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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was chatting to one of the guys today who mentioned he was in the dog house at home

All because the misses seen his history on his tablet.....needless there was a bit of porn and stuff and thats why he is in the bad books

Has she a reason to be off with him??...opinions ?

I dont believe she has reason. Hey she could always join him and watch too. I know iv had relationships and watched porn and i know my then partner watched some too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting to one of the guys today who mentioned he was in the dog house at home

All because the misses seen his history on his tablet.....needless there was a bit of porn and stuff and thats why he is in the bad books

Has she a reason to be off with him??...opinions ?

I dont believe she has reason. Hey she could always join him and watch too. I know iv had relationships and watched porn and i know my then partner watched some too "

I think it might depend on what he was watching maybe..??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was chatting to one of the guys today who mentioned he was in the dog house at home

All because the misses seen his history on his tablet.....needless there was a bit of porn and stuff and thats why he is in the bad books

Has she a reason to be off with him??...opinions ?

I dont believe she has reason. Hey she could always join him and watch too. I know iv had relationships and watched porn and i know my then partner watched some too I think it might depend on what he was watching maybe..??"

Oh i dunno...id imagine just ur adverage stuff you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without knowing the full dynamics of their relationship and intimacy it is unfair on both to remark iko

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I have a friend who was often in the doghouse because he partook in a certain activity which can't be mentioned on Fab.

Turns out he was constantly telling her he had quit but she kept catching him doing it. She wasn't pissed off at the activity itself, it was that he was always lying to her about it.

Perhaps your buddy is in a similar situation.

As Kaizer said, it's hard to comment when you don't know the details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say no if it was just harmless porn. Did she purposely look through his internet history?cause that should put her in the dog house. How come women are never "in the dog house "?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always honest about watching porn. Little lies are hard to remember but the truth is easy to remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if hes watching porn and neglecting her.. Then yes she has reason to be pissed.

But as others said, unless you are in that relationship its silly to pass comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also if hes watching porn and neglecting her.. Then yes she has reason to be pissed.

But as others said, unless you are in that relationship its silly to pass comment"

This

Nobody is ever the bad guy in their version of events

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

This is where trust in a relationship is vital if he can't admit he is looking at porn then what else is he hiding and even if he isn't he has given that impression

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I personally wouldn't have a problem with my partner watching porn. But everyone is different. OP you're only hearing one side of the story. Maybe your mate shoukd discuss it with his partner not his mate. Might not be such a problem then.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I really need to spell check before I post.

It would be impossible to comment like others said not knowing the dyamnic of the people involved.

Personally someone watching porn doesn't bother me at all but then I watch it sometimes myself. Others I know in real life would be horrified at the thought of someone watching porn.

I'd be more concerned about someone searching through another persons internet listings that to me would be a bigger breach of trust as to why they would do that and be checking up.

But like I said couples have their own dynamics and what is right for one couple wont work for another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really need to spell check before I post."

Perhaps stop using your boobies to type!

Fingers are far more accurate Boomont

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Without knowing the full dynamics of their relationship and intimacy it is unfair on both to remark iko "

This ^^ Not enough context. We could conjecture all day but still be none the wiser

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Also if hes watching porn and neglecting her.. Then yes she has reason to be pissed.

But as others said, unless you are in that relationship its silly to pass comment

This

Nobody is ever the bad guy in their version of events"

Doesn't that mean nobody is ever the correct party/winner in an argument as their each others bad guy?

Just a thought

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