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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else since they started coming here get curious about strangers?

I guess what I mean is when you're walking down the street and you see someone, do you ever wonder if they are on here or somewhere like here?

Do you ever think they might be interested in this stuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! I started doing that too. In the supermarket when you can see the same person a few times and close enough to examine a little. Or at the school!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha deffo...

Especially if i am chatting to someone and they tell me the type of job they do such as Lollypop lady for example, then i'm eyeing up every lollypop lady i see incase they are all swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha deffo...

Especially if i am chatting to someone and they tell me the type of job they do such as Lollypop lady for example, then i'm eyeing up every lollypop lady i see incase they are all swingers "

Hahaha the most unespected people could be on fab. I thought I'd never do anything like this and here I am...

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Yes think we think about that also x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Have never used the words fab or fabulous in my life so therefore anyone who uses either are definitely on here aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, no, I've always thought that everyone has an inner life they hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta say I never have.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Everytime I see a woman with an ankle braclet I wonder is that the signal

Since I dont know what its meant to look like in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a thread on here recently in which it was mentioned that pampas grass in a garden was thought to be an indicator that the people living there are swingers. Raises a smile every time I drive past a house with pampas grass now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean I've heard fab more in the last week than I have for most of my life but I've a few friends who say it, so I hope it's not them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never thought I'd ever be on here really but you couldn't have a conversation like this in most places, I might have to start using the forums more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one asked me at work to go on fabs that they were on it little do they know that i am on it as tv bit scary but exciting

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

We are all normal people on here (ok not all, but most ) so it’s only natural that we would be curious about the normal people we meet in real life.

I love knowing friends on here have a (mostly) secret side to them that only me and the rest of Fab know about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely wouldn't know how to react myself, but I'd say if your friend was on here, he/she wouldn't care about it too much, did you find his/her profile yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I gotta admit there's something fun about the secrecy on here, and that we could know more about some people than their neighbours or their coworkers

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Got a facepic from a young mother at my kids school last yr she looking to meet ..didnt send one back .lol..and politely parted messaging each other ..meet her every day and she no clue it's me she sent pic to ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabbers are everywhere!!! I was having coffee with a fabber yesterday in a large motorway services. When I got back to my car I got a message asking did I enjoy my coffee meet as another Fabber was sitting right behind us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now that's extremely interesting, are you ever gonna reveal yourself? Do you ever try to to give clues to your identity?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That would both terrify me and give me an instant boner, I have no idea what I'd do if I ever got caught, are you gonna use that place for coffee meets again?

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

No too near her and my doorstep ..but wont reveal her secret to anyone ..live an let live

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

yeah sometimes but now am more wary since a fella messaged asking were we such and such a place with our kids because he recognised himself from his photos. he got blocked fairly sharpish. still trying to work out how he recognised himself though as there was no face pics public

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can completely get that, do you think she might ever recognize you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guessed when I'd make this forum that there would be a few negative stories as well, I'd say you did the right thing, I wouldn't like someone knowing anyone in my life nor myself for that matter

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We do this whenever we stay in a hotel or in a bar, we are natural people watchers when out and since we joined on here we seemed to do it more and trying to guess if anyone is, especially if we see a few on people who are near us

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I work in concert venues and have great fun checking the see who's near function in a room with 13000 people in it

If a fabber ever messages me at a gig I'd upgrade their seats or put them into the pit area but it didn't happen before the shutdown and god only knows when gigs will be back

I also check when driving around Ireland in my main job

Service station coffee meets seem to be very popular as I sometimes see different fabbers there at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabbers are everywhere!!! I was having coffee with a fabber yesterday in a large motorway services. When I got back to my car I got a message asking did I enjoy my coffee meet as another Fabber was sitting right behind us. "

Hahaha I'd die if that happened to me. I like to have a very private life. This county is so small, sometimes I think everybody know each other, thats why I try not to meet locals. Maybe I need to start giving f...all

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"I work in concert venues and have great fun checking the see who's near function in a room with 13000 people in it

If a fabber ever messages me at a gig I'd upgrade their seats or put them into the pit area but it didn't happen before the shutdown and god only knows when gigs will be back

I also check when driving around Ireland in my main job

Service station coffee meets seem to be very popular as I sometimes see different fabbers there at the same time "

I work all over Ireland (mr) so tend to get alot of male messages saying I see your near, big disappointment for them when they find out it's just me and not mrs Gs

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I work in concert venues and have great fun checking the see who's near function in a room with 13000 people in it

If a fabber ever messages me at a gig I'd upgrade their seats or put them into the pit area but it didn't happen before the shutdown and god only knows when gigs will be back

I also check when driving around Ireland in my main job

Service station coffee meets seem to be very popular as I sometimes see different fabbers there at the same time

I work all over Ireland (mr) so tend to get alot of male messages saying I see your near, big disappointment for them when they find out it's just me and not mrs Gs"

If we're ever near I'll have a coffee with you anyway

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"I work in concert venues and have great fun checking the see who's near function in a room with 13000 people in it

If a fabber ever messages me at a gig I'd upgrade their seats or put them into the pit area but it didn't happen before the shutdown and god only knows when gigs will be back

I also check when driving around Ireland in my main job

Service station coffee meets seem to be very popular as I sometimes see different fabbers there at the same time

I work all over Ireland (mr) so tend to get alot of male messages saying I see your near, big disappointment for them when they find out it's just me and not mrs Gs

If we're ever near I'll have a coffee with you anyway "

Ah yeah why not

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west


"Fabbers are everywhere!!! I was having coffee with a fabber yesterday in a large motorway services. When I got back to my car I got a message asking did I enjoy my coffee meet as another Fabber was sitting right behind us.

Hahaha I'd die if that happened to me. I like to have a very private life. This county is so small, sometimes I think everybody know each other, thats why I try not to meet locals. Maybe I need to start giving f...all "

Sure you are not doing anything wrong so i wouldn't worry.

Live your best life and dony mind with others think.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I guessed when I'd make this forum that there would be a few negative stories as well, I'd say you did the right thing, I wouldn't like someone knowing anyone in my life nor myself for that matter"

Use the reply and quote button if replying directly to someone, its easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guessed when I'd make this forum that there would be a few negative stories as well, I'd say you did the right thing, I wouldn't like someone knowing anyone in my life nor myself for that matter

Use the reply and quote button if replying directly to someone, its easier "

Thanks, I didn't realise I wasn't using the quote as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, no, I've always thought that everyone has an inner life they hide"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, can't help it .

I once worked with this lovely gal. Many in work spread rumours she was cheating on her partner despite no evidence. I always defended her best I could without giving anything away,

See, I think she was a swinger. I just had a very strong feeling and was almost certain. Now I would never mention it or make contact, none of my business so I just kept quiet and carried on.

But now and again I'll see someone and wonder, are they one of us?

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