FabSwingers.com forum: Photo before meet

By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

I am in touch with, what appears to be a very nice couple who say they'd like to meet with me. I have sent them a number of photos(including face photos) over the last couple of months but they refuse to send me any photos of themselves. I feel don't trust me and am reluctant to meet them if they don't. I Any suggestions. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're yanking your chain

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Did they request these photos off you or did you send them off your own back?

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By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

They aske me to send a couple.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Definite yank then

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By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Then I would have blocked em and moved on long ago. No excuse for taking and not giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on , if I am going to meet someone I would want to swap pics at the very least, if I wasn't sent one in return I would determine they not interested in meeting and just don't have the balls to say it

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By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone asks for a face pic and you are willing to send one.. Just say yes I'll send one when you send me yours first..just my thoughts to out the pic hunters or those perhaps pretending to be someone they're not..

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By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

That to has crossed my mind, thanks

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye if someone asks for a face pic then should be willing to send one first. Especially if ye have been chatting a while and you have sent some after being asked and they still refuse to I'd just move on and forget about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone asks for a face pic and you are willing to send one.. Just say yes I'll send one when you send me yours first..just my thoughts to out the pic hunters or those perhaps pretending to be someone they're not.. "

Then I had another thought lol..they could send a fake pic..soooooo social meet ASAP before getting too involved Op..x

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By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Thanks to all, food for thought, I'll state my case I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some dont like sending their face pics for privacy reasons

It comes down to if u want to take a chance on them or not.if ur not comfortable with it wish them well and move on

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Some dont like sending their face pics for privacy reasons

It comes down to if u want to take a chance on them or not.if ur not comfortable with it wish them well and move on"

To be fair tho if they don't want to send face pics that's ok but then they shouldn't be asking for others either.It should be agreed at the start that no pics be exchanged.

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By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Agreed but they won't share any photos at all......they don't have any on their profile

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Probably not a couple at all but some sicko sitting in his basement. Ask for a kik direct pic otherwise block and move on. Lots of weirdos out there unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agreed but they won't share any photos at all......they don't have any on their profile"

Definitely wouldn't be sharing pics with a blank profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some dont like sending their face pics for privacy reasons

It comes down to if u want to take a chance on them or not.if ur not comfortable with it wish them well and move on

To be fair tho if they don't want to send face pics that's ok but then they shouldn't be asking for others either.It should be agreed at the start that no pics be exchanged. "

If they looking for pics then but not returning the favour wish them them the best and walk and move on.simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agreed but they won't share any photos at all......they don't have any on their profile

Definitely wouldn't be sharing pics with a blank profile "

Totally agree. Nor would we have engaged with them for any length of time.

OP it's totally up to you how you use Fab, but if you're not comfortable with the fact they're still remaining completely anonymous then it's time to bring the conversation to a close.

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

We were called rude to asking for pics - The couple had none on their profile at all. The funny thing is they keep checking out our profile, 2 to 5 times daily,

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Op I'd imagine its not even a couple so block and move on

Whatever about not wanting to share a face pic ( a legitimate concern for people ) but to have no pics of anything on their profile is a huge red flag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send face pics on fab

Its too small a community on fab

I prefer to just bite the bullet and ask for a coffee meet

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Quid pro quo always mate

There's loads of nice people here on Fab

... so If they're keen to meet, they'll return some pics...

If not... "NEXT!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly

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By *ornyfireCouple
over a year ago

Middle Earth

If people are looking for face pics from us. I ask them to go first and clearly say if Im attracted I will send one back. So they can take the chance.

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By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Far enough but at least you have photos on you profile page.....nice ones as well

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By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Thanks everyone for your thoughts, lots to think about. The couple in question are not photo or meet verified but are site supporters.....time for action I think. Cheers

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

If someone is send a request for pics they should include their own in the mail

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Some dont like sending their face pics for privacy reasons

It comes down to if u want to take a chance on them or not.if ur not comfortable with it wish them well and move on

To be fair tho if they don't want to send face pics that's ok but then they shouldn't be asking for others either.It should be agreed at the start that no pics be exchanged.

If they looking for pics then but not returning the favour wish them them the best and walk and move on.simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a single lady I used to verify people by a quick video chat or live pic on kik.

Since I am married we verify people by using video chat on whatsup.

I ve been here for long enough to smell a bad fish and we eliminate the fake couples this way, block them and move on.

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By *oejoxxx OP Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Thanks....and that's as it should be. This couple seem to like getting photos but have not photos at all on their profile. They simply make excuses and avoid sending any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know what the big deal with sharing face pictures is about. If I’m not interested in someone, I would respond with my face picture. It’s called being decent!!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I don’t know what the big deal with sharing face pictures is about. If I’m not interested in someone, I would respond with my face picture. It’s called being decent!! "

Not interested...?

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By *ainted SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Longford Town Area

"I am in touch with, what appears to be a very nice couple who say they'd like to meet with me. I have sent them a number of photos(including face photos) over the last couple of months but they refuse to send me any photos of themselves. I feel don't trust me and am reluctant to meet them if they don't. I Any suggestions. Thanks"

I would always offer to share face pics on the basis that one would be returned. If the other person then does not follow through with one, then block and move on. Sadly those disingenuous profiles do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t know what the big deal with sharing face pictures is about. If I’m not interested in someone, I would respond with my face picture. It’s called being decent!!

Not interested...?"

If it’s agreed to swap face pictures, then that’s what should be done. If you don’t have your word, what do you have!!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I don’t know what the big deal with sharing face pictures is about. If I’m not interested in someone, I would respond with my face picture. It’s called being decent!!

Not interested...?

If it’s agreed to swap face pictures, then that’s what should be done. If you don’t have your word, what do you have!!"

If you're not interested why would you share a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t know what the big deal with sharing face pictures is about. If I’m not interested in someone, I would respond with my face picture. It’s called being decent!!

Not interested...?

If it’s agreed to swap face pictures, then that’s what should be done. If you don’t have your word, what do you have!!

If you're not interested why would you share a face pic "

Because you agreed to swap

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I don’t know what the big deal with sharing face pictures is about. If I’m not interested in someone, I would respond with my face picture. It’s called being decent!!

Not interested...?

If it’s agreed to swap face pictures, then that’s what should be done. If you don’t have your word, what do you have!!

If you're not interested why would you share a face pic

Because you agreed to swap

Then you mean if you are interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone reading this will wait for you to send the first picture

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