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"All countries have racist elements of course. I do believe Ireland is struggling with a larger racist element than many others though. I think it's because of the recent influx of Polish/Romanian migrants, and the fear of those that are different to the (perceived) indigenous Irish. " Groundbreaking statement. Who'd have though that???? To think the irish people don't trust people from other countries when they can't even trust each other half the time. And yet have elected the governments they've done so over the last 30 years. | |||
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"There’s very obvious racism and then subtle racism. For me, there is a difference between intent and perception. For example: I was at a bus stop, a beautiful black girl was in front of me and a white irish lad off to the side. He kept glancing at her, very obviously as even j noticed. I didn’t think anything of it. She got annoyed and shouted at him “stop staring at me, have you never seen a black person before” she was really angry and upset. He replied “yeah I have, lots, but none as beautiful as you” so she perceived his glances to be hateful but his intent was admiration. So she perceived him as racist and if she had not of said anything, she would have gone off thinking that. So makes me wonder if me, as a white majority, just doesn’t understand what it’s like to be a minority? Also Ireland is the only place where your hated because of where you live, growing up you hated the next town over. During the football etc you hate the next county over etc etc. But when you meet another irish person abroad? Bezzies for life! We’re a strange little country " So did he get to sit beside her on the bus ?? | |||
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"There’s very obvious racism and then subtle racism. For me, there is a difference between intent and perception. For example: I was at a bus stop, a beautiful black girl was in front of me and a white irish lad off to the side. He kept glancing at her, very obviously as even j noticed. I didn’t think anything of it. She got annoyed and shouted at him “stop staring at me, have you never seen a black person before” she was really angry and upset. He replied “yeah I have, lots, but none as beautiful as you” so she perceived his glances to be hateful but his intent was admiration. So she perceived him as racist and if she had not of said anything, she would have gone off thinking that. So makes me wonder if me, as a white majority, just doesn’t understand what it’s like to be a minority? Also Ireland is the only place where your hated because of where you live, growing up you hated the next town over. During the football etc you hate the next county over etc etc. But when you meet another irish person abroad? Bezzies for life! We’re a strange little country So did he get to sit beside her on the bus ?? " He got on a different bus | |||
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"There’s very obvious racism and then subtle racism. For me, there is a difference between intent and perception. For example: I was at a bus stop, a beautiful black girl was in front of me and a white irish lad off to the side. He kept glancing at her, very obviously as even j noticed. I didn’t think anything of it. She got annoyed and shouted at him “stop staring at me, have you never seen a black person before” she was really angry and upset. He replied “yeah I have, lots, but none as beautiful as you” so she perceived his glances to be hateful but his intent was admiration. So she perceived him as racist and if she had not of said anything, she would have gone off thinking that. So makes me wonder if me, as a white majority, just doesn’t understand what it’s like to be a minority? Also Ireland is the only place where your hated because of where you live, growing up you hated the next town over. During the football etc you hate the next county over etc etc. But when you meet another irish person abroad? Bezzies for life! We’re a strange little country So did he get to sit beside her on the bus ?? He got on a different bus " | |||
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"Ah it is what it is ..too much being made out of all this racism subject ..alot looking for a sympathy vote" Thats easy said when it's not directed at you. | |||
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"All countries have racist elements of course. I do believe Ireland is struggling with a larger racist element than many others though. I think it's because of the recent influx of Polish/Romanian migrants, and the fear of those that are different to the (perceived) indigenous Irish. " I know dozens of Polish lads and besides the dislike of some Irish people towards them, of the ones I know they're extremely racist towards themselves. Besides this I do think Ireland has a distrust for foreigners but I definitely do not think we have a big racism problem. I would say almost every country in Europe besides maybe the Scandinavian ones have bigger problems. America and Australia too and to flip this all upside down African countries too. | |||
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"All countries have racist elements of course. I do believe Ireland is struggling with a larger racist element than many others though. I think it's because of the recent influx of Polish/Romanian migrants, and the fear of those that are different to the (perceived) indigenous Irish. I know dozens of Polish lads and besides the dislike of some Irish people towards them, of the ones I know they're extremely racist towards themselves. Besides this I do think Ireland has a distrust for foreigners but I definitely do not think we have a big racism problem. I would say almost every country in Europe besides maybe the Scandinavian ones have bigger problems. America and Australia too and to flip this all upside down African countries too." I meant extremely racism themselves not towards themselves | |||
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"My 2 cents.. I am Italian and I have to admit that no, Irish are not racists. Of course, there are racists but I can say italians overall are much more racists than Irish. My personal experience is this one... There are racist/idiots/criminals etc in every Country but my last 14 years in this beautiful Country can let me happily say that I have never felt discriminated. Thank you Ireland. Thank you Irish People. " As a white man you're not really in a position to make that judgement. | |||
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"I do think a lot of Irish people have racist attitudes. One reason is that we are a small country on the edge of Europe and have very little immigration or even visitors from abroad up until the 90's. And Irish people often like to feel the victim and have a need to blame others for their problems or misfortune. And immigrants or people who are different are an easy outlet for someone they can have a go at or blame. " Pretty much sums it up | |||
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"As a white man you're not really in a position to make that judgement. " Right... Cause racism is only if you are Black? | |||
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"My 2 cents.. I am Italian and I have to admit that no, Irish are not racists. Of course, there are racists but I can say italians overall are much more racists than Irish. My personal experience is this one... There are racist/idiots/criminals etc in every Country but my last 14 years in this beautiful Country can let me happily say that I have never felt discriminated. Thank you Ireland. Thank you Irish People. As a white man you're not really in a position to make that judgement. " Damn white men | |||
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"Is say Ireland is more xenophobic than racist. What you hear most is " it's not fair that they come here and get houses before our own etc etc etc" this is normally spouted by people who are 3rd 4th generation dole merchants who think foreigners are trying to mooching in on their racket. It's the same with these Patriot groups (read as far right) they blame everyones problem on other people that are not Irish etc. Is common denominator politics" The easiest way to unite people is to provide them with a common enemy, the politics of fear. | |||
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"As a white man you're not really in a position to make that judgement. Right... Cause racism is only if you are Black? No, but in a country that is predominantly white, you're not very likely to be a victim of racism if you are also white... " | |||
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"Im.not racist I have licked pussy from all aroun the world And enjoyed everyone" Great to know ur not racist!! But unfortunately you are prejudiced | |||
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"My 2 cents.. I am Italian and I have to admit that no, Irish are not racists. Of course, there are racists but I can say italians overall are much more racists than Irish. My personal experience is this one... There are racist/idiots/criminals etc in every Country but my last 14 years in this beautiful Country can let me happily say that I have never felt discriminated. Thank you Ireland. Thank you Irish People. As a white man you're not really in a position to make that judgement. " Wtf..... | |||
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" So did he get to sit beside her on the bus ?? He got on a different bus " I sincerely hope you’re not making a joke about segregation. Because if you are, that is absolutely disgusting. | |||
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"I feel I haven't a racist bone in my body As an employer I've given jobs to every colour and creed As a person I have a few black friends as have my kids However I have a dislike of travellers I'm sorry if I offend anyone but I think I'm genuinely not the only one that does on here so does that count as racist " They call prejudice to travellers acceptable racism as it's often over looked as it's so prevalent. Unfortunately most peoples interactions with travellers are negative esp in rural Ireland. Obviously good and bad in every creed. Overall though I think were quite a tolerant little country. How many other countries have had an openly gay son of an immigrant as their leader | |||
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"I feel I haven't a racist bone in my body As an employer I've given jobs to every colour and creed As a person I have a few black friends as have my kids However I have a dislike of travellers I'm sorry if I offend anyone but I think I'm genuinely not the only one that does on here so does that count as racist " Yes. It does. | |||
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"My 2 cents.. I am Italian and I have to admit that no, Irish are not racists. Of course, there are racists but I can say italians overall are much more racists than Irish. My personal experience is this one... There are racist/idiots/criminals etc in every Country but my last 14 years in this beautiful Country can let me happily say that I have never felt discriminated. Thank you Ireland. Thank you Irish People. As a white man you're not really in a position to make that judgement. Wtf....." What? | |||
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"I feel I haven't a racist bone in my body As an employer I've given jobs to every colour and creed As a person I have a few black friends as have my kids However I have a dislike of travellers I'm sorry if I offend anyone but I think I'm genuinely not the only one that does on here so does that count as racist Yes. It does. " Let's use your logic here Unless you're an Irish Traveller you're not really in a position to make that judgement. | |||
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"I feel I haven't a racist bone in my body As an employer I've given jobs to every colour and creed As a person I have a few black friends as have my kids However I have a dislike of travellers I'm sorry if I offend anyone but I think I'm genuinely not the only one that does on here so does that count as racist Yes. It does. Let's use your logic here Unless you're an Irish Traveller you're not really in a position to make that judgement." Lol no. This is a different situation to that. Don't worry. I'll explain it slowly for you so you can understand. Bog Man has said he specifically dislikes Travellers and asked if that's racist. The other commenter made a blanket statement about how all minorities experience racism in Ireland. One more time, a question versus a statement. Different. | |||
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"Us Irish have a built in mistrust of everyone. Its like we assume everyone is a cute hoor and always trying to get one over on us! So when a foreign national arrives, especially from countries where the population are viewed as "schemer's" we automatically don't trust them. I think in a lot of cases this is seen as racism. Maybe it is!! On a thread here recently a lot of people of various nationalities stated that they found it very difficult to make friends with Irish people. We're very friendly but don't like making friends! There are racists everywhere, including here, but I honestly think as a whole we just don't trust anyone, regardless of where they're from. Does that make us racist?? Or just ignorant??? " Or cautious | |||
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"I feel I haven't a racist bone in my body As an employer I've given jobs to every colour and creed As a person I have a few black friends as have my kids However I have a dislike of travellers I'm sorry if I offend anyone but I think I'm genuinely not the only one that does on here so does that count as racist Yes. It does. Let's use your logic here Unless you're an Irish Traveller you're not really in a position to make that judgement. Lol no. This is a different situation to that. Don't worry. I'll explain it slowly for you so you can understand. Bog Man has said he specifically dislikes Travellers and asked if that's racist. The other commenter made a blanket statement about how all minorities experience racism in Ireland. One more time, a question versus a statement. Different. " Oh condescension how original Since that's the level you're pitching at there's little point in me continuing, good luck with your flawed logic | |||
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"I feel I haven't a racist bone in my body As an employer I've given jobs to every colour and creed As a person I have a few black friends as have my kids However I have a dislike of travellers I'm sorry if I offend anyone but I think I'm genuinely not the only one that does on here so does that count as racist " Rather than berate you , I'm trying to understand . What is your dislike of travellers based on ? I can honestly say in each job in each industry I have worked in .. the vast majority of interactions with travellers has been poor to say the least. From being caught robbing to threatening a colleague with a slash hook to another colleague having stones put through his car window while working. I don't think I can think of a single positive experience . It's possible I have been extremely unlucky but the statistics showing how many are involved in crime etc would suggest not . Out of a population of around 40,000 there is roughly 10% male prison population and 22% female prison population with a general population of about 0.6% . I know a few gards personally and each of them would comment on the excessive crime rates in the community. That all said.. there is a girl from Dublin I am friendly with who has a few female mates who are travellers and she absolutely adores them and has never had an issue with any of those girls. But....if she wants to call to them. The older members of the travelling community have to be gone before she can call as they don't approve of friendships with settled people as they are "more likely to be involved in drugs" and to be fair .... from an objective statistical point of view I can see why certain areas with extremely high drug use would be of concern to them . The girl from Dublin has certainly softened my own perception of travellers where I wpuldn't have as strong opinion as before but I tend to see a lot of whataboutism when someone settled mentions issues within traveller culture. Animal abuse... domestic violence.. control of women..etc What I do find grim is how badly mental health services are failing travellers and tbh health services in general is something that could be commented when average life span is looked at compared to someone on average who is "settled". An unemployment rate of about 85% and in a world moving heavily towards tech jobs it must be getting harder and harder for travellers who do want to work to get a job as the schooling system isn't able to provide the support that is needed for them. Certainly I can see a domino effect of leaving school with no qualifications and finding it easy to slip into a life of crime. I don't condone the crimes but I do understand there is context to how these situations come about. I would hope as time goes on there are much better mental health support services put in place... that programs that center on integration into wider society can be introducd. As others have pointed out...by not knowing someone makes it easier to discriminate against them... rob.them...judge them. I have seen lately some stuff online regarding LGBTQ issues in the travelling community and although there is a lot of opposition there is also a sizeable presence of travellers doing their very best to campaign for equality and I tip my hat to those who are willing to step outside their comfort zone to speak up.. It's so nuanced and very complex | |||
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"I feel I haven't a racist bone in my body As an employer I've given jobs to every colour and creed As a person I have a few black friends as have my kids However I have a dislike of travellers I'm sorry if I offend anyone but I think I'm genuinely not the only one that does on here so does that count as racist Rather than berate you , I'm trying to understand . What is your dislike of travellers based on ? I can honestly say in each job in each industry I have worked in .. the vast majority of interactions with travellers has been poor to say the least. From being caught robbing to threatening a colleague with a slash hook to another colleague having stones put through his car window while working. I don't think I can think of a single positive experience . It's possible I have been extremely unlucky but the statistics showing how many are involved in crime etc would suggest not . Out of a population of around 40,000 there is roughly 10% male prison population and 22% female prison population with a general population of about 0.6% . I know a few gards personally and each of them would comment on the excessive crime rates in the community. That all said.. there is a girl from Dublin I am friendly with who has a few female mates who are travellers and she absolutely adores them and has never had an issue with any of those girls. But....if she wants to call to them. The older members of the travelling community have to be gone before she can call as they don't approve of friendships with settled people as they are "more likely to be involved in drugs" and to be fair .... from an objective statistical point of view I can see why certain areas with extremely high drug use would be of concern to them . The girl from Dublin has certainly softened my own perception of travellers where I wpuldn't have as strong opinion as before but I tend to see a lot of whataboutism when someone settled mentions issues within traveller culture. Animal abuse... domestic violence.. control of women..etc What I do find grim is how badly mental health services are failing travellers and tbh health services in general is something that could be commented when average life span is looked at compared to someone on average who is "settled". An unemployment rate of about 85% and in a world moving heavily towards tech jobs it must be getting harder and harder for travellers who do want to work to get a job as the schooling system isn't able to provide the support that is needed for them. Certainly I can see a domino effect of leaving school with no qualifications and finding it easy to slip into a life of crime. I don't condone the crimes but I do understand there is context to how these situations come about. I would hope as time goes on there are much better mental health support services put in place... that programs that center on integration into wider society can be introducd. As others have pointed out...by not knowing someone makes it easier to discriminate against them... rob.them...judge them. I have seen lately some stuff online regarding LGBTQ issues in the travelling community and although there is a lot of opposition there is also a sizeable presence of travellers doing their very best to campaign for equality and I tip my hat to those who are willing to step outside their comfort zone to speak up.. It's so nuanced and very complex " Of course the crime rates among Travellers are high. Nobody will hire them for decent jobs. Of course the use of violence is more orevelant among Travellers us higher. Being hated and treated like dirt by your country will make you angry and aggressive. Of course they have a high prison pop rate. They are disproportionately targeted by the guards (just like Black men in America) and convicted more easily with less evidence. Any Irish person who says they're not racist but wouldn't trust a Traveller is either a liar, or is suffering from an accute lack of self awareness and a total lack of understanding of what racism is. And anyone who uses statistics against Travellers or any minority group without being willing to ask what we as a country are doing to contribute to these statistics is intellictually lazy and morally bankrupt. We can do better than this! (by the way OP, I'm not saying this about you specifically. I feel like you're actually being pretty honest and fairish.) | |||
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"I feel I haven't a racist bone in my body As an employer I've given jobs to every colour and creed As a person I have a few black friends as have my kids However I have a dislike of travellers I'm sorry if I offend anyone but I think I'm genuinely not the only one that does on here so does that count as racist Rather than berate you , I'm trying to understand . What is your dislike of travellers based on ? I can honestly say in each job in each industry I have worked in .. the vast majority of interactions with travellers has been poor to say the least. From being caught robbing to threatening a colleague with a slash hook to another colleague having stones put through his car window while working. I don't think I can think of a single positive experience . It's possible I have been extremely unlucky but the statistics showing how many are involved in crime etc would suggest not . Out of a population of around 40,000 there is roughly 10% male prison population and 22% female prison population with a general population of about 0.6% . I know a few gards personally and each of them would comment on the excessive crime rates in the community. That all said.. there is a girl from Dublin I am friendly with who has a few female mates who are travellers and she absolutely adores them and has never had an issue with any of those girls. But....if she wants to call to them. The older members of the travelling community have to be gone before she can call as they don't approve of friendships with settled people as they are "more likely to be involved in drugs" and to be fair .... from an objective statistical point of view I can see why certain areas with extremely high drug use would be of concern to them . The girl from Dublin has certainly softened my own perception of travellers where I wpuldn't have as strong opinion as before but I tend to see a lot of whataboutism when someone settled mentions issues within traveller culture. Animal abuse... domestic violence.. control of women..etc What I do find grim is how badly mental health services are failing travellers and tbh health services in general is something that could be commented when average life span is looked at compared to someone on average who is "settled". An unemployment rate of about 85% and in a world moving heavily towards tech jobs it must be getting harder and harder for travellers who do want to work to get a job as the schooling system isn't able to provide the support that is needed for them. Certainly I can see a domino effect of leaving school with no qualifications and finding it easy to slip into a life of crime. I don't condone the crimes but I do understand there is context to how these situations come about. I would hope as time goes on there are much better mental health support services put in place... that programs that center on integration into wider society can be introducd. As others have pointed out...by not knowing someone makes it easier to discriminate against them... rob.them...judge them. I have seen lately some stuff online regarding LGBTQ issues in the travelling community and although there is a lot of opposition there is also a sizeable presence of travellers doing their very best to campaign for equality and I tip my hat to those who are willing to step outside their comfort zone to speak up.. It's so nuanced and very complex Of course the crime rates among Travellers are high. Nobody will hire them for decent jobs. Of course the use of violence is more orevelant among Travellers us higher. Being hated and treated like dirt by your country will make you angry and aggressive. Of course they have a high prison pop rate. They are disproportionately targeted by the guards (just like Black men in America) and convicted more easily with less evidence. Any Irish person who says they're not racist but wouldn't trust a Traveller is either a liar, or is suffering from an accute lack of self awareness and a total lack of understanding of what racism is. And anyone who uses statistics against Travellers or any minority group without being willing to ask what we as a country are doing to contribute to these statistics is intellictually lazy and morally bankrupt. We can do better than this! (by the way OP, I'm not saying this about you specifically. I feel like you're actually being pretty honest and fairish.)" this x | |||
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"I feel I haven't a racist bone in my body As an employer I've given jobs to every colour and creed As a person I have a few black friends as have my kids However I have a dislike of travellers I'm sorry if I offend anyone but I think I'm genuinely not the only one that does on here so does that count as racist Rather than berate you , I'm trying to understand . What is your dislike of travellers based on ? I can honestly say in each job in each industry I have worked in .. the vast majority of interactions with travellers has been poor to say the least. From being caught robbing to threatening a colleague with a slash hook to another colleague having stones put through his car window while working. I don't think I can think of a single positive experience . It's possible I have been extremely unlucky but the statistics showing how many are involved in crime etc would suggest not . Out of a population of around 40,000 there is roughly 10% male prison population and 22% female prison population with a general population of about 0.6% . I know a few gards personally and each of them would comment on the excessive crime rates in the community. That all said.. there is a girl from Dublin I am friendly with who has a few female mates who are travellers and she absolutely adores them and has never had an issue with any of those girls. But....if she wants to call to them. The older members of the travelling community have to be gone before she can call as they don't approve of friendships with settled people as they are "more likely to be involved in drugs" and to be fair .... from an objective statistical point of view I can see why certain areas with extremely high drug use would be of concern to them . The girl from Dublin has certainly softened my own perception of travellers where I wpuldn't have as strong opinion as before but I tend to see a lot of whataboutism when someone settled mentions issues within traveller culture. Animal abuse... domestic violence.. control of women..etc What I do find grim is how badly mental health services are failing travellers and tbh health services in general is something that could be commented when average life span is looked at compared to someone on average who is "settled". An unemployment rate of about 85% and in a world moving heavily towards tech jobs it must be getting harder and harder for travellers who do want to work to get a job as the schooling system isn't able to provide the support that is needed for them. Certainly I can see a domino effect of leaving school with no qualifications and finding it easy to slip into a life of crime. I don't condone the crimes but I do understand there is context to how these situations come about. I would hope as time goes on there are much better mental health support services put in place... that programs that center on integration into wider society can be introducd. As others have pointed out...by not knowing someone makes it easier to discriminate against them... rob.them...judge them. I have seen lately some stuff online regarding LGBTQ issues in the travelling community and although there is a lot of opposition there is also a sizeable presence of travellers doing their very best to campaign for equality and I tip my hat to those who are willing to step outside their comfort zone to speak up.. It's so nuanced and very complex Of course the crime rates among Travellers are high. Nobody will hire them for decent jobs. Of course the use of violence is more orevelant among Travellers us higher. Being hated and treated like dirt by your country will make you angry and aggressive. Of course they have a high prison pop rate. They are disproportionately targeted by the guards (just like Black men in America) and convicted more easily with less evidence. Any Irish person who says they're not racist but wouldn't trust a Traveller is either a liar, or is suffering from an accute lack of self awareness and a total lack of understanding of what racism is. And anyone who uses statistics against Travellers or any minority group without being willing to ask what we as a country are doing to contribute to these statistics is intellictually lazy and morally bankrupt. We can do better than this! (by the way OP, I'm not saying this about you specifically. I feel like you're actually being pretty honest and fairish.)" You are totally entitled to air your opinion and I respect your right to hold it be it if you agree with me or think I am a bollox . In terms of what we might call a decent job ...a lot do require a decent level of education achieved .. and a sizeable chunk require college education etc. If I'm not mistaken I think 1 in 100 traveller women attened college . Has education failed them ? Has their own community failed them by pushing isolation from what would be considered more of a space for settled folks ? These are just questions.. I don't have the data for the 99 that don't attend and again would imagine there is nuance to it. I see the surface correlation with black people in America and travellers here but for me the causation is not the same. The treatment of black people was underpinned by Jim Crow laws that enforced racial segregation especially in the southern states. The KKK with their burning crosses and nooses were and are a specific organisation that very much targeted African Americans and I'd imagine the death toll is disturbing if it was ever really known. The U.S constitution itself didnt recognise black people as full persons until the 13th amendment with the abolition of slavery. Penal labor in the United States is explicitly allowed by the 13th Amendment of the U.S. Constitution: "Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction." So technically slavery still happens in prison in the U.S There are countless examples of young black kids that have been charged far in excess of what yoing white kids get in relation to drugs . One of the biggest differences was the treatment of crack cocaine in African American communities as opposed to powder cocaine used by the elites. The disparity is mind boggling. The U.S prison system is riduclous how it treats people and to this day blacks are still very disproportionately sentenced.. A big issue being that state attorneys appointed to people who cannot afford their own are often have 1000+ cases a year and many put pressure on their clients to enter a guilty plea so to save time and get a lesser sentence than if found guilty by a jury. Counter intuitively many do actually plead guilty although some do get represented by the innocence project later on and cleared. The problem here being that the U.S has the most dense prison population in the world with an average of 655 per 100,00. To put into context the Irish rate is 84 per 100,000 people. In 2019 according to the Irish prison service there was 8939 prisoners, of that there was 6276 males and 894 females in Irish prisons. With the health complications I touched on in the previous post with regards to travellers comes a lower life expectancy and thus a lower % of people in the same age bracket as settled people. With more travellers in % on thr younger side it means that with less % of population being of prison age.. it makes for even more grim reading. I have come across travellers online as I said looking to make a difference in their communities and I wish them the very best. "White Irish" certainly has it's own set of issues also that should be resolved for a more progressive society for all. We should all be treated equally under the law. Every person is different though and have different abilities...circumstances .. ideally.. education would provide a more equal template for kids to succeed regardless of home life. The best we can do is hope. | |||
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"You're right that the story of the civil rights movement and the Travellers rights movement are different. Of course it should go without saying that every minority group has a unique historical experience and non are the same. But at the end of the day, racism is racism and the effects are ultimately universal. Poverty. Incarceration. Discrimination. Mental illness. Shorter life expectancies etc. I think the best we can do is challenge our subconscious racist behaviour and the racist behaviour we see around us, in our friends and families and workplaces. This is extremely fucking difficult and uncomfortable and probably 50% of the time I chicken out and take the easy route of saying nothing so as not to cause a fuss or not to be labelled as a social justice warrior and have eyes rolled at me. But we should try anyway. Anything less then that - just hope - is not only not enough, but it's facilitating racism on a macro level. " Just out of interest how do you think those uncomfortable conversations should take place about common practices that are harmful within other cultures without it being blocked down by the racist tag ? | |||
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"You're right that the story of the civil rights movement and the Travellers rights movement are different. Of course it should go without saying that every minority group has a unique historical experience and non are the same. But at the end of the day, racism is racism and the effects are ultimately universal. Poverty. Incarceration. Discrimination. Mental illness. Shorter life expectancies etc. I think the best we can do is challenge our subconscious racist behaviour and the racist behaviour we see around us, in our friends and families and workplaces. This is extremely fucking difficult and uncomfortable and probably 50% of the time I chicken out and take the easy route of saying nothing so as not to cause a fuss or not to be labelled as a social justice warrior and have eyes rolled at me. But we should try anyway. Anything less then that - just hope - is not only not enough, but it's facilitating racism on a macro level. " can you elaborate what you mean by sub conscious behavior? Is this purely to do with travellers? Or is it general rascism towards anyone thats not like you? Thanks | |||
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"You are totally entitled to air your opinion and I respect your right to hold it be it if you agree with me or think I am a bollox . In terms of what we might call a decent job ...a lot do require a decent level of education achieved .. and a sizeable chunk require college education etc. If I'm not mistaken I think 1 in 100 traveller women attened college . Has education failed them ? Has their own community failed them by pushing isolation from what would be considered more of a space for settled folks ? These are just questions.. I don't have the data for the 99 that don't attend and again would imagine there is nuance to it. I see the surface correlation with black people in America and travellers here but for me the causation is not the same. The treatment of black people was underpinned by Jim Crow laws that enforced racial segregation especially in the southern states. The KKK with their burning crosses and nooses were and are a specific organisation that very much targeted African Americans and I'd imagine the death toll is disturbing if it was ever really known. The U.S constitution itself didnt recognise black people as full persons until the 13th amendment with the abolition of slavery. Penal labor in the United States is explicitly allowed by the 13th Amendment of the U.S. Constitution: "Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction." So technically slavery still happens in prison in the U.S There are countless examples of young black kids that have been charged far in excess of what yoing white kids get in relation to drugs . One of the biggest differences was the treatment of crack cocaine in African American communities as opposed to powder cocaine used by the elites. The disparity is mind boggling. The U.S prison system is riduclous how it treats people and to this day blacks are still very disproportionately sentenced.. A big issue being that state attorneys appointed to people who cannot afford their own are often have 1000+ cases a year and many put pressure on their clients to enter a guilty plea so to save time and get a lesser sentence than if found guilty by a jury. Counter intuitively many do actually plead guilty although some do get represented by the innocence project later on and cleared. The problem here being that the U.S has the most dense prison population in the world with an average of 655 per 100,00. To put into context the Irish rate is 84 per 100,000 people. In 2019 according to the Irish prison service there was 8939 prisoners, of that there was 6276 males and 894 females in Irish prisons. With the health complications I touched on in the previous post with regards to travellers comes a lower life expectancy and thus a lower % of people in the same age bracket as settled people. With more travellers in % on thr younger side it means that with less % of population being of prison age.. it makes for even more grim reading. I have come across travellers online as I said looking to make a difference in their communities and I wish them the very best. "White Irish" certainly has it's own set of issues also that should be resolved for a more progressive society for all. We should all be treated equally under the law. Every person is different though and have different abilities...circumstances .. ideally.. education would provide a more equal template for kids to succeed regardless of home life. The best we can do is hope. " Without making any comment on the topic, I have to acknowledge a very well written, intelligent, fact filled post. Thanks. | |||
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"can you elaborate what you mean by sub conscious behavior? Is this purely to do with travellers? Or is it general rascism towards anyone thats not like you? Thanks" Sure. What I mean is, challenge the beliefs that have been conditioned into us throughout our lives that are inherently racist, towards any race or minority. For example, I would be lying if I said I'd feel equally unsafe if I encountered a gang of White men as I would if I encountered a gang of Black men. I'm not proud of it. I know this is wrong. I know that it's racist. And I know that it's because the media and my parents and society etc have painted Black men as being more violent than White men for my entire life. That's something I need to challenge and question and unlearn. It's not easy to do because even if I have sub conscious racist beliefs, I know I'm a good person who sincerely and intentionally tries to treat people fairly. So to admit to myself that I have these sub conscious racist beliefs is really uncomfortable. And I think this is why so many people get so defensive when the topic of racism is raised. None of us want to admit that we've been conditioned in that way, or that our sub conscious values could be racist. But I honestly think that until we start to really look inward and hold ourselves to higher standards of fairness, nothing will really change. Hope that's clearer. | |||
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"Very clear. And i woukd agree, mostly. But what if the prejudice is o Not a conditioned behaviour. I'm English. I had not preconceptions about travellers. Within a few months I have seen Travellers spitting in shops, not paying for hairdressers, not wearing masks in Aldi, and seen the evidence of stripping copper in Ravensdale and Cooley. Maybe these ethnic groups need to abide by the laws before gripping about stereotypes." OK. Maybe it's a behavioural problem that only affects that one group. Or maybe it's the fact that, when you can't get decent employment you turn to crime. Are you saying that you wouldn't do the same thing? Cos honestly, there are very few things I wouldn't do to feed my kid if I couldn't get work. Similarly, can you honestly say that you wouldn't spit in shops, not wear masks etc if you had spent your entire life living in a country that sees you and treats you like a dog? Cos again, I can't. I have no idea how that must feel, or the level of resentment and hatred it must cultivate over years and years. It's a self fullfilling prophecy that Irish people perpetuate every single day and if we're going to point fingers we need to start looking at ourselves and our role in all of this. | |||
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"Firstly, an informative, respectful discussion. And agree with most the points put forward. To flip the conversation, though Could some ethnic groups do more to abide by socities norms? Sbellex says we suffer from conditioned racism. I agree. However, I'm English, in the country a short while.i had no preconditioned prejudice about Travellers. In the last few months I have seen Travellers spit at shop staff, not wear masks in supermarkets, run out of hairdressers without paying, and seen evidence of copper stripping and dumping in Cooley. I didn't hate Travellers before I came here. Kinda do now.... " Do you? Do you know a single Traveller? | |||
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"No. But the 6 or 7 I've come across were universally distasteful. And in a way no other group is. I am friends with Nigerians, Somalians, syrians, french, spanish, russians, chinese...even a girl from Drogheda... ....they are all wonderful... Travellers that I have seen behave dreadfully and anti-socially. The truth has to be called out for society to address this....i'm not racist, yet I find travellers anti social in the extreme." Distasteful? Wow. The use of that words says a lot. I already replied to your previous comment. Then you deleted it and posted another. So I'm not gonna keep banging my head against this particular brick wall. All I'll say is, read this and get some fucking compassion. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.independent.ie/breaking-news/irish-news/ten-people-including-baby-killed-in-fire-at-travellers-halting-site-31598818.html | |||
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"Very clear. And i woukd agree, mostly. But what if the prejudice is o Not a conditioned behaviour. I'm English. I had not preconceptions about travellers. Within a few months I have seen Travellers spitting in shops, not paying for hairdressers, not wearing masks in Aldi, and seen the evidence of stripping copper in Ravensdale and Cooley. Maybe these ethnic groups need to abide by the laws before gripping about stereotypes. OK. Maybe it's a behavioural problem that only affects that one group. Or maybe it's the fact that, when you can't get decent employment you turn to crime. Are you saying that you wouldn't do the same thing? Cos honestly, there are very few things I wouldn't do to feed my kid if I couldn't get work. Similarly, can you honestly say that you wouldn't spit in shops, not wear masks etc if you had spent your entire life living in a country that sees you and treats you like a dog? Cos again, I can't. I have no idea how that must feel, or the level of resentment and hatred it must cultivate over years and years. It's a self fullfilling prophecy that Irish people perpetuate every single day and if we're going to point fingers we need to start looking at ourselves and our role in all of this. " Sorry, i missed this. Yes, i can say i would not spit at someone. | |||
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"No. But the 6 or 7 I've come across were universally distasteful. And in a way no other group is. I am friends with Nigerians, Somalians, syrians, french, spanish, russians, chinese...even a girl from Drogheda... ....they are all wonderful... Travellers that I have seen behave dreadfully and anti-socially. The truth has to be called out for society to address this....i'm not racist, yet I find travellers anti social in the extreme. Distasteful? Wow. The use of that words says a lot. I already replied to your previous comment. Then you deleted it and posted another. So I'm not gonna keep banging my head against this particular brick wall. All I'll say is, read this and get some fucking compassion. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.independent.ie/breaking-news/irish-news/ten-people-including-baby-killed-in-fire-at-travellers-halting-site-31598818.html" Thats a shocking story but what is its relevance? I could add a story about a house fire in ballyfermot that killed a mother and 4 kids but its not relevant to this thread. An excellent discussion by the way from all parties | |||
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"I see this cropping up a lot lately . Be it a majority or minority culture sutely nothing is beyond criticism. I think it's important for people to assess how much their individuality is dictated by their culture etc. I'm specifically not naming any types of classifications as it's just a gneral point. For me.. as individuals and as groups it is important to grow and to develop and being able to take constructive criticism is surely a part of that. " The Irish are awesome. But as the OP says, unless there is debate and fact-based criticism how can a society grow and address what's wrong. | |||
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"OK sorry, I thought it was more obvious. I think it is relevant because there's a very strong chance that those lives wouldn't have been list if: 1) the council hadn't forcibly moved the trailers so close together that the fire spread so quickly, and 2) the council hadn't shut off the water supply to the site where there were a large number of Travellers living. This fire wasn't just a horrific accident. It was a horrific accident that was very likely made much much worse by the fact that the housing provided to them by the government was unsafe. The point I'm making with this is that I'd imagine that many Travellers feel that this was just another example of the governments complete lack of interest in their community's welfare. The UN has been heavily critical of our governments treatment of Travellers for years. If you are raised believing that your government don't care if you're dead or alive, that your safety doesn't matter, if you're openly mocked, humiliated, dehumanised, harassed, rejected by the school system, unable to get decent employment, denied access to healthcare... Would you behave? Cos I fucking wouldn't. And anyone who says they would needs a serious reality check. " Why do they get stigmatized against? | |||
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"OK sorry, I thought it was more obvious. I think it is relevant because there's a very strong chance that those lives wouldn't have been list if: 1) the council hadn't forcibly moved the trailers so close together that the fire spread so quickly, and 2) the council hadn't shut off the water supply to the site where there were a large number of Travellers living. This fire wasn't just a horrific accident. It was a horrific accident that was very likely made much much worse by the fact that the housing provided to them by the government was unsafe. The point I'm making with this is that I'd imagine that many Travellers feel that this was just another example of the governments complete lack of interest in their community's welfare. The UN has been heavily critical of our governments treatment of Travellers for years. If you are raised believing that your government don't care if you're dead or alive, that your safety doesn't matter, if you're openly mocked, humiliated, dehumanised, harassed, rejected by the school system, unable to get decent employment, denied access to healthcare... Would you behave? Cos I fucking wouldn't. And anyone who says they would needs a serious reality check. Why do they get stigmatized against? " you tell us then | |||
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"OK sorry, I thought it was more obvious. I think it is relevant because there's a very strong chance that those lives wouldn't have been list if: 1) the council hadn't forcibly moved the trailers so close together that the fire spread so quickly, and 2) the council hadn't shut off the water supply to the site where there were a large number of Travellers living. This fire wasn't just a horrific accident. It was a horrific accident that was very likely made much much worse by the fact that the housing provided to them by the government was unsafe. The point I'm making with this is that I'd imagine that many Travellers feel that this was just another example of the governments complete lack of interest in their community's welfare. The UN has been heavily critical of our governments treatment of Travellers for years. If you are raised believing that your government don't care if you're dead or alive, that your safety doesn't matter, if you're openly mocked, humiliated, dehumanised, harassed, rejected by the school system, unable to get decent employment, denied access to healthcare... Would you behave? Cos I fucking wouldn't. And anyone who says they would needs a serious reality check. " Ah cmon Ducky, such a sweeping statement, let me reply with a similar generalization,. I have worked with and for Travellers for years and have become friends with some but they have openly admitted to me that as soon as we turn our back the liklyhood of our equipment surviving is slim. We have built facilities with shower units that are replaced on a weekly basis, we get requests for types of domestic appliances because they sell better, we have had horses living in buildings while they remained in their mobiles. We had clients refuse houses because they were to small! 4 bed detached houses! And because we didn't supply stables!! I have witnessed physical domestic abuse, drug use in kids as young as 6 openly in front of parents. I have seen school mini buses destroyed in weeks from pure vandalism. I rarely see an act of kindness from one to the other nevermind across the "divide" I thought I was helping but I had to give up, when you are openly offered your own equipment back for a finders fee its time to pack the bags | |||
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"No. But the 6 or 7 I've come across were universally distasteful. And in a way no other group is. I am friends with Nigerians, Somalians, syrians, french, spanish, russians, chinese...even a girl from Drogheda... ....they are all wonderful... Travellers that I have seen behave dreadfully and anti-socially. The truth has to be called out for society to address this....i'm not racist, yet I find travellers anti social in the extreme." do you believe all the traveller's are the same or is it just 6 or 7 you met. | |||
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" Ah cmon Ducky, such a sweeping statement, let me reply with a similar generalization,. I have worked with and for Travellers for years and have become friends with some but they have openly admitted to me that as soon as we turn our back the liklyhood of our equipment surviving is slim. We have built facilities with shower units that are replaced on a weekly basis, we get requests for types of domestic appliances because they sell better, we have had horses living in buildings while they remained in their mobiles. We had clients refuse houses because they were to small! 4 bed detached houses! And because we didn't supply stables!! I have witnessed physical domestic abuse, drug use in kids as young as 6 openly in front of parents. I have seen school mini buses destroyed in weeks from pure vandalism. I rarely see an act of kindness from one to the other nevermind across the "divide" I thought I was helping but I had to give up, when you are openly offered your own equipment back for a finders fee its time to pack the bags " Yes, isn't it terrible? Aren't those all signs of deeply unhappy people? Isn't it wrong that in such a developed, stable country a certain group are living lives like that? Shouldn't we try to dig reeeeeal deep deep down below the layers of conditioning and elitism and muster even the teeniest tiniest bit of compassion for them? Or maybe we should sit at home in our lovely houses sipping a glass of sauvingon, nibble some Brie and bitch about how they really need to behave themselves better. Y'all are a fucking laugh! | |||
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"OK sorry, I thought it was more obvious. I think it is relevant because there's a very strong chance that those lives wouldn't have been list if: 1) the council hadn't forcibly moved the trailers so close together that the fire spread so quickly, and 2) the council hadn't shut off the water supply to the site where there were a large number of Travellers living. This fire wasn't just a horrific accident. It was a horrific accident that was very likely made much much worse by the fact that the housing provided to them by the government was unsafe. The point I'm making with this is that I'd imagine that many Travellers feel that this was just another example of the governments complete lack of interest in their community's welfare. The UN has been heavily critical of our governments treatment of Travellers for years. If you are raised believing that your government don't care if you're dead or alive, that your safety doesn't matter, if you're openly mocked, humiliated, dehumanised, harassed, rejected by the school system, unable to get decent employment, denied access to healthcare... Would you behave? Cos I fucking wouldn't. And anyone who says they would needs a serious reality check. Why do they get stigmatized against? you tell us then " I think its pretty clear. Most people have had nothing but bad experiences with them throughout their lives. Hence the stigma | |||
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" Ah cmon Ducky, such a sweeping statement, let me reply with a similar generalization,. I have worked with and for Travellers for years and have become friends with some but they have openly admitted to me that as soon as we turn our back the liklyhood of our equipment surviving is slim. We have built facilities with shower units that are replaced on a weekly basis, we get requests for types of domestic appliances because they sell better, we have had horses living in buildings while they remained in their mobiles. We had clients refuse houses because they were to small! 4 bed detached houses! And because we didn't supply stables!! I have witnessed physical domestic abuse, drug use in kids as young as 6 openly in front of parents. I have seen school mini buses destroyed in weeks from pure vandalism. I rarely see an act of kindness from one to the other nevermind across the "divide" I thought I was helping but I had to give up, when you are openly offered your own equipment back for a finders fee its time to pack the bags Yes, isn't it terrible? Aren't those all signs of deeply unhappy people? Isn't it wrong that in such a developed, stable country a certain group are living lives like that? Shouldn't we try to dig reeeeeal deep deep down below the layers of conditioning and elitism and muster even the teeniest tiniest bit of compassion for them? Or maybe we should sit at home in our lovely houses sipping a glass of sauvingon, nibble some Brie and bitch about how they really need to behave themselves better. Y'all are a fucking laugh! " Fuck NO!! Wanna go for a coffee? | |||
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"OK sorry, I thought it was more obvious. I think it is relevant because there's a very strong chance that those lives wouldn't have been list if: 1) the council hadn't forcibly moved the trailers so close together that the fire spread so quickly, and 2) the council hadn't shut off the water supply to the site where there were a large number of Travellers living. This fire wasn't just a horrific accident. It was a horrific accident that was very likely made much much worse by the fact that the housing provided to them by the government was unsafe. The point I'm making with this is that I'd imagine that many Travellers feel that this was just another example of the governments complete lack of interest in their community's welfare. The UN has been heavily critical of our governments treatment of Travellers for years. If you are raised believing that your government don't care if you're dead or alive, that your safety doesn't matter, if you're openly mocked, humiliated, dehumanised, harassed, rejected by the school system, unable to get decent employment, denied access to healthcare... Would you behave? Cos I fucking wouldn't. And anyone who says they would needs a serious reality check. " https://www.rte.ie/news/2019/0114/1023009-carrickmines-fire/ The trailer was moved temporarily from an uninhabitable field and no prosecution was ever sought against the council for breaches of health and safety. The closest hydrant was a whole 50m away and the fire service would have known its location en route to the scene, meaning the delay would only have been seconds not the five minutes alleged by the family. Nowhere in the inquest documentation does it mention anywhere about your allegation that the closest hydrant was turned off, something that surely would have been reported on but I'm willing to read any sources you have to back this assertion. It was an horrific accident, a chip pan fire the same as has taken many lives before it. Your argument is again a false argument to suit your narrative, the council didn't put the travellers on that site, the actually created the site as an emergency halting site as the travellers were stopped in the roadside. You also fail to mention that all the adults had been drinking to a level that would put them three times over the drink drive limit which may account for the three perfectly serviceable fire extinguishers not having been used. And even though there were no fire regulations those fire extinguishers and fire blankets were provided by the council. But sure I'm likely racist for reading about it. | |||
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"I think its pretty clear. Most people have had nothing but bad experiences with them throughout their lives. Hence the stigma OK. I'll agree with this. I've never had a positive interaction with a Traveller. But let me ask you this - why do you think they behave so differently? Do you think they're just bad people and we're just good people? " I actually agree with a lot of things you are saying and I really respect your honesty. I have had some awful interactions with them really shocking, theres a reason so many die young or end up in prison. However, i do agree the government has failed them in some way but i also think pavee point dont do themselves any favors either because they are so defensive. And no i dont think they are all bad they just end up that way because of their environment | |||
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" Most people have had nothing but bad experiences with them throughout their lives. Hence the stigma " Actually, we had good experiences of travellers as kids back in the 80's; they were respectful, friendly, quiet people. Today's travellers however are different. What happened to them between then and now, i'm not sure. | |||
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