FabGuys, and give his number out to a load of horny lads :P

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By *ackpower OP   Man
over a year ago

blanch

Thats funking brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or get his car keys and hide prawns around in the car and wait for the smell when they start to go off "

Sounds like you done this before...good thinking tho ??

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Perhaps they are under pressure or struggling at the moment. Is there anything you can do to improve the situation rather that escalating the problems.

Sometimes speaking to someone directly is the easiest fix.

If you have tried all that as others have said report to HR"

Good advice.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"or get his car keys and hide prawns around in the car and wait for the smell when they start to go off

Sounds like you done this before...good thinking tho ??"

me? no. i did see on a list of things to do to get revenge on the tinternet some years ago and i always remembered it

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By *ackpower OP   Man
over a year ago

blanch


"Perhaps they are under pressure or struggling at the moment. Is there anything you can do to improve the situation rather that escalating the problems.

Sometimes speaking to someone directly is the easiest fix.

If you have tried all that as others have said report to HR

Good advice. "

I do agree, it will probably end up going down that road, just want to annoy him first as payback

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

OP, you havent actually said how or why he is pissing you off. Always two sides to a story so as some posters have said maybe try see his side before taking a course that could cost your job.

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By *ouno2muchMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Perhaps they are under pressure or struggling at the moment. Is there anything you can do to improve the situation rather that escalating the problems.

Sometimes speaking to someone directly is the easiest fix.

If you have tried all that as others have said report to HR

Good advice.

I do agree, it will probably end up going down that road, just want to annoy him first as payback"

If you’re having struggles with your manager, it’s more likely due to lack of effective communication and clear expectations from Manager/direct. Talking directly to your Manager, being constructive and transparent, will help you understand that disconnect and how you can resolve it.

If you keep thinking on your own, you will create a greater gap with assumptions, perhaps even being personal (which is what I’m getting from your posts here). If your manager isn’t taking the step to approach you to resolve/explain, you take lead on it. HR escalations requires tangible proof of misconduct/behaviour to investigate and if you choose to pursue that route, showing that you have tried to proactively resolve those differences/challenges with your manager, will only strengthen any HR escalation you proceed with.

Best of luck and I hope you can resolve your work challenges in an appropriate manner

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Perhaps they are under pressure or struggling at the moment. Is there anything you can do to improve the situation rather that escalating the problems.

Sometimes speaking to someone directly is the easiest fix.

If you have tried all that as others have said report to HR

Good advice.

I do agree, it will probably end up going down that road, just want to annoy him first as payback"

To be honest it's a job and you're an adult wanting doing things to annoy him that just first reeks of immaturity. Maybe actually act like an adult and talk to them or just put your head down and do your job instead of looking for ways to annoy him. Doing that stuff the only one losing out will be you in the end.

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By *ackpower OP   Man
over a year ago

blanch


"Perhaps they are under pressure or struggling at the moment. Is there anything you can do to improve the situation rather that escalating the problems.

Sometimes speaking to someone directly is the easiest fix.

If you have tried all that as others have said report to HR

Good advice.

I do agree, it will probably end up going down that road, just want to annoy him first as payback

To be honest it's a job and you're an adult wanting doing things to annoy him that just first reeks of immaturity. Maybe actually act like an adult and talk to them or just put your head down and do your job instead of looking for ways to annoy him. Doing that stuff the only one losing out will be you in the end. "

Well now that there is some good advice.. thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would leave it to karma. After all, what goes round comes round! That's better than any revenge x

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee

Not easy to deal with, but Guys like that only have as much power as you give them. That doesn't mean you're weak, just a nice guy. Play it smart, find flaws in his decision making, undermine him in front of his superiors etc. Set him up for a fall if needs be! Or go the other way and tell I'm to lay off, that you want to help him hit goals/ targets etc but let's try to work as a team. (Maybe this only works in Carlsberg land) lol

If it's any consolation it's usually a sign they have much bigger personal problems.

Ps I love the prawns idea

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee


"Perhaps they are under pressure or struggling at the moment. Is there anything you can do to improve the situation rather that escalating the problems.

Sometimes speaking to someone directly is the easiest fix.

If you have tried all that as others have said report to HR

Good advice.

I do agree, it will probably end up going down that road, just want to annoy him first as payback

To be honest it's a job and you're an adult wanting doing things to annoy him that just first reeks of immaturity. Maybe actually act like an adult and talk to them or just put your head down and do your job instead of looking for ways to annoy him. Doing that stuff the only one losing out will be you in the end. "

True bo

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Maybe ask him why

If you can't manage to talk to him ask someone else in the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever eaten wasabi chocolate? It's real, and it's the vilest thing known to man.

I once offered it to a manager I had issues with. Watching him grapple with the dilemma of having to spit it out and offend me, or actually swallow it was the greatest monent of my life...

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By *ackpower OP   Man
over a year ago

blanch


"Ever eaten wasabi chocolate? It's real, and it's the vilest thing known to man.

I once offered it to a manager I had issues with. Watching him grapple with the dilemma of having to spit it out and offend me, or actually swallow it was the greatest monent of my life..."
lol

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By *ackpower OP   Man
over a year ago

blanch

Your a sound group of guys and gals thanks for the advice

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By *iquidRavenMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Don't mind all that constructive "advice" OP.. we all know there is only one option

Next time he's chewing you out drop into a full Van Damme split and fire a right cross straight to the dick

You're colleagues will love you and you'll probably get the ride out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange a white collar boxing match for charity then arrange to fight him .. Win win for you all.

Pros.

Look good for doing charity work

. Get to fight the boss

. Solve your problem

Cons.

He might slap the head of you. Lol

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

All giving advice but we haven't heard why u consider manager to be a prick .may he just doing his job correctly and you being the ..ick

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By *ewadventures2017Couple
over a year ago

some where near

Was thinking the same

Maybe solve the problem he has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was thinking the same

Maybe solve the problem he has "

So true

He never told his story why he’s being targeted

As a Manager myself I’d rather you come and talk to me and sort out our differences , see what the problem is!!!!

I’ve been wrong with decisions in my job and had to bite the bullet and hold up my hands and apologise

Nothing that can’t be sorted by communicating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s called life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience in employment is that the employee with a chip on their shoulder is one of the biggest obstacles in daily life. There's three sides to everything.

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Leave a post it for boss with please call Mr Lyons back

Then put number for nearest zoo as number on post it

Watch his face when he calls zoo and asks for Mr Lyons

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

U need to come back an explain the issues Jack..who really at fault here

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Sounds like a lot of kindergarten to me, there's ways to deal with it properly.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Often worked for lads like that true the years and mostly changed jobs as not worth the hastle of having more stress on ourselves theres plenty jobs out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone a way to annoy a boss that is treating you like shit.

Can't punch him in the face??"

Don’t do that obviously, if you like the job and want to keep it then play the long game. Take a note of every incident and anything said and then if it continues to get worse take it to HR. You’ll have a lot more leverage against him if you have notes

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

Eye drops in his coffee cup! He can be a prick in the jax....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or ask why is he treating me like this

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Manage up as well as managing down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have his mobile number go home tonight print off a gay men who teach english to foreign nationals on a poster (or missing dog) with reward or whatever and post around the area or anywhere really and he will be furious with phone calls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about you try and resolve whatever issues you have by asking for a meeting? As someone said above, being a manager I'd rather sort things out with people I'm working. It sounds like you're probably both being petty, I say you as well considering your looking for advice on how to piss him off. You're both grown men, act like it.

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