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By *iamo69 OP   Man
over a year ago

South

Anyone else completely love going down.

It's a must for me but 2 lads I pal around with say they hate going down on a girl. Now and again but if advoid they will.

And I'm like il go down as long as she wants when she wants ha

One lads I work with is same. Not a chance he will do it. What's wrong with people

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

There is some macho bullshit around men not wanting to appear submissive by doing this.. but many will do it anyway and pretend they don't. Some guys genuinely hate it, and that's OK. Same as some women don't like giving it either.

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By *iamo69 OP   Man
over a year ago

South

I get you.

But is it really submissive? For me it's if your attracted to the person then it's as a whole not just certain parts

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By *rash26775Man
over a year ago

all over

I Woudent see going down on a girl as submissive

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I get you.

But is it really submissive? For me it's if your attracted to the person then it's as a whole not just certain parts"

It is potentially, but isn't necessarily

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I Woudent see going down on a girl as submissive "

Good. You're obviously not the macho Fragile ego type.

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By *nicatorMan
over a year ago

2 towns over

Absolutely love it. Nothing turns me on more than than a woman who's enjoying my tongue.

I've never thought of it as submissive - I'm sure it can be like just about any act. Having someone begging you not to stop seems far more the other end of the spectrum.

In my case I get a kick out of it but for those guys that don't and who won't it doesn't paint a picture of a fantastic meet. It shouldn't be all take take. Sometimes giving is own reward.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Just because it's a topic that interests me. Look at oral sex in the media. There is a reason Tarantino decided to put the big burly boxer Butch in a situation where his girlfriend asked him for oral pleasure... and does anyone remember the Sopranos and the fact that all the wiseguys pretended they didn't do down on their partners?

I know men and women obviously do enjoy oral sex with each other purely on an equal partners quid pro quo way.. but on some level putting your head and mouth down to the genitals of another human being can be interpreted as submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are entitled to have sexual preferences. Unless I'm the one having sex with them, I don't really care, and tbh, nothing worse than someone doing something they find distasteful because they feel obliged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men do it to get sucked themselves me i just fucking love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. So intimate so hot. Have a lady grab the back of your head and pull it in tight. Yummy.

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By *aton28Man
over a year ago

galway/mayo

Love it. Making a lady cum with your tongue is so fucking hot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it totally.. the taste of those juices flowing out is just yummy. Nothing better than the lady pushing my head in wanting more of my tongue.

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By *ukin_4_fun83Man
over a year ago

templeogue

Definitely love going down. Love making her cum. But I guarantee those lads that don't would also bitch and moan how there others don't go down on them.

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"There is some macho bullshit around men not wanting to appear submissive by doing this.. but many will do it anyway and pretend they don't. Some guys genuinely hate it, and that's OK. Same as some women don't like giving it either. "

What a bullshit statement ?? Never once has a man ever thought going down on a lady is seen as being submissive.. The most stupidest thing I’ve ever heard on here, and there’s been some bullshit on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know men and women obviously do enjoy oral sex with each other purely on an equal partners quid pro quo way.. but on some level putting your head and mouth down to the genitals of another human being can be interpreted as submissive. "

That is an interesting perspective on oral and one i never gave too much consideration to.

I could see how the combination of looking up at someone (either looking up on a bed or kneeling below them) and the reciever physically asserting dominance during oral; grabbing hair, neck, back of head could potentially make the reciever feel more submissive, be it a male or female..

Up until this point, i always considered it an equal sharing of pleasure for both parties

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By *eeperscreepersMan
over a year ago

Tipp & Dublin

Absolutely love doing it as long as it's what the lady want's too. No point if she's not into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it! GIVE IT TO ME!!!!! Lol

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By *ukin_4_fun83Man
over a year ago

templeogue

That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it

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By *ukin_4_fun83Man
over a year ago

templeogue

To be fair. Given the circumstances. I'd give oral to another man , I wouldn't get anything of it sexually, but have no issue in a group situation. So I'd personally oblige oral to anybody.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it"

Yup based on my fab reasearch plenty find it gets boring quickly and the enjoyment is rather little, but others love it and can't get enough. Always remember every woman is different. So a one fits all sex routine won't make you a stallion.

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By *ukin_4_fun83Man
over a year ago

templeogue


"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it

Yup based on my fab reasearch plenty find it gets boring quickly and the enjoyment is rather little, but others love it and can't get enough. Always remember every woman is different. So a one fits all sex routine won't make you a stallion. "
very true and good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it

Yup based on my fab reasearch plenty find it gets boring quickly and the enjoyment is rather little, but others love it and can't get enough. Always remember every woman is different. So a one fits all sex routine won't make you a stallion. "

Loving the image of you with a clip board and pen in hand with a high vis vest conducting offical fab research surveys

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By *ukin_4_fun83Man
over a year ago

templeogue


"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it

Yup based on my fab reasearch plenty find it gets boring quickly and the enjoyment is rather little, but others love it and can't get enough. Always remember every woman is different. So a one fits all sex routine won't make you a stallion.

Loving the image of you with a clip board and pen in hand with a high vis vest conducting offical fab research surveys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than going down and having that pussy juice flow on your face, lads that don't eat pussy are just plain selfish,

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

everyone is entitled to either like or not like oral sex or anything else for that matter

Would any man admit on here to not liking going down on a woman or getting a blowjob as easily as they'd admit to not liking rimming or watersports

I doubt it

However I dont understand a man saying he could go down on a woman for hours

If you have to do that to have a partner orgasm you're definitely doing something wrong in my opinion

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By *unguyhere2020Man
over a year ago

Galway can travel

Absolutely love it specially when the lady holds my head kinda saying don't stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind if it's seen as submissive, getting me back up is the tricky part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah fuck that if she wants a lick she can get a dog....

Said no man on fab ever......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah fuck that if she wants a lick she can get a dog....

Said no man on fab ever......"

No sure why, but the old Kia-Ora advert just popped into my mind there out of nowhere

"I'll be your dog!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah fuck that if she wants a lick she can get a dog....

Said no man on fab ever......

No sure why, but the old Kia-Ora advert just popped into my mind there out of nowhere

"I'll be your dog!""

Thats the trippiest ad

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Galway


"everyone is entitled to either like or not like oral sex or anything else for that matter

Would any man admit on here to not liking going down on a woman or getting a blowjob as easily as they'd admit to not liking rimming or watersports

I doubt it

However I dont understand a man saying he could go down on a woman for hours

If you have to do that to have a partner orgasm you're definitely doing something wrong in my opinion "

Im salivating like Pavlov's dog just reading this. I love to give pleasure, whether with my hands or cock, or my tongue. My preference is to give a woman oral pleasure, as it gives me the most pleasure, so I'm taking my pleasure from giving her pleasure. If she doesn't like it, then there would be no fun in it for me. But, i would stay down between her legs for a long time, as I have the patience. And the goal for me is not necessarily to "give" her an orgasm, but to pleasure her. If she has an orgasm, great.

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By *icevicebabyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin North

It's usually fairly obvious when a guy just goes down because he feels he has to. Like anything else you can tell when someone is enjoying themselves and is into it.

Not everyone enjoys giving oral and I respect that. What I don't like is men who just do it to tick a box per se.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the lady likes, I'll stay there as long as she wants,though it can be a pain in the neck sometimes..and I'm speaking literally!

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By *ork TwoMan
over a year ago

Macroom

I love going down on herself or any lady iv been with. For me it turns me on no end and as I'm doing it I can feel my dick getting harder,nothing better than her cumming on my face and tongue and it leads to a better fuck too after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a must for guys to go down on a girl. I don't get why guys don't because you can guarantee that they would be the very ones complaining if a girl didn't give them oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love going down on another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies just love oral more than intercourse , not saying they don't love intercourse..they just love oral more...l personally just adore giving it , nothing more enjoyable than a lady opening her legs invitingly for you to totally taste her .,l mean ,all your taste is in your mouth lips and tongue..like if you were to taste a cake etc ..you wouldn't stick your cock into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one or two experiences where a woman has gone down on me so I went to return the compliment but they weren't into it, that was fine by me it's still their choice as much as yours what happens in the bed but generally I've found women love it but never had the word 'submissive' ever crossed my mind. Why would it be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it-especially if the girl is trim or bare. Like to keep going until well after she cums. Few fingers inside to reach her g spot.

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

It's a matter of taste, I like to kiss a woman from head to toe, I like to give them oral sex and rimming if they like it. Why Women Typically Avoid 69

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By *iamo69 OP   Man
over a year ago

South

Guess it's down to what you like as above. But honestly was surprised at the answers I got going not a hope. Wouldn't do it from mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else completely love going down.

It's a must for me but 2 lads I pal around with say they hate going down on a girl. Now and again but if advoid they will.

And I'm like il go down as long as she wants when she wants ha

One lads I work with is same. Not a chance he will do it. What's wrong with people "

Love going down on a girl... it’s so hot when she comes all over your face, and your driver her crazy!!

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I've been with guys who just didn't enjoy it & like others have said, everyone has their preferences. I'd rather not receive from someone not into it, than them do it as a chore or favour.

In my experience the guys loudest about loving it & being "Oh so skilled" are often no good at listening to my reactions & adjusting accordingly, so I'm often wary.

On the submissive thing - I think any sex act can be played as dominant or submissive.

I've had doms who used oral for orgasm control & denial & I've had subs enjoy being forced to pleasure me while they are denied. I've given oral in both mindsets/scenarios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a matter of taste, I like to kiss a woman from head to toe, I like to give them oral sex and rimming if they like it. Why Women Typically Avoid 69"
the woman on top! Absolute winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is some macho bullshit around men not wanting to appear submissive by doing this.. but many will do it anyway and pretend they don't. Some guys genuinely hate it, and that's OK. Same as some women don't like giving it either. "

Exactly this.. you do it because you enjoy it and want to engage in it, and it is the same way for women who engage in it.

There are women who will engage in it and love it, but won't take the 'payload' and that is perfectly acceptable.

But you will get gobshites who will be offended because she won't take the hit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving and receiving oral. Me and a fb of mine loved oral especially a 69. Hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it, dont see as a submissive thing, love to hear & feel that im hitting the spot

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I absolutely love giving but get bored receiving

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

love love love giving but like the beautiful poster above me said I get bored if its nonstop...no one needs to be down at it for ages if they know what they are doing

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

It should just feel like the right amount if youre paying attention to the other person. You can tell.

If the skin on your tongue starts to wear then you really should stop

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

I like to see their reaction to it..

I can gauge then if they are really enjoying it or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going down fucking love it. Been told I'm like a thirsty labrador when I go down and love to stay down till my tongue is nearly paralysed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you get bored receiving it then they obviously sit do it right?

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee


"There is some macho bullshit around men not wanting to appear submissive by doing this.. but many will do it anyway and pretend they don't. Some guys genuinely hate it, and that's OK. Same as some women don't like giving it either.

What a bullshit statement ?? Never once has a man ever thought going down on a lady is seen as being submissive.. The most stupidest thing I’ve ever heard on here, and there’s been some bullshit on here lol "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because it's a topic that interests me. Look at oral sex in the media. There is a reason Tarantino decided to put the big burly boxer Butch in a situation where his girlfriend asked him for oral pleasure... and does anyone remember the Sopranos and the fact that all the wiseguys pretended they didn't do down on their partners?

I know men and women obviously do enjoy oral sex with each other purely on an equal partners quid pro quo way.. but on some level putting your head and mouth down to the genitals of another human being can be interpreted as submissive. "

Honestly it never crossed my mind..although I get it... love controlling a lady with my mouth though..love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else completely love going down.

It's a must for me but 2 lads I pal around with say they hate going down on a girl. Now and again but if advoid they will.

And I'm like il go down as long as she wants when she wants ha

One lads I work with is same. Not a chance he will do it. What's wrong with people "

Love it.

PhD in cunning linguistics

Nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I absolutely love giving but get bored receiving "

Sounds like a good deal!!

Sign me up

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"love love love giving but like the beautiful poster above me said I get bored if its nonstop...no one needs to be down at it for ages if they know what they are doing "

Well said that lady

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By *rishcowboy36Man
over a year ago

dundalk

I like nothing more in this world than licking a woman...guys if you love it you'll also get good at doing it and that's a priceless skill to possess

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By *oejoxxxMan
over a year ago

anywhere

I just love performing oral on a woman. It's really nice to give an orgasm like that. One tip be very gentle at first and read the woman's movements and sounds. Going down.....a real treat.

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By *heekyChap93Man
over a year ago

I'd eat it like kobayashi num num num fucking love it, don't know if I'm any good at it but I'd give it a go ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's fair. But is there women that don't enjoy it"

I've net quite a few ladies throughout the years that don't enjoy it or even do it! One friend said she stopped doing that after they got married (11 years prior!! )

I've also met guys that don't like doing it or have to be "in the mood". It's cool. I obviously love to receive and I love sucking cock, I can go to town on a nice meaty cock

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

People that enjoy giving oral are usually pretty good at it but like a covid 19 meal there should be a time limit on it cos you need to have the main course

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Not having sex without it.

Never have, never will.

Other than a quickie outside a nightclub/pub I have never had sex without going down.

I consider it an essential part of foreplay.

Woman doesn't need to have an orgasm from it but it makes her more relaxed and open for the penetrative section. Then perhaps go down again after, if she hasn't orgasmed, or just because I love being there

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