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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im finding it hard 2 get meets any1 know y?

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By *cl2010Couple
over a year ago

cork

well, your profile is only 7 words long. couldn't hurt to expand a bit

might help reel in some strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well, your profile is only 7 words long. couldn't hurt to expand a bit

might help reel in some strangers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well, your profile is only 7 words long. couldn't hurt to expand a bit

might help reel in some strangers

"

Maybe put the word "for" into that 7 word easy you have and loose the curse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well your verified why not just stick with the devils you already know !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets are like buses . You go for months running into dead ends and then three delicious ladies appear at the same time !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meets are like buses . You go for months running into dead ends and then three delicious ladies appear at the same time !! "

aw jimmy flattery gets you everywhere or so they say lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meets are like buses . You go for months running into dead ends and then three delicious ladies appear at the same time !! "

Lol

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

get yourself a girlfriend.

easy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need help in this regard too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need help in this regard too."

your profile made me laugh, very funny. But I think it should just be the start of it. Go a bit more serious after and tell people what you're looking for, so they know you're not just all sarcasm.

best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers, will do so then.

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By *arvey36Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Be HONEST! Works for me i find its good to be ready to meet the minute your online. I dont come on for a look or a chat, when im on here im ready to meet. Just my opinion mind, but i have come on before not able to meet in say an hour or even that night and have been offered and had to turn down. Trust me you never seem to get a second invite. Saying that some girls do want to plan ahead for a meet etc..but again its just my opinion, i hate coming online not ready and you see the girls have the looking to meet sign up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awk ur just a stud you are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be HONEST! Works for me i find its good to be ready to meet the minute your online. I dont come on for a look or a chat, when im on here im ready to meet. Just my opinion mind, but i have come on before not able to meet in say an hour or even that night and have been offered and had to turn down. Trust me you never seem to get a second invite. Saying that some girls do want to plan ahead for a meet etc..but again its just my opinion, i hate coming online not ready and you see the girls have the looking to meet sign up "

Really? I've never known of women asking to meet now! They must be attached lol.... Maybe I have to get the full works done everytime I sign in so I'm ready to meet NOW. It's true I often have those conversations... "I can't meet now, I have to wash my hair and shave my foo foo first"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaving your Foo Foo!!

Now that's funny

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By *arvey36Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Be HONEST! Works for me i find its good to be ready to meet the minute your online. I dont come on for a look or a chat, when im on here im ready to meet. Just my opinion mind, but i have come on before not able to meet in say an hour or even that night and have been offered and had to turn down. Trust me you never seem to get a second invite. Saying that some girls do want to plan ahead for a meet etc..but again its just my opinion, i hate coming online not ready and you see the girls have the looking to meet sign up

Really? I've never known of women asking to meet now! They must be attached lol.... Maybe I have to get the full works done everytime I sign in so I'm ready to meet NOW. It's true I often have those conversations... "I can't meet now, I have to wash my hair and shave my foo foo first" "

Ok maybe i have wrote it wrong? Let me try again. Be ready to meet when the women is ready! That better? Again the amount of times i have logged in and the meet today sign is up on WOMENS/couples profiles when im in scotland or dublin or tenerife and cant meet is unreal. Im at a loss as to why you say you dont no ANY women who dont have the meet up today sign on here...there is actually a few up now? And yes i have been asked a few times to meet in an hour..as i fact it has been because they have been let down, and are already done up, already in the pub...dont really understand your comment at all, was a dig, like i was lying or summit? Im just saying my point of view on the question that was asked.

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By *arvey36Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Be ready for all opportunities that may arise!! lol. And try to wear trousers or smart jeans? A girl i meet here said a lad turned up in trackies and trainers. Ok i suppose if your 17 18 19 gym nut..but this fella was 43!! pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be ready for all opportunities that may arise!! lol. And try to wear trousers or smart jeans? A girl i meet here said a lad turned up in trackies and trainers. Ok i suppose if your 17 18 19 gym nut..but this fella was 43!! pmsl"

I had a so called non-smoker showing up in his track suit with a fag in his hand. He made such an effort lol

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By *arvey36Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Be ready for all opportunities that may arise!! lol. And try to wear trousers or smart jeans? A girl i meet here said a lad turned up in trackies and trainers. Ok i suppose if your 17 18 19 gym nut..but this fella was 43!! pmsl

I had a so called non-smoker showing up in his track suit with a fag in his hand. He made such an effort lol"

Quality! And its soo rude to slam the door shut!! lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks like your tryin to teach granny how to suck eggs lol as long as his trackie was was a nice designer one and he was handsome and clean who fkin cares about jeans or smart trousers my god fussy pants or what lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looks like your tryin to teach granny how to suck eggs lol as long as his trackie was was a nice designer one and he was handsome and clean who fkin cares about jeans or smart trousers my god fussy pants or what lol "

it wasn't a nice one ffs, it looked awful and the shoes were dirty. But the lie about the smoking put me off the most. he also looked better on his pic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the durty git nothin worse than a durty smoker and dresser just don,t go there again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey, this is not an anti smoking thread lol

just don't lie about it or other things... like their height ffs. What's that about? lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never said it was as i,m a smoker myself but my bag is full off mints chewin gum and even those little brush away thingys poratbale tooth brushes or what ever the fk they call them lol no point lyin naw cause u always get found out lol height lets not go therelol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never said it was as i,m a smoker myself but my bag is full off mints chewin gum and even those little brush away thingys poratbale tooth brushes or what ever the fk they call them lol no point lyin naw cause u always get found out lol height lets not go therelol"

keep a bottle of bleach with you to take a bath in to cover the all over smell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bleach with my skin no fkin way like , just you stop meetin durty men lmao

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

think most have had horror stories, i take a long time to get ready hubby is ready in 45 mins shower shave dry dress, me shower do hair nails trim foo foo lol legs, try on several outfits make up only then will i think of heading out, but if i meet someone that has made no effort i loss interest right away, likewise if i get a message saying fancy meeting tonight i got free house can accom!! if that is first message well it's a thanx but no thanx just a few points don't know if they will help but if it is needed then it will help

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By *arvey36Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"think most have had horror stories, i take a long time to get ready hubby is ready in 45 mins shower shave dry dress, me shower do hair nails trim foo foo lol legs, try on several outfits make up only then will i think of heading out, but if i meet someone that has made no effort i loss interest right away, likewise if i get a message saying fancy meeting tonight i got free house can accom!! if that is first message well it's a thanx but no thanx just a few points don't know if they will help but if it is needed then it will help "
My point exactly, just narrated better!! Imagine you have trimmed the foo foo done the legs chose the outfit and got a horny horny head on awaiting the fella/fellas to turn up and you get the dear John txt!! The cancel!! Would you then say ah well fuck it, or would you say I'm ready, I have a slight tingle in the foo foo fuck it let's advertise see if we can get a replacement over??? That night...do realistically some one local and within for arguments sake 4 hours? Or maybe you have been soo lucky you have never had the dear john txt!! I'm sure looking at you being let down has not happened to you.. But it has to me and I don't mind admitting I have had to come off the sub bench to help a couple or 2 out who have been let down!! Ha ha I don't mind being second best, or standby!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think most have had horror stories, i take a long time to get ready hubby is ready in 45 mins shower shave dry dress, me shower do hair nails trim foo foo lol legs, try on several outfits make up only then will i think of heading out, but if i meet someone that has made no effort i loss interest right away, likewise if i get a message saying fancy meeting tonight i got free house can accom!! if that is first message well it's a thanx but no thanx just a few points don't know if they will help but if it is needed then it will help "

and don,t i fkin know it how many times did you change in sligo perleaseee remind me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just wondering about how pushy/persistent you should be after chatting to people for the first time. Should you message folk daily to keep in touch?

At the moment I may be a bit too laid back for my own good as I don't want to be a pest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you have built up a good rapport, stay in regular touch, even just for a banter, show interest. Ask when they'd like to meet, follow through...

follow your instincts I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks again for the sound advice, common sense I suppose.

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By *quarius tvTV/TS
over a year ago

ballymena

Just a question when ur txtin sumone reg and havin a banter and u dnt get a reply bck should u just ignore them as i find its v rude nt to reply and u c there online and dnt say hi should u take that as a hint as dnt want to b pest either. X confusious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question when ur txtin sumone reg and havin a banter and u dnt get a reply bck should u just ignore them as i find its v rude nt to reply and u c there online and dnt say hi should u take that as a hint as dnt want to b pest either. X confusious "

I would find it rude too, but I guess if they don't reply (e.g. you see they read your message and nothing comes back) then I guess they've changed their mind. If the banter was really good, I may try an innocent second email but would stop then.

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By *quarius tvTV/TS
over a year ago

ballymena

Yeah banter was gud stoped i did the scared second email and all ok just mind games nw so wnt reply 3rd time as where i come from u dnt boil cabbage twice thanx tho bbwitched fab advice. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The secret is being patient and learning with them.

On my own experience, when I had a short profile nobody replied me.

Now I have changed my profile because as the way a lot of imature singles have no idea of swinging or treating couple there are couples which don't know if they are prepared for real meetings and just like virtual entertainment.

Your profile will attract who you are looking for.

For sure there are a hundreds of real couples in Ireland and soon or late you will meet them.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

wouldnt say 100s.

i would limit it to less than that GENUINE that know what they want, go for it, and dont change their minds or move the goalposts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard work mate i do feel your pain, the sites amazing and has everything that a swinging site needs except people that want someone thats 24

(plays little violin with worlds saddest song in the background)

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"think most have had horror stories, i take a long time to get ready hubby is ready in 45 mins shower shave dry dress, me shower do hair nails trim foo foo lol legs, try on several outfits make up only then will i think of heading out, but if i meet someone that has made no effort i loss interest right away, likewise if i get a message saying fancy meeting tonight i got free house can accom!! if that is first message well it's a thanx but no thanx just a few points don't know if they will help but if it is needed then it will help My point exactly, just narrated better!! Imagine you have trimmed the foo foo done the legs chose the outfit and got a horny horny head on awaiting the fella/fellas to turn up and you get the dear John txt!! The cancel!! Would you then say ah well fuck it, or would you say I'm ready, I have a slight tingle in the foo foo fuck it let's advertise see if we can get a replacement over??? That night...do realistically some one local and within for arguments sake 4 hours? Or maybe you have been soo lucky you have never had the dear john txt!! I'm sure looking at you being let down has not happened to you.. But it has to me and I don't mind admitting I have had to come off the sub bench to help a couple or 2 out who have been let down!! Ha ha I don't mind being second best, or standby!! Lol"
oh we have had our share of dear johns trust me and it is never nice but it does happen, sometimes if we know someone realliable we may call! but usually just hit the town ourselves

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"think most have had horror stories, i take a long time to get ready hubby is ready in 45 mins shower shave dry dress, me shower do hair nails trim foo foo lol legs, try on several outfits make up only then will i think of heading out, but if i meet someone that has made no effort i loss interest right away, likewise if i get a message saying fancy meeting tonight i got free house can accom!! if that is first message well it's a thanx but no thanx just a few points don't know if they will help but if it is needed then it will help

and don,t i fkin know it how many times did you change in sligo perleaseee remind me lol "
lol fs i forgot pmsl cant remember but it was a few lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think most have had horror stories, i take a long time to get ready hubby is ready in 45 mins shower shave dry dress, me shower do hair nails trim foo foo lol legs, try on several outfits make up only then will i think of heading out, but if i meet someone that has made no effort i loss interest right away, likewise if i get a message saying fancy meeting tonight i got free house can accom!! if that is first message well it's a thanx but no thanx just a few points don't know if they will help but if it is needed then it will help

and don,t i fkin know it how many times did you change in sligo perleaseee remind me lol lol fs i forgot pmsl cant remember but it was a few lol "

could have been 2,3,4 i dunno lol

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

or more lol me thinks the later

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