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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So couples if you don't mind, how did ye get into this lifestyle? Who brought the subject up first, how did the other react ? Did you meet on this ? Did you start off in an open relationship? Any relationships start off with strong monogamous beliefs ? Did it ever bring you to the edge of breaking point?

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over a year ago

We met via the internet, a sex site, so were very open and honest with each other from the start. We were discussing fantasies one night and Lee suggested we try mine (mfm) for real. So we ended up on fab. If anything, it has strengthened our bond as you have to be prepared to be completely honest with each other and expose and explore your vulnerabilities. Our relationship takes precedence over any third party interaction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We met via the internet, a sex site, so were very open and honest with each other from the start. We were discussing fantasies one night and Lee suggested we try mine (mfm) for real. So we ended up on fab. If anything, it has strengthened our bond as you have to be prepared to be completely honest with each other and expose and explore your vulnerabilities. Our relationship takes precedence over any third party interaction."

Thank you for that. I feel like chatting about something like this initially in a relationship takes some guts.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"So couples if you don't mind, how did ye get into this lifestyle? Who brought the subject up first, how did the other react ? Did you meet on this ? Did you start off in an open relationship? Any relationships start off with strong monogamous beliefs ? Did it ever bring you to the edge of breaking point?"
i brought it up, experienced a life is too short moment, Gemma is very open minded but with no imagination when it comes to sex, i have lots of imagination but find it difficult to express it

We were absolutely not in a stale relationship when we started it just enhanced us, its without a doubt the best thing we have ever done. I don’t imagine a life without it now.

We have had our ups and downs but if the foundation is not rock solid forget about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So couples if you don't mind, how did ye get into this lifestyle? Who brought the subject up first, how did the other react ? Did you meet on this ? Did you start off in an open relationship? Any relationships start off with strong monogamous beliefs ? Did it ever bring you to the edge of breaking point?i brought it up, experienced a life is too short moment, Gemma is very open minded but with no imagination when it comes to sex, i have lots of imagination but find it difficult to express it

We were absolutely not in a stale relationship when we started it just enhanced us, its without a doubt the best thing we have ever done. I don’t imagine a life without it now.

We have had our ups and downs but if the foundation is not rock solid forget about it"

How did she initially react if you dont mind me asking? And again thanks for sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for that. I feel like chatting about something like this initially in a relationship takes some guts."

IMO there should be nothing you can't discuss with a partner, but you must be prepared to respect their viewpoint, and for difficult questions or differences of opinion to arise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for that. I feel like chatting about something like this initially in a relationship takes some guts.

IMO there should be nothing you can't discuss with a partner, but you must be prepared to respect their viewpoint, and for difficult questions or differences of opinion to arise."

I agree even if I dont think I'd be able to practise what you preach ha

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"So couples if you don't mind, how did ye get into this lifestyle? Who brought the subject up first, how did the other react ? Did you meet on this ? Did you start off in an open relationship? Any relationships start off with strong monogamous beliefs ? Did it ever bring you to the edge of breaking point?i brought it up, experienced a life is too short moment, Gemma is very open minded but with no imagination when it comes to sex, i have lots of imagination but find it difficult to express it

We were absolutely not in a stale relationship when we started it just enhanced us, its without a doubt the best thing we have ever done. I don’t imagine a life without it now.

We have had our ups and downs but if the foundation is not rock solid forget about it

How did she initially react if you dont mind me asking? And again thanks for sharing. "
I don’t remember she wasnt at all pissed off about it or anything.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

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As we both had a very healthy interest in sex and had a number of fantasies we came to the conclusion that it would be better if we explored together rather then fulfilling them through one or both of us having an affair and all the hurt that entails...we always recognised the difference between love and sex and still do.....one of the best decisions we ever made...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met Kitty thru Facebook. Before i did i had single profile on Fab for few years. An exciting adventure became relationship. I've noticed that She is very sensual and openminded girl so decided to tell her about Fab...

And here we are

Welcome everyone Sid x Kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in college and we were both enjoying the social side of it lol so when we got together it never crossed our mind but we always wanted to get with more people so pillow talk turn into threesomes very quickly! College was great for that and here we are today happier and hornier than ever lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met here and had mostly fun in our previous adventures. Was more a when will we rejoin the lifestyle then if to be honest. Just took time off to make sure we had a solid relationship first.

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