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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had to turn yourself off someone? Whether they were unattainable, it would have been a conflict of interest or unprofessional to pursue..... How'd you do it??

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Had to turn yourself off someone? Whether they were unattainable, it would have been a conflict of interest or unprofessional to pursue..... How'd you do it?? "
if I want somebody I go after them unless they're completely uninterested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy, just keep distance. Act plain and boring around them and eventually they wont see you as an option.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's easy, just keep distance. Act plain and boring around them and eventually they wont see you as an option. "

No no... The interest is on my side and I need not to be

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By *omripleyMan
over a year ago

blackrock

yes professionally ive just swept it aside, job is more important then a complaint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your head,not your heart.Might not feel right short term but usually you will be right long term.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go with your head,not your heart.Might not feel right short term but usually you will be right long term."

Some good advice there.. Thanks

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

Cold turkey.. Walk away and busy yourself with other things.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Make a list of all the reasons why its not good for you...when you start to waiver read the list...good luck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to know them very well and they'll eventually get on your tits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get to know them very well and they'll eventually get on your tits"

You've got to accentuate the negative..

Eliminate the positive....?

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By *orny-angelWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Distance yourself

Block them everywhere

Get busy elsewhere

Make a list of why u shouldnt go there or go there again, b ruthless with list

Its never easy but try putting head infront of heart

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By *parklySassWoman
over a year ago

Sassville

Walk away and if possible cut all contact. Easy to say but hard to do...Good Luck OP with whatever you decide x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for advice lovely people. Appreciated..

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Had to turn yourself off someone? Whether they were unattainable, it would have been a conflict of interest or unprofessional to pursue..... How'd you do it?? "

And what's your take on the situation op I mean we could give you 101 opinions and advice most appreciated but in the end it's your decision on what you do but whatever you choose it's for the right reasons best of luck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get to know them very well and they'll eventually get on your tits

You've got to accentuate the negative..

Eliminate the positive....? "

Familiarity breeds contempt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get to know them very well and they'll eventually get on your tits

You've got to accentuate the negative..

Eliminate the positive....?

Familiarity breeds contempt "

Genius approach!!

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

Find someone else , best way to get over someone is to get under someone

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By *iquidRavenMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It's a tough one OP... i believe you gotta go zen on it and calmly tell yourself why it can't happen and not just accept it but be happy with it as cheesey as that may sound

I say most here have tasted the devilish ice pop of infatuation (defo no pun intended) but its a dicey thing

And if its not meant to be its not meant to be

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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"It's easy, just keep distance. Act plain and boring around them and eventually they wont see you as an option.

No no... The interest is on my side and I need not to be "

Find someone else maybe?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Just avoid them really and wait until your head rules your body again. If you can't avoid them just limit contact as much as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..... How'd you do it?? "

Simple!

Ask her to explain the Offside rule

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes. Had a weakness for someone. Always knew it wouldn't go anywhere. Tried all sorts to stay away but always went back. Gutted when he got into a relationship. Then he booty called me when he was in said relationship and I was cured. Look for the flaws and heed them is my advice. Best of luck girl.

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By *outheastbyeMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"Had to turn yourself off someone? Whether they were unattainable, it would have been a conflict of interest or unprofessional to pursue..... How'd you do it?? "

Had to do it with a work colleague. Not easy at all. Best to keep professional i think

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By *ilfeaterMan
over a year ago

limerick

Make a list of possible consequences. Assume it's past tense and every consequence has happened. Then ask yourself was it worth it? If the answer is no, then keep reminding yourself of the list of consequences and add to it if you come up with more.

If the answer is yes, DIVE IN AND MAKE THE MOST OF EVERY SECOND OF IT.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

No....I always get what I want

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

It's not easy op I feel your pain.chin up girl it will get easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Get to know them very well and they'll eventually get on your tits"

This

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Or picture them having sex with there Mammy!

There you go.

That's you turned off them and me for life

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