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"them actually showing up would be dead handy " dont make arrangements unless your genuine. Word spreads and you will scupper your future meet chances.
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"Don't over do it with drinking. Nothing worse than someone legless at a party to bring the mood down" Agree, can be hard when the craic is going in the pub not to have just one more but! Think of the fun instead. | |||
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"What so you wish you knew before your very first meet? " That she was going to punch me in the face and knee me in the balls as part of her undiscussed fantasy  | |||
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"What so you wish you knew before your very first meet? That she was going to punch me in the face and knee me in the balls as part of her undiscussed fantasy "No way! | |||
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"What so you wish you knew before your very first meet? That she was going to punch me in the face and knee me in the balls as part of her undiscussed fantasy
No way! "Yes way. Left the site a few days later because I thought all meets were going to be like that. | |||
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"What so you wish you knew before your very first meet? That she was going to punch me in the face and knee me in the balls as part of her undiscussed fantasy "Ouch, fetishes can be tricky especially if not fully spoken about first, for me I wish I know that my emotional health and comfort (male half) mean as much as hers | |||
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"Don't rush into meeting anyone. The one time I met someone within a few days was the worst and scariest meet I had. Always bring your own condoms. Don't be guilted into meeting anyone even for a social if you aren't feeling it let the other person know and don't meet. Be yourself no point in pretending to be someone or something your not. " And trim your nails | |||
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"Don't rush into meeting anyone. The one time I met someone within a few days was the worst and scariest meet I had. Always bring your own condoms. Don't be guilted into meeting anyone even for a social if you aren't feeling it let the other person know and don't meet. Be yourself no point in pretending to be someone or something your not. And trim your nails "Now you are going too far  | |||
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"them actually showing up would be dead handy
dont make arrangements unless your genuine. Word spreads and you will scupper your future meet chances.
There ya go lol "lesson learned i tells ya | |||
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"Don't rush into meeting anyone. The one time I met someone within a few days was the worst and scariest meet I had. Always bring your own condoms. Don't be guilted into meeting anyone even for a social if you aren't feeling it let the other person know and don't meet. Be yourself no point in pretending to be someone or something your not. " Clever girl  | |||
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"For women meeting alone; Bring your own condoms and lube Bring clean fresh underwear, I’ve had to go commando (no not you C4) home a couple of times. Always bring a phone charger as you could end up wasting your battery making videos Always ALWAYS let someone know where you are going and for what time. Take a screenshot of their profile and send all their details to a RELIABLE friend. Arrange a time to call or text post-meet to confirm you are ok. If you don’t have anyone you can rely on, fuckit, message me, I’m discreet as hell. Drink loads of water, loo breaks give you a chance to take stock and keeps your waterworks in check. Trust your gut, it’s gotten you this far. " Excellent single lady advice | |||
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"For women meeting alone; Bring your own condoms and lube Bring clean fresh underwear, I’ve had to go commando (no not you C4) home a couple of times. Always bring a phone charger as you could end up wasting your battery making videos Always ALWAYS let someone know where you are going and for what time. Take a screenshot of their profile and send all their details to a RELIABLE friend. Arrange a time to call or text post-meet to confirm you are ok. If you don’t have anyone you can rely on, fuckit, message me, I’m discreet as hell. Drink loads of water, loo breaks give you a chance to take stock and keeps your waterworks in check. Trust your gut, it’s gotten you this far. " As well as letting a friend know where you are going, for peace of mind you can also set your SnapChat location on. So a friend can see your exact location at any point in time. It also shows if you are on the move in a car, if your phone goes offline etc. | |||
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"Always have a good excuse if you meet a work colleague and his family in the hotel corridor the next morning when you told him you were having a quiet weekend "Haha what was it! | |||
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"Don't be pressured into taking bullets for the other half of a couple Don't play with pissed people or those partaking in drugs on meets. Leads to bad situations " very good advice about drugs and drink if you have to do it after meet | |||
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" As well as letting a friend know where you are going, for peace of mind you can also set your SnapChat location on. So a friend can see your exact location at any point in time. It also shows if you are on the move in a car, if your phone goes offline etc. " Good idea. Unforch no use if your phone is tossed out the window of a moving car or turned off, out of battery or smashed. Spent way too much time thinking of worst case scenario   | |||
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"Just because someone has a load of veris doesnt mean they are not scumbags..." OMG too true. And then some of the best lovers and loveliest people I’ve met on had maybe 2 veris? Feel like keeping the secret to myself. | |||
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"Actually happy to be a 'check in' person also. We should have a network " As good an idea as that sounds, with a community as small as this I’ve experienced an arrogant presumption of safety. It’s made me uncomfortable. | |||
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"Message a bit first and trust your instincts. " always trust your instincts | |||
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"Actually happy to be a 'check in' person also. We should have a network As good an idea as that sounds, with a community as small as this I’ve experienced an arrogant presumption of safety. It’s made me uncomfortable. " How do u mean? Like people presumed safety without a check in? | |||
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"Actually happy to be a 'check in' person also. We should have a network As good an idea as that sounds, with a community as small as this I’ve experienced an arrogant presumption of safety. It’s made me uncomfortable. How do u mean? Like people presumed safety without a check in? " What's a check-in? | |||
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"Actually happy to be a 'check in' person also. We should have a network As good an idea as that sounds, with a community as small as this I’ve experienced an arrogant presumption of safety. It’s made me uncomfortable. How do u mean? Like people presumed safety without a check in? What's a check-in?" More for singles but someone who knows where u are and that u check in with to confirm safety. | |||
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"I bought a pool table last minute on donedeal and I decided to enjoy site seeing in cork at the same time , shite excuse I know "Bahaha pool table! Brilliant | |||
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"Message a bit first and trust your instincts. " This
Get to know the person in advance, at various times of the day(s) ahead of a meet.
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"Probably one for new lads, if you make a decision and a plan to meet, meet. Hands up I’ve fucked this one up before but honestly having been on the receiving end, NOTHING worse. I say new lads as we are definitely the worst offenders from my chats. " LOL. | |||
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"Probably one for new lads, if you make a decision and a plan to meet, meet. Hands up I’ve fucked this one up before but honestly having been on the receiving end, NOTHING worse. I say new lads as we are definitely the worst offenders from my chats. LOL. " AH consider this a public apology of sorts | |||
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"1. Be yourself 2. Be respectiful to the other person/people 3. Play safe 4. Remain vigilant (trust your own instincts) 5. Enjoy yourself" Respectful is the key word there. Be sound. | |||
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose.. "I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different. | |||
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different."give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple? | |||
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"For women meeting alone; Bring your own condoms and lube Bring clean fresh underwear, I’ve had to go commando (no not you C4) home a couple of times. Always bring a phone charger as you could end up wasting your battery making videos Always ALWAYS let someone know where you are going and for what time. Take a screenshot of their profile and send all their details to a RELIABLE friend. Arrange a time to call or text post-meet to confirm you are ok. If you don’t have anyone you can rely on, fuckit, message me, I’m discreet as hell. Drink loads of water, loo breaks give you a chance to take stock and keeps your waterworks in check. Trust your gut, it’s gotten you this far. " Cool tips and thanks x | |||
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"Whether your a novice or and old hand, we all have something to learn. Share what hints, tips and hacks you have picked up, been shown or invented that help your personal swinging journey go a little easier. What removes a little stress or boosts your experience? Some of both Mr and Mrs aNawtycpls. Love to hear some of yours Condoms. Yes, yes they are always to be used but if like us you're in a long term relationship, well we left johnies behind us years ago. So tip no 1, practice at home with or without your significant other. You dont want to be figuring this out in a play situation dor rhe first time in years. 2. Bring more than you think u will ever use in your bestest ever night. Latex and non if possible and condom friendly lube. 3. Using toys especially with another female can be hot as f*ck but sharing runs a risk. Use condoms with toys and pack toy friendly wipes or cleaner. 4. Knickers over suspender belt. Allows u to pull em off while leaving your expensive waspie on. 5. Tan. Most require at least 2 showers to completely wash off. No ones likes to nibble on tan nipples. 6. Check in with the person your playing with. Not just for cpls, applicable to everyone. A wee hows this or you comfy? 7. Nails! A hang nail will do more damage to a woohaa than birth! Short, clean and smooth. Buy an emery board or file if like Mr you work with ur hands. Share the wisdom. "Great points | |||
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"Alot of above is common sense,but it's also good to see it's a great thread. Respect. Go with your gut. Don't judge from chinese whispers. Sometimes you miss out on good people because others may have a thing against them. Most importantly be yourself and enjoy and go with the flow! "I would agree with the Chinese whispers part. Too many have an axe to grind for perceived slights. If you know something 100% on the other hand then make a call. One of the things that in any scene can ruin a person's rep be it swinging or bdsm. | |||
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different.give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple?"How can you think they have nothing to lose. You don't know their job title or if they have kids or anything for that matter. They are humans too not animals in a gutter. I can't for the life of me understand why all single men are tarnished with the same brush . | |||
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different.give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple?
How can you think they have nothing to lose. You don't know their job title or if they have kids or anything for that matter. They are humans too not animals in a gutter.
I can't for the life of me understand why all single men are tarnished with the same brush .
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different.give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple?"How has a couple more to lose than a single man | |||
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different.give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple?"I'm assuming this is a wind up? Everyone on here has equal rights to privacy. | |||
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different.give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple?
How can you think they have nothing to lose. You don't know their job title or if they have kids or anything for that matter. They are humans too not animals in a gutter.
I can't for the life of me understand why all single men are tarnished with the same brush .
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different.give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple?"Give me an example how they don't ye are the ones making the claim you also included single women as having more to lose. How exactly is that right? Just because you are a couple does not make your life and privacy more important than anyone else. | |||
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different.give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple?
How can you think they have nothing to lose. You don't know their job title or if they have kids or anything for that matter. They are humans too not animals in a gutter.
I can't for the life of me understand why all single men are tarnished with the same brush .
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different.give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple?
I'm assuming this is a wind up?
Everyone on here has equal rights to privacy."Ya reckon, think what ya want. You missed the point. | |||
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"Single lads, don’t ever mention the word discretion or worried about your job, compared to a couple or a single lady you have fook all to lose..
I think they have just as much to lose as anyone else does. I don't know why anyone would think just because they are a single guy their right to privacy would be any different.give me examples how a single guy has more lose than a couple?
I'm assuming this is a wind up?
Everyone on here has equal rights to privacy.Ya reckon, think what ya want. You missed the point. "Explain it to me then | |||
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"Why is that so many singles lads have face pics on here? Not sure I have ever seen a couple on the Irish site with facepics? That’s discretion for you "What about single ladies...huge amount of them with face pictures | |||
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"Why is that so many singles lads have face pics on here? Not sure I have ever seen a couple on the Irish site with facepics? That’s discretion for you
What about single ladies...huge amount of them with face pictures "There's quite a few couples as well some even post on the forums quite regularly. | |||
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"Why is that so many singles lads have face pics on here? Not sure I have ever seen a couple on the Irish site with facepics? That’s discretion for you "In fairness there is a number of males, cpls and women that show their face on their profile. But I wonder why you single out only the males for this. To me it's not a valid reason on your behalf for making the 1st statement on single men. But that's just me. I tend to look at individuals not the sex as a whole. | |||
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" AH consider this a public apology of sorts "Hmm. | |||
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"Difficult to read the tone of a Hmmm but I’m vibing this one like: Hmmm
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"Difficult to read the tone of a Hmmm but I’m vibing this one like: Hmmm
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"Difficult to read the tone of a Hmmm but I’m vibing this one like: Hmmm
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"Difficult to read the tone of a Hmmm but I’m vibing this one like: Hmmm
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I can’t. I’ve blocked you and I can’t unblock you. AHHAHA!"Somebody get this lady a plunger. It’s an emergency. | |||
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