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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick

At what point in the chat do you give your real name? Do you ever give it out? Or have you made good friends here who still think that your Fab name is your real name?

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By *obshortMan
over a year ago

Cork

Usually when we meet over a coffee. If I think we are getting along. Within the first 30 minutes usually.

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By *exyman1965Man
over a year ago

Lucan

I think you never give out your surname just first name is good enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont usually give out my real name at all. If i have met them a few times, i’ll happily give then but i’ve had people look for my private social media & find it, sending me mails on them instead of here.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I hired Quest privately for my 50th birthday a couple of years ago. I got lots of birthday cards which I displayed in my living room. My mum was puzzled and said "why do so many of your friends think you are called Sally" !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people would call me Rosy even the one's that know my real name. At parties I would introduce myself as Rosy as it's less confusing to people.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Most people I've met and chat to just still know me as Bo. There are less than a handful on here who know my real name and they are good friends both on here and in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean real name??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say with the first cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst 'Peter' isn't technically my name it's still what everyone, on and off Fab, know me as.

I've no problem or hangups telling anyone if they ask though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never give my real name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always give my real forename but rarely my surname.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real name isn’t too common and everyone forgets it anyway lol but my real friends from here know my full name.

One of the last socials held turned into a birthday party for me and my full real name was called out I didn’t care though

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Most just call me cj even though they know my real name

Plus it sounds better than my real name when they call out

"Fook me harder cj"

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Went out for lunch recently with a woman off fab

We had been using first names only and thats all we both knew

However she had booked a table in a pub and when we arrived the landlady called out her full name and asked me for mine for the contact tracing form

I called out my real name and we both laughted

Fuck it

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'd never give my real name "

So you're not Dot Cotton

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't need real names, I keep on forgetting them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most just call me cj even though they know my real name

Plus it sounds better than my real name when they call out

"Fook me harder cj" "

See now I want to know ur real name

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Most just call me cj even though they know my real name

Plus it sounds better than my real name when they call out

"Fook me harder cj"

See now I want to know ur real name "

See I could tell you but then I'd have to kill you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've forgotten my real name at this stage

Joking aside, we generally give our first names if we like the look of people. Last names definitely not

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By *hivers2020Woman
over a year ago

lolli land

I’d give my real name to anyone I was meeting but last time I was here everyone called me lolli which could easily be a nickname for my real name so I didn’t mind!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I call people by whatever name they told me first. Even after they tell me their real name.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

I always use my real firat name as i have nothing to hide and its fairly common but only 4 people on here who are very good friends know my surname

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its usually when I have physically met the other person or persons and feel comfortable. On Fab I have on occasion but only when really feel comfortable and it's leading up to a social/meet.

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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick

Oh right. Different strokes....

Must be embarrassing though to become friends with someone over a period of time, they still only know you by your Fab name but you realise they had given you their real name from the beginning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she’s making the cheque out to me after a meet

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I've forgotten my real name at this stage

Joking aside, we generally give our first names if we like the look of people. Last names definitely not"

Same

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Giving my real 1st name is pointless, even my clan call me _oser. An uncle gave it to me as a nickname when I was about 12 and it stuck.

Only called my real name in work.

Havin said that my close fab friends know my full name

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

I have no problem telling someone my real name the reason I guess the usernames keeps unwanted attention away

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Oh right. Different strokes....

Must be embarrassing though to become friends with someone over a period of time, they still only know you by your Fab name but you realise they had given you their real name from the beginning "

I've been given real names by some people on the forums before I knew what the private notes was for

Now I can't remember their real names when we message each other so I use their profile names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point in the chat do you give your real name? Do you ever give it out? Or have you made good friends here who still think that your Fab name is your real name?"

Only one person knows my real name on here ... After careful thought I'm gonna keep it that way

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Only a few people on here know my real name and only 2 know my surname.

The longer I am on here the less trusting I become.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd never give my real name

So you're not Dot Cotton "

Afraid not sorry to disappoint you Bogm

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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Only a few people on here know my real name and only 2 know my surname.

The longer I am on here the less trusting I become. "

Same here. You live n' learn eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most just call me cj even though they know my real name

Plus it sounds better than my real name when they call out

"Fook me harder cj"

See now I want to know ur real name

See I could tell you but then I'd have to kill you "

Ah u wouldn’t really, I’m too much fun to kill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point in the chat do you give your real name? Do you ever give it out? Or have you made good friends here who still think that your Fab name is your real name?"

At the meet itself, that's of course one happens , not a second before ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First name after you get to know them. Don't think surname is ever necessary

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

First name if we move the chat to another platform generally

But surname is only ever if they need to check into a hotel room I’ve booked

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"First name if we move the chat to another platform generally

But surname is only ever if they need to check into a hotel room I’ve booked "
Call the girls darling as above I forget names even with family members lol

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never! I am Batman!!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I dunno most never get it right anyway which is surprising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use our real first names from the point where we think a chat has potential. We don't have pseudonyms. We'd forget them when referring to each other or speaking to one another and neither of us can be arsed with the effort it would take to sustain that

We never give our surnames though

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Never! I am Batman!!!"

Settle down Bruce

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

We say our real names when meeting in person . Why going with a different identity ? Being worried someone finds out about you being on this site ?

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

First message or two. Have no issue with someone knowing my real name.

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

We only use out first names less confusing we find

We know people by their fab,kik and real names lol

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

My name is known as it's in my user name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went out for lunch recently with a woman off fab

We had been using first names only and thats all we both knew

However she had booked a table in a pub and when we arrived the landlady called out her full name and asked me for mine for the contact tracing form

I called out my real name and we both laughted

Fuck it "

Surprised the pub asked for both contacts. I’ve only ever been asked for one #

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually after a few messages as they think my name is jack

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Went out for lunch recently with a woman off fab

We had been using first names only and thats all we both knew

However she had booked a table in a pub and when we arrived the landlady called out her full name and asked me for mine for the contact tracing form

I called out my real name and we both laughted

Fuck it

Surprised the pub asked for both contacts. I’ve only ever been asked for one #"

No the land lady knew her and said hello ...

Then she handed me the clipboard

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Id say if a social goes well and a meet is agreed id be happy to give my real name. If the other person wants it. Its not altogether necessary though is it?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Very rarely most people can’t even pronounce it even my family call me B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait no ones using their real names

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By *ofusplus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Wait no ones using their real names "

Yes, the longer you are on here, the less trusting you become, it appears

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby


"Very rarely most people can’t even pronounce it even my family call me B "

My ma used to call me a B name all the time!

Never felt a good thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I've unintentionally let it slip a few times during conversation! I normally like to keep incognito but sometimes when I'm really familiar with some fabbers it comes out!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Very rarely most people can’t even pronounce it even my family call me B

My ma used to call me a B name all the time!

Never felt a good thing!"

Your ma sounds lovely

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

i dont mind giving our first names. surname not a hope. its a pretty unusual one and wed be found in a heartbeat. stupid witness protection programme

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