FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By *igIsBack OP Man
over a year ago

all over and beyond

Does anyone take note of anyone that sends them a winks or fabs there pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone take note of anyone that sends them a winks or fabs there pics... "

Fishing for a’wink’?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Never check "winks" or who "fabbed" my pics or the "who looked at me" rather they dropped me a message when i wink or fab ill always pop a message also...

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By *igIsBack OP Man
over a year ago

all over and beyond

"Does anyone take note of anyone that sends them a winks or fabs there pics...

Fishing for a’wink’?"

No no... just wondering... I have sent a few and fabbed a few pictures.. wondering is it a complete waste of time...

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Sometimes wink back, somes don't. But we ALWAYS answer a message. Unless it's "Hi". Or something equally short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks, it’s usually a prelude to a message

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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have sent Winks & recieved Winks here on Fab and I find then a nice icebreaker and a way of saying "I really like your profile" I would also Fab pics I like.

If I get no response in form of Wink back or even message then i take it that they're not interested and just move on without any hassle...

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I rarely check them but thats more due to my own laziness than anything else. we get loads of england and scotland though for some weird reason

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

We we winks with profiles of other couples, tend to delete winks from single guys, only because we are more focused on couples at the moment

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I rarely check them but thats more due to my own laziness than anything else. we get loads of england and scotland though for some weird reason"

I get that too for some reason....maybe if I move to Scotland ....someone will wink in Ireland

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I rarely check them but thats more due to my own laziness than anything else. we get loads of england and scotland though for some weird reason"

They must be looking to borrow your axe to recreate Braveheart

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I take a look at winks, as well as who looked at me. If it's a profile that's of interest, then I'll usually acknowledge that wink by way of a message

... whereas who looked at me is sheer curiosity on my behalf, I wouldn't necessarily get in touch as I feel if there was something in our profile of interest, it would have sparked either a wink or message. Sometimes I look at who fabbed pics, but don't generally respond unless again I see a profile that sparks my interest.

Kinky temptress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take note of them, send them and have received ones as replies to sending them. People on fab want you to come of with a new lord of the rings story for a first message so I just guess I'll send a wink instead of giving away my ideas for free. If it's not replied to then theres no real interest so it's ok.

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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago

Dublin or anywhere

i allways anser a wink i get .. about one every 2 yrs /

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I only fab pics that I think are good. I don't send winks unless it's as part of a forum thread.

99 percent of fabs I receive are from friends or other men. It's only on the very rare occasion I receive one from someone I'm not already chatting to.

The same is true for received winks.

Despite lots of ladies joining fabathon threads it's very obvious that's done only to receive fabs because I think I've got two fabs and a couple of winks this way in over a year.

The last wink I received was from a couple who claimed they weren't interested in single guys when I winked them back??

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By *parklySassWoman
over a year ago

Sassville

Not very often i send out winks I normally message if someone intrigues me.... But i do check my winks/photo fabs now and again... When i remember that is

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I've stopped sending winks, unless it's in response, as I don't think most women or couples respond to winks from single guys. I generally do respond if I get them, though by and large if someone's first contact is by a wink, rather than a message, I find that those are the conversations that tend not to go as far. But I always live in hope!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"I rarely check them but thats more due to my own laziness than anything else. we get loads of england and scotland though for some weird reason

They must be looking to borrow your axe to recreate Braveheart

theyll have a fierce battle on their hands so. Im on the hunt for a sword at the minute. dunno will i get it through customs though

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I rarely check them but thats more due to my own laziness than anything else. we get loads of england and scotland though for some weird reason

They must be looking to borrow your axe to recreate Braveheart

theyll have a fierce battle on their hands so. Im on the hunt for a sword at the minute. dunno will i get it through customs though"

Viking Direct?

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By *iquidRavenMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I've recently got a good back and forth going from a recieved wink

I'd send the odd one for the craic but don't usually expect or look for a response

But I assume women and couples are overloaded with winks anyway so I'd expect less chance of a reply than a message

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"I rarely check them but thats more due to my own laziness than anything else. we get loads of england and scotland though for some weird reason

They must be looking to borrow your axe to recreate Braveheart

theyll have a fierce battle on their hands so. Im on the hunt for a sword at the minute. dunno will i get it through customs though

Viking Direct?

lmao. pretty close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone take note of anyone that sends them a winks or fabs there pics... "

Only pay attention to winks from couples and single women. Single men nah

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By *igIsBack OP Man
over a year ago

all over and beyond

Tks for all inputs... noted

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We do, it can be a great way to see who might be interested, then a wink back if we are too

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

We do look at winks and if it's someone we like we would respond.

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Won’t lie, we would check straight away if we saw we had a new wink so guess we really like receiving them. We would generally delete them straight away if not from couples that fit our preferences or have a realistic chance of future meet due to location - don’t feel we owe a response to a wink the same way we would to a message.

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By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

In recent times we check more on who has winked us, if it's someone who peeks an interest we'll send a return wink and let that person then decide if they are interested enough to mail.

EireCpl

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"In recent times we check more on who has winked us, if it's someone who peeks an interest we'll send a return wink and let that person then decide if they are interested enough to mail.

EireCpl "
Interesting

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By *oiracpl38Couple
over a year ago

moira ish

Could u not have a button to turn winks off and on ?

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By *appytoadsCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Love winks from interesting couples, usually the start of the fun..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Could u not have a button to turn winks off and on ?"

I think there is one....mines jammed on off for ages

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I still persist with winks

You never know if people check them or not, but if they do it’s just another wee flirt in my eyes

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

A wink can either be something that's stuck in your eye

...or an ice breaker.

No harm in a good wink!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

A wink can either be something that's stuck in your eye

...or an ice breaker.

No harm in a good wink!

Ooooh Tim id love to wink you

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane

I love a good w@nk

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

A wink can either be something that's stuck in your eye

...or an ice breaker.

No harm in a good wink!

Ooooh Tim id love to wink you

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Ohhhh anytime my girl Lolly pop!

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

We don’t really bother with winks, regardless of who it’s from. A message would have a better chance of a reaction from us

(just a “Hi” or “how are you finding fab” gets an auto delete though).

We do appreciate any fabs though as we like to perv and fab others photos too

(although we generally don’t fab single guys as it tends to lead to “wanna hook up” messages

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‘Cold’ friend requests just annoy us as it shows that they haven’t read our profile and just want to see our private pics which are only shared with people we’ve met.

We usually take note on whoever disregards these factors and work on a 3 strike rule

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I don't think I've ever sent a wink and I rarely fab a pic, but I've been known to do so from time to time if it catches my attention.

Generic tits, ass and pussy pics are grand and all but I never fab those.

With regards to receiving winks and fabs, on the rare occasion that happens I just assume they do it out of the same reason I do, just to show an appreciation but I don't see it as an invitation to send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even tho I send a wink to a guy i am interested in, but not sure he would be so he can then message me (filters you know) but I dont get the winks towards me lol (crazy I know) specially from people I have chatted to already

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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From the get go here we always hoped anyone getting in touch with any serious level of interest would message and not throw out an easy wink. In the last two weeks or so we've had some winks from well verified couples who have mutual friends so I took the unusual step of reply with a message to say free free to say hi anytime. Low and behold not one replied to our message

. I think it just shows a little more effort and respect if you ditch the wink and spend two minutes typing out a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From the get go here we always hoped anyone getting in touch with any serious level of interest would message and not throw out an easy wink. In the last two weeks or so we've had some winks from well verified couples who have mutual friends so I took the unusual step of reply with a message to say free free to say hi anytime. Low and behold not one replied to our message

. I think it just shows a little more effort and respect if you ditch the wink and spend two minutes typing out a message"

Inclined to agree, unless it's something ensuing from a forum wink thread. Winks to which you respond only to be ignored suggest, how shall I put it, a lack of a cohesive approach

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

. I think it just shows a little more effort and respect if you ditch the wink and spend two minutes typing out a message

Inclined to agree, unless it's something ensuing from a forum wink thread. Winks to which you respond only to be ignored suggest, how shall I put it, a lack of a cohesive approach

Lack of cohesive approach!

A pc version of unable to converse or lack of communication skills, or even their vocabulary only goes as far as “Hi there”

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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. I think it just shows a little more effort and respect if you ditch the wink and spend two minutes typing out a message

Inclined to agree, unless it's something ensuing from a forum wink thread. Winks to which you respond only to be ignored suggest, how shall I put it, a lack of a cohesive approach

Lack of cohesive approach!

A pc version of unable to converse or lack of communication skills, or even their vocabulary only goes as far as “Hi there”

Lol yes to both versions but I couldn't find a way of saying it without offending anyone. Maybe the lack of a coherent/cohesive approach also applies to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine single women and couples get a lot more winks and fabs than the guys. It is the same with messages*, when there is a flood it becomes more of a chore than excitement.

*Learned this from talking to ladies and couples on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. I think it just shows a little more effort and respect if you ditch the wink and spend two minutes typing out a message

Inclined to agree, unless it's something ensuing from a forum wink thread. Winks to which you respond only to be ignored suggest, how shall I put it, a lack of a cohesive approach

Lack of cohesive approach!

A pc version of unable to converse or lack of communication skills, or even their vocabulary only goes as far as “Hi there”

I'm practising "non-judgement" today

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"I imagine single women and couples get a lot more winks and fabs than the guys. It is the same with messages*, when there is a flood it becomes more of a chore than excitement.

*Learned this from talking to ladies and couples on here."

We don't get 'flooded' exactly, but a decent message will always get our attention and can say a lot about the person/couple. Much prefer those than winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't get 'flooded' exactly, but a decent message will always get our attention and can say a lot about the person/couple. Much prefer those than winks

Ah the trick of the decent message, which seems to differ for everyone. Easier to identify what makes a bad message these days.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"We don't get 'flooded' exactly, but a decent message will always get our attention and can say a lot about the person/couple. Much prefer those than winks

Ah the trick of the decent message, which seems to differ for everyone. Easier to identify what makes a bad message these days."

In fairness, I think most appreciate a decent message, as in a bit of effort put in. Plenty of previous posts on the topic with similar opinions on what makes a "decent message".

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The cohesive approach or rather lack of one has often been my experience. As said before I've got random winks from people who don't meet single guys and emphasise this numerous times on their profiles.

I've had winks and messages from people in England and Scotland as well as the length and breadth of Ireland who will only meet locals or those within a particular radius.

I've had them from women and couples who have their max age filters set at 40.

All of which tells me that it's not just guys who couldn't be arsed reading profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do send out winks but don't get many back lol. If I receive a wink I wink back or message if I'm interested.

I think some don't bother with them at all even when they're interested though which I do find a bit odd as it's kind of a pre conversation starter

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

If i like 2 or more pics, I usually wink as a Nice Pics Sexy Lady kinda thing. Often have nice cats as a result too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd wink out of respect if they are interested then hopefully they would get back..

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By *ewadventures2017Couple
over a year ago

some where near

Would never send a message without a wink first

It's nice to be nice

If they wink back great

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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago

kildare

we check winks and if we like the profile wink back.

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

"we check winks and if we like the profile wink back. "

Yes,same as us!

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I don't check my Fabs, but I do check my winks and who's looked at me. I don't respond to winks without an accompanying message. If I see someone's looked at me that catches my eye I'll check out their profile.

Hypocritically, if I'm interested in a guy I'll send a wink (not a message) to let him know though

Generally they'll follow up by message.

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By *ilk_manMan
over a year ago

dublin

What I wouldn’t do for a few winks.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

I had absolutely zero winks up till a week or 2 ago I thought it was a mistake function

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