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By *sexyone OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northside

Why mention in your profile u acomodate if u dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guesstheu probably want to appear if you only search for "men who can accomodate".

But hope when if they meet someone, then they can stay in her place, or a hotel, so it wont matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason people put up fake or old pics...say they are 10nyears younger....3 stone slimmer....

Say what you think people want to start the conversation and hope that when the false info comes up they are willing to compromise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some people can accommodate most of the time not all of the time.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Not being able to accomodate is seen as an obstacle to some guys

so they'll say anything in the hope that...

1. You'll agree to a hotel room because they "have visitors"

2. Their parents /wife is out of town on a specific night

3. That they'll be happy to come over to you or that

4. They can talk you into your first (..and last) car sex s-experience

...gotta like the creativity of some here

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Some say they can accommodate but realistically that means jump in the back of my escort or the cab of my truck

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There are numerous female profiles insisting on hotel meets only as they don't want to go to a strangers home.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Maybe they can accomadate but only accomadate people who they have learnt to trust. A lot of people are like that and I don't blame them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its kinda up to that person who they let into their home.. And you can't be mad at that, that's their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some profiles seem to think that if you cannot accomodate then you must be married!

They fail to understand how many people rent and share accommodation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy has a nice pad in town its a plus for small parties and discrete for those who need to be discrete.

But if you don't have your own place don't mislead people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accomodate but not 24/7, I have a child, wife, job etc, etc. I can also generally only accomodate one or two at most. As a couple we can accomodate a single but another couple could be awkward and any more isn't feasible.

Essentially I can accomodate and we can accomodate but it's takes planning, so who comes in to my house is my choice, at my timing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why mention in your profile u acomodate if u dont "

You have the best place

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

can accom most of the time not that its much of an advantage on here anyway as meets are almost non existent ..just my view

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Some say they can accommodate but realistically that means jump in the back of my escort or the cab of my truck "

Or jump in the back with the escort and we'll have a threesome

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Some say they can accommodate but realistically that means jump in the back of my escort or the cab of my truck

Or jump in the back with the escort and we'll have a threesome "

Shhhh told ye that was a once off

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

outside kilrea north west nothern ireland

It have been this way for many years even on other sites. We chose now not to meet saves inquires, we dont do hotels in advance last min

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Not being able to accomodate is seen as an obstacle to some guys

so they'll say anything in the hope that...

1. You'll agree to a hotel room because they "have visitors"

2. Their parents /wife is out of town on a specific night

3. That they'll be happy to come over to you or that

4. They can talk you into your first (..and last) car sex s-experience

...gotta like the creativity of some here "

Brill and so very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why mention in your profile u acomodate if u dont "

Its a dodgy one because sometimes when a guy joins he might have been able to accommodate but in the meantime since he joined his situation changed and he's unable to change it in his profile ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picking out the lies and misinformation on the average profile is just one of the fun challenges of fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would a single woman be comfortable going to a single guys place jf she had never met before??. I know theres a difference if its a couple meeting a single fella. What do you ladies think?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Would a single woman be comfortable going to a single guys place jf she had never met before??. I know theres a difference if its a couple meeting a single fella. What do you ladies think?"

No. Did it once never will again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would a single woman be comfortable going to a single guys place jf she had never met before??. I know theres a difference if its a couple meeting a single fella. What do you ladies think?"

No, when I was meeting as a single it was always hotel meets. Going alone to a total stranger's home is a pretty stupid thing to do in my book.

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

A good talk in the pm, then a coffee meeting or a few beers.

Even if I live alone in a study, I would first meet the person, to open the door of my home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No, when I was meeting as a single it was always hotel meets. Going alone to a total stranger's home is a pretty stupid thing to do in my book."

Agreed

Being able to accommodate by organising a hotel/apartment is still being able to accommodate IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would be great if Admin gave the option to list "accomodate in hotel"

For me meeting in your home for a 1st meet is about safety, mine & the ladies.

After all its easier to leave a hotel if you feel things not going well or no real connection.

Never mind its a stranger you are letting in your house , letting them know where you live.

There have been many stories here about people being stalked after that 1st meet.

Stay safe & keep that 1st meet out of your house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can but no1 is coming over unless I know and trust you enough

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I can, but not all of the time. My daughter stays when she wants to and I have other stuff going on in life, as do we all, but i do all I can to be open, welcome and accommodating the vast majority of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some say they can accommodate but realistically that means jump in the back of my escort or the cab of my truck

Or jump in the back with the escort and we'll have a threesome

Shhhh told ye that was a once off "
lol im in bits brilliant haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they can accomadate but only accomadate people who they have learnt to trust. A lot of people are like that and I don't blame them. "
. Exactly the reason I don't nor ever will accom...all it takes is one crazie and your life is fucked. Hotels for me which I'm happy to cover the cost of but never on home ground.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have had this happen twice. First one said he had a lodger at home the other said he was expecting his sis to pop in anytime that day. Probably married is my guess and just trying to entice females by saying they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some change it from time to time like me. When my housemate is away for the weekend I change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a regular guy who, accommodated, single, house in country, we used call it the Inn, excellent scenario, overnights, lot to be said about the genuine guys who really, can accommodate

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"We had a regular guy who, accommodated, single, house in country, we used call it the Inn, excellent scenario, overnights, lot to be said about the genuine guys who really, can accommodate"

Really nice to hear some positivity about good guys!

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

Maybe fab could include a 3 odation option - Can accomodate occasionally. Although I can see the downside of people being posted/ bullied into accomodating, actually probably better off saying you can't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not an issue for me-I can at any time of the day or night-single, self-employed homeowner.

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

Own place and can accommodate but only when i have met someone a couple of times to see that they are not bat shit crazy

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