FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging and contraception

By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Around and about

Im curious as to how you manage ur swing life and contraception. Do you rely solely on condoms or combine them with another contraceptive method?

Do u discuss prior to a meet and enquire with a female if she is on any birth control?

I dont fully trust condoms, sti's aside they at least can be dealt with thanks to antibiotics, nippers on the other hand is another matter!

What combination do you use for total peace of mind and for those who are not on birth control, are you happy relying on condoms?

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I use condoms and contraception. Not taking any chances here.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I practise the withdrawal technique...it’s fail safe

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

I've never been asked by anyone I've met here if I'm on birth control. And most men don't even mention condoms and show up 'hoping' you have some.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I always bring my Rubbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always bring my Rubbers

Good woman lolly - non latex?? N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that I dont mind being called Daddy but too young to be a Daddy

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I've my tubes tied since I was 29 so I only need condoms which I always carry with me.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I've never been asked by anyone I've met here if I'm on birth control. And most men don't even mention condoms and show up 'hoping' you have some. "

I've been asked once only. I've had the odd guy show up with no condoms also but luckily I always have some.

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Birth control and condoms here, I always have condoms with me, so many men turn up to meets/parties without them. One guy openly said it doesn't bring them ever, that its our responsibility lol. He got a land when I handed him one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring my own and ask a lady if that’s ok with her , I’d never expect a lady to supply them as I think that’s taking them for granted and disrespectful to think they should supply them

Lads have a bit of respect for yourselves and the lady or couple your meeting

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By *hivers2020Woman
over a year ago

lolli land

I’ve never been asked if I was on birth control (always am) and always bring condoms but I have been seriously asked by two lads previously to have a baby for them

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Well im currently on 4 kids so I think at least a condom would be advised for me to use lol altho I don't like them and sometimes my cock just don't take to condoms and that pretty much ends my night lol

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

The middle Europe it's a common practice to allways use a condom but more importantly also pull out just in case the condom had burst in the last few moments of passion. This is something taught over there unlike this side of the world.

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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

So our situation is hubby had snip. So condoms with another would be a definite for us both but I think I'd still be a bit worried about getting pregnant, obviously I'm not on any contraception (pill never suited) as he has snip am I looking at getting morning after pill?

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

I would take it condoms are a given on the pill or not

Im afraid though there is nothing that is making my ass go in reveres when im coming it is physically impossable and if you think you are going to pull away thats when i dig the hands into your hips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The middle Europe it's a common practice to allways use a condom but more importantly also pull out just in case the condom had burst in the last few moments of passion. This is something taught over there unlike this side of the world."

Money shots are the way to go!!!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"I’ve never been asked if I was on birth control (always am) and always bring condoms but I have been seriously asked by two lads previously to have a baby for them "

Before or after we got married

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By *hivers2020Woman
over a year ago

lolli land

"I’ve never been asked if I was on birth control (always am) and always bring condoms but I have been seriously asked by two lads previously to have a baby for them

Before or after we got married

Ehhhhh before, they were all before our marriage

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"I’ve never been asked if I was on birth control (always am) and always bring condoms but I have been seriously asked by two lads previously to have a baby for them

Before or after we got married

Ehhhhh before, they were all before our marriage

Oh yeah you ran away with another man on the night of our wedding.then you turn up out of the blue a few years later Hussy pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have condoms and I'm snipped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been asked by anyone I've met here if I'm on birth control. And most men don't even mention condoms and show up 'hoping' you have some.

I've been asked once only. I've had the odd guy show up with no condoms also but luckily I always have some. "

Luckily for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Birth control and condoms here, I always have condoms with me, so many men turn up to meets/parties without them. One guy openly said it doesn't bring them ever, that its our responsibility lol. He got a land when I handed him one "

He’d get a more deserved land with the cold shoulder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use condoms, and I've had the snip, still not a 100% comfortable with a blowjob without a condom, anyway BJ s never really did anything for me.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"I practise the withdrawal technique...it’s fail safe

Especially when timed just right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had the snip but always bring condoms.. ribbed for her pleasure ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring rubbers, always. They may bring some too, but just in case.

I always think it's safer to use another contraception, anything can happen after all.

And if on the pill, great. But STD's are a thing.

Always been terrified of getting one, but I take precautions and so far so good

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By *NawtyCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Around and about

Looks like most rely on the condoms (really they should be a given) but interesting that ladies double up with the pill or another method.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Have had my tubes removed and sent to the four corners of Ireland to be buried in unmarked plots NEVER again to be reunited. But I always use condoms. And I’m tested regularly.

Honestly, in post-repeal Ireland, pregnancy is far from the worst thing you can catch from unprotected sex.

Am still pretty astounded by the amount of guys who ask about going bareback... is that a thing? Do people do that with someone they’ve just met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring the condoms, just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That really does beggar belief......should shown him the door instead of a Johnny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry condoms and i have the coil in too..

Ive done my time with babies, don't plan on doing it again lol

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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"Looks like most rely on the condoms (really they should be a given) but interesting that ladies double up with the pill or another method. "

Stop the taught of getting pregnant that ship has sailed here we are blessed with what have. Plus loads know he's had the snip

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By *umpkinnMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Abstinence must be the most popular form this year

More than 99.9% effective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new, so no meets yet (boo hoo) but would it not be something to discuss ahead of time? I've noticed nobody is shy in asking and discussing their sexual preferences. The, "who's bringing the condoms?" should be a natural inquiry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be no need for discussion. The guy should definitely have his own at a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There should be no need for discussion. The guy should definitely have his own at a meet. "

Well, yes, of course.

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Only thing for it is....

Anal! But i need plenty of lube

Seriously though. Condoms, but i never cum in side, always pull out. Take no chances

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Always discuss and ask before meet ..avoids any awkward moments

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Looks like most rely on the condoms (really they should be a given) but interesting that ladies double up with the pill or another method. "

I wouldn't ever rely on condoms just as a way to prevent pregnancy accidents can happen it's why I am on the pill and am meticulous about taking it as well. I've never had a pregnancy scare thank god and at this stage in my life can't think of anything worse than discovering I'm pregnant.

I use condoms to help prevent stis and regular testing as well for peace of mind.

I did have 2 guys who claimed they had the snip so therfore they didn't need to use condoms and would refuse to wear them. It's completely their choice but we didn't meet beyond a social.

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Would it not make more sense for the guy to bring condoms as he knows what size, texture etc he prefers.

I always carry my own but use other contraception as well...just to be sure.

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