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By *arvey36 OP Man
over a year ago

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Girls: Do you prefer a man who agrees with everything you say, or do you prefer a man to have his own mind and say what he really thinks? Without being rude of course.

Basically is it a good idea to just suck up to get a shag or can you just see right through it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely say what he thinks, as long as he is not rude or arrogant, my two pet hates in a person.

I really do not like fakery at all, showering compliments and all that rubbish. Some people seem to be into it for the ego boost, but it puts me off immediately. Having said that, they still need to put a bit of effort in and be at least flirty!!

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By *arvey36 OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Very good, I'm soo pleased at the rePly. It's been a line of thinking of mine.. Re the ego boost. It would be Defo something I would use as to accertain whether they where genuine!! Without sounding too clinical in my choice of partner. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be your own man but polite !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

allways do what im told because shes allways right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *arvey36 OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"allways do what im told because shes allways right

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By *arvey36 OP Man
over a year ago

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"allways do what im told because shes allways right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like honesty, as I'm quite outspoken myself. Nothng wrong with compliments, as long as they're genuine and not too cheesy.

But I have to laugh at emails from men telling me how beautiful I am and they haven't even seen my face. I know a face is not very important for a guy in order to fuck her but I like to think that he finds the overall me attractive and not just my hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a man to say wat he thinks nothing worse than a man being a ass licker

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

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I like a man to to upfront with me. I hate bullshitters but also hate rudeness without reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends what your personality's like ordinarily.. for example if you're rude abrasive or boorish that might be off putting to some but conversely attractive to others.

Mr Darcy for example from Jane Eyre - an ever green female literary pinup was aloof,opinionated cocky and boorish..yet he's a mainstay in terms of masturbatory fantasies for women.

on the other hand there are those who prefer men to be courteous,polite and accommodating..

no one man or woman are the same so it depends on the individual really.

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By *arvey36 OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"it depends what your personality's like ordinarily.. for example if you're rude abrasive or boorish that might be off putting to some but conversely attractive to others.

Mr Darcy for example from Jane Eyre - an ever green female literary pinup was aloof,opinionated cocky and boorish..yet he's a mainstay in terms of masturbatory fantasies for women.

on the other hand there are those who prefer men to be courteous,polite and accommodating..

no one man or woman are the same so it depends on the individual really.

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And then there are those that just ACT polite and accommodating to just get the fuck... My point being can the girls see through the fakes... As I read some posts and just think ASS licker!! Be yourself!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it depends what your personality's like ordinarily.. for example if you're rude abrasive or boorish that might be off putting to some but conversely attractive to others.

Mr Darcy for example from Jane Eyre - an ever green female literary pinup was aloof,opinionated cocky and boorish..yet he's a mainstay in terms of masturbatory fantasies for women.

on the other hand there are those who prefer men to be courteous,polite and accommodating..

no one man or woman are the same so it depends on the individual really.

And then there are those that just ACT polite and accommodating to just get the fuck... My point being can the girls see through the fakes... As I read some posts and just think ASS licker!! Be yourself!!"

At what level does polite and accommodating become fake to you?

any display of either of those two attributes to you are fake or do they become so at a certain point?

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By *arvey36 OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"it depends what your personality's like ordinarily.. for example if you're rude abrasive or boorish that might be off putting to some but conversely attractive to others.

Mr Darcy for example from Jane Eyre - an ever green female literary pinup was aloof,opinionated cocky and boorish..yet he's a mainstay in terms of masturbatory fantasies for women.

on the other hand there are those who prefer men to be courteous,polite and accommodating..

no one man or woman are the same so it depends on the individual really.

At what level does polite and accommodating become fake to you?

any display of either of those two attributes to you are fake or do they become so at a certain point?

there are men out there who are genuinely both! (met a few) is it because their approach differs from yours so fundamentally it's difficult for you to accept their approach as genuine rather than "fake"?"
I appreciate the feedback, however sense on the tone and language a wee bit of hostility, so I'll respect your views and answer this honestly and short but sweet. Sweet as in it's my opinion and only my opinion, I will not be forcing my will on anybody, or engaging in name calling or uneducated personal attacks on someone's personality, it's quite simple, if you have never looked at a reply or quote and thought man the fuck up! A blind man can see your kissing ass !! Finally I ask you to look at the original question. Many have already made a simple answer to what was really a simple question. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"appreciate the feedback, however sense on the tone and language a wee bit of hostility, so I'll respect your views and answer this honestly and short but sweet. Sweet as in it's my opinion and only my opinion, I will not be forcing my will on anybody, or engaging in name calling or uneducated personal attacks on someone's personality, it's quite simple, if you have never looked at a reply or quote and thought man the fuck up! A blind man can see your kissing ass !! Finally I ask you to look at the original question. Many have already made a simple answer to what was really a simple question. Good luck "

harvey baby ;p

no hostility meant what so ever.

just curious what in your view qualifies as beyond the threshold of genuinely "polite" and "accommodating"?

you're complaining about "fakeness" but haven't specified in your view what constitutes "fakeness" .

just curious if these "fake" mens differing approach to yours seems fake as it doesn't mirror your own approach or are there nuances present within their posts that set of "fake" alarm bells for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Harvey explained it quite clearly lol

Are you digging again, novice? lol

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By *arvey36 OP Man
over a year ago

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harvey baby ;p

no hostility meant what so ever.

just curious what in your view qualifies as beyond the threshold of genuinely "polite" and "accommodating"?

you're complaining about "fakeness" but haven't specified in your view what constitutes "fakeness" .

just curious if these "fake" mens differing approach to yours seems fake as it doesn't mirror your own approach or are there nuances present within their posts that set of "fake" alarm bells for you?"
It's just as simple as I read something and think Fuck away off!! Maybe I'm on me own... Clearly I'm not. I really do not want to go any deeper on this subject, it would go a wee bit deeper for myself personally. Personally as in a subject that interests me. I'll refer you as a teaser not so cryptic to an answer/reply above which touched on what i was interested in. Ego massage. Why some are here, and how to get some ticking.. Different directions and a curious look into personalities here... I'm losing myself!! My beliefs are my Beliefs and as I posted above I think? I have no interest in forcing mine on to others, which I think clearly answers your question in lamen terms, am I upset with others approaches if they are not the same as mine. Answer. A BIG FAT NO! Each to there own....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as me mammy says to my father sit down man and wiiisssttt !!! men should be seen and not heard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cracker lmao

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