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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Where is this massive influx coming from?

While it’s nice to have some new eye candy, I’m finding a lot of them are pushy and a couple have been downright assholes, not able to have a laugh and want to MEET, NOW!!! . All new within the last 4wks. what’s going on?

Are there forums on other sites that talk about other sites?

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By *uess.who30Man
over a year ago

Galway/Dublin/London

I think what's happened is that the privacy that fab once had has started over the past year or so to fade... people who wouldn't normally hear about it have from friends.. a few came on got what they wanted and then all of a sudden.. "Lads, wait until i tell ya about this site!"... I've noticed it to an lesser extent on the female side too.

Its just not as much of a secret Gem anymore and every Tom, Dick and Harry are joining and spreading it even further as they have no respect/ understanding of what this place is about.

Thats my opinion on the influx anyway, plus fab has made a couple of media headlines in recent times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only on here 4+ weeks but i was on here a few times before so not something I only found out about recently.

My best guess is that men (and women) are trying to find creative ways around not getting 'the ride' due to night clubs being closed and restrictions on pubs so are trying out any online website that might give them a shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is this massive influx coming from?

While it’s nice to have some new eye candy, I’m finding a lot of them are pushy and a couple have been downright assholes, not able to have a laugh and want to MEET, NOW!!! . All new within the last 4wks. what’s going on?

Are there forums on other sites that talk about other sites? "

Just no pleasing some people

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Where is this massive influx coming from?

While it’s nice to have some new eye candy, I’m finding a lot of them are pushy and a couple have been downright assholes, not able to have a laugh and want to MEET, NOW!!! . All new within the last 4wks. what’s going on?

Are there forums on other sites that talk about other sites?

Just no pleasing some people "

Shut up you LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably something to do with kids being back to school

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Its also been on a few radio stations if memory serves me correctly

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Yeah since on here last yr ...guys even messaging guys looking for help hooking up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be just a phase, it goes like that particularly with guys but sometimes with new couples as well there can be an influx I've noticed , not that I'm complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now"

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol."

Speak for yourself.....

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol.

Speak for yourself....."

I certainly am

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol."

How feckin rough are the pubs in monaghan

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol.

How feckin rough are the pubs in monaghan "

Louth actually, thanks for proving my point about single guys (some) and reading profiles and being respectful to women (not) when messaging on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol.

How feckin rough are the pubs in monaghan

Louth actually, thanks for proving my point about single guys (some) and reading profiles and being respectful to women (not) when messaging on this site."

Christ the rough pubs must ruin the sense of humor too

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

"

Holy shit. I’ve not seen that. I know there are a few women who are almost constantly bitter and nasty and one in particular outed a married guy on his job and was praised for it. I’m sort of out of the loop now but bitches be craycray!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol.

How feckin rough are the pubs in monaghan

Louth actually, thanks for proving my point about single guys (some) and reading profiles and being respectful to women (not) when messaging on this site."

Your profile says Monaghan, if he didn't go onto your page and just looked at your comment all he can see is "Here and there, Monaghan". Plus it's pretty plain to see he was joking. Yikes

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

Holy shit. I’ve not seen that. I know there are a few women who are almost constantly bitter and nasty and one in particular outed a married guy on his job and was praised for it. I’m sort of out of the loop now but bitches be craycray!! "

Assuming they are actually women and not fake profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

"

I heard RB sacrifices goats to the dark Lord every 3rd Tuesday

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol.

How feckin rough are the pubs in monaghan

Louth actually, thanks for proving my point about single guys (some) and reading profiles and being respectful to women (not) when messaging on this site."

You actually say on your profile that messages with a sense of humour are more interesting

I'm very respectful to every woman and couple on this site and your profile actually says Monaghan on its header

Please don't start your nonsense with me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

Holy shit. I’ve not seen that. I know there are a few women who are almost constantly bitter and nasty and one in particular outed a married guy on his job and was praised for it. I’m sort of out of the loop now but bitches be craycray!! "

There are a few that show up every day on local updates that either name another profile which isn't always a male. I've seen them name couples and other women as well and have a go. If they aren't naming they are throwing out challenges to others along the lines of "Message me if you dare", "Come to me to have your balls drained and I won't be long telling your family and friends after"

Crazy isn't a strong enough word.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

Holy shit. I’ve not seen that. I know there are a few women who are almost constantly bitter and nasty and one in particular outed a married guy on his job and was praised for it. I’m sort of out of the loop now but bitches be craycray!!

Assuming they are actually women and not fake profiles "

Some of them definitely are but others are returning fabbers who have half a dozen veris within a few hours of setting up their new profile and some obviously have more than one profile as they have been called out on it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

I heard RB sacrifices goats to the dark Lord every 3rd Tuesday "

Sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

I heard RB sacrifices goats to the dark Lord every 3rd Tuesday

Sheep "

So long its not sheeple

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol.

How feckin rough are the pubs in monaghan

Louth actually, thanks for proving my point about single guys (some) and reading profiles and being respectful to women (not) when messaging on this site.

You actually say on your profile that messages with a sense of humour are more interesting

I'm very respectful to every woman and couple on this site and your profile actually says Monaghan on its header

Please don't start your nonsense with me "

Oh the big man has spoken, time for the little lady to be quiet lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"As a single male we know said recently, well, it's not like I can pick someone up in the pub now

Not sure they approach people in pubs with their dicks out, shouting get your tits out slut and then getting annoyed by a rejection lol.

How feckin rough are the pubs in monaghan

Louth actually, thanks for proving my point about single guys (some) and reading profiles and being respectful to women (not) when messaging on this site.

You actually say on your profile that messages with a sense of humour are more interesting

I'm very respectful to every woman and couple on this site and your profile actually says Monaghan on its header

Please don't start your nonsense with me

Oh the big man has spoken, time for the little lady to be quiet lol "

I'm not a big man telling you to do anything unless you meant Bogman and you didnt read my profile which is something you just accused me of doing with yours

I'm not here to argue with you but be assured I meant no disrespect...i never do to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

Holy shit. I’ve not seen that. I know there are a few women who are almost constantly bitter and nasty and one in particular outed a married guy on his job and was praised for it. I’m sort of out of the loop now but bitches be craycray!! "

Ah what the hell, that's just awful.

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"It's not just new guys. There has been an increase in new female profiles appearing in local updates in the last few months. Up to a dozen a day.

I know a lot of those are fake but some are seriously aggressive in their status updates right from the off which is usually a red flag that these are not newbies but returning fabbers with an axe to grind. Especially when they name and shame other members in their updates.

I've also been led to believe there are a lot of new guys using the age old sales tactic of badmouthing their competitors rather than sell their own product and service.

But then again that approach isn't restricted to newbies.

Holy shit. I’ve not seen that. I know there are a few women who are almost constantly bitter and nasty and one in particular outed a married guy on his job and was praised for it. I’m sort of out of the loop now but bitches be craycray!!

Ah what the hell, that's just awful. "

Well is was married. Therefore he deserved it. The holier than thou “I’m not judgemental, but...” crew on here actually cheered her on. It’s absolutely disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is this massive influx coming from?

While it’s nice to have some new eye candy, I’m finding a lot of them are pushy and a couple have been downright assholes, not able to have a laugh and want to MEET, NOW!!! . All new within the last 4wks. what’s going on?

Are there forums on other sites that talk about other sites? "

It's probably like going into a new shop for them ,go on ,suss things out ,...who knows how long they'll stay once they discover that the ladies here don't spread their legs for every guy that messages them at the drop of a hat ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lockdown is coming to an end.. So they can get away from the wives again lol

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By *ed just Red OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Where is this massive influx coming from?

While it’s nice to have some new eye candy, I’m finding a lot of them are pushy and a couple have been downright assholes, not able to have a laugh and want to MEET, NOW!!! . All new within the last 4wks. what’s going on?

Are there forums on other sites that talk about other sites?

It's probably like going into a new shop for them ,go on ,suss things out ,...who knows how long they'll stay once they discover that the ladies here don't spread their legs for every guy that messages them at the drop of a hat .. "

Are there sites where women are more likely to do that? I dont see if happening here as easily as that

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