FabSwingers.com forum: Who’s s on the tinder or Bumble or similar

By *eebaw OP Man
over a year ago

On both find tinder has more active people on it ? Or maybe I’m in the wrong area for bumble. So who else is on them or other apps? Since lockdown I think there great for connecting since the social aspect of pubs clubs wasn't there and still wont be with social distancing

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By *hivers2020Woman
over a year ago

lolli land

Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat!

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By *hivers2020Woman
over a year ago

lolli land

"Never been on tinder, didnt like bumble, I’m on Pof - and afternoon rejoining here I see a lot of the same faces, some of whom would ignore me on Pof so interesting to see from there eyes that I’m ok for a quickie but not worth a drink and a chat!"

*after, not afternoon

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I've never been on a dating site and I never will be. I've just no interest in having a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried tinder. Dee and me came up as a match which is funny as the two were already talking and spending time with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder and pof...find I am having more fun on tinder.

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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago

South Tipperary

Tea and cake....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried tinder for a week and got banned (, the reasons honestly elude me) and I think I'm better off. Never been on bumble but I'd imagine there is little to distinguish them from each other.

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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

Yeah I am on Tinder to be honest. (I was with my ex/married etc. for 10 years, so lived a fairly sheltered life.)

So post split I tried it for a while. It's okay. Like here, it's better to meet up for a coffee or whatever than endless chat for days (or weeks!!)

I don't really bother with Tinder now, but it is still there.

Sure I only found out about fab 2 months ago! From a Tinder date HAHA! (See!!...sheltered!!

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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

But I did happen to come across 2 nice girls on Tinder that I recognised from here!

Their fab pics are a lot eh... 'riskier' than their Tinder pics.

But yes, I swiped right.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I'm on Tinder. Have recruited some lovely guys to Fabs ... I should be on a commission!

It's clear why I'm there but the mere suggestion of meeting for a drink is absurd to some matches which is both rude AF and presumptuous

I do find however that in general the guys I match with on Tinder are far more reliable than some guys here.

#controversial

Happy swiping

Gemma x

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By *imples91Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Similar experience here

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

Im on tinder..

You match with each other and you mail, but lots never mail back.

Talk to a few but not much more so far but who knows...

Hard to find and connect with the right lady..

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

I'm on badoo myself just don't like how with some profiles you have to spend money to message them

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Say when and where and I will take you out for a drink no problem

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By *cupxxxWoman
over a year ago

Gorey

I gave up on Tinder and POF a long time ago. Trying Match.com now for 6 months but no one mails on it.

Here is so much better. I want the best of both worlds...swinging AND love. Is that possible? I live in hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on Tinder for a while and met a lovely lady on there who introduced me to here

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"I gave up on Tinder and POF a long time ago. Trying Match.com now for 6 months but no one mails on it.

Here is so much better. I want the best of both worlds...swinging AND love. Is that possible? I live in hope.

Well there is swings just down the road from me that can have a go on and happy to give my heart to you in the same process I'm Chris please to meet you

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"I gave up on Tinder and POF a long time ago. Trying Match.com now for 6 months but no one mails on it.

Here is so much better. I want the best of both worlds...swinging AND love. Is that possible? I live in hope.

Rather have the drink and chat and take it from there , The rest could be the bonus

Well there is swings just down the road from me that can have a go on and happy to give my heart to you in the same process I'm Chris please to meet you

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Similar experience here

I'm on both and would see a few familiar faces, but would tend to bypass the ones i recognise on here incase it compromises their identity somewhat, just a discretion thing with me.

I'm very popular in South East Asia though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on Tinder, Match and some other dating sites in past, but most and best meets ive got from ...Facebook

Sid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been on either lol never even heard about bumble ????

Only out of a long relationship, are they any use?

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By *orthDublinDRMan
over a year ago

Clongriffin

I’m on Tinder and POF. Had some good dates and like socialising so turns out to be a good place for that. Apparently I’m a chatterbox as it’s said a lot to me. Don’t know if it’s a good or bad thing??

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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago

some where in outer space

I'm on neither tried both once before found it had to communicate esp on tinder even though u matched

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"I'm on neither tried both once before found it had to communicate esp on tinder even though u matched"
Its nice to see a face and imagine the body , Maybe over Covid sorry coffee

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By *eepimpactMan
over a year ago

Dublin

They're clearly blind or just plain stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few questions.

The people especially couples and married ladies on tinder. Do ye show faces?

Anybody ever try feeld?

Thanks

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Yep!!! Totally agree to this!!

I’m not looking for a forever relationship, just casual open dating with great sex within the swinging world.

Some men on here just want to fuck and be on their way! Not for me thanks!

If I see them here I make a point of it, block and move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on Tinder once before. Found it meh.

I find it like a lottery for men. Me and about 2000 lads swipe like on a girls profile and let's see who she likes back haha.

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I didn't think Fab allowed you to mention other sites on here

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Im on tinder..

You match with each other and you mail, but lots never mail back.

Talk to a few but not much more so far but who knows...

Hard to find and connect with the right lady.. "

I agree. I'm on it. Very few matches message or reply to one. There are also scam profiles. Good looking women will message and include an email as the only way of contact going forward where you then must click on a link(for their security!!!??) to proceed. I exchanged emails just once but didn't open the link. Three profiles had the exact same promiscuous text. SCAM. Hope no one got caught

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm on both, I have better interactions here tbh as the guys on Tinder / Bumble are mostly just looking for the ride (with me at least) and aren't remotely tactful about it.

On Fab, guys are more polite and up for a conversation because the parameters are set in advance I guess.

In summary, the guys on Fab and don't wanna date (me) , and the guys on dating apps also don't wanna date (me) ... So I'm out of options and just winging it til I meet the right guy SOMEWHERE!

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Not on neither was a long time ago

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By *odernLoveDublinMan
over a year ago

dublin

I use a few of the apps and have met 3 fellow fabbers on one of them over the past while!

Totally innocent matches to begin and then when chat turned a little naughty over the following days then admissions were made.

Seems to be a sizeable overlap

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

Im on tinder but I keep forgetting about it if im honest, pof is mostly loons ( well the ones who message me are) one is as bad as the other..actually scrap my reply as im not a great advocate for either lol

Best of luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't think Fab allowed you to mention other sites on here"

I think its their opposition sites for kinks and the likes.

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By *avana_oh_na_naWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm on tinder but it's off my phone at the minute. Find it a bit boring honestly and I tend to do better in person. Smart arse doesnt translate well via text it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on POF started chatting a girl saturday, met her on sunday for a chat. Turns out she is on fab as well

happy days for both of us

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By *ubhornowMan
over a year ago

Dublin 08

I am on tinder ,,,, alot of fakes on it ,,, met a two ladies so far, very straight forward,...

..... but I will say again alot of fakes

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By *ingleStud85Man
over a year ago

Donegal

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By *ingleStud85Man
over a year ago

Donegal

I'm on Tinder and Bumble. Bumble is very civilised, the ladies first rules probably s out a lot of the virtual cat-calling. Tinder is the middle ground mixing buttoned up Bumble and Fab filth

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By *ight at the topMan
over a year ago

Dublin 8

"Im on tinder but I keep forgetting about it if im honest, pof is mostly loons ( well the ones who message me are) one is as bad as the other..actually scrap my reply as im not a great advocate for either lol

Best of luck x

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Stick with Fab we're nicer and definitely saner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On both! Although here is a faster way of ing out a boring ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on tinder over the summer. It was great while I was in Spain for a few weeks but useless here

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

Was on tinder.. a good few matches but a number of them don't message back when you mail them and a number of the ones i have met face to face never look like their pictures really because they all using filters or their pics are years old.

Dating during a pandemic has been challenging to say the least.

But if you not in you can't win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on tinder for some while met a few people from it but just felt after a couple of meets they weren't what was made out to be by there profile.. No matter what pictures you have uploaded it's all about conversation & personally!

I've always said you'd get to know someone alot better over a few drinks as they let go abit rather then a awkward dinner or somthing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am on both, tinder is a bit more Craic, less active on bumble, the fact you have to make the first move is a bit unnerving, I feel for fellas in that instance. The dreaded fear of rejection.... online dating is a bit soul destroying. Some days I want to meet a fella for a relationship, some days I want to sit on faces and do my own thing. First world problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on Tinder and Bumble. Bumble is very civilised, the ladies first rules probably s out a lot of the virtual cat-calling. Tinder is the middle ground mixing buttoned up Bumble and Fab filth"

Haha this is how I wanted to convey both, I lack the linguistic ability. What he said.

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By *onalladMan
over a year ago

Tralee

I met the love of my life on tinder but unfortunately I fucked it up. It's a good site.

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

On tinder go through it every now and then but mich prefer here

At least here you can find like minded people. Cant be doing with all the txtn just to find out that you havnt the same interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year I matched with a guy on Tinder chatted on and off wasn't feeling it and told him. He was very polite and cool about it. Later on in the year a Fab friend warned me about a profile showed me his face picture. It was the exact same guy. Only this time around he didnt take the similar polite rejection so well. He showered her with abuse and called her a whore. Gave me a great insight how differently some people can treat us here.

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By *onalladMan
over a year ago

Tralee

"On tinder go through it every now and then but mich prefer here

At least here you can find like minded people. Cant be doing with all the txtn just to find out that you havnt the same interests "

It's a catch 22 - on here you have to build up a rapport with someone as well - otherwise you come off as rude or a bit of a creep. I sup pose the moral of the story is that its all about being respectful no matter what site you are on.

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