FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone actually have any joy?

By *eeMe31 OP Man
over a year ago

dalkey

I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.

I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back

I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

You need to stand out in a very big crowd mate, and unfortunately your profile is absolutely bog standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to stand out in a very big crowd mate, and unfortunately your profile is absolutely bog standard"

This, despite the skewed ratio of men to women, there are clearly men who have a high level of success, take a look at their profiles. You have to make an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jasussss. I’m having to chase them away with a big stichk , some of the females on here just won’t take no for an answer

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By *eeMe31 OP Man
over a year ago

dalkey

Any advice? Can't get verified without meeting and obviously don't want to have public face pics

Thanks for the feedback though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jasussss. I’m having to chase them away with a big stichk , some of the females on here just won’t take no for an answer

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u sure it was a stick u were chasing them with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says single and in dublin, if your only social outlet is fab get your ass on tinder,

If you can't find what you're looking for there I suggest you join the clergy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 veris in 4 weeks.

So...yes.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Jasussss. I’m having to chase them away with a big stichk , some of the females on here just won’t take no for an answer

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a taser is not the same thing

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

"Any advice? Can't get verified without meeting and obviously don't want to have public face pics

Thanks for the feedback though"

Try cam to get verified, we haven't tried it but seen from others suggesting it, then obviously when things get better try going to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jasussss. I’m having to chase them away with a big stichk , some of the females on here just won’t take no for an answer

u sure it was a stick u were chasing them with

No I can assure you it indeed was a stichk Tis bigger than a stick

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By *eeMe31 OP Man
over a year ago

dalkey

Good idea! Thanks

Yeah tricky to go to meetups at the moment for obvious reasons, cam could be a good shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.

I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back

I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?

Maybe put a few more pics up, put more text on your profile of your interests etc. Take the time to make a profile that is unique and stands out. Maybe add a bit of wit or humour to it. Engage in the forums and give people a chance to get to know you. Maybe try attending a few socials to get verified. Best of luck

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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago

some where in outer space

Hey are u in here over a year ? Can u not meet some one for coffee or a drink ?

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Being in Dublin, you have a big advantage. Living in the south, our options are limited. Advice to sort out your profile as the first step. Some great advice given in comments above. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 veris in 4 weeks.

So...yes."

No one likes a Show off

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

"Good idea! Thanks

Yeah tricky to go to meetups at the moment for obvious reasons, cam could be a good shout"

It took us a year before we got our 1st verification, we ended up organising a social with a male (we wasnt looking for single males at the time) and ended up having a great day

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By *eeMe31 OP Man
over a year ago

dalkey

Thanks everyone! Gonna re-do the profile and see how it goes, any feedback welcome

Also now I know how it must feel to be a woman on this site....

The amount of page views I've had from the forum post alone! Haha

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

It's very hit and miss in my opinion.. Best to have no expectations of this place that way you won't be disappointed

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Having a silhouette as a profile pic isnt the best. Doesn't need to be a facepic, but SOMETHING to identify yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile pic would be a start a bit of effort into that could go a long.

If someone gets 20 messages and your little thumbnail picture catches attention its nore likely to get opened.

Interacting on the forums is also a big help

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By *eeMe31 OP Man
over a year ago

dalkey

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By *eeMe31 OP Man
over a year ago

dalkey

"Having a silhouette as a profile pic isnt the best. Doesn't need to be a facepic, but SOMETHING to identify yourself"

Ha, I'm not that bad!

I just deleted my old one but forgot the new ones need to be approved first. Thanks for the reply though

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

If your single guy in Dublin try getting invited to some parties or to a club night to network.

Obviously covid 19 is making all of the above hard.

As someone mentioned try Tinder.

Most single guys I know have great success on that app

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Just be honest if you're going on tinder. Don't pretend you're looking for more than you are to get your hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be honest if you're going on tinder. Don't pretend you're looking for more than you are to get your hole. "

Pretty much this. I (Mr) use tinder more than here, 1 full length photo, no face picture and no name on the profile but I have it filled out stating I'm in an open relationship looking for Fwbs that I can meet up with every now and then. Even with that kind of bare profile I get a good few matches. Currently have 2 people I meet up with every so often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's refreshing to see someone heed the advice they're given on threads like this as well as the amount of friendly Fabbers offering it

Looking good, Ohpee! Have some 'Fabs' for the new pics

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare

It’s that tight ass fast lad

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"It's refreshing to see someone heed the advice they're given on threads like this as well as the amount of friendly Fabbers offering it

Looking good, Ohpee! Have some 'Fabs' for the new pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's refreshing to see someone heed the advice they're given on threads like this as well as the amount of friendly Fabbers offering it

Looking good, Ohpee! Have some 'Fabs' for the new pics

Ah here feck off with this positive shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah here feck off with this positive shite"

Just for that I've un-Fabbed your pic!

... Just so I could 'Fab' it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 veris in 4 weeks.

So...yes.

No one likes a Show off

4 have done so far! ??

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"4 veris in 4 weeks.

So...yes.

No one likes a Show off

4 have done so far! ??"

Self praise is very unattractive..

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By *m_impact_playMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Any advice? Can't get verified without meeting and obviously don't want to have public face pics

Thanks for the feedback though"

You can get Cam verified, if the green round sign is what you are after.

As for your profile, it looks good to me, maybe some women are not fond of full facial hair.

Some pics are very interesting, you look slim, can accommodate and in your early 30s, so at your peak sexualy speaking. You keep your cock pics private and it is a good thing.

I would say, you should have no problems meeting women, compared to some other men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 veris in 4 weeks.

So...yes.

No one likes a Show off

4 have done so far! ??

Self praise is very unattractive.. "

Lol. Wasn't being too serious.

Mate, get a few decent pics. Flesh out the profile. Let your character jump out a bit more...use a bit of imagination...your profile is a bit 6/10 at the moment.

Then relax, chat, and enjoy yourself. I'm no stunner but a bit of wit and you're laughing

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.

I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back

I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?

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I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.

I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back

I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?

I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers

Hardy Don’t forget to tell him about the sky remote!!!

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.

I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back

I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?

I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers

Hardy Don’t forget to tell him about the sky remote!!! "
naw the amazon firestick is the way ta go now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.

I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back

I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?

I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers

Lol.. Hardy the woman whisperer

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.

I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back

I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?

I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers

Lol.. Hardy the woman whisperer

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only if the hearing aids are switched on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that being a man on here is like shouting into the void sometimes, but I'm really starting to lose faith that this site can actually provide anything, which is a bit of a shame really.

I want a place to meet others who share my interests and who occasionally actually do want to chat (let alone meet up) yet I find myself sending out messages over and over again with nothing back

I don't want to sound critical of any woman on here, I know it's a very different experience for them, but is there something I'm missing here?

I do OK pm me and I'll give ya a few pointers

Lol.. Hardy the woman whisperer

only if the hearing aids are switched on

And their eyesight is going

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over a year ago

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Now now lady's not on the sabbath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now now lady's not on the sabbath

Shush you.. Good boys are seen and not heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now now lady's not on the sabbath

No, not even then lol

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

I suppose an aul fmf is outa the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose an aul fmf is outa the question

Aye, unless we replace the M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose an aul fmf is outa the question

Aye, unless we replace the M

I actually lol'd at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose an aul fmf is outa the question

Aye, unless we replace the M

I actually lol'd at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Host, must have gone asleep

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Lol I'll put yas down as maybe's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol I'll put yas down as maybe's

Wouldn't hold your breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol I'll put yas down as maybe's

Wouldn't hold your breath

Or maybe do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol I'll put yas down as maybe's

Wouldn't hold your breath

Or maybe do

Bahahaha

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Make up your minds Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make up your minds Ffs

Yeah hold your breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make up your minds Ffs

Jeez hardy we are all watching a pro at work

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

It's going well to fast I detect snail trails

tho I can't chat I'm holding my breath here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's going well to fast I detect snail trails

tho I can't chat I'm holding my breath here

Keep going until you go dark and dizzy.. You can do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's going well to fast I detect snail trails

tho I can't chat I'm holding my breath here

I've an aldi bag that can help with that

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Pmsl see told ya fast there dripping the Nissan girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pmsl see told ya fast there dripping the Nissan girls

Behave..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pmsl see told ya fast there dripping the Nissan girls

Careful now

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