FabSwingers.com forum: Stray dogs

By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Why can't people just accept No means No. You try to be polite but Clearly state No and they keep coming back.

People wonder why block the button is used, it works one press and they are gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pup is not just for Christmas

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By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Would appear a fabber is also for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes

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By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes"

Oh I know some do this, they don't even get a poilte reply.

Its when you've chatted, he sent picture I politely said not my type. And then he tries again and I say No, and then he tries again.....

Like you'd didn't do it for me the first time unless your a different person nothing has changed....

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes"

When it's written like that its just horrible for the women and couples concerned

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes

When it's written like that its just horrible for the women and couples concerned

And without taking any of that away which I accept as true there are equally some women and couples who treat men as talking cocks. Two sides to every story.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes

When it's written like that its just horrible for the women and couples concerned

And without taking any of that away which I accept as true there are equally some women and couples who treat men as talking cocks. Two sides to every story. "

Equally as horrible RB

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By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes

When it's written like that its just horrible for the women and couples concerned

And without taking any of that away which I accept as true there are equally some women and couples who treat men as talking cocks. Two sides to every story. "

Agree I'm sure their are. Manners cost nothing. No is No. We all deserve respect.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes

When it's written like that its just horrible for the women and couples concerned

And without taking any of that away which I accept as true there are equally some women and couples who treat men as talking cocks. Two sides to every story.

Agree I'm sure their are. Manners cost nothing. No is No. We all deserve respect. "

Exactly. It works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

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By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes

When it's written like that its just horrible for the women and couples concerned

And without taking any of that away which I accept as true there are equally some women and couples who treat men as talking cocks. Two sides to every story.

Agree I'm sure their are. Manners cost nothing. No is No. We all deserve respect.

Exactly. It works both ways. "

So what's the excuse when are polite, you are clear no, and they just keep coming back. Is it in hope that will eventually wear you down? It's really off-putting and very unnerving as a woman because if no isn't no in message, what would happen in person?

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By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

Prefer Lamb for Easter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

Prefer Lamb for Easter

Less hairy alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Would appear a fabber is also for life

Genius

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes

When it's written like that its just horrible for the women and couples concerned

And without taking any of that away which I accept as true there are equally some women and couples who treat men as talking cocks. Two sides to every story.

Agree I'm sure their are. Manners cost nothing. No is No. We all deserve respect.

Exactly. It works both ways.

Probably but then what's when you just block and if they make up a new profile you block again. It happens a bit on here and yes it is ridiculous when it does but no one should tar everyone with the same brush. I've seen women who get seriously mad when they are turned down as well and some who stalk and set up second profiles to catch guys out. So it happens to both sexes. All you can do when it happen to you is use the block button that's what I do anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes

When it's written like that its just horrible for the women and couples concerned

And without taking any of that away which I accept as true there are equally some women and couples who treat men as talking cocks. Two sides to every story.

Agree I'm sure their are. Manners cost nothing. No is No. We all deserve respect.

Exactly. It works both ways.

As Casey said above its a spam approach. The level of politeness is irrelevant its like mass swiping right on tinder the hopenos eventually something will match.

I can understand its worrying but at least they are ing themselves out. Its just another reason people need to be very careful of their personal safety on places like this

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

Prefer Lamb for Easter

No Lambs are also for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

Prefer Lamb for Easter

No Lambs are also for life "

You only want to be a sheep shagger when they grow up... Go on... Admit it

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By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

Prefer Lamb for Easter

No Lambs are also for life "

Not around here

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

Prefer Lamb for Easter

No Lambs are also for life

Not around here

I can still hear the silence of the lambs

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By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

Ya think just block anymore in the long run it's less time consuming than trying to be nice.

And not tarring everyone as have had lots of nice chats but just stuff like that gives a bad vibe.

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By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

Prefer Lamb for Easter

No Lambs are also for life

Not around here

I can still hear the silence of the lambs

A shot of throdex, pity there wasn't a virtual version.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

Prefer Lamb for Easter

No Lambs are also for life "

Tell portia that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes

When it's written like that its just horrible for the women and couples concerned

And without taking any of that away which I accept as true there are equally some women and couples who treat men as talking cocks. Two sides to every story.

Agree I'm sure their are. Manners cost nothing. No is No. We all deserve respect.

Exactly. It works both ways.

Easily solved with the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ya think just block anymore in the long run it's less time consuming than trying to be nice.

And not tarring everyone as have had lots of nice chats but just stuff like that gives a bad vibe. "

That's the best approach.. If anyone is acting the nuisance just block and move on..no point in wasting time on them.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Ya think just block anymore in the long run it's less time consuming than trying to be nice.

And not tarring everyone as have had lots of nice chats but just stuff like that gives a bad vibe. "

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"A pup is not just for Christmas

Properly marinated you'd easily get Easter out of it

Prefer Lamb for Easter

No Lambs are also for life

Tell portia that

I knew someone would get that in but I though it would be Kaizer...changed my profile pic to her empty field in her honour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here was me thinking this was a thread about our beloved 4 legged friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny thing is it’s probably worked for them before so they feel it’s a proven method

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By *edro50Man
over a year ago

enniskillen

Have to say you are one of the few who actually reply to their messages I prefer that to just being left or unread! thankyou

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

Manners and respect,,costs nothing,,take it on the chin and move on,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t regard myself as a pest but sure who knows, ladies and some men, is it ok to send a complimentary message? Don’t expect replies but every now and again I see a figure or body of an individual and I just have to send a message saying, you look great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're just bombarding any and all profiles,they don't even realise that they've messaged before, to those guys, women here are just holes"

Fab will inform them that they've messaged already. So they are blatantly ignoring the fact they've messaged before

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By *ornyfire OP Couple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

The point with this one was we'd messaged a good few times. Seemed a nice man, not pushy. He wanted to do a pic swap and as I say to everyone by all means send a picture if I'm interested il reply with ours.

He wasn't my type and I politely said so. But he kept persisting. Despite me saying no again.

As for the ones that keep messaging with warnings well there's no hope for them

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By *unsoundMan
over a year ago

Ennis

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By *unsoundMan
over a year ago

Ennis

I agree with Op no means no for sure but sometimes this no can be delivered in the most cuntish way possible! So I think there has to be a balance somehow!

I know that couples and women receive 100s of messages but that still not a license to be a dick to men!

I mean sending a face picture and getting block right after is not ok for example!

Or some couple asking me what have I got to offer to his wife like I'm some sort of performing or selling some sort item ! Then tried to be smart when I would have non of it and block .

I dont think being abusive is ever cool and that goes for everyone! But there are so many people that are immature not to mention probably here for wrong reasons!

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