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By *erlincork OP   Man
over a year ago

London

So... (ladies in particular) I’d love an opinion on this...

I send a message.. what I think is generally un-invasive and general chat.. no cheesy one liner literally have the screenshot and happy to share it privately with names blocked & all that.

I attached a nice face pic... (hopefully my face isn’t so offensive)... and asked where in the stated county that said lady was.

I got a replied to with asking do I “think women are stupid” for giving out a location(I assumed I’d asked a generalised question) and being called an “asshole”.

I legit don’t think I’ve done anything wrong here?? Or have I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you haven't you asked a question and it was her choice not to share, the asshole was uncalled for. Just pass her by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people on here are needlessly aggressive and just toxic and shouldn’t be anywhere near any sort of social interaction site . She just showed you why you wouldn’t want to meet her . Bad days don’t call for bad manners !

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I get asked all the time what part of Carlow am i from ill always say just outside not going to give me exact location.... bit rude but hey that's life on fab sometimes just block and move on.....

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"I get asked all the time what part of Carlow am i from ill always say just outside not going to give me exact location.... bit rude but hey that's life on fab sometimes just block and move on..... "

what part of carlow are ya from. goo on tell me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

As already said there are lots of people on here that you would never want to be associated with off site.

Some are rude and nasty by nature while others are rude and nasty out of some false sense of superiority. There are even those who are known to be rude and nasty because they get a kick out of it.

It wouldn't matter what you asked if they thought you were a soft target for their ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The posh end of it

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By *erlincork OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I get asked all the time what part of Carlow am i from ill always say just outside not going to give me exact location.... bit rude but hey that's life on fab sometimes just block and move on..... "

I actually went to college there!! Finished in 2017. Interesting place!!

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By *erlincork OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"No you haven't you asked a question and it was her choice not to share, the asshole was uncalled for. Just pass her by "

I’m not gona lie... I really thought it was aggression just for the sake of it!? She blocked me so she passed herself by.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"I get asked all the time what part of Carlow am i from ill always say just outside not going to give me exact location.... bit rude but hey that's life on fab sometimes just block and move on.....

I actually went to college there!! Finished in 2017. Interesting place!! "

Sure us Carlovian folk are only delightful

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By *erlincork OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"As already said there are lots of people on here that you would never want to be associated with off site.

Some are rude and nasty by nature while others are rude and nasty out of some false sense of superiority. There are even those who are known to be rude and nasty because they get a kick out of it.

It wouldn't matter what you asked if they thought you were a soft target for their ignorance. "

A false sense of superiority ... in my experience... is a cover for a real sense of inferiority.

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By *erlincork OP   Man
over a year ago

London

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"As already said there are lots of people on here that you would never want to be associated with off site.

Some are rude and nasty by nature while others are rude and nasty out of some false sense of superiority. There are even those who are known to be rude and nasty because they get a kick out of it.

It wouldn't matter what you asked if they thought you were a soft target for their ignorance.

A false sense of superiority ... in my experience... is a cover for a real sense of inferiority. "

I'm sure you've heard the one about empty vessels......?

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By *erlincork OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"As already said there are lots of people on here that you would never want to be associated with off site.

Some are rude and nasty by nature while others are rude and nasty out of some false sense of superiority. There are even those who are known to be rude and nasty because they get a kick out of it.

It wouldn't matter what you asked if they thought you were a soft target for their ignorance.

A false sense of superiority ... in my experience... is a cover for a real sense of inferiority.

I'm sure you've heard the one about empty vessels......?"

Haha! too true!

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By *erlincork OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I get asked all the time what part of Carlow am i from ill always say just outside not going to give me exact location.... bit rude but hey that's life on fab sometimes just block and move on.....

I actually went to college there!! Finished in 2017. Interesting place!!

Sure us Carlovian folk are only delightful "

Carlovian is a term I haven’t heard before!! I enjoyed my time up there. Few dodgy landlords... but all good otherwise.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I get asked all the time what part of Carlow am i from ill always say just outside not going to give me exact location.... bit rude but hey that's life on fab sometimes just block and move on..... "

I thought you were at Anfield

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I get asked all the time what part of Carlow am i from ill always say just outside not going to give me exact location.... bit rude but hey that's life on fab sometimes just block and move on.....

I actually went to college there!! Finished in 2017. Interesting place!! "

Were you ever "just outside" Carlow??

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Yeah op this is a case of simply forgetting her some here it's literally like walking on egg shells no obviously she isn't obliged to tell you anything but she could have handled that a bit better sometimes saying nothing is nicer than being mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... (ladies in particular) I’d love an opinion on this...

I send a message.. what I think is generally un-invasive and general chat.. no cheesy one liner literally have the screenshot and happy to share it privately with names blocked & all that.

I attached a nice face pic... (hopefully my face isn’t so offensive)... and asked where in the stated county that said lady was.

I got a replied to with asking do I “think women are stupid” for giving out a location(I assumed I’d asked a generalised question) and being called an “asshole”.

I legit don’t think I’ve done anything wrong here?? Or have I? "

Block and move on son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair OP, it's a legitimate question to ask in Cork, not exact location but someone in Beara is unlikely to be meeting someone in Youghal often.

In any case, she was obviously looking for an excuse to vent some bile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. This is why the block button was invented. Not that she would message you again but to remind you not to message her

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

To be honest on a first message it probably was a bit too much especially if the woman in question has had problems in the past.

If her profile said she was from a certain county is that not enough to be starting with anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest on a first message it probably was a bit too much especially if the woman in question has had problems in the past.

If her profile said she was from a certain county is that not enough to be starting with anyway "

Mate, she was having a bad day, he was a sitting duck and now he’s dissecting the situation.

I’d say if he even said hello to her, he would have gotten a cranky reaction.

The point is that he doesn’t stand a chance of meeting up with her, so why even bother talking about it.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda get where ur coming from I'm passing not aggressive I answered a question to some one on fab before after the reply I cracked a joke nothin offensive it was more humour n got blocked straight away I'm chatty n very approachable but some times people have been burnt so I just respect there privacy n move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So... (ladies in particular) I’d love an opinion on this...

I send a message.. what I think is generally un-invasive and general chat.. no cheesy one liner literally have the screenshot and happy to share it privately with names blocked & all that.

I attached a nice face pic... (hopefully my face isn’t so offensive)... and asked where in the stated county that said lady was.

I got a replied to with asking do I “think women are stupid” for giving out a location(I assumed I’d asked a generalised question) and being called an “asshole”.

I legit don’t think I’ve done anything wrong here?? Or have I? "

Ahhh .you just messaged the wrong lady at the wrong time with the wrong question..other than that twas perfect ..

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